yes.

yes

I see it as a challenge, having to progress everyday to achieve my goals. After some time it's satisfying when you look back at who you wer.

It would be boring being born a winner.

yes

I was born to be a loser. I was born to have social anxiety and to be complete disappointed to everyone around me. I was born to be ugly. I wasn't meant to be successful, or funny, or happy, or anything. I'll be like this for the rest of my life, I'll never have any friends, or a job, or a family of my own. I'm going to die, old and lonely, or just kill myself in a few years when my dad kicks me out. I'll never change. I'm incapable of it.

>>7501138
Do you honestly believe this?

>>7501144
Yes. If you have a problem, then I'm sorry, but I don't wish to argue or cause any trouble.

>>7501138

Do you not talk to anyone? Not even online? (other than 4chan I guess, I don't know)

>>7501161
Nobody except for the occasional exchange between me and my dad.

In some ways yes, and in some no. As much of a social outcast as I am, I believe I can have some impact on others. [spoiler]I'm gonna maek vidya gaems[/spoiler]

>thread music
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFgtC_H79m4

I don't think I was born to be a loser. I was raised to be a loser unintentionally. I dunno if i'll fail at life completely but it'll be pretty mediocre at the absolute best.
I wouldn't be surprised if I end up on the street.

>>7501169
Well if Gaben can do it...

>>7501168

Age? Gender? Do you think you'll always be leading a lonely life alone without a girlfriend/boyfriend?

>>7501190
I'm a 32-year-old male. And yes.

>>7501193

Are you the future version of myself? Tell me a little bit about your past?

>>7501246
What do you want to know exactly.

>>7501255

Your high school life all the way up until this point, how did it affect you to sink to the bottom?

>>7501260
My mom died when I was a freshman in high school, then I moved cities to live with my dad where I attended an independent studies program, from there it was all downhill. I skipped school constantly, I got bad grades, I never talked to anybody, and the teachers actually called my dad with the concerns that they suspect that I may be planning on shooting up the school. That combined with the other shit that happened prior made me even more depressed and skipped even more. By the time I was 16 and the middle of the Sophomore year, I had stopped going completely and just dropped out. And here I am today. In the same room, too.

>>7499221
>It would be boring being born a winner.

YOU WOULD THINK, RIGHT?

>>7501272

I can kinda relate to that but my teachers never really suspected that I would shoot up the school. I was called out on it however by a group of jocks that sat next to me in class saying that I never spoke a word and said that I had to get a life. Nowadays, I look back on how I was such a fuck up and cry myself to sleep knowing that I'm the same person 5 years later. fuck man. It's even worse when it's nearly impossible to find someone to relate to.

> I don't think I was born to be a loser. I was raised to be a loser unintentionally.

Pretty much this. Was brought up by a super beta dad and an overbearing mother - both of which are incredibly thick.

Took me forever to understand that: I was good looking (not super model good but very noticeably above average); that I was clever (properly very intelligent and in some areas genius level - ended up with a Ph.D. in math); that I was good in social situations (to both sexes); and that it was perfectly fine to be a man: assertive, sexual, and with my own set of values (integrity).

On occasion I take my farther out for a bit socializing (a drink, game of pool or snooker, whatever) in an attempt to teach him how to be a man. Shit role models fuck boys up way more than girls.

>>7501296
I've never related to a single person in my entire life. I hate myself.

>Do you think you were born to be a loser?

Fuck no. Who the hell do you think I am?

>>7501320

Do you use any form of social media? (facebook(no fuck that), skype, msn, e-mail, etc?)

I wasn't born to be a loser.
No one was.
It's the society that deems us losers.

>>7501350
Nope, just 4chan and sites like Netphoria and Hipsters United, which are both fansites of a band that I enjoy.

theres no fate
everything is up to you

>>7501355

Get an e-mail, i'm going to bed soon, and I want to ask more questions. it's hard to find people like yourself and I.

I wasn't born to be a loser. Aside from people with some form of autism, I don't think anyone is genetically loser material.

I was, however, raised to be a loser. My mum did an awesome job of raising me, she's the best parent ever, but I think a male role model is something that can't be replaced by a woman and is necessary for someone to become well-rounded.

I sit in my room all day every day. I can see the EXACT same thing happening to my little brother who is 13 and it makes me really upset knowing that he's going to end up a gigantic friendless loser just like me.

>>7501378
I don't feel like making one right now. Perhaps if you start another thread tomorrow night I'll see it and reply. There's no need to worry anyway, as I'm here all day every day of the week. And I'm not entirely sure how I feel about talking to someone over E-Mail after living in complete isolation for many, many years. I honestly wouldn't know what to say and you'll get bored.
But yeah, start another thread tomorrow-- well, tonight.

>>7501382

friendless online and off with no social life forever?

I don't really mind being a "loser". The standard quality of life even for a shut-in is pretty damn sweet. Infinite hours of media to entertain ourselves with because of the internet, ebay and amazon makes it easy for us to purchase all the things we need from the comfort of our own home, a roof over our heads, if you have even an ounce of social ability you can score weed which makes everything better. The reality of it is that we live like kings, you guys just don't appreciate what you have.

My only problem is that I'm so lazy and insecure that I would rather kill myself than find a job.

>>7501389

I suppose i'll do just that, you'll be seeing a ton of foreveralone topics this coming night, i'll be surprised if you miss even one of them. Also, do you work?

>>7501404
No, I don't work. Maybe by some incredible feat I do manage to find some work however, maybe I'll be able to turn my life around.
[spoiler]I doubt it though.

>>7501411
>[spoiler]
Fuck.

>>7501411

What's stopping you from getting a job? If you were to turn your life around, how would you do it?

>>7501439

How are your social skills? do you ever socialize?

>>7501434
>What's stopping you from getting a job?
My severe social anxiety, for one. It's been so long since I've spoken to anybody other than my dad. I have zero social skills, they're gone, wasted, thrown away by time. If I do manage to find a job, I'll have to start small and work my way up until I make a respectable amount of money and then finally move out to a place of my own.

Yes.
>younger
>anti-social to mum's friends
>hide behind things and cry when they want to play with me
>became more social in primary early high school
>suddenly, back to being anti social
>people still hate me to this day for being a teen and trying to be social

Well, cunts they are.

>>7501448

If you aren't happy with yourself then you wont be happy with friends, a girlfriend, or even a wife if you want to start a family. Ask yourself, do you really want all of this?

>>7501467
I don't want a family, just a little apartment or something.

I don't know op.

I'm physically and mentally weak, which makes me a loser. I have no will power and I'm an akward social wreck.

I also lack strength and resistance.

Only time will tell if I'm gonna change.

I think it's the combination of factors in my childhood. But yes, I see myself as a loser. I procrastinate, thus merely survive my life in the "easiest" way possible, while under constant stress because I'm always late on something and owe someone for cutting me slack.

I also don't get along well with people. I flip between a complete pussy the sick-puppy response it invokes in others gives me additional slack; and an asshole when I don't need something from the particular person at the moment (if they annoy me), as I am too narcissistic, being always told by parents and relatives I am "very smart, very well cultured", or "beautiful", despite being a skinny-fat easily exhausted 22 year old guy.

In many ways I have accomplished stuff, but those are only because I was avoiding something else (a-la the man who was too lazy to fail). I have never achieved anything on my own wish. All my goals and dreams have long been buried. Nowadays I just want to be able to not do anything, have shelter, heat and food.

I am too lazy to change. I am procrastinating on life, and it's very possible I will always be mediocre and live in constant stress and anxiety.

>>7501443
at first my had some real crippling social anxiety but now i slowly reaching to more people but there's this wall i hit because the lack of being interesting, so now i am not that afraid of talking to people but avoid it because they'll just ignore me ;_;

Nope, I've done it to myself.

>>7501395
I sure hope no- who the fuck am I kidding, of course.

It kinda sucks resigning myself to the fact I'll be alone forever. Today I sat at the uni lunch tables by myself and it hit me how incredibly similar university is to high school. Same shit all over again really, same cunts obnoxiously trying to be at the top of the social ladder, same stupid bitches hanging off their every word.

Fuck it, I'm happy to be alone if I have to choose between a life of constant underhanded fighting to be more popular and just being by myself.

>>7501472

What is your daily routine like from when you wake up in the morning until you go back to sleep? What do you talk about with your family? Even if it is just superficial bullshit.

>>7501567
Wake up, shower, eat, internet. I just make small-talk with my dad.

>>7501562

Do you also have a monotone robotic like voice? I do, i think it's a sign of me not speaking much.

>>7501578
You just made a thread about it didn't you.

>>7501584

Yes, is that really a bad thing? Should I go to jail and get fucked in the ass when I drop the soap?

>>7501578
How did you know.. it's funny, my voice becomes more animated on Monday because I've spent the whole weekend talking to people at my work. I actually really hate my job because of this; faking conversation is the most boring thing ever and halfway through listening to someone telling the same stupid joke about their TV that I've heard a million times I just feel like jamming my pen down their neck.
But instead I fake laugh (I've gotten pretty good at this actually) and tell a shitty joke of my own.

Occasionally I get a good customer though and that always puts me in a good mood for the rest of the day. One time a woman came in and we talked about how I should quit my job and work in porn, that was pretty neat.

>>7501574

Really? No interests?

>>7501623

At least you actually talk to people, I never even get out of my house. I don't really see how you're a loser.

>>7501630
>Really? No interests?
I enjoy anime.

>>7501635

What anime would you recommend that is worth watching?

>>7501650
I have a ton, but I highly recommend Welcome to the N.H.K (mandatory for people like me) and Kaiji (amazing anime about gambling and debt).

>>7501320

Do you find yourself not even talking up to days or weeks at a time?

>>7501673
Dunno. Sometimes, I guess.

>>7501630
>I don't really see how you're a loser.

Are you joking? The only time I talk to people is at work when they want something from me, it's not like I talk to people in my uni classes or anything.
No friends, never had a girlfriend, no hobbies apart from the gym, general apathetic attitude towards everything.

I blame part of this on how shitty society is. I've tried going up to people at my uni and talking to them, they basically laughed in my face and ignored me. People are such cunts, I'm sure there are some decent people out there but it's like finding a needle in a haystack and I don't have the social skills to make friends anyway.

Forever alone I suppose

>>7501679

I can relate to this but it was hell when I was in high school. Do you even talk to people online?

>>7501691
Nope. And I had the same thing in highschool man, being alone there was even worse than being alone at uni, which is why I constantly skipped days and had such shitty marks.

I just blame all circumstances.

>>7501780

Well, what do you talk about when you're at work? Can't you avoid talking to them period? Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

>>7501863
What do I talk about? I try to get a feel for their personality and go from there, it's usually just boring smalltalk and terrible jokes though. A lot of the time people ask me about uni so I try to explain my course to them while making jokes.

Pretty boring, sometimes there are people who are actually interesting though, one time I had a really long conversation with this girl about people-watching and another time I had a talk with a cute girl my age about random stuff, she had such a nice laugh ;_;

5 years from now I've either finished uni and started work or killed myself.

What about you? What are you doing at the moment?

>>7501893
I.. suppose I don't mind if you don't respond

>>7501893

Finished high school last year, haven't really had much of a reason to go out and get a job, been stuck on the internet/4chan without much social interaction. Sorry for the late reply, I fell asleep.

>>7501661

I heard that was really depressing, isn't it that one that has the guy stuck in his house?

I'm one of the very few that browses newt gingrich who is an Alpha Male. Kill yourself.

>>7502698
>implying alpha males browse 4chan
>implying this isn't a troll post.

>>7502698

Are you okay buddy?

No, because you don't just magically change mental illnesses or twenty-one years of the same fucking shit.

>>7501893
>>7501677

You guys still there?

>Born to be a looser.
>implying anyone here was born with a pre-determined fate.

>Asking if you think we'll change.
>implying we can see the future.

>>7501138

Why did you contradict what you said at the end of this post? You said you're incapable of changing yet in this one >>7501411 you said you would, troll much?

>>7502720
>implying alphas care if they should browse 4chan or not

>>7502771

Oh look, here come the normalfags.

I honestly don't know if I'll ever get married, OP. I have yet to meet a man I'd even consider being tied down to, but I guess I'm still young. I would love to have children, so I guess if worse comes to worse I could just get a sperm donor or adopt a child. But nothing would be nicer than to be deeply in love with a man so much to the point that I'd consider bringing a child into the world with him.

>>7502799
If you honestly believe you were born for the sole purpose of being a loser/faggot shut-in, by all means kill yourself. You don't have much of a future at this point if it's true after all, correct?


But we both know saying you have this pre-determined destiny to be a loser is an excuse for your lazy behavior and lack of responsibility. Every single one of you has brought this kind of lifestyle upon themselves, and you cannot blame anyone but yourself for not having the balls to try and turn your life around.

Keep going on about the obvious.

If only you idiots knew that you can change. FUUUUUUUUUUU

These threads make me so mad, because i used to be a forever alone loner. But i changed. And every time i see forever alone loners on 4chan i think "fuuuuuu if only they knew how easy it can be to change, they just never really tried"

Looking back i have no idea why i didn't go out an party. I was just like you guys "herp derp im 24/7 at home, playing games or browsing the net" as if someone was forcing me to stay at home. It somehow never occurred to me that yeah, i can fucking go out clubbing, sunbathing, approaching people

based on my parents im sure i was born to be a loser. its a vicious cycle

>>7502940

>turning into a normalfag
>2011

>>7502840
exactly. I used to stay at home all day. Never did anything. I only started to change at 26years of age. Im 28 now. Looking back i cant believe how i wasted my teen years FOR NO FUCKING REASON. Its not like someone forced me to stay at home. Somehow it really never occured to me to go out and just do things, approach women and people.
To this day i have no idea how i not even once thought about going out on a weekend. It seemed like its something you cant do, going clubbing or whatever.

>>7501138

i feel the same way, and, to top it all off, i'm SHORT AS FUCK (5'7'') according to the standards in my region.

there is literally no hope for ever living a satisfying life in my body, with my mind.

suicide is the only option but i'm afraid. hate myself, my body, and my life each and every day, 24/7. it hurts in my chest, imagine that feeling of being rejected by girls, or rejected by your best friends as they laugh at you, and then apply that to an entire existence, constant.

>>7503047
5'7'' is not short as fuck.

7503047

>he has best friends
>he's still bitching

Yeah, kill yourself.

>>7503047
everybody gets rejected every once in a while. Stop pretending like getting rejected is the end of the world.
I was in a club last weekend. Approached 2 girls and tried to have an conversation. They replyied quickly to me and kept talking,completely ignoring me while i was standing next to them.
I just laughed at how much i had failed and walked away.

Guess what, i tried it on different girls a couple of minutes later and this time they were nice to me.

>>7503058

it is where i'm from... tall white elite area.

also, i've got no physical attractiveness to compensate.. it really is the pits. haven't had real friends or female attention since high school. been about 10 years now.

being short and ugly is an insurmountable lot in life. i'm just waiting to die. it hurts every day, they dont make medicine strong enough to bury such pain, and besides, i'd be fooling myself into thinking that i am genetically worthy of life. continuing on in such a lie might result in having children with a barely passable female, thereby carrying the torment over into the next generation.

i'm gonna need to mate with an amazonian caucasian beauty to salvage my lineage, and even then... there's just no chance of anything good coming for me. gonna be a lonely, miserable grind into middle age with nothing to look forward to and no happiness.

fuck god.

>>7503059

i have no friends. i simply remember what it felt like to have them in those early formative years, before genetics placed them and i onto mutually exclusive paths. my path lead nowhere, of course. they of course are tall and handsome and have had confidence and satisfying social/sexual lives.

i also, vividly, remember what it was like to be comprehensively rejected as the world realized that you were never going to meet the bare minimum genetic standards of masculinity/attractiveness.

i really need to die. i need at least that much courage and dignity. How the fuck do short and ugly men survive?

>>7503087
omg you are the idiot who keeps blaming everything on his height.
Just fucking die idiot.
I have a 5'7'' bro, and he currentl has 2 fuck buddies and one girl who is in love with him. Oh yeah he has a 5/10 face at best, and all the girls except one are a bit taller then him.

No he is not rich.
BTW, if you don't like it where you live, FUCKING MOVE AWAY

>>7503118
please post a fucking pic of yourself already.
I bet its 90% in your fucking head.

7503118

You sound social to me, now stop it and go talk to your tens of billions of friends and girlfriend.

iktf.

Nah I feel pretty good about myself even if I haven't done much so far, I guess even though I put myself down I recognize that we all have an unlimited potential and can always go a little further.

That being said anon, none of you are losers, you were born and that's already a pretty slim chance so, if you're alive right now you're pretty much a winner.

sup.

wheres all the loners at? Stop derailing this thread normalfags. go socialize with your "homies" or some shit.

>>7503486

im a pathetic loner. we're here.

>>7503486
how about you do something so you can stop being a loner fag and enjoy life

inb4ialreadyenjoylife

>>7503692

Define how one should "enjoy life".

>>7503503

tell me a bit about yourself?

yes of course.

>>7498925
I will fail at everything I do

You are not a loser. Yet you think you are. You have it in you, but you are afraid to use what you have, and merely conform to go with the flow.
When someone says: "You are pathethic", you believe it, but a tiny voice inside says: "You are not". That voice is the voice of your potential. The potential you choose to ignore, because you don´t know where it will lead you.
Guess where? Forward.
Believe it. Everyone has the power to do great things, whether it is just to have a best friend, to be a part of a group of friends, to have a girl/boy-friend, or simply to say: "Fuck the world" and make your own path.
You can choose. To "be" a loser, and deep down, hating yourself for it, or you can choose to go forward.
You have the power to change your own life, since it belongs to you and you only. Don´t believe anyone who says otherwise. In time, the only one saying: "Loser" will be yourself. And it will be up to you to believe so again, or to shut that voice with a: "NO".
Believe.

>>7504159

Why do you think that? Do you even have friends?

I became a loser. There were times when my life had hope and I had some friends. Today I am 23, zero friends, never had a girlfriend, socially akward as fuck, work a shitty job , and live with my parents.

>>7504285

What is your daily life like? Do you ever socialize or get out of the house?

iktf.

>>7504239
Maybe not born one, but I turned into one around puberty, it's likely that it was meant to be.

I will never change my ways, friends I might get, or at least work mates.
Never had a GF before, highly doubt I would get one anytime in the future, that makes wife and kids go out the window too.

Wouldn't be surprised if I will be living alone with minimal social contact.

>>7504239
My tiny voice says "They're right."
Or if any compliments should come up "They're lying because they pity you."

Fucking hell, you guys are depressing...

>>7504780

What do you talk about with your friends? Wait, if you're getting friends then you aren't going without social contact you idiot. Fucking normalfags.

lonerbro reporting in.

>>7504890
I generally stay quiet.

If you have a job 'friends' aren't that hard to get, most of the time they will invite you out to drink with them, unless you are a complete asshole.

Though I would still just consider them work colleagues.

Normalfag?
Awesome, so all the other norms are 25, unemployed, living with the folks and only non-virgin because an aunts boyfriend bought them a hooker?

>>7505260

What do you talk to them about or will be talking to them about? Are you funny? I'm not. I'm really dull.

>>7505280
Only have one friend, with him MtG, weed, maybe some movies or tv shows.

Work people would pretty much be music or movies, or just listening to whatever it is they want to babble about, girl problems and such.
Listening is pretty easy, and people like to talk about themselves or their problems, show a little bit of sympathy and you are in.

>>7505319

I'm still not seeing how you're a loner, you're social, you have millions of friends. Do you even use a cellphone/text/call or msn?

>>7501138

Are you still there?

yes

Loser reporting in.

guess the guy left.

meh...

>>7501138

This perfectly sums me up, I've never been the social type and for that, I pay the ultimate punishment of dying alone.

>>7507348

No friends online or off? What's your story?

i always felt like a loser no matter what. i have friends, a boyfriend, i am very attractive and i am very smart but i still feel like the biggest loser
it's something i will never get rid of
i can't even explain why i feel this way

>>7507468
Not in a friendless situation. I have great online friends, and a few offline ones who I hardly ever meet up with but talk to online. Some are so socially awkward it makes me feel better about myself.

Spent all my teenage years doing fuck all. Sitting inside 24/7 developing fairly bad anxieties and rock bottom self confidence. I could of been so much more...

>>7507541

What do you talk to them about? What do you do now?

>>7507586
Arrange the few meet ups we have, more socially inept one talks about video games only, random stuff.. And what I do now? Go for a run early in the morning (to avoid people) and then browse net all day. Repeat forever.

Why you asking so many questions anyhow? Not that I mind. What situation are you in?

7507682

I'm probably in the same situation as your socially incompetent friend, I never say much of anything, never go out, never had a girlfriend, all of that social stuff I've never done like parties, concerts...you name it.

>>7507682

that was directed at you by the way.

hery

dah ferge...

>>7501138

Alright, I'm back, if you're still there send me a message back.

damn.

I see it as a challenge, having to progress everyday to achieve my goals. After some time it's satisfying when you look back at who you wer.

It would be boring being born a winner.

yes.

come on bros.

>caring about getting friends
>2011

bermpp2

midciore life reporting in.

were are all the loner bros at?

bermpp22

I know that feel man..

eh...

Yes, I don't think I'm going to change, I don't want to. I've had the same outlook on life since 8th grade... we were born to work to die. I could give a rats ass whether or not some girl may have interest in me. Yes, I'm not a virgin. I just view the world, time and space as it is, so why work if there's no significant purpose? NO way in hell am I going to have kids. I wouldn't dare be part of bringing another human into this god forsaken planet of crooks, sleazbags, murderers, greedy fucks.

I'd honestly kill myself but I figure what's the point? I might as well do shit I want to do until I die, even if it means becoming homeless on government benefits. I honestly give zero fucks.

Just know that the world is corrupt and don't become a pawn, whether it be becoming exploited for shit pay by a large corporation, whatever. Do your own thing bros.

did you come back yet bro?

I'll be alone forever at this rate.

Why was the last thread deleted?

I have aspergers syndrome.

Now before you attack me, I have never once used it as an excuse. In fact I have never told anyone but immediate family that I was diagnosed and try my hardest every day to function like a normal person and appear normal.

But there are always social connecions I will never make like normal people do. There are alwaysbasic feelings I will never be able to understand, just because of the way my brain is wired and how I was born.

So at the end of the day I know that yes, I am genetically inferior human scum who will never be able to reach the heights of a normal person.

I am what society would deem a loser. 25 years old, zero friends, virgin, never had a female friend or a girlfriend, no college or anything. I let the years pass me by and now its too late to change.

>Do you think you were born to be a loser?
These threads are getting more and more pathetic.

>>7515873

What's your story? Do you think you'll always be friendless and living the same life in 5 years? what is your daily life?

bumppp

This period.. this period is killing me.
I'm 19 years old. Yeah yeah I already know what you're thinking: you're too young to complain i'm 25 i have it worse you have much ahead of you etc

But the future is looking so grim. I have no hope anymore.
It all started when my class got sort of split and I got into a different class. Before that I could manage to do okay in school, had great friends, and everything was sort of okay.
I fucking dropped the ball since that. I got into this new class that is a fucking nightmare.
I've always tried to be a friendly guy; I actually had no problems making friends with anyone, and I've alway been very social. This is not only a good thing, but I've never had any real "conflict" with other people. That leads me to basically being.. a pussy. If something happens like someone insults me or some similar shit, I'm too shocked to respond, and just swallow it up. I feel terrible.
Basically, these guys fucking made my life a living nightmare. It's also my fault.
Basically, I get bullied. I'm fucking 19 and I get bullied. They do not harm me physically just because they would get in trouble, but it's a living nightmare.. They did everything to make me an outcast.
Constantly picked on me for everything, destroyed my relationship with every one of my old friends. Completely destroyed my chances with any girls in the class, not even a friendship.

you were all born winners, you just haven't realized it yet

>>7516579
This made me physically sick. I developed a peptic ulcer thanks to stress that I'm currently treating. Every morning before going to school I throw up whatever I try to eat because of this. The stress eats me alive. I stopped lifting, cooking, I stopped doing every fucking thing that kept me alive and happy. Every day I'm more angry, angry and bitter. The relationship with my family is going downhill because of this.
My grades are basically shit because being in school is pure terror for me. I can't focus, I can't do shit. I developed social anxiety and I'm constantly worried that they are planning to do some shit against me.
I know that I won't be able to finish fucking high school let alone university or other shit.
This summer I became a shadow of my former self, the cheerful and happy guy I was.
I'm constantly depressed, angry and bitter. I have hanged out with some guy I barely "like" 2 times and no one else during the ENTIRE summer.

>>7516598
Never been to the swimming pool. Never done anything exciting. I didn't even play fucking video games or something else.
I just closed myself in. I bought a new cellphone and I didn't even bother putting my old friend's numbers on this one. I'm terrified of not being able to get a good job and disappoint my parents. My dad, my mom.. I love them, and fuck they are good parents, I'm just a terrible son. A lazy asshole with no balls that let other people change his life completely. I admit it because I know it's true, yet nothing will change.
Another thing I hate myself for is the fact that I'm not constant.
I'm that guy that always takes up on a lot of shit like different instruments, sports, studies, etc but never brings any of them to a conclusion. I'm the most inconclusive motherfucker you'll ever meet. I leave everything in half. I'm not constant.

>>7516620

Even though I've never had any problems making friends and female friends, I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 14. It makes me wonder what is wrong with me. I just can't, I've come to the conclusion that I'm incredibly ugly, even if I don't really believe this, but what else could be the problem?
I think that 4chan also played a big part on this. This site, even if I like it.. sort of poisoned my mind. Ages ago I was just carefree, full of energy and not giving a fuck about other people. Nowadays? I think if i'm beta, worried about what people think of the things I like, think that every girl is a whore that tries to get advantage of my favours or some shit. Even more angry bitter and depressed.
I see no future for me except for a suicide. Every time I leave with my scooter I wish for a fatal accident so I don't have to worry about anything else ever again.
I'm just an empty shell. Some of this is completely my fault. If I had the balls to stand up for myself, none of this would have happened.
I go to bed and wish not to wake up ever again. Every night.. Every morning I curse myself. The only reason why I didn't kill myself yet is because I think my parents would be devastated.

I.. I just wanted to be happy. Have friends and someone to love.
I didn't want to be a loser.. I never wanted to
Fuck man..

I am a really pessimistic person who talks too much. The only people who try to tolerate me are guys who are trying to be nice in the hope they'll screw me. I can make friends but I easily lose them.

>>7516631
>>7516620
>>7516598
>>7516579


Wow, I ..
Godspeed man. Godspeed.

>>7516631
>>7516620
>>7516598
>>7516579

You are me 3 years ago and I am you 3 years in the future.

>>7516677

What happened, me? Just tell me what happened. Should I end it now?

>>7516631
>>7516620
>>7516598
>>7516579

i would be your friend :(

>>7516726
I just don't give a fuck anymore. It's liberating. I have no expectations so I'm never disappointed.

yes
and I'm loving it

>>7516756

I see.
Fun thing is, I can't even get drunk to forget my problems. Looks like I have an incredible tolerance to alcohol and it would take me too much fucking money to get wasted and forget about everything for a night.
I don't know man. I wish I could disappear and leave a better copy of me in my place, so that my parents wouldnt be sad. I love you mom. I love you dad. Sorry for being such a terrible son and such a disappointment.

Yep, I'm definitely a loser.
I'm the dead end for my genome.
If i was born 200 years earlier I would have died before I reached how old I am now. I feel like modern civilisation/society is screwing with survival of the fittest.

meh, I've accepted that I'm a genetic dead end.
the world has nothing to gain from my genes being passed down so why fight my destiny?

>>7516631
>>7516620
>>7516598
>>7516579

And they say that highschool years are the best years of your life.
Godspeed bro..

I wasn't always a loser, and I'm becoming more and more social each year, so I think I have a fair chance of finding a wife.

Wow. I come to /adv/ every once in a while.

Why is every thread so beta? Stop blaming environmental factors on your genetics...

Being on /adv/ just promotes foreveralone.
Fucking go out, talk to girls, and get confidence.
Or just spend years in therapy. Your choice.

If you spend your entire weekend alone...fucking make friends or go out and meet people.

BUT ANON, THAT'S SO ALPHA.

no it's not. Few people are genuinely alpha in this world. Most "alphas" are just successful betas who got over their shortcomings and made an effort to improve themselves.

Even going on StumbleUpon and stumbling self-help/self-improvement beats this shit.

>Loser

Depends on how you define loser.

I define a loser as somebody who
>gets a girlfriend, a wife, and has kids

I mean, what? Would you really tether yourself to a woman like that?

Since I was born:
>Extremely frail and weak, could barely do anything on my PE classes
>Very, very skinny
>Speech defect
>Need for glasses
>Inferior ability to average in almost everything

And now add to that:
>Terrible case of acne that dermatologysts can¡t solve
>Balding prematurely

And you say I wasn't genetically predisposed to failure? And yes, I now have social retardation and I'm a complete loser due to confidence, but how can you build confidence when you objectively suck?

>I was a p cool guy in HS, probably.
>Debilitating panic attacks and such start when college starts.
>Turn to drugs b/c I'm a fucking idiot.
>"Self medication".
>Graduate in 6 years with no friends and criminal record.
>Teachers and parents think I'm a lunatic, can't blame them.
>Now 24, unemployed, still live with parents and so embarrassed I can't even make eye contact with them.
>Probably be forced to join marines b/c no one's gonna hire me.

Yes I shall be alone...

me.

guys consider this:

the most important and determining variable in our situations is a biochemical one. we are giving way too much weight to our specific circumstances and events and habits instead of the physiology which determines how we feel about the circumstances and interact with them

tl dr; we wouldnt be in such ruts if we woke up with an abundance of dopamine etc.

>>7518774

bump 4 science

>>7518774
Smoke crack; see if that helps.

smoke crack all day.

Suck cock for rocks.

bermppp

right here.

> Do you think you were born to be a loser?

Pretty much. There are ass-backward things in my life that I can't help but feel like I was doomed before I even got off the ship.

bermpan.

loser reporting in.

Who cares about that? More money for me.

EVERY FUCKING DAY
THE SAME FAGGOT THREAD
STOP YOUR FUCKING WHINING ABOUT FOREVERALONE AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT YOU ANNOYING CHUCKLEFUCKS
MAN I HATE YOU PEOPLE

;-;...

Yes


And I will always be a loser

hopefully a loser with a job

>>7522419

At least you have a social life. I don't.

>born a loser
It's your fault.
If you're ugly... that's another story

iktf...

>>7517612
take procepia

>>7522523
how can you be a loser if you're not ugly?

attractive people instnatly win even if they're poor and stupid

I was born with a shittier hand than most. However, I think that there is always a possibility that I will come up in life.

For those who don't know me (most of you), I have a rare metabolic disorder called mitochondrial myopathy, though it's only a mild case of it. I'm a bit short (5'8) and I have a mild stutter. I have a degree in Greek and Roman Studies and I'm quite eccentric. However, I still press on and believe that there will be a happy ending for me.

I was not born a loser, far from it. But i feel like i was born a few decades to late. I have always thought about deep things but had no title to attach to them, come to find out ive conceived on my own many of the ideas that past philosophers like Plato, Aristotle, etc. Ive i had been born years before my time, even just lets say 30 years back i could of made a splash but in this time period all of my thoughts so far have already been conceived by someone else.

>>7501138
>I was born to be a loser. I was born to have social anxiety and to be complete disappointed to everyone around me. I was born to be ugly. I wasn't meant to be successful, or funny, or happy, or anything. I'll be like this for the rest of my life, I'll never have any friends, or a job, or a family of my own. I'm going to die, old and lonely, or just kill myself in a few years when my dad kicks me out. I'll never change. I'm incapable of it.
>HURRDURR BAWW BETA AS FUCK BABBY Y U KRY U LITTLE BISH.XDXD
FUARKIAN BETA AS FIK.

>>7501302
>I take my farther out for a bit of socializing
>farther
Genius level huh?

i know it/

>>7523125

did that guy ever come back?

>>7523062
Wow, you come across as an extremely intelligent person.

this guy.

>>7498925
Good god i love this thread.

i do.

>>7523062
>>7523062
>>7523062

> feeling like you're born in the wrong time

I know that feel. I might actually had a shot with more women if right now was the mid to late 80s to the late 90s because I love the music from that era and I also love the cultures too.

By 2000, I'd either have what I want or be content that I had (hopefully) more fun than I have right now.

i'm not.

Join an anime club and make some friends... shit.

>this thread

Now that's a good laugh.

Will be living alone, my only goal is to get a job, jewmode for 30 years, retire and then leave my house as little as possible until I die alone.

>friends
>2011

me

probably..

Did that loser come back?

bermpp

My uncle is a deadset loser and always has been. He lives with his mum and always has as well. He's over 50.

pretty sure im following in his footsteps. it has to be genes

Being a loser is too much fun. I like doing what I like. I could pretend to like sports, cars and guns and pretend like I'm enjoying to parties and clubs, but that shit just isn't fun for me.

I don't care if people think I'm a loser.

>>7498925
I see it as a challenge, having to progress everyday to achieve my goals. After some time it's satisfying when you look back at who you wer.

It would be boring being born a winner.

>>7528254

so you're social but you aren't?