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 08/09/11(Tue)18:32 No.7288895>I don't have a job  You
 may not have a job, but you're doing well in school. It'd be bad if you
 were jobless and failing school, but that's not the case here. 
  >I let my mother pay for everything even though we are struggling financially.  It
 seems like your mom is totally willing to pay for you. Do you make it 
easy on her? Like, you need money for books and to pay bills, but you 
don't need to be asking her for money to go out and party or to go to 
the movies, you know? I wouldn't push it, if I were you.  And that's 
your mama. You're her baby, she's taking care of you. As long as you 
treat her with respect and be sure to take care of her when he needs it,
 then I don't see why it's at all an issue. 
  >I've
 chosen a stupid major: Philosophy. My dream career would involve 
extending my time in school by at least five years in order to get a 
Ph.D. Although I would be working as a student teacher for whatever 
university I chose, most of that income would be paying for my 
education; it's likely that I would just be prolonging my current 
lifestyle and the current financial situation. On top of this, it's very
 likely that I will struggle to be able to find a job upon graduation.  Oh,
 see! You know what you wanna do, you have a plan, and you're well on 
your way to accomplishing this plan. You have your life figured out and 
you're doing really well.  Sweetie, everyone goes through tough shit 
in college. The BS your family's giving you just happens to be some of 
yours. It's something you'll have to deal with. Just make sure to make 
yourself happy before them, because ultimately, it's your life and your 
happiness that matter here. 
  Just don't push it with your family 
-- be respectful, but try not to argue. Keep it calm and push through 
it, stay focused on your plan.  Good luck to you and I hope everything works out fantastically. ♥  |