Guys: What's the ultimate turnoff in a woman?

Girls: Opinions on facial hair?

>>4675219
Rudeness.

Girls - would you fuck a married man (with a child)

>>4675219
A girl who is mean. A little bit of bitchiness is good, but if its on 24/7, that shit gets annoying, no matter how hot she is.

>>4675219
know-it-alls to be honest.

>>4675219

Being a bitch for no reason.

>>4675219
weight and scent. I hate fat smelly unclean unkempt bitches

>>4675219
Dumbness, to a level where it hurts.

>>4675219
Being fat (having a few extra pounds on you is fine and can be cute, having a large frame is fine, actually being fat as a result of eating too much) or being a bitch.

>>4675219
It's a tie between being a bitch/throwing tantrums for no reason, and freaking out about marriage because all her friends are getting married before her.

Guys: what's the best way to satisfy a man in bed?

>>4675237
no
divorce with a kid- yes, but still in a relationship- hell no

Do Girls text dudes whom they don't want to hang out with?

>>4675234
I love it, especially if a man can grow a thick face-beard (nothing past his chin, though)

Manly stubble is also pretty heavenly

>>4675257
*actually being fat as a result of eating too much is not fine

>>4675234
Not too keen on soul patches. Beards, chops, mustaches, goatees are alright depending on the person. Just make sure you keep it trim so you don't look like a mountain man or drug addict.

>>4675219
IF SHE HAS A BAD ODOR I CANT EVEN...yeah thats the worst b.o and hairy armpits dont be afraid to shave

>>4675261
Learn how to give a good blow job.

>>4675219
Tattoos/piercings(except ears)
Except in very rare cases.

THAT FUCKING AIRHEAD/LAZY LOOK IN THE EYES
LIKE FUCKING MEGAN FOX
SHE ALWAYS LOOKS SLIGHTLY TIRED.
TIREDNESS CAN LOOK CUTE
BUT ALL THE FUCKING TIME
JESUS CHRIST KILL IT WITH FIRE

>>4675267
Do YOU text people you don't want to hang out with?

>>4675261

Do everything he wants you to do. He wants anal? Give him anal. He wants you to bend him over and strapon fuck him? Bend him over. Go down on him for as long as he wants.

Oh, and guys love it when girls ask "will you cum on my face please?"

>>4675295
He's a robot. They're socially retarded.

>>4675237
I wouldn't even consider it.
Whores might though.

>>4675295
Nope. Am I werd?

>>4675261
Sex is sex, I don't give a fuck.
Same question, reversed?

Girls: what's the best way to satisfy a woman in bed?

>>4675301
>Oh, and guys love it when girls ask "will you cum on my face please?"

NOPE

>>4675339
No dude, I agree with him. You don't even have to ask, just let him know that you want it.

>>4675311
You're not weird, you just answered your own question

>>4675324
I think everyone is different..

I wanna know how hot i am all the time.. but don't say it 'cause that's gross. Just be appreciative and grab what you wanna grab and don't be shy
If I'm doing a good job make some noise so I know
If I'm doing something wrong grab me and move me to where I should be
be in control
tell me what you want
make eye contact
vary pace and everything
be confident
have fun
relax
laugh if something is funny

girls-how bad was sex for the first time? How many times until you started enjoying it?

>>4675359
>>4675339
The point being, it's a matter of opinion.
If a female said that to me I'd probably be shocked out of any arousal.

Girls: What's the ultimate tunroff in a man?

why are guys so obsessed with boobs?

>>4675389
Compare this list to the list given in answer to the question about how to satisfy a man in bed


Yeeaaaah

girls:if i am upset at you how can i tell you to back off without me hurting your feeling and you holding a grudge and trying to kill me

Girls - would you rather take it in the ass or give it to your bf in the ass with a strapon?

>>4675405
A lack of health (mental and physical)
That's about it

Girls, if a guy walked up to you in the middle of the hallway, and proceeded to introduce himself and talk to you, would you think it'd be weird, or that guy is awesome?

Girls: How can I get my gf to send me naked pics of herself to me?

>>4675420
If the guy was weird, I'd think he was weird
If the guy was awesome, I'd think he was awesome

The walking-up-to-me thing can really go both ways

>>4675414
Take it in the ass.
I love anal.

>>4675414
Strapon, there's too much risk of infection with anal

>>4675413
Just don't date someone as insane as I am

>>4675421
It's a trust thing. Prove you trust her more first; send her a naked picture of you.

>>4675429
Holy shit, I'm awesome! Fantastic, thank you femanon.

Guys: Do all guys in relationships look at porn? Often? Why do you need it if you're getting sex regularly?

Girls: Is it a big thing to share your sexual fantasies/fetishes?

>>4675406
Well, they're very feminine, simply because females have them and males do not.
Breasts for the sake of breasts are fucking annoying though.

Before somebody asks if breast size matters, it does not, what matters is how they work with the other shapes of one's body.

>>4675457
I'm sure you are, and you're welcome

>>4675458
yep. Depends on how much you put out. Daily sex and I probably won't look at much porn, sex only once or twice a week and you bet I'll be on motherless.

how do i approach women. im socially awkward

>>4675449
She already said she didn't want a naked pic of me. And sending it out of the middle of nowhere might be kind of weird, right?

>>4675458
All? No.
Most? Yes.
Men like porn. It's not a matter of regular sex or not sometimes we just wanna either spank one out or want to look at other boobs/vaginas. It's no detriment to our current partners despite how it may look or sound.

Why do women pretend they don't like sex?

>>4675498
Some do, some don't.

It's part of the stigma that sex before marriage is bad, and it's whorish to like sex.

>>4675458
porn helped my relationship. i didnt use it often though.

i used it to last longer in bed

>>4675458
Well, I don't have experience with regular sex, but I'd say it's an urge, sure, sex may keep one satisfied 9/10 ten, but another time, perhaps sex isn't an option at the moment.

Also a good piece of information for pretty much everyone, when you interpret regularly as routinely, shit gets very boring very fast.

>>4675498
We might be seen as sluts
Also, a love of sex tends to lower the respect boyfriends may have for us

>>4675489
How do I approach men? I'm socially awkward.

>>4675490
Ease her into it. While in the middle of doing things, take pictures of her. If she wants you to delete them afterwards, then delete them. If she freaks out about it in the middle, promise you'll delete them. Taking pictures is the first step, keeping them is the second. She's self conscious, compliment her daily and don't force her to do anything she isn't comfortable with.

>>4675532
Stop being fat/ugly and talk to one

>>4675526
I don't really see how, my current girl has the sexdrive of a teenage boy, Luckily I am a teenage boy so it works pretty damn well.

Why would girls prefer to puke their guts out instead of just eating a healthy diet and exercising regularly?

>>4675512
that's soooooooooo fricking strong

I can't even tell my boyfriend I want him because it feels so dirty, it's absolutely a socially enforced thing that i have to play out this thing like he's seducing me and he's the corrupt one, not me, not both of us.

I can't initiate sex because the idea that he wouldn't be in the mood or say no would make me feel so dirty and slutty and awful.. ach!

But i'm dealing with it and working on it!

certainly there are some women who genuinely don't like sex.

>>4675526
I disagree. I see a love of sex lowering the amount of respect boyfriends have for us if it's a new relationship and if it's in the honeymoon phase. If it's a longterm relationship love of sex helps and keeps the relationship spicy.

>>4675560
It's easier.

>>4675560
Because that can't get you this thin

>>4675579
>>

Sorry THIS thin

You absolutely cannot get to this size with healthy eating and exercise, you need bulimia or coke or speed or other drugs, barely legal weight loss ones

>>4675575
Yeah but it doesn't work.
>>4675579
You cannot fathom how wrong that is.

>>4675592
Yeah, but that degree of thinness is just unhealthy.

And yes, it's unhealthy. If you're starving yourself it is unhealthy.

>>4675560
Because magazines, tv, billboards, and media in general depict toothpick thin bitches doing sexy poses. We're competitive by nature with other women, and fear we don't have a chance if bitches like that are out and about.

I personally am not bulimic, but I was fat for a while and strongly felt that way.

>>4675603
It also doesn't even look that good.

>>4675592
Yes you can L2genetics

>>4675573
>>4675564
My girlfriend had the same issue with pictures and cellphones. For awhile she was afraid people were watching her texts so she wouldn't even imply anything sexual. What I did to help ease her into it was take her lingerie shopping and we had our own "arsty" photo shoot. We then looked over all the pictures together and she picked the ones I could keep.

>>4675605
That doesn't explain why diet and exercise is ruled out.

>>4675592
some people are just naturally very thin. A girl I know eats almost as much as me and can't gain weight (she's trying, she's 5'6" and 90lbs). She's as healthy as someone that thin can be, she just has an extremely fast metabolism.

>>4675573
>>4675573


Right, it's insane, but it's true, most men will respect a girl who love sex less than one who closes her eyes on his birthday and thinks of England

Girls: So this girls seems to be interested in me (seems to want my attention when ever I walk past her atleast). Although I've been acting sort of douchy, but she's continued doing what she does.

How do I approach this girl without making a fool of myself?

>>4675613
You are whipped and your girlfriend is a psycho

>>4675620

That's true, but for most people that size is only achievable through abusing your body in some way

>>4675615
Read
>>4675575

>>4675324
>Girls: what's the best way to satisfy a woman in bed?

The clit. Flick it with spit. Eat us out until we scream and cum, don't stop until you see the juice flowing, I don't give a damn how long it takes you.

>>4675634
BUT IT IS NOT WORTH IT. WE CAN TELL WHEN YOU FUCK UP YOUR BODY LIKE THAT.

>>4675615

It doesn't work.

And if you're starving yourself healthy food is not what you crave and you have no energy to exercise.

>>4675532
Just go up and say hello, maybe ask a short question which has context to the situation you're both in. Social awkwardness in females is often seen as cute, if you're met with hostility, it'll either be that the guy is a dick, or you're just physically repulsive.

If a guy's responce is slow, or he seems embarrassed, it most likely isn't you, it'd be the fact that not that many people are well equipped to talk to strangers. But that's just something that needs to be dealt with by accepting that it's natural, and not negative.

If you feel that the attempt of saying hello went really sour, just look away and ignore the person, not really paying attention to anything, just generally act a bit snobbish, the other person might think you're rude or strange, but presuming you decided to drop the attempt to talk to them, who gives a fuck?

>>4675592
You're fucking dumb bro. All it is is a calorie deficit. Your calorie needs don't drop all that much between normal and thin. And that's just normal in some countries.

>>4675645
>>4675640
See
>>4675594

Girls: Do you treat your boyfriends differently than you would treat a fuckbuddy?

Let's say there are a few examples.

Boy A: he's not relationship material, you know it, and you don't want a relationship with him. You like him enough to give him blowjobs, mess around, fuck around, whatever, but not enough to actually have sex with him. You got with him out of jealousy because Boy D, whom you want a relationship with, doesn't want one with you, and slowly started to like the friends with benefits arrangement thing out of fun.

Boy B: Your boyfriend. You fight all the time, both depressed, you can't be yourself around him, but because you're both depressed, it's "comfortable" having him around, he always gets mad about something... but you're comfortable enough to have sex with him, sext him, cyber him, schlick on webcam, etc. He's shy, so even though you're submissive, you have to get sex from him sometimes. He's clingy, jealous, obsessive, always talks to you, etc. He came after you.

>>4675650
You're telling me that diet and exercise doesn't work?

Then you wanna explain to me why I lost 20lbs through diet and exercise? Where the fuck did you get your health advice from? Did you spend a week eating salads and walking on the treadmill for ten fucking minutes a day?

>>4675666
con't


Boy C: You say nobody's made you feel like this before. He makes you nervous, he never gets mad at you, yells at you, or blames you for anything. An alpha by any means, but a douchebag by none. He's the dominant one, however, and he always comes to get it from you. It's even to the point that he can just take your undies off and just slip it in, and eventually, you'll get wet and be into it and do it. You are still nervous around him even after 6 months of dating when it comes to certain things - for example, you won't be as sexy around him as you were with Boy B, but you'll send him pictures and stuff. You acknowledge that he still makes you nervous. You met him, instantly fell in love, and went after HIM.

Which boy, as well, would you like/love/be attracted to more: the one you'd go friends with benefits with, or the one you'd make enter a relationship with you to get with you?

Also, will you give away the most the most easily to someone you care about less?

Which boy:

1) do you love the most
2) do you like the most
3) are you the most attracted to
4) do you care the most about

>4675645
here

>>4675655
wait, lol, wut?

Girls: Is it really that big of a deal for a guy to have a different religion? I've been dumped for it a couple times. Myself being nonreligious, the girls being Christian, but not hardcore, ya know?

It seems like sometimes all you wanna do is save the little heathen, and when he puts his foot down and says he isn't getting converted, you flip and bail.

>>4675678
Throwing up your meals doesn't work.

>>4675666
>>4675673
what the fuck is wrong with you

you fucking meatbag- get a hobby

>>4675680
It can be a deal breaker for me if morals/values differ greatly, but not necessarily religion.

>>4675668
It doesn't work if you want to become THAT thin

If your goal is looking fit, diet and exercise is the best way to go (it improves your skin, your hair, basically everything -- eating disorders make you look like shit)

girls, how do you show you are interested in a guy? show him undeserved/unnecessary attention?

>>4675680
I'm male, and it's a huge deal for a girl to have a religion.
If she believes in creationism, or an afterlife, then it's nope.avi

It differs a fuckton from person to person.

>>4675680

I wouldn't date anyone who believes in organized religion. that includes all that wicca bullshit

>>4675668
responding to the last one because there's too many posts on diet, I can't pick one.

some girls have the mindset that throwing out their guts will give them the short term effect necessary to pick up a guy "at the moment". while exercise is healthier and does help long term goals, I think society has a "need it right now" mindset. I hardly find it to be "easier", but I think it certainly quicker.

Healthcare programs SHOULD make more of an effort to show how wrong it is, and how much of a danger eating disorders are to young women. Just as much as anti-cigarette campaigns want to reinforce that they're cancerous. But it's not going to happen, because models show off their ribs all the time, and people will continue to starve themselves because it is quicker than exercise.

>>4675687
>The clit. Flick it with spit. Eat us out until we scream and cum, don't stop until you see the juice flowing, I don't give a damn how long it takes you.

guess I should've waited until the dieting threads were over with, my post was misclicked.

Girls, how would you feel about dating someone who enjoys crossdressing? Not some super /d/eviant who wants you to peg him and shit, but he might own a maid costume from an old halloween or wears a girly/frilly apron while cooking or what-have-you.

Just as bad as the /d/eviant? Kinda cute? Suspect? I need more data on this

>>4675723
I open my eyes wider around him (not too crazily), laugh more at his jokes, tilt my head down more (men evidently find that attractive*) and stuff like that


*based on something I read -- not this -- but it still makes some sense
http://www.sodahead.com/living/does-a-persons-head-tilt-make-them-more-attractive/question-1362445/

>>4675775
I would be very turned off by that, personally, but I'm into the whole manly persona. I'm turned off by men with girly traits in general.
I can see some other females thinking that's cute though.

>>4675666
tldr; version?
your post might require a thread of its own.

Girls:
so how many girls in percentage approx. like to get eaten out?
because i know that many don't like that at all

>>4675784
>I open my eyes wider around him (not too crazily)
i hope not

boxxy-huge anime eyes are fucking bizarre and a huge turnoff

>>4675820
are you sure you're not just doing it wrong? I thought EVERYBODY loved oral sex.

>>4675775
I'm open to pegging, so I don't know if I qualify in answering your question.
But cross-dressing is hot if I'm dominating him at that moment. Goes into the category of humiliating him so he gets hot and bothered, then I can ravish him.

I'd be go huh if he asked me, but be open to trying it. And would want to know if he's bi.

>>4675820
Seriously? Their partners or you are doing it wrong.

Get them to read up on it. The sensation to pee is the sensation before you'll come. It's almost impossible to pee while cumming, if they don't know that then they'll be reluctant to.

>>4675821
Haha nah, it's mainly just a slight raising of my eyebrows because I'm usually interested in what he's saying (usually accompanied by a slight smile and occasional nods)
I also never interrupt guys I'm interested in (probably because they have nice voices)

Guys: When you say "smart girl", do you mean a girl that is a genius (literally, based on IQ), a girl that has above-average intelligence (but still below genius range) or a girl that isn't stupid and has some common sense?

somebody please help me out:

I can't tell if this guy is being friendly or if he's actually interested. We have class together and sit next to each other. During the first week, he sat next to me and made an effort to talk to me, and now that we're a few weeks into the class, everyone pretty much sits in the same spot and we end up sitting next to each other always. We talk before class and after class. He's good at keeping conversation going and we seem to agree on a lot of things.
I'm trying to read his body language but Idk. He looks at me in the eyes when we talk (but not for too long), yet his body faces forward. Part of me think he's not interested because he's not very flirty. But I'm not sure if that's in response to me not being a flirty person, or because he's just not interested. And he hasn't asked for my number, or anything like that. I would say that he's not very shy but there's something subdued about him.

any thoughts?

How do I trick a girl into liking me i do not want to be foreveralone

>>4675832
not even doing it wrong , just talked about it with quite some female friends and gotta say most of em dont like having a head between their legs, like a girl woudl give a guy a bj
they find this awkward and a total turnoff

though honestly if i think about what comes out of you vagina once in a month , i find its disgusting too lol

>>4675859
1. Buy a hooker
2. Use the entire time to allow her to dump her emotional baggage on you
3. ???
4. PROFIT!

>>4675855
>yet his body faces forward
guys do that to everyone when they talk
hard to tell from your description. my guess is if he's initiating conversation, not asking for homework, not checking out other girls during class, then he's somewhat interested in you.

ask him out to lunch sometime, then you'll know. if he says no, shake it off and continue being friendly.

>>4675859
>How do I trick a girl into liking me i do not want to be foreveralone
>How do I trick a girl into liking me
>trick a girl into liking me
NOT HOW IT FUCKING WORKS, BUB

>>4675885
what do i do then im ugly I never kissed a girl I never even been hugged by one what do i do

>>4675883
haha well there aren't many other girls in that class, maybe 3 or so.
It seems like too soon-ish to ask him to do anything. should I ask him to look at homework sometime?

>>4675898
stop being so fucking desperate, first of all

>>4675219

not being reasonable.
not being open to discussing opinions and their validity.
...just being stupid

more personal being a rather submissive person.
I dont like girls that are to submissive.
I dont like girls that see themselves as weak.
I dont like girls that dont have opinions.
I dont like when their opinions are Generic.
I dont like people that think they deserve things.
I dont like girls that arent respectful.
I dont like girls that considerate.

>>4675853
>Guys: When you say "smart girl", do you mean a girl that is a genius (literally, based on IQ), a girl that has above-average intelligence (but still below genius range) or a girl that isn't stupid and has some common sense?

Well a genius would be an exaggeration in nearly every single case.
If I said it, I'd mean the common sense thing, or more accurately, logic.

I don't care if you you're studying medicine, it isn't very hard to succeed in one field, given enough effort.
But to think and to argue logically, especially given the fact that so many women are incapable of doing so, would be quite a compliment indeed.

>>4675868
>some female friends
I'd doubt they'd be this open in talking about it with you.
I find that oral on the vagina does shit compared to oral on the clitoris.
And cum comes out of the penis just as cum comes out of the urethra on a woman's parts; just as pee comes out of both.
Don't be so freaked out about it, guys pee blood when they have infections.

See:
>>4675564
>feels so dirty, it's absolutely a socially enforced thing

>>4675911
Interesting, I asked one of my friends this and he told me that it's fine as long as she doesn't drink excessively/do drugs/smoke/party too often.

Standards have gone down, I guess

>>4675902
rather than look at homework, I'd ask him for a study session before a quiz or test.

General question aimed at most people since this seems like a good place to get advice. What's a good place to meet the opposite sex at college? Where do you typically hang out for that sort of thing?

Also, girls, how bad was sex for the first time? How many times until you started enjoying it?

>>4675853
>Guys: When you say "smart girl"...
We don't mean a genius, we don't mean being in a "smart" field and we certainly don't mean being a faux-nerdy poseur

we just want someone we can talk to about anything deeper than local gossip and pop music. that's it. it's all we want

>>4675935
So "smart" means "not a moron"...?

Why the fuck do guys complain about girls friendzoning them all the time, and shit like that, when they turn around and do the same exact shit to girls?

Guy, "Lol, maybe if you lost some weight, or started taking better care of yourself, or quit being so shy and shit."

Guess what assholes, YOU need to stop doing shit like that. Then the girls who you WANT to fuck will fuck you. But until then, quit being an asshole to the girls who would do anything for you, and date them instead.

>>4675793
>>4675834
One no and one yes. Not too conclusive

thanks anyway I guess??

>>4675934
>What's a good place to meet the opposite sex at college?
School clubs. Local city night clubs near campus. I had a friend that went clubbing. Across the hall in your dorm. Parties. Apartments. Form a study group for your class, meet them there.

>Also, girls, how bad was sex for the first time? How many times until you started enjoying it?
fucking terrible the first time. I'd say I started enjoying it once it was all the way broken, so... 10 minutes in the first time? Second time I enjoyed it over 9,000 times better than the first. Fuck guys, they don't have this problem.

>>4675925
Oh, I do have pretty fucking high standards.

And what is meant by it does differ, as what people consider "intelligence" and whether that or something else determines whether somebody is smart, are matters of opinion.
Furthermore, saying "smart girl" could possibly be negative, perhaps it's the first time you have done/shown something that counts as "smart"

>>4675940
pretty much.

>>4675942
8.5/10

also
>the girls who would do anything for you
such as?

>>4675855
thanks to the one person who replied...anyone else have thoughts before I take off?

>>4675951
Some girls do, some girls don't. Find a girl that likes yaoi and you'll be golden.

>>4675942
Maleanon here, most channers are retarded. Both genders. If you have any sense you'd ignore them.

Ugly people get friendzoned. I've friendzoned 5 chicks in my lifetime and dated only 1.

>>4675974
yaoi fangirls are disgusting though

the worst of the worst

>>4675942
>>4675942

If you tell him y ou'd do anything for him I'm sure you can at least have one night

>>4675976
>most channers are retarded
this is very true.
I've friendzoned four times, and dated once.

>>4675995
>>4675976
I dunno what's up with you people, I've only had to outright reject a girl like once ever

>>4675942
We never implied that males don't admit it, it's just that you hear less about women getting friendzoned, because to mention it, they have to mention themselves as flawed. (Wheras males just don't realise that they're flawed, or acted incorrectly.)

But yeah, both genders, you can't make people like what they don't.

>>4675969
Thanks for your input

Girls: If you're interested in someone, even if it's only being friends, how would you want that someone to approach you? Let's say you have no connections, no "friends of friends" or any of that shit. How would you like this anonymous individual to approach you?

For example: I just transferred schools, so I don't know ANYBODY. Therefore I go to the library and sit by myself everyday. At the library there's a female intern about my age, and I catch her looking at me quite often. Maybe she's just curious or bored, but I think she *may* be interested, just by the way we look at each other for what seems like hours when really it's a 15 second interval. How do I approach her? Should I smile at her when she looks at me or is that too creepy?

>>4675989
daw
>assuming this isn't the op of the question

I agree, yaoi fangirls who are outwardly passionate about it, are offputting. If you hate them, then find a shy yaoi fangirl. She's one you have to ask to find out if she likes it.

Or dominatrixes.

>>4676005
Idunno, maybe I was a 3 and you were a 2.

I've only outwardly told a chick I didn't like her once.

>>4676019
Starting with a smile is good. Why dont you make some kind of excuse to talk to her?
Other than that there is no real reason you like her other than physical attraction so....
I find it hard to be interested in someone solely based on looks

>>4676019
If I thought someone was interesting, I'd approach him/her

But sounds like your intern is the type to just sit on her ass and wait for people to come to her
Just go up to her and talk about something you have in common (all you have in your arsenal right now is the library, so figure something out from there).

>>4676015
Thank you for thanking me.

>>4676052
No problem
Thank you for being polite

>>4676054
I thank the thanker who thanks FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
I'm not a part of your system!
(unrelated anon)

>>4676046
>>4676050
Have you considered that maybe I would like to be friends with her before anything else?

>>4675855
>>4675855

Im a shy/reserved/submissive guy, so if i assume he has some of my qualities, he probably is interested in you. But wouldnt ask for your number cause he doesnt want to get closer to you without you letting him in first.

if he is as i assume, the fact that he is talking to you means he is interested in you.

>>4676054
Thank yo-
It can only go so far, you win this round.

>>4676081
Yes, I did (read my post again carefully, it's the one where I criticize your intern)

>>4676090
Thank you for letting me win -- you're a true gentleman

>>4676019

>>4676050
I concur.

Smile and nod.
Since you are a transfer, ask her about the job opportunities at the library, how busy the library gets, if they're looking for new people. Ask her what her major is, tell her what your major is. ETC. You don't have to be flirting to talk to her, but it doesn't hurt your chances later on.

Girls, how do I know when you're flirting? Either you're too subtle or you never flirt with me.

>>4676081
well yeah, you can't run until you learn how to walk
but WHY do you want to be friends with her? what do you actually know about her other than the way she looks and the fact that she works at the library?
But. that's not my real point. You need to talk to her in order for friendship to ensue.

>>4676098
Just as planned.

>>4676113
You never express interest in us, we all assume you have a girlfriend.

Flirt with them first. Ask them out to lunch. Do it.

Male here, are any girls genuinely interested in sensitive guys? It never seems that way, though girls say it all the time. We're talking very sentimental, affectionate, carefully mannered, loving type of guy.

>>4676114
I understand where you're coming from, but please understand the situation I'm in. For the last six months I've had no social interactions, and I'm emotionally unstable. The only human interaction I have throughout my day is through a) my teachers b) (one) parent. My parent is gone for 3-4 weeks at a time on business trips, so I have NO human interaction what so ever. I've always had issues with making friends. If she turns out to be a bitch, whatever, I'll ignore her. I need something, you know? I'm losing my grasp on reality, and I'm seriously considering suicide at this point. (sorry got a little deeper there than expected)

>>4676116

>>4675910
also like to add.

I dont like woman that do the following, smoke, drink, or do drugs.

>>4676129
So you never, ever flirt first? You only reciprocate?

...Okay...

>>4676146
I personally prefer the traditionally masculine guy (less hassle to deal with), but I know many of my friends who love sensitive guys and date them often (one of them is actually getting married to her sensitive boyfriend next week)


In short, it depends on the girl.

>>4675853
I say that someone's smart when they're smart. IQ scores mean nothing to me, because from what I understand about them, though I've never seen or taken one, they seem to be almost like trivia questions and don't actually test your intelligence.
I view someone as smart when they have a sense of understanding and the ability to learn- I don't view people as smart depending on "omg you know a lot" because anyone can read a text book or wikipedia. That's bullshit.
And the second and third parts of your question are the same (a girl that has above-average intelligence (but still below genius range) or a girl that isn't stupid and has some common sense?)
Because my GOD so many people lack common sense these days.

>>4676146
They want the man THEY LOVE to be a sentimental, affectionate, carefully mannered, loving type of guy.

Kinda like how I want the girl giving me a real blowjob to be an anime girl. If A then it follows that not B, even if you want B. Make sense?

>>4676174
If you've never seen/taken one, how do you know what they're like?

In other words:
you'd prefer deductive reasoning skills to rote memorization
Is this correct?

Girls: Are you less likely to go out with guys that don't drink?

>>4676196
no. I'm less likely to go out with guys that do drugs or smoke.

>>4676148
>and I'm seriously considering suicide at this point.
I won't try and change the subject much, but your post said that you're still in school, shit changes so fucking much around that stage, hardly reason to end your one shot at life.
Now get in there next time and talk to her.

>>4676148
Hmm..my statement still holds. you need to talk to someone - period.
why don't you join clubs?

>>4676164
I need to know what you look like.

If you're hot then:
>you're out of our league, you're friendzoned because we assume don't have a chance with you.

If you're ugly:
>well that's self explanatory.

If you wear fashionable clothes, do anything questionably gay, have lots of female friends:
>we assume you're gay. you are permafriendzoned.

There's so many things that could go wrong. If you aren't outgoing and show some sort of interest in them, or their friends they will assume you are accounted for. You don't have a specific skill or talent? You are average, we will not flirt with you unless we have a common interest or connection.

>>4676196
nope haha. I don't like to drink and if he doesn't that's actually a bonus. if he does drink though, which is pretty common cuz I'm in college, I won't hold it COMPLETELY against him you know?

I guess it's: prefer him not to, but don't mind if he does.

>>4675853
Fluid intelligence vs. Crystallized intelligence

There, now you can get your point across more easily.

>>4676224
Clubs are meaningless and to be honest a fucking Joke. Not going to even share my experience with clubs. It's the same shit, the teacher says "CHOOSE YOUR OWN PARTNER CLASS" well lol.. I don't know anybody. There I am every club working by myself.

>>4676247
go to night clubs then.

>>4676194
Yes, that's right.

>>4676244
I never knew about this until now -- thanks so much!
I love when I suddenly find a way to articulate myself better