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I have extremely strict parents who are also minorities and have a strong dislike for the internet. I'm 18 and even at 18 i am still considered a child to them, i probably won''t not be consider a child until i'm in my mid twenties. Anyways, I have an internet boyfriend whom i've had over 3 years that i am planning to meet soon, the problem is hes white which is also bad news. I deeply love my family and i fon't want to hurt them but i would like them to accept my relationship with a 23 year old white man even though i'm 18. (They don't really care for white people they don't trust them)This can only go wrong is how i figure which is why i have been so set on meeting him only once i became legal. Hes the love of my life and is very sweet and understanding of the situation between me and my family. How do you think i should ho abiut actually letting my family know about hos existence/meeting him?
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what kind of minority are you?
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>3 years
>love of my life
>haven't met yet

No. You are indeed still a kid, I can notice, your parents definitely can.
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>>10821827 (OP)
>even at 18 i am still considered a child to them, i probably won''t not be consider a child until i'm in my mid twenties.
>Anyways, I have an internet boyfriend whom i've had over 3 years
>i am planning to meet soon
>love of my life
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>>10821881
I'm filipino/cambodian
>>10821907
Ehh you guys don't understand the grounds of the relationship. I know all of his friends and family, have even met some of his family that live where i live, its just i've avoided actually seeing him because i'm underage, i've had oppurtunities but have just turned ten down with the fear of my family. I've been in other relationships that didn't feel as this one has we have similar thoughts on love and other ethics. I don't really need to explain it, i just need help from other people who have been through explaining an online relationship to family before, more perferably someone non white with harsh parenting
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>>10821940
*was underage
No that i have the opportunity to meet him i just want to know how to go about it with my family that is all
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>>10821940
Regardless of any of this, there's no reason to tell your parents about him until you've met him and been on dates etc. If they don't understand the internet, they aren't going to believe it's real if you haven't met him anyway. Don't confuse them.
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>18
>23
Ever wonder why your 23 year old university-attending fucker doesn't have a university-attending girlfriend? He doesn't like you because you're mature, he likes you because you are gullible and your parents obviously isn't going to like the internet more now that you are going to ruin your life with retards like that.
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>>10821940
you tell your parents, hey, cut it out, there is no place in the 21st century for such ignorant racism, just because you dont like white people doesnt mean all white people are bad, you should judge people based on who they are not what they are!
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>>10821955
Except this particular 23 year old white loser that is trying to get into their daughter's pants is bad.
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>>10821955
The only way to understand that properly is to have a meeting.

If I had a daughter and she went out with a spic, I admit being a bit racist, so just in order not to keep her from having a boyfriend I would at least first meet him as well to know that I'm not dealing with pic related which obviously is gonna leave my daughter pregnant and dump her on the spot or treat her as his 75th damaged pussy.
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>>10821954
It's uh different, i sought him out to begin with and he had just gotten out of a relationship where what he wanted wasn't met. We have the same wants so we were pretty perfect at the time for each other. I'm not the gullible internet tweenage girl twat this a totally different scenario. I literally know every thing about him what he does and who with everyday if you're wondering on how legit he is. I am very close to his friends as he is to mine there is just the job of meeting him and my family
>>10821947
This makes sense thank you
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ITT: nigga jealous of a white boy about to get some azn ass

god speed OP, hope it works out
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>>10821967
here is the thing though, a white person has cause for concern, ethnic parents should jump at the chance for their gene pool to be improved upon, breeding with a white person is always an upgrade
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so you were 15 and he was 20 when you guys met. you are an idiot.
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>>10822020
I don't care it's an upgrade. Supposedly every single race has people of all kinds, so if my daughter is gonna have sex with a spic, I at least ask for said spic to be a normal person and not some asshole that just puts his dick on everything he sees because he has the power to.
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Half Filipino here.
Don't worry about it too much, in a few years your mum will be pressuring you for grand kids.
Introduce the guy and more then likely they'll try discourage you at first but will be more receptive as time goes by until eventually they'll be asking you why you havn't had kids yet before your mid twenties.
If you really want to worry them don't introduce them to any partner until they think you're gay (doesn't take long) and then you can bring home the ugliest homeless guy and they'll be quite happy a long as it's a guy.
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>>10822031
Lol oh well my parents have a 4 year age difference as to were i have a 5 they met around the same ages as we did. Age importance is a legal westerner thing i guess.
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>>10822035
I figure this, because my mom thought i was gay until i started bringing guy friends around to protray that i'm some type of maneater. She doesnt ask wheres my boyfriend anymore
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>>10821971
>it's different!
No, you're just another gullible little shit who is going to spread her legs nice and easy. Heck, after the third time he might even ream you up the ass while telling you to yell out "me love you long time!"
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>>10822128
Lmao ooookay!
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>have an internet boyfriend whom i've had over 3 years that i am planning to meet soon
You sure he's not banging other girls? I think he is...
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>>10822177
He isn't he actually gave away a box of condoms recently because he didntwant them to expire and not be used. Hes extremely loyal. If he was with other girls i would know, like i said we are too conected through friends/social media/ and communication for there to be much secrecy
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>>10822197
>gave away a box of condoms recently
ok?

> extremely loyal
>If he was with other girls i would know
> too conected through friends/social media/ and communication for there to be much secrecy
Yeah.... there's stuff he won't mention such as having sex with other women.

Obvious troll is obvious
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>>10822223
What you dont understand is that he lives with roommates whom i an friends with and my friends are friends with and he doesnt have time toneven think of doing that out of school and work lol.
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>>10822177
whoops~ forgot to call my doubles

>>10822229
have you even met them all in person?
And has it occurred to you people tend to fool you?

I'm very curious as to how this 23 year old omega fag isn't having intercourse with other women since he was 20...

>doesnt have time toneven think of doing that out of school and work lol.
naive underage b8 is naive~ I'm studying pre-med yet I still have some time for 4chan & having sex with a girl who claims me as her boyfriend
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>>10822242
Yes actually i have met some of jis friends in person. I dont need to go back and forth and argue about the legitimacy of my relationship. Some people i know that i guess this ims hard for you to believe only want sex with someone they are commited to. You have your thoughts on the way the world works i have mine. I've already factored all of said possibilities along with everything you're throwing out. This is just a very different scenario with different kinds of people.why would anyone or for that matter any group of people go through this amount of trouble for the negative? Anyways i'mgladthat you have time out of your studies for 4chan and sex with a girl you dont value lol.
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>>10822197
>gave away a box of condoms
And it never occurred to you what he would have originally obtained that box for?

Why would his friends be loyal to you? You're just some teen pussy, if they are bros to the guy they would never tell shit on you that would lead to cockblock. You seem to think that you're this intelligent precocious thing that everyone else is going to interact on an equal platform. No, everyone else who is older than you and in a different life stage than you is putting up with your bullshit because you are easy pussy. Thank goodness you little whores don't understand that!

The way you type on the internet is painful. I hope you get knocked up and run off by the 23 year old, at least it'll teach you some fucking humility.
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>>10822288
Wow! Did you have a rough childhood? Did your mother abuse you? Chillout aggro head
You sound like you have a rough time being emotionally attached to women in general! Also his friends and family are nice people! They all know about me! His mom even sent me a card for my birthday and some candy which passed recently! Nice austrian lady c:
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>>10822288
Also! If you didn't read! He was previously in a relationship before we met and he bought condoms in bulk. He had no use for them and gave them away a couple of months ago in fear of them going to waste
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Just remember, you are too good for him.
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>>10822309
>>10822314
If you speak like you type, I can't imagine any sane, intelligent, rational 23 year old wanting to be with that. You sound exactly like one of those whores people at frat parties talk about "shutting her up with my cock in her mouth".

>his friends and family are nice people!
His friends and family are his friends and family, and naturally would take on his side, if they do not take his side then they are not nice people.
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>>10822309
>They all know about me!
>They all know about me being his tight brown pussy on the side to pump and dump!
FTFY
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Read this book.
Let your parents buy it.

Stay at home and read it there.

It will break down why your parents are doing this and why you're letting them.


Super thin book,
MUST READ!
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>>10822320
You seem pretty violent towards women! And to "feel" pain from how someone types sounds unhealthy.

I hope you have a great day today its nice and sunny so far where i live i hope the same for you!
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>>10822333
I always wonder about the fuckers that recommend random books to random threads, do you fuckers actually read them? Where do you find the time to read them?

>>10822335
>women
>implying you're a woman
Child, you've the cognitive abilities of a watermelon with a fleshlight attached to it.
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No adult would aimlessly seek a person they met online.
If you want to be viewed as an adult you need to smarten up.

Your parents know that you're still a child even if you can't see that.

Remember the commandments
>HONOR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER
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>>10822340
You so remind me of AMDG, I wonder where that fucker went. I miss that fucker and his endless galleries of crusaders.
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>>10822337
You can continue going on and on about how dumb i seem to you and how awful people are and everything is but all you're revealing are odd psychological issues. With this weird self righteous arrogant attitude
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>>10822349
Nah, that's just you being a dumb whore.
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>>10822340
No one was aimlessly seeking we ban talking to each other through mutual friends online, as a year progressed we became in a relationship with each other after i put forth the effort first!
I honor my mother and father which is why i am trying to come up with the best solution for them to come to terms with who i love despite how we met and the obvious differences
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>>10822337
>I always wonder about the fuckers that recommend random books to random threads, do you fuckers actually read them? Where do you find the time to read them?
Lol, it's not a random book.
Also it's thin as fuck. I read it in 2 days. Not even reading fast.

Fucking read it!
I may should add that the term ''love'' is flawed due to the nature of the English language.
Replace ''love'' with ''care''.
Love implies lust and that's not what this book is about.

You want to know why your parents are like this?
Read this fucking $5 book you can buy anywhere in the world.
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>>10822364
If you honour your mother and father, you wouldn't be asking 4chan how to legitimise fucking your extremely creepy omega male "boyfriend", you dumb whore.
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>>10822366
I'll probably read it it sounds interesting thanks for the recommendation, i'm sorry the other person posting is so rude'
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>>10822376
Why can't you ever be sorry that you are a dumb whore who won't listen to her parents no matter what?
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>>10822386
Lol you should really seek dome therapy instead of lashing out on people on the internet who you think are wrong and dumb and beneath you
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>>10822386
worng board
/b/ is that way >>>/b/
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>>10822376
At least bookmark it.
Or download the pdf for free.
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>>10822394
13 year old detected.
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>>10822394
I don't think you are "wrong", I think you are a dumb whore. You really should stop trying to whore yourself out so hard, and perhaps seek therapy yourself to address these issues: "why do I feel the need to whore myself out to a creepy omega male 23 year old who other 23 year old girls in equal academic and economic standing won't touch with a bargepole?"
>>10822395
Tell the whore that. And to post pics. With keyboard on head.
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>>10822400
She's not going to. She did not understand that your advice was to have some more empathy towards her parents' position. She believed that your advice involved confirming that her parents are wrong and she should take in the white cock with impunity.
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So much un needed animosity for no reason, thank you teal and others for the advice and book recomendation! This thread is dead as far as anymore useful advice goes

Have a great day everyone!
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>>10822415
Lol you're putting words in my mouth i actually found it on my kindle. I plan on reading it this afternoon!
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>>10822432
Off you go to spread dat pussy. I don't even know why whores like you come for advice, you never take it like the cocks you crave.
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>>10822444
You understand that book is about understanding and empathising with your parents' position and accepting them for who they are, not super secret techniques about how to throw around in your parents' faces that whoring is the great white way of doing things?
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>>10822453
I fully understand that! Which is why i am taking the time to read it. My parents have no idea about my boyfriend, and i will reveal them him after we meet a few times and actually "date". But if and when they seem to disapprove of what is happening i'm sure this book will help me to understand how they feel
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>>10822474
The fact that you need to read the book to tell you how your parents would feel is part of the problem. I wonder if it will make you at least realise that white parents would feel the same shame and dismay at their white daughter and it has nothing to do with you insisting your parents are racist.
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>>10822333
>Erich Fromm

Avoid this book like the plague


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