>>10093445
Because:

A: They're curious about how different partners will feel.

B: They're gluttons who just want to fuck anything.

I tend to agree that finding one partner is best for both of you.

By never sticking with one partner, they never know sex with trust and love, and that's a vicious cycle, so they keep trying new people, never ever experiencing the good kind of sex, unsatisfied, they continue to hunt and so on and so on.

OP, basically, it's ignorance.

I personally don't feel like being in a relationship right now unless its with someone truly compatible with me. So until that person comes along I satisfy my ego and sexual desires by having casual sex. Multiple partners is just an extension of everything that makes casual sex great. Twice as much attention, the challenge of satisfying two people sexually, and its a much harder situation to achieve therefore a larger ego boost.

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Because sex is fun and it can be worth it to have sex with many people and thus have fun with many people

as a bonus, sex is a group activity so you're also spreading fun to other people

fun!

>>10093472
yeah, those hormones which stop entering the body shortly after you have a child together, there is no getting around it, humans are meant to fuck around

also
>implying you cant have feelings for more than one person

>>10093480
Proof here that all people want is attention and self satisfaction.

>>10093490
Enjoy spreading your herp.

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>>10093503
then play it safe and wear a condom. Or just don't fuck people with the herp. You can totally be like "whoa, bro. that shit is gross. I'm not putting that inside my body. shit's diseased, yo"

animal instinct, period. that's just the way it is.

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>>10093472
Why can't someone love many people over the course of their life?
Can lovers not come, go and sometimes be shared?

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>>10093527
You know that herpes can be dormant and literally invisible and you can still catch it, right?

>>10093503

In general yes. I have no problem admitting that I enjoy attention from other people especially females. Most everyone is doing these things for the same reasons they just usually aren't self aware enough to recognize them. I can appreciate the want for love and companionship from another person but I have high standards for someone I am going to spend that much of my time with. So the gaps between long term partners are filled with the garnering of attention, fulfilling sexual desires and boosting my ego.

>>10093579
Hence why you should wrap it before you tap it (or wrap it before you get tapped)
>then play it safe and wear a condom.
plus, STIs are fairly uncommon, and just because you're having casual sex doesn't mean it's with a stranger. It could be a friend or acquaintance, and therefore someone who you should be able to trust (or at least can ask to get tested if you're that paranoid)

sex is fun and feels good. its pleasure. People tend to add morality into it just to justify their relationships or the lack thereof. It's not nearly as complicated as some like to make it. There is truth in that familiarity makes one more comfortable and relaxed. That doesn't make it better for everyone. Some people like the rush of the stranger. Also there are people that are better at sex than others. Sorry to say. Love is a great feeling and if you like warm and fuzzy great, just don't assume everyone is the same. there are plenty of people married to the love of thier lives, but their spouse doesnt fuck them nearly as well as the lover who they had before who was not mariage material.

The morality of sex has a lot to do with the consequences of sex. Risk of disease. risk of pregnancy. religious persecution, Also the control factor. People fear that if their lover is with someone else there is a chance that their lover will reject them on their most personal level.

I don't overvalue sex. its not something nearly as complicated as some would like to think. It's something most every animal on the planet does. It only becomes magical and mystical if you tell yourself it it. Many families have been destroyed because a spouse reacted to another spouse having a one night stand. Demanding a divorece and splitting up the children from their parent over sex. To me its just not that big of a deal. not worth that. peronaly I value sex for what it is a pleasurable act. no magic no mysticism.

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-Because I see many girls on a daily basis that I want to have sex with. Settling down at 18 means missing out on a lot of fucking fun.

-Because relationships when you're young are distracting and suck money and time out of you when you should be freeing up time and earning money.

-Because sex with one person is not how humans work naturally speaking. In fact it's a travesty to mankind.

-Because I'm attractive and attractive females show interest in me. It's easy not to have sex with tons of women if nobody wants to have sex with you.

-Because 99% of all relationships end bitterly and sometimes I want to have some fun in between relationships.

-Because women are far too beautiful not to get fucked by me and every woman deserves to get fucked by me.

>>10093445
I don't think it's about wanting multiple partners.
I just love sex - if I found a guy I loved to have sex with forever, I'd take the offer.
I was with my ex for over a year and wouldn't have minded him being that person. but we broke up and so I have to find other people if I want sex.
it's nothing to do with the desire for multiple partners

Genetics perhaps. Wanting to spread the seeds over a wide area or bear as many potential children as possible.

It's completely irrational is all I know.

>>10093602
I doubt it's just sex that makes the split up happen. It's the lack of loyalty in the relationship. Marriage is binding two people together. Those two people agree to commitment to one another. If he/she wanted sex that bad, why not just tell the partner what he likes? When in love, you should be more than willing to change/sacrifice/compromise for one another.

Some people value sex as an intimate thing tied with emotions.

Other people think that it's all just sensations and good fun with whoever.

Personally, I associate sex with intimacy, which is a private thing to me that I only want to share with someone I'm in a relationship with. I can see why you'd have casual sex, but it all seems too callous.

>>10093655

More often than not marriage is just used as a guilt tool to force two people into sacrificing a part of themselves and changing who they are begrudgingly for the sake of not having to go through the painful and embarrassing moneysuck that is divorce.

Marriage is ancient religious bullshit that implies women should be subservient to men and makes men too comfortable in their ownership of that woman. Ultimately leading to a lazy and unfulfilled relationship lock-down until the day you die.

I'm with you OP. Also I feel quite a few of these responses go around the idea that OP is saying why not be in a relationship. You can still have one sexual partner for all your sex needs and just be fuckbuddies or something of the like.

I personally agree that it's not really a big deal at all and people do just use it for ego and to battle insecurities. Some people use sex with how many people "their number" solely to judge their worth because they don't amount for anything else in life. I don't understand that really.

>>10093690

Your understanding of it is far too black and white. Most people believe a mixture of the two options you stated.

>>10093706

Of course my second statement is of the extreme side but I do think people spend way too much of their time and effort thinking about sex.

>>10093708
Yeah, yeah. I was presenting the opposite sides of the spectrum.

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Why are people so interested in eating different kinds of food? Why do people go out of their way to try new things? What does anybody get out of that aside from a slight self-esteem boost? Why not just find one dish and stick with that?

Why are people so interested in having multiple friends? Why do people go out of their way to be friendly? What does anyone personally get out of that aside from a slight self-esteem boost? Why not just find one friend and stick with that?

Hmm, pick one, I think they both work.

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>>10093795
>comparing casual sex to trying different foods

Why are people so interested in visiting multiple places? Why do people go out of their way to travel? What does anyone personally get out of that aside from a slight self-esteem boost? Why not just stay in the first town you find and live there for the rest of your life?

Oooh I like this game.

Anyone know the flowers that dog is sleeping on?

Why are people so interested in reading multiple books? Why do people go out of their way to get new books? What does anyone personally get out of that aside from a slight self-esteem boost? Why not just re-read the first book you ever read for the rest of your life?

>>10093810

The comparison is fair. The point being that "Variety is the Spice of Life".

On all accounts.

Why are people so interested in having sex in multiple positions? Why do people go out of their way to try new things in bed? What does anyone personally get out of that aside from a slight self-esteem boost? Why not just do missionary and stick with that?

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Because if you look good and a lot of girls hit on you it's difficult to turn down all the hot ones. They offer more mating opportunities. Sexual instincts, bro. It would take a really special girl for me to decide I want to only be with her, and I at least have not met anyone who fits that mold. 99% of girls fit into a few cookie cutter types that are easy to play. I'm looking for a truly special and unique woman before I decide to designate my dick to 1 woman forever.

By the way I love that picture. Very calming.

because they have already been heartbroken beyond repair and are just making the best of things

>>10093445
Ill assume youre a woman, since no man worth his dick would not know the answer to this question.

men are hunters. for a lot of guys, the thrill of the chase, of conquering a new girl is more potent than any emotional benefits they might receive from long term mates.

i wouldnt know why women want to do it.

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I myself am not interested in multiple partners. Thats probably because my current gf fucks me retarded. I was a virgin till I met her and jerked off all the time several times a day. I didn't think anyone had a bigger sex drive then me. She does and I can hardly keep up, but thats what I get when my girlfriend is 6 years older then me, has had several partners before me and she is my first.

I think most people would go after many partners just to get a variety, see whats out there. Other people might just want to fuck as many people as possible. Who knows until you ask them yourself