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There are plenty of posts, where people speak about being bullied, but can any of you admit to being bullied?
I'm curious how many people have actually harassed other cosplayers/lolitas or in general.
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>>6773562 (OP)
>can any of you admit to being bullied?
I think you mean 'can any of you admit to being the bully'. Just thought I'd point it out in case you didn't realise...
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>>6774148
Thanks Anon, I derped.
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I'm not a part of any cosplay or lolita comm (outside of visiting /cgl/). I have posted bitchy, bullying comments in the past. Anyone who has gotten such comments should take solace in the fact that to make them you have to be in a bad place.
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When I was 9(I think) I bullied another girl.
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The only time I was a bully was in middle school and early parts of high school but it had nothing to do with cosplay or Lolita.
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>>6774368
Me too, in elementary school. Also I used to be a full /b/tard and harass and raid random victims in middle school-early high school. Nothing too /cgl/ relevant though.
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>>6774368
Also, when I was 6, my friend was tying her shoes, with her face really close to the wall. And for no reason at all I just put my hand on her head, and smacked it into the wall. I still think it was funny.
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>>6774390
You're a sick fuck.

I recently found out my friend was a childhood/teenage bully and I'm not even surprised. She doesn't feel bad about it and laughs when she remembers things and says stuff like "Yeah but we were kids right?".

The thing is I was bullied for most of my life before university. I just can't look at her the same anymore.
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Femanon here.
I bullied a girl in high school into have a nervous breakdown and having to be put on serious meds.

I really didn't like her and honestly I still don't even feel bad about it.
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>>6774393
Not the anon you replied to, but that sounds like me.

Honestly I just can't really regret shit I did before I was 10.
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>>6774393
Nah, It's not like I laugh at everything I have done. Just that one thing. I know why I was acting the way I did, and now I try to be as nice as possible.
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>>6774403
As someone who has been in that exact situation... Why would you do that? It seems to go beyond simply not liking someone. I never really understand why I was bullied so badly by this one girl. I was very shy, and totally inoffensive to everyone else.
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>>6774419
You just sound like an easy target
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>>6774390
This exactly. Bullying is completely natural, the kids who do it cant help themselves. There was an article about on it by Christi whatever on Cracked how when she was a girl she would bully all the other girls, she said she just couldn't resist, it was in her blood.

Stop shaming bullies.
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>>6774425
lol.

it's natural for shitty kids with no restraint yup
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>>6774430
Read it and weep.
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>>6774419
Well, in the end, she doesn't even know it was me who started all the shit that eventually made her loose her marbles at school. It's a long story.

And she wasn't some innocent angel.

We had a big back and forth thing for like 5 years. She constantly tried to pull one over me and try and be a bitch to me but me being the gigantic psychopath I am, decided to play it cool and took my chances when they presented them. I stole her purse once and threw it away. She had an application for some program and I found it and threw it away so she couldn't apply. Etc. all of this without her knowing. I used to put shampoo and shit on her desks at school because she had nasty PT greasy hair. I even got some of my friends to do it.
Put notes on her, etc...
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>>6774435
sounds like she got what was coming to her

tell the story pls :>
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>6'2 tall, 200+ man
>was always big/tall as a kid
>always bullied or got into fights because everyone wants to challenge goliath
>just want to be left alone

Yeah, even though I could have easily been the one doing the bullying, I could never see why anyone could take joy in being a dick like that. of course I'm on 4chan saying this, but fuck the internet is different.
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I did. The girl in question stole some stuff from my backpack/desk in 6th grade and the teacher searched everyone else's bags/desks. Found my stuff and some other classmates' missing items in her desk and in her bag. She was pretty much hated by everyone else in the class for the rest of the year. It was more the ignoring/pretending she doesn't exist type of bullying than the "corner her and beat her up/steal her shit" kind.
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I would get tossed into trash cans by some cholo chicks every now and again in Middle School. Was pretty hellish now that I actually look back on it.

Never really bullied others, though I've been told I was a heart breaker. I liked to punch guys who said they liked me before running away... That happened up until High school.

My aspie like behavior around guys though is gone now in case anyone was worried.
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i was for a bit in middle school

granted, i was an awkward socially retarded fuck. i still think i didnt deserve it though.
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>>6774497
Will post in pieces since it is mega long.

I'll call the girl I bullied Nina.

Well, Nina decided to make a list of girl classmates in our grade (we were in 9th grade at the time). Some were of her friends, some were the popular/pretty girls, and I was on there. The list was supposed like an awards list, each person on the list was given an "award." Some were funny, some were mean, some were just neutral. Mine was something completely off the wall, not at all mean which surprised me. She showed the list to her friends and then let another friend of hers take it to a class I was in at the end of the day. I sat next to this kinda popular girl (Penny) who was dumb as rocks and I'm not sure why she sat near me because I was a total wallflower. Nina's friend (kind of a friend mine as well) passed the list to us and said "give me that back when you're done so I can give it back to Nina."
[1]
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>>6774564
Me and Penny looked over the list and I said to her "I should take that list and copy it and give it out to people" and Penny laughed so I asked her, "would you pass them out to your friends if I brought a bunch of copies tomorrow?" and she agreed. We told Nina's friend that we had put the list back in her bookbag and she believed us. This class was at the end of the day so when the bell rang I GTFO’d before Nina's friend could realize the list was missing.[2]
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>>6774567
I went home and not content with simply mass copying the relatively mild list, decided to give it my own “interpretations”. I changed her list into one that was super catty and mean to all the popular girls and had strange lesbian innuendos that we’re definitely not there to begin with. I basically called out a bunch of extra people, changed her awards around until it looked as if she were totally nuts. I left mine alone and a few other peoples. I printed a bunch of copies of the new list and took them to school the next day. Penny met up with me before classes started and I gave her the lists and she gave them to all her popular friends. Penny never told anyone that it was me who copied the list but that could be due to Penny 1) not knowing my name or 2) her just not giving a fuck that what I was doing was level 22 most evil scale shit. [3]
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>>6774572
Well, shit started to go down for Nina. She got tortured all day by everyone since by lunch EVERYONE in our grade knew about her list. She went home with a panic attack and didn’t come back for like a week or two. When she did come back she was doped up on Xanax and other crazy pills because she had a total mental collapse over the stress of everyone now totally 100% hating her.

Before, people didn’t like her because she was really weird and self absorbed/arrogant and kind of ugly, but then all of a sudden EVERYONE laughed at her and knew who she was and hated her.
She changed so much after that. She went from trying to beat me at test scores and shit to drinking at school and getting caught and sent to some special juvvy school for a year.
And that’s the story of “the list.”

No one ever knew it was me. I was never called out. Nina never figured it out. It was my silent victory over a dumb cunt who didn't know when to stop messing with me. [4]
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I was a little shit when I was like 15-16 and posted constantly on getoffegl, god I was obnoxious. Once I became a mod in charge of tagging all the old entries I got so sick of all the pointless drama and bitching that I just left the community altogether haha.
(and now i'm on /cgl/ lol)

In terms of irl... I was bullied a bit in middle school by boys in my classes. They made fun of my last name, they called me fat, they called me ugly, etc etc. Once a boy asked me out as a joke. I had really low self-esteem until I got into like the middle of high school and my body started to figure itself out and I learned how to put on makeup and dress to my body type.
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>>6774503
I can tell that a fatty neckbeard nerd is behind this post.
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>>6774576
>It was my silent victory over a dumb cunt who didn't know when to stop messing with me.

Don't want to be rudddde but seems like you can be a vindictive bitch anon.
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In a word, NO.
In many words, I was abused at home as well and didn't have time to develop any sort of ego ever, much less one that gave me arrogance to do that to other people.
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>>6774576
Why do you think Nina was messing with you? Was she ever mean to you?

I bullied some people pretty horribly and did horrible things to girls online (thank God cyberbullying didn't come out when I was in high school lol)
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I feel horrible. On behind the bows, the LDR secret, I wrote a horrible comment to a girl in an LDR and thought she was getting married and blah blah, she wrote all that shit.
But right after I wrote that mean comment, she replied (I didn't get to read it), and deleted both of her comments right after.

This was just last week but I feel fucking awful.

I told her that LDR's are stupid, useless, and a waste of time and that her boyfriend is probably cheating on her with some drunken whore.

I am such an asshole... This girl did NOTHING to me...

I don't know her username either! I wish I would have not commented to her...
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In high school, there were these few scene kids who were fat landwhales and trying to be "uber kawaii" and "lolita" (not even Milanoo quality, their shit wasn't even fucking lolita. Petticoats on the outside and "cut-sewed" hello kitty shirts...)

Anyways, when they found out I was an actual lolita, they started bullying me... Only when they were in a group... They always shoved me into a wall when I was by myself and spit on me, it was terrible. I hate them to this day and both of them are preggers.
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>>6774636
What you did was bad and you should keep feeling bad.
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>>6774619
Oh yes, she was all the time trying to be a bitch to me. Once in middle school she was being a snarky cunt and I was just blowing her off so she shoved me to the ground in the middle of everyone in the cafeteria. I never went up to her first to make mean comments, it always started when she would come up to me to say something bitchy.
She had a very creepy complex over me or something. She made an entire post on her myspace about me about how "her life is perfect and she never has to work hard for anything boo hoo poor me" bullshit. I worked hard for my grades and I wasn't a gigantic cunt to people therefor I slid under the radar whereas she got picked on for being a loud mouth.
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A few things...
There was this substitute teacher NO ONE LIKED when I was in kindergarten.
Whenever she would sub, my friends and I (mostly me):
>poisoned her coffee with soap
>stole her cellphone (she had left it on her desk before going to the bathroom)
>tripped her when we clearly knew she was pregnant
>left a note telling her to go die

A few times, our class was on lockdown by the principal...
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When I was 11, my best friend started hanging around with this other girl. I got jealous and being the paranoid bitch I am, automatically assumed that this was the end of our friendship. I went crying to some of the 'popular' girls who I was friendly with and they started this huge campaign against her, calling her a bitch, stealing her things, etc.
I continued to play the victim until everyone in our year group sympathised with me. No one talked to her for two whole years until we all moved to different schools.
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>>6774588
You sound like a loser fat landwhale.
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>>6774649
Damn bitch, you played hard in Kindergarten.
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>>6774602

0/10
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>>6774651
>>6774649
>>6774644
I miss you guys :c
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I was bullied a lot in high school since I was the lone Otaku/geek/loner at the time. I spent my lunch time at the open computer lab looking up anime stuff. I got it over when I finally went to college and I became much more open and made new friends.
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I didn't bully, but I got bullied.

And then I snapped and threw a HUGE basically bucket of sand into a kids' eyes, threw both a rock and a chair, and generally just went cray.

I still feel kinda bad.


But they deserved to have to go to the hospital.
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>>6774668
You mad fatty?

>omg cgl girls, i have the body of adonis and everyone bullied me for it
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>>6774765
Oh hey this was me too.
I was bullied, not terribly hard but for someone like me it wasn't as if I needed any added stress. Just things like girls spreading rumors that I was a whore (never been kissed or touched at the time), stealing my homework and books and throwing them on top of the building, then calling the cops when I tried to get my books back, locking me in a storage room during class and just left me there...
Well. It sounds really bad on paper but it wasn't that unbearable.
The one time I did snap, the bitch fucking deserved it. She kept telling me to get out of 'her friends' chair (even though she was more MY friend) even though the girl was absent that day. I basically unloaded on her verbally for 5 minutes straight before class started. It was brutal. Then I just calmly walked out of the classroom to go pee and the whole class clapped including the teacher. Bullies usually get bullied back eventually.
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I've never bully or being bullied before
I'm just that one student in class that nobody knows or care about my existence

>One time a teacher asked where I was, and all the whole class went "who?"
>I was at the back, sitting in my usual seat

Lonely as fuck man
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How it started:
I got bullied by a girl called Jess.
She was a mean piece of shit: she started rumors about me, she started rumors about other people and blamed them on me (I got beat up twice for that little game), and would wait everyday outside our shared classes just to get the first jab of the day in. I was super shy, braces and acne ect... my home life wasn't great because my mother had an unmedicated mental illness and used to say some pretty horrible things herself so it didn't matter where i went i still got shit.

Eventually i kinda cracked. I was sitting in the library and she came in, no one else was around and she had this happy little grin on her face cause she knew she could say what ever she liked cause no one was gonna hear it. She started telling me i was ugly and that no one was ever going to like me, that i was stupid and would never amount to anything ect... I just unloaded: i told her all the things i wanted to do to her, how i wanted to just grab her by the throat and squeeze, I think i even went as far as saying i wanted to rape her with a sharp stick.

She just stared at me and fuck she looked terrified. She started crying and i got up and walked out knowing that i won.
Cont...
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>>6774796
>omg cgl girls, i have the body of adonis and everyone bullied me for it

I never said I wasn't fat, the big/tall actually implies that I'm fat. The 0/10 was to imply you're a shitty troll.

3/10 for making me reply though.
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My friends and I got bullied a lot by this one group of girls in high school. Stole shit out of our bags, spread rumors, tricked the big Samoan girls in our grade to beat the shit out of us (they told them we'd called them dykes; we didn't even know who they were).

Recently, I was at Planned Parenthood picking up my birth control with my boyfriend. The ring leader of the girls was sitting in the waiting room by herself. She was crying and holding an opened pregnancy test box.
When I was filling out my papers, I glanced over my shoulder and she was staring right at me. I smiled and reached down to hold my boyfriend's hand and she started crying again.
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>>6774393
yeah, i found out one of my close friends was a bully too in his younger years. i'm not exactly sure if he feels bad about it. i didn't ask. but having been bullied when i was younger, the idea of it makes me uncomfortable.
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>>6774919
A few years later i had decided to go to university, i quit the awesome job with awesome coworkers that i had (i wasn't able to do the hours) and went to work in a mall. One of my coworkers was a little asian girl: Donna. No one mentioned that the reason why there was a vacancy was that Donna had bullied the last girl into quitting... and the girl before her too!

Anyway, i started work: already feeling a little down about working in a mall store where my pay was shit compared to what id left and i was paranoid about uni cause im a perfectionist. Donna started picking on me: it started out small as she would go around the store redoing any cleaning that i had done, like it wasn't good enough. Then she started snaking customers from me, or walking in on sales to tell customers i was wrong about a product... Just acting like i was completely incompetent. I asked other staff members if it had ever happend to them and yes it had: Donna was a bitch and everyone was scared of her.

One night i was cleaning up and she was doing cashup when she started saying that i wasn't any good for the job and how i really should just give up on uni because i didn't have the attention to detail that a good student should have... I snapped again.

I told her that if she wanted to have this talk i would rather have it out in the parking lot afterwork: that way we could talk it out like adults and that i could bash her nasty little skull in when she was finished being a cunt without dirtying the floors. I got up in her face and i told her straight up that i was going to break her shitty little face so bad her mother wouldn't recognize her. She looked pretty upset, made a formal complaint but the good news was the sec cameras had no vocal recording. The management decided to let the claim lapse since she was the recorded cause of staff loss before due to bullying. We kept working together for a while but she stayed well away from me and her husband started picking her up from work
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>>6774968
I loved watching her fear me. It felt fucking great to tell her where she could shove it!
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>>6774955
>When I was filling out my papers, I glanced over my shoulder and she was staring right at me. I smiled and reached down to hold my boyfriend's hand and she started crying again.
Damn anon, that's cold. I like you.
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>>6774955
Niiiiiice. Good job.
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>>6774435
So you were obsessed with her? Anon why don't you just come to terms with the fact that you had a huge lesbian crush on her?
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You guys are all such faggots. I mean really.
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>>6774971
>>6774974

I felt so horrible at the time, but when I thought how long I put up with her bullshit, I couldn't have cared less.
Oh, and a few years earlier, I was working a retail job and pregnant girl's best friend got caught shop-lifting in our store. She was high out of her mind and said I would be able to clear her name because 'we went way back'. I told my manager she'd been stealing since we were kids (she used to brag about stealing shit from Claire's in the 6th grade) and my manager called the cops. I guess she had a warrant out for her arrest.
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I've never been bullied. I mean, who gets pushed around and called names and doesn't stand up for himself?

...;_;
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In middle school I stole this girl's password, went into her email and changed her myspace password. Then I proceeded to change the content to all the socially unacceptable things at the time. When she found out I heard she cried and her mom called the cops. Scurry shit and never did anything like that again.

I don't even remember why I did it is the sad part. I was always such a sheep until I got into anime and became an outcast.
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When I was in kindergarten I used to have a humongous temper and was spoiled. I would blow up at random times and get super mad and yell at my classmates for mistakes or would ostracize a friend who disagreed with me. I had some tight leadership skills, apparently, because whenever I fought with someone, the rest of my tot friends would back me up. I called one of my best friends Bratney and I can't even remember what the fight was about, but she got abandoned on the playground and no one would sit with her until I made up with her.

I think kids have to grow into empathy. It took less than a school year for me to stop throwing fits and to become reserved, prim and studious. By first grade, I didn't spare words or fight with anyone even when instigated. I literally had no fucks to give. Most of the rest of my childhood is blocked out for whatever reason and I can't remember it.

Throughout middle and high school, I didn't get bothered by anyone and didn't bother anyone. I had zero problems. I had a lot of distance between myself and other people though.

Now I get teased by kids who are still in high school and even middle school, and am too omega to stand my ground and am seen as "too nice". So I went from being a bitch, to a zombie, to the ultimate pushover. S-somehow, I fucked up along the line.
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I'm not sure- there was a cosplayer girl who hated me for dumb reasons and she started harassing me so i harassed her back, does that count?
And I talk shit about cosplayers i don't like with my friends. I always wonder if that's bullying or just being human....
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I wasn't really bullied in school, but during high school of course there were some girls on our bus who fit the bully/obnoxious archetype. They were kind of funny too though. Like one in particular who pissed herself during a class on purpose because the teacher wouldn't let her out.

But anyway, even though they were pretty nasty they never bothered me on the bus. The one time they almost freaked me out was when I was sitting in front of them listening to my headphones, and then BOOM one of them slammed a textbook centimeters from my head. Turns out there was a hornet right near me on the window and they didn't want it to sting them or me, so she got it with the book. And there was one occasion where I was yelled at on the bus by someone, but the girl didn't take our route normally and she pissed off everyone by trying to call me out. All I did was stand up and ask our substitute driver to stop after they went past my bus stop, and she called me a rude bitch for it. I had even said please...

When I first got into cosplay and later on /cgl/ I was kind of into the nasty internet comments, but after a while it felt pointless so I've stopped that for the most part.
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People attempted to bully me in highschool, but I would get in their face about it until they couldn't be bothered to say anything within hearing distance of me. If I heard something someone had said about me, I would yell it out in the hallway and wave to them whenever I saw them. Just liked to make them feel stupid for even trying. Eventually people just learned to leave me alone for the most part when they realised I would most certainly fight back.
I never bullied anyone because I knew how it felt, and I bet it feels even worse when you're too shy to stick up for yourself. I tried to talk to you, anime girl. You thought I was fucking with you but I loved Naruto. I wanted to talk to you about all the terrible anime I watched when I was 14.
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>>6775035
>> Like one in particular who pissed herself during a class on purpose because the teacher wouldn't let her out.

An insanity wolf in the making.
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Oh god I was bullied so much as a kid. I guess they had there reasons, I was overweight, dyslexic, had a speech impediment, wore nothing but hand-me-downs, like, sweats hand-me-downs, not even the nice ones...My mother insisted on me over-washing my blond hair with very very stripping shampoo witch gave it a grease problem so I always looked like shit...I also had a tendency to cry when I was mad/frustrated and WELP learning in general was frustrating when dyslexic so I cried a lot in school so I was called a cry baby on top of everything else.
Because I am dyslexic and the speech thing I had special classes that I had to leave in the middle of the day for during elementary school when we did not change for classes ever..Way to call more attention to myself.
In middle school though we all changed classes, so the resource class was less noticeable, and I started to loose my baby weight. But then I sprouted up to 5'8" so they picked on me for that.
I had this one kid slam my head into my open locker once, giving me bruising on ether side of my face. He got off with just a little talk from the Principal because he thought he was just flirting with me. That shit fucking hurt.
To this day, I stutter and word-replace when I am forced to read out-loud, but it was really bad at this stage. And even though I would kindly ask teachers to just not make me do that most of them did not give 2 fucks.
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>>6774636
If she has the resolve to be in an LDR, she very much cares about him and probably doesn't give half a shit what you think. It was nasty of you, but you probably didn't hurt her feelings as much as you think you did.
I heard that kind of thing from some of my closest friends when I was in a LDR. It just made me feel better to prove her wrong.
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>>6775078
Had one teacher make me read a chapter of a book out-loud, I was crying and stuttering like a bitch at the end of it, and the girl in front of me turned all the way around in her seat, stared me down, and midway through in some disgusted voice went "CANT YOU READ?"
All the while, my mom was beating the crap out of me at home, my sister would lock me out of the up stairs of my house so I could not get into my own room, insist we play in my room, make a mess, leave it, my mother would then proceed to scream yell and through things at me because my room was messy. My parents would come home drunk every weekend and just belittle the crap out of me.
So I decided to switch school districts in high school to get away from all of this crap and do an AG program.
High school was so much better then middle school. I had some problems on the buss from assholes that went to a different school then me but I joined so many clubs I barley ever took the buss by the end of school. I had this massive goth phase, dyed my hair black, and was so weeby. But people left me a lone and I had tuns of friends, was very involved on campus, teachers and security guards all knew and liked me because I was ALWAYS there to not be at home, and dressed distinctively.
Until one of my biggest bullies from middle and elementary school also transferred to my school...and we had this one class together.
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>Used to be be bullied by this one girl
>She bullied pretty much every girl in our school
>Eventually caused this other girl to attempt suicide
>Still was a bully
>Dumped soup over my head while I was working on an art project
>My clothes and project are ruined
>Stabbed her in the eye with my exacto knife

She didn't come to school after that. Of course, I went to special programs but got let out after a few months for good behavior.
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>>6775119
UM WHAT.
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>>6775126
She bullied a girl so badly that said girl tried to kill herself. I think she deserved a stab or two.
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>>6775097
Make a secret apologizing?
Even if she doesn't believe it's you, but it's always good to be reminded that assholes on the internet do horrible things for no reason.
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>>6775119
I am disturbed yet intrigued by the violent escapades of my peers.
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>>6775131
She may have deserved it, but being the person to take someone's eye out is also kind of psycho.
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>>6775119
A-are you a lolita?
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>>6775141
Yes I am. I started dressing in sweet during high school, when the story happened. Bitch ruined my AP.
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>>6775107
Now this bitch, this fucking bitch.
My senior year of high school. I am president of the AG program, I know the principal well, I have a good gpa, ectect. I just dress weird but I have my speech under control and my new group of friends has gotten me to be very out going.
So, one day I get called down to the principals office. Not only called down, got fucking ESCORTED BY SECURITY. Now I knew them, and they were cool about it and basically went "Man I dono what is going on but you have to come with us now"
And they sit me down, and start to talk to me about why I want to shoot up the school.
This bitch started rumors that I had a list with peoples names on it calming that I had some fucking plot to kill them.
Now, the vice principal was the first to talk to me, and he was a fucking dick about it, treating me like a criminal and crap when I had done NOTHING wrong. The principal latter came in, was like "LAWL you think it is this girl? Hold on, I got this" And got it all fucking straitened out and got that bitch suspended.
Scariest fucking day of my life. I was scared enough that I stooped dressing goth all together, through out all my bondage pants,ectect, and switched to weeb shirts and jeans.
Then I went to collage, really slimmed down, learned how to be a pool shark, dress myself, and had guys trying to date be left and right.
Was still a weeb though. But less?
People respect you when you clear the table even if you are dressed in full lolita.
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I really want to be your best friend.
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In first or second grade I made a girl my servant and I would force her to do shit for me and eat snacks off the floor. In fifth grade, I got in trouble with the principal for punching too many people. In seventh grade I used to carry a mallet around in my backpack to threaten people with, and I would make sharpened hair sticks to poke people with.
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>>6774958
It's a weird feeling, knowing that if you were just a few years younger your friend would probably be bullying you mercilessly and just think it's a game.

Your friend's previous actions in life doesn't affect yours now but you can't shake it off.
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>>6774649
>poisoned her coffee with soap
>poison
>soap

what
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>>6774649
>people had cellphones when you were in kindergarten
Shit how young are you sun.
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I've been on both sides of things.

I went through weird periods in elementary school where everyone loved me one year and would all hate me and gang up on me the next. During years where I actually had friends I would sometimes help other people gossip and conspire against each other so that I'd be left alone. On two separate occasions, once at 10 and once at 12, I provoked girls with massive vendettas against me into fighting me and I curb-stomped them both times. The only time teachers EVER intervened or did anything to actually help matters was when things got physical.

When I switched schools for middle school, everyone was giving me shit and put me at the end of the pecking order in grade 7 because I was in the middle of puberty and extremely emotional. I started fighting back HARD next year and me and the class clown were at each other's throats. Things only got resolved when the librarian guilt-tripped my class into submission and got them all to apologize to me.

By high school everyone was an asshole to each other. I was veeeery short-tempered and moody amongst friends and would often tell some of them to their faces how stupid they were acting. I was also being stalked by a male dancer in my year who kept being fake-friendly by teaching me how to dance but I just smiled and nodded my way through any interaction with him because his bullshit was obvious and I was too lazy to fight him about it.

I've also been pretty fucking awful to my family in the past, however they've also been pretty fucking awful to me in the past so it's everyone's fault.
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>>6775151
I have that phenomena with a lot of friends, that if we met in just slightly different circumstances I would absolutely loathe them. I think in a lot of ways those are the best though, it's good to be around people very different from yourself.

I can understand why it would be unsettling for them to remind you of the people that used to bully you, though.
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There was this new article a while back about writing letters 'apologising to teachers'.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/education/2012/oct/23/dear-sir-im-sorry-apology-former-teachers

Teachers get a lot of shit. When I was ten or so we all bullied this little teacher. He didn't deserve it, he was just a crap teacher we found boring. I hope his next class were better.

I've never really bullied anyone else, I'm the bullied. I used to be a vicious cunt about this when I was a teenager though and took a lot of it out on my boyfriend for a while. I feel really bad about that, he was Bi Polar and I sometimes just couldn't take looking after him and dealing with my own shit so I'd say hurtful things and watch him cry. I snapped out of it and was the best fucking girlfriend in the world for two years after, though.
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>>6775179
Not that guy. In the mid-to-late nineties and early 2000s, cellphones were beginning to boom, I believe.

I don't recall noticing a whole lot of cellphones until middle school and I'm 18.
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The only bullying I did was in high school.

Our group was the otakus and weebs, and we all sat together and got along relatively well. We did have a Mormon at our table who came from a strict family that was just beginning to loosen its restraints. She loved Fullmetal Alchemist to death and was a total sweetheart, but was squeamish about sexual topics, crude language, etc. We also had an obnoxious prick (Dick, I'll call him) that everyone hated but who still sat with us. He was funny sometimes, but mostly he was annoying, especially his high-pitched voice. We just couldnt get rid of him.

Well, one day, he took his joking too far. I was leaning over the Mormon girl's shoulder to look at her drawing of Envy, which honestly wasnt that bad. Dick saw it too and started going off on a rant. It began with insulting her drawing but then it moved onto bashing her religion and damning her to hell for being so conservative. He actually made her cry.

I got furious with him and grabbed him by the collar of his shirt. I hoisted him up a little bit and told him to shut the hell up. He was scared speechless, and after comforting our Mormon 'til she stopped crying, I turned to the rest of the group, declaring that all religious discussions were hereby banned from the table. Everyone agreed. I ran the group with an iron fist when I wanted to.

Dick was quiet for a while and no one even looked at him. He eventually left and didnt return to the table for a few days. When he did, he immediately apologized to the Mormon, then he looked at me and he didnt sit down at the table until he got a nod of approval from me.
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>>6775189
That's true, if you just hang out with your own clones you're going to get a very insular view of the world.

Thanks for understanding anonymous, it's nice knowing it makes some sort of sense to someone. My other friend has never been bullied so she just didn't get my feelings.
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Still works out to that poster being pretty underage, unless their teacher had one of these bricks.
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>>6775192
When I was in an after school Chinese school, the class a grade above ours bullied the teacher into leaving. It was probably stuff like refusing to do work and being noisy, but one prank in particular they pulled was putting peanut butter on the stair railings.
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Bullied my math teacher in 8th grade with my whole class, we were divided by skill level and we were the lowest delinquent class. It looked like the classroom in Gokusen not even kidding, Korean boys playing WoW, Japanese girls reading Popteen and painting their nails, Japanese boys sleeping, reading manga and eating lunch in class, some Finnish people doing whatever they do in another corner. We never listened to her class, threw paper around, watched movies, confused her about test and homework dates. We made her cry about 3 times that year. Whenever we had test results handed back to us we'd applaud people who got 0's and boo anyone with higher than a 4/7.

Also once wrote a sonnet to my aspergers English teacher and read it out at the end of the year, basically calling her out for being an incompetent bitch and how she thought she was hot shit but nobody liked her. She ran out crying, had to write an apology so I wrote it in the form of an acrostic spelling out "FUCK YOU".

cont.
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>>6775199
I didn't get a cellphone until I was 16. I'm 22 now.

dat poster so jailbait
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>>6775276

There was also a slutty 8th Polish 8th grader, let's call her Natalie, at my boarding school, it was a tiny place with about 200 students from Kindergarten up to 12th grade. I was always a leader and pretty popular there, and being a 10th grader made me pretty powerful. Was friends with all the 8th grade boarders and made them ostracize Natalie, called her names to her face, and openly glared at her whenever she came close to my table. Invited all her friends and roommates to my room so Natalie had nobody to hang out with, and pulled strings with the boarding staff to stick her in a room with another fat dirty Taiwanese girl that nobody liked.

But that bitch had it coming, dirty (almost never showered or washed her hair, even though we lived in a tropical country and they did sports every day), self-centered, always borrowed her roommates things like swimsuits and tshirts but never washed them before returning them. Left her used pads on the bathroom sink OPEN, shaved her legs and her cooch on the bed, no shaving cream or anything, and our rooms weren't allowed to be locked during the day so basically anybody could walk in and see her nasty shit. Bad BAD BO even though she was aware of it and her roomies tried to make her use deo she just never did. Also a huge drama mongerer and would storm out on the littlest things and always play woe is me such a victim to the staff.

She left for another school, but now that I've graduated she's back again. Urgh.

>>6775286
Idk I remember the huge motorola ones in the late 90s - early 2000s, and if they were in kindergarten (3 - 6 y'o) that would make them easily 17+ at least.
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>Be 12 year old fat kid, super big nerd
>No friends
>Decided to become a bully because that's what fat loners do
>This one girl always dressed up, sort of looked like lolita looking back at it
>She sees that I like reading comic books and tries to befriend me.
>I squirted ketchup on one of her white dresses.
>Kids laugh, I make friends with other bullies.
>She cries and we never talk again.

I wonder what would have happened if I wasn't such a dick... I have a few other stories of bullying people, and one where I beat up another bully, but it wasn't for anything righteous.
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>>6775303
Well, that's gross, but you sound like a bitch. Why do you care so much?
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>>6775310
It was a tiny school, about 50 female boarders in total from G7 - 12 so we were all pretty close. Natalie also bullied her roomies (took their stuff, used their makeup without permission etc.), once we found a huge pile of mildewy, half rotten clothes under the sink that she'd borrowed and never returned.
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Did in middle school to this girl who started some shit with me and didn't know what she was getting into.

I was a TA for one of her teachers, so every time I saw any papers by her I'd just take them out and throw them away. She ended up failing the class because of me.
Also did the usual keep everyone away from her and make her hated as fuck. Most people disliked her in the first place, but I'd get these really long, intense convos going on about how shit she was. She would try and come and hang out with our group and lunch and stuff, and we'd let her, but totally shut her out or make really thinly veiled snarky comments about her. She stayed friendless and hated for a good two years, until I just didn't give a fuck about her anymore.
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>>6775361
That's fucking disgusting.
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>>6775371
Well you're a little shit.
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you're fucking terrible people
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In elementary school I bullied a kid who I caught touching his junk in the library. Made him cry.
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I kind of bullied this one girl my last year of high school. I was going through a lot of shit that year and was super depressed and suicidal so making her feel bad kind of let me blow of steam. She was so obnoxious though I don't even feel bad. She was the kind of person that does the whole 'humble brag' thing. "omg the university I want to go to is so expensive my parents had to take out a mortgage on our second house :(' shit like that /all the time/
I wasn't too bad to her though, compared to some of the stuff the anons in this thread did lol I was just mean to her whenever I could be and acted like she was an idiot even though she got into a better school than me and had better grades lol
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I bullied this poor guy in my 8th grade class. I think he has something wrong with him and he was really easy to set off. I made him cry a few times and this other kid had to tell me to stop the last time I did it because I was seriously antagonizing him. I feel bad about it to this day.

I'd apologize to him if I saw him again
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I kinda bullied one kid in fifth grade. He was kinda derpy, the one who had dorky shoes though his knowledge on pokemon was unparalleled because he was a huge fucking dork. Of course everyone loved Pokemon because it was fucking fifth grade and pokemon was the cool thing, but this kid was basically the aspiest in the class about it. I was the second aspiest, so I think I just saw him as a threat to my status as pokemon master (except I wasn't as fucking awkward as he was. He had a stutter). Most of the time I would just tease him about his shoes or try to call him out on not knowing his shit whenever he talked about pokemon too much. I'd get the class to turn against him pretty easily too.

Once the class was playing hangman, and he was the one who got to choose the word. He chose "Togepi" and once we figured out the first letter was a T and that it was a pokemon, we immediately thought "Tauros," which was wrong. When we finally figured out what the fuck it was, the class was quiet until I blurted out "It's not 'Togepi,' you idiot, it's 'Topegi!'" and the entire class chimed in agreement and teased him for being a tryhard.

We got along better in middle school, even though I was still a bullheaded idiot.

I happened to run into him again by pure chance a couple years ago. He had grown up to be a pretty defensive, embittered, 3edgy5me individual and honestly, I feel like a lot of it was due to me being a fuckwit when I was younger. Thank god he didn't actually develop some deeper psychological complex or something, but I feel like maybe he could've been a more agreeable person if I hadn't constantly been trying to outcast him when we were younger. It's a mild case, but I feel like a fucking ass about it anyway.
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>>6775404
Maybe so, but god this girl deserved it. Tried to pull some alpha bitch move on me, and that just wasn't going to fly.
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A dude was dating a girl I sorta knew, tangentially; ended up raping her then dumping her, called her a whore, made all his friends shun her and shit, essentially made everyone she knew hate her.

When I was finished with him, he'd vanished from his online communities, attempted suicide, ran away from home, and last I heard he was in a mental hospital.

No regrets.
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>>6775555
Based as fuck quads.
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>>6775555
Hey, you're on the same boat as me then! Except the guy I did that to actually killed himself, but no one really cared. Some people just don't deserve to live.
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>>6774425
>actually believing this
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>>6774968
you sound very unproffesional jfc
grow up
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>>6775577
Do you hear yourself talking... or do you just not care?
Some of you are major sociopaths and it kind of scares me.
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>>6775008
i dunno man like why would you even hold onto that for so long
they obv were already paying for their wrongdoings, you're just dragging yourself down too and making yourself look bad as well instead of this hero you seem to think you are
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>>6775078
>slams head into a locker
>just flirting
what the fuck, that pos does not need to be running a school holy shit
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>>6775577
Quads here - I probably would have felt bad if he went through with it. Hopefully now he's getting the help he needs and won't hurt anyone else.

Although no one should lose sleep about rapists dying, really.
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>>6775417
agreed
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I never thought I was a bully but when I was in school there was this one kid who got expelled for keeping a list of people he wanted to kill. My name was on the list more than once so I must have don't something to piss him off.

Then when I was in the reserve defense force some guy with the same last name as me left his bunk in a mess. I got mistaken for him because of the names and was ordered to go back and clean it.
I was pissed off so I went through his stuff and threw his beret and rank markings out the window.
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Spent first to sixth grade being pushed around by everyone as I was timid as fuck and the shortest, skinniest guy in class. Came back after summer to seventh grade, and was suddenly tallest in my class. At the same time my parents had a pretty rough divorce which made me angry at everything. Ended up giving the first guy who tried to bully med a concussion by slamming his head into the lockers. Noone dared doing anything openly again. Pretty much everyone except two nerds ignored me for the last three years.
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I was bullied all through primary school (I was shy, smart enough to get good grades but not smart enough to know to hide it, and ugly to boot)
Then in 6th grade I dropped my pencilcase and a younger girl picked up and wouldn't give it back to me. She was a really snotty little brat about it, you know "make me" "what are you gonna do about it" and all that. I decided that I was not taking this from some little shit two years younger than me as well, so I pushed her down the stairs. It was just a few steps, so she didn't get injured.
She was my punching bag for the rest of the year. Everything that was done to me, I did to her to vent. It's pretty much the only reason I survived that year, and I finally understood why the other girls were so horrible to me in the first place: it's really fun.

She even tried to rat me out and no teachers would believe her because I was the good quiet girl that was always just reading in the corner.
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>>6775700
The mix-up wasn't his fault though, I doubt he'd have weaseled out of his own punishment by choice.
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>>6775804
I can't condone what you did, I feel you should have stopped after you showed her you wouldn't stand for it. But whatever.

Had a similar situation aged 14. This short-ass class clown had been bullying me and my friends all year. We were goths so we were used to it, but he was a very short, freckly boy so he'd rag on any loser he could to stay afloat. I could ignore him throwing heavy things at me but then he started on my shy friend too. the next lesson he was talking shit I just walked over to him with my pencil tin (Ruby Gloom, duh) and smacked him around the face with it. The teacher was stunned at having to send her best behaved student to the Head Teacher, because I bust his lip. He never stopped calling me names, but there was no more physical bullying.
My Mother made me write a letter of apology though so it wouldn't go on my record. Kind of sucked even though I understood the point.

I wish I'd done something clever and gotten him into real trouble rather than just losing it and looking like a psycho.

> damn this is OT
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>>6775856
>I can't condone what you did

I don't care.
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>>6775864
I didn't say "you're wrong", I said what my feelings were. I even used the worlds "I feel".
Gawsh.
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I don't really bully people, and I don't really get bullied all that much. People who bullied me tend to find out the hard way that quiet girls who read a lot tend to get really creative when it comes to fighting back.
I only tend to mockingly bully people I actually like, but it's never outright hurtful, and it's only done to friends.

>>6775245
Man, when I was in school, our Chinese teachers get the worst stuff happen to them. I never participated since it wasn't like I actually listened in classes, but now man I feel bad for what teachers go through, y'know? Dealing with nasty, bored little shits like us.
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This girl in middle school passed around a rumor that I had contagious diseases that made people ugly and it transfered thru germs. . . my peers at the time believed it and it was actually pretty funny the lengths my classmates would go to avoid me. Not sure what was that girs problem with me but I was just friends with her crush or something. I did hang out with a lot of guys who lived in my area in middle school.

Wasn't like she could physically bully me and I found the situation funny.
>bullying fail?
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>>6775835
true, i'm not proud of it.
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>>6774936
Stop posting Fatcone. No one likes you; it doesn't matter whether you trip or not.
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>>6775603
are you serious

why would you expect someone who's getting bullied by a co-worker to act professional, they're not acting professional so why the hell should you
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All fake stories ITT. Girls don't bully, girls are angels. Only men bully.
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>>6774425
Awkward nerds try to cover their history as an outcast by saying all this YEAH I BULLIED THIS ONE KID TO DEATH FOR FUN YEAH I'M SUCH A BADASS DON'T START SHIT WITH ME crap. It's pretty transparent. Yeah, so, you said mean things to an emotionally fragile teen and made her cry, what's your point? Anyone who's graduated high school isn't impressed with it anymore. It's like vallelator bragging about his violent nature to cover up that he's a worthless waste of air.
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>>6776043
Not sure if you're a moron or just didn't read my post.

cracked.com/blog/5-life-lessons-from-former-mean-girl/

Bullying is a completely natural thing where the Alpha kids establish themselves over the weak losers of society. Literally the best kind of people that were ever born would bully losers because it's for the better of everyone.
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In elementary school, basically the whole class bullied this one girl who crossed the most popular, bitchy girl by telling her she "wouldn't take her nonsense". I was part of the bullying and I think I was the first one to call out the fact that she wore the exact same clothes every day. Looking back, it's because she was poor. We made her cry once or twice, as well, and she changed schools after a year of our bullshit.
The weird part is that I and like 2 other girls were actually friendly with her specifically when school was over.
In middle school my friends didn't like this one girl so we constantly shit-talked her and I said she had Histrionic Personality Disorder (she actually had ADD/ADHD and took meds for it).
I think that's it. I've never actually instigated any bullying, but I was still a shithead who joined in from time to time.
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In high school, I once hacked the accounts of a girl that used to get posted here a lot and made her think it was one of her friends for literally no other reason than that I could.

One of the very, very few moments I look back on in complete shame.
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>proven to be retarded
>STOP POSTING [insert trip here] NO ONE LIKES YOU

Yeah ok buddy.
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>itt: hurrdurr i was totes hardcore and everyone kissed the ground i walked on

I never bullied anyone because I was the fat, ugly girl growing up. I was very distant but at times I was bullied or just plain ignored. I always had this delusion that once I grew up and stopped attending public school that things would change. That I was just surrounded by immature idiots. Unfortunately the adult world is just as filled with shallow, snarky people. I also quickly learned that I am actually not pretty at all and it just wasn't because the guys my age were 'stupid'. I think my worst year of 'bullying' was my senior year of highschool. I didn't have any friends or a date to go to prom with. I literally had to be set up by my mom with a friend of the family's son because I would have otherwise been completely alone at prom (no date or friends). People didn't bully me outright but I could hear them whispering or making faces as I walked by. It was never anything physical. But it was very lonely.

Now I'm learning not to be as distant anymore and I don't take shit from anyone. I'm also learning that I'm pretty? My boyfriend makes it a point to remind me everyday, so I'm grateful.
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I've been on both ends of the coin.

As a bully:
Up until grade 2-5 I was one of the popular girls in my school. There were a few girls that would shadow us, desperately tried to fit in, but we would snub them pretty hard. Our usual game was to play "Hide-and-Seek" where we would tell the girls to close there eyes and we would hide- to which we just ran away and left them behind. Watching them from a distance as the walked away dejected, realizing what we had done, there was a brief moment of pleasure. Not gunna lie, we actually made a few girls leave the school because the way we acted. And I don't remember how, but even at that age I managed to get slapped in the face a few times for being too blunt/rude. Made a few girls fall to their knees crying and I would just leave them there.

Gained some sense of morality when I reached the end of grade 5 and the group I was with started playing getting too extreme for my tastes; both in sexuality and social cruelty. I started hanging out with some kids that were the type to play imaginary games and laugh at those who tried teasing them for being kids.
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>>6776117
As the bullied:
In grade 8 I started dressing a bit differently. I had a few girls throw money at my feet and tell me to buy myself some new clothing instead of the rags I wore.

My sister was well known for falling in with the wrong crowd- we lived in a small town -and there was no doubt people knew when she began running away from home. Now there were two boys who sat in the back of the school bus. One was a boy who I had a crush on for quite a few years and the other was his skinny little friend, well, they began talking about my sister and calling her a whore. The skinny one looked me in the eye when I turned around and told me she was probably rotting in a ditch somewhere. I lifted him by his collar and told him that if he ever spoke that way again he would regret it. He called me a psycho, but he never did speak shit about my sister again after that incident.

High school was a bit worse in the beginning. A gang of boys spat on me and called my friend and I faggots (I'm a girl, but I had a male friend with me who was often called gay) and freaks. Sadly, one of the guys who initiated it was a friend from my drama class. Before it began I smiled and waved, one of his friends asked if we knew each other and he said no.

For a few years in high school this one guy believed I had a crush on him, no idea why, but he would call me a pig and who gather his friends to say lewd things to me mockingly. Very childish, but it escalated eventually to the point where I was becoming very frustrated. I found out that his girl friend had told him crap about me so I walked into her one day annddd yeah. We got into a bit of a fight, but it all ended well /cgl/ because I drop kicked the bitch and ripped out a clump of her weave. Aw yeah
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Never really bullied anyone, but got bullied. Rightfully so too, because I was a creepy little weeaboo shit back then who freaked out half my school. So can't really blame them on that.

I think the closest I have ever gotten to bullying is constantly making fun of shitty gaiaonline RPs. If I'm cosplaying, I try not to make fun of others while they cosplay because I'm new to this shit and I really have no right in telling someone their cosplay's shit when mine is too you know? So I just try to give crit and move on and take others failures into myself and get better that way and shit.

Sorry for being boring.
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>>6775804

Sounds like a battered housewife who keeps returning to an abusive husband.
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I was bullied a lot in middle school. I thought it was because I was quiet and a little weird and made an easy target, but looking back on it, it was only ever girls who were mad that the boys they liked wanted to date me. I was pretty clueless about boys and that sort of thing at the time and never dated any of them, partially because the girls were so mean to me. One shared a class with me, and she got the whole class laughing at me and calling me a bitch and a slut while the teacher was out of the room. I had probably spoken three words to maybe four people in that room before, that's how shy I was, and I had to go to the bathroom and cry for the rest of the hour. Wahwah. That girl's fat and works at a Walgreens now. I have a fantastic boyfriend and am hoping to go to grad school next year.

I was a bully once, though. A new girl in town was admittedly quite obnoxious and hard to be around, but I was so incredibly mean to her because everyone else was doing it. All she ever was was nice to me (at least to my face), and she told me one day that she'd found some of the things I wrote about her and had cried over them. I felt so bad when I realized how horrible I'd been, and I apologized and have never bullied anyone ever again. I feel so guilty now I'm almost tempted to look her up just to apologize again.
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>>6776107
>proved
I hate to break it to you, but just because you got proof from a doctor that you're mentally retarded does not mean we have to tolerate you.

You're pretty much the worst poster on 4chan.
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>>6776048
>taking cracked seriously

there's your problem faggot
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I feel so honored.
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I was bullied until a few years ago because I was awkward and I didn't have any friends, it was a very sad period for me.
Then all of a sudden it all stopped, I can talk to people now and I'm less awkward, feels good and I'm hardly ever sad, I feel like a ray of sunshine 24/7, every day is wonderful.
I couldn't stand being a bully even if there are times when I feel like beating someone up with a baseball bat , pushing said person down stairs and other things, but it only lasts for a couple of minutes and then I forget about it, also I'd probably feel awful afterwards plus people probably wouldn't expect that from me and the last thing I'd like to do is isolate myself again so this is just one fo those thoughts that I try to avoid.
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I was bullied pretty badly in elementary school. We were poor and I wore a lot of cheap clothes and hand-me-downs. My momma dressed me funny, and when I was a little older, I had no idea how to dress myself. I was also introverted and fairly awkward. It wasn't that I didn't try to make friends, as I've always been friendly and personable. I'm just weird. So automatically, I was targeted. It was pretty miserable. I got it pretty bad in 7th and some of 8th grade. By high school, I worked hard on trying to fit in. And despite still being awkward and having some annoying people from my elementary school days in classes with me that tried to be assholes, it really wasn't too bad.

I haven't really been bullied per-se since then. I've gotten pictures of me posted online in bad cosplay threads since IDK, 2001-2002 simply for being chubby and not a 10/10, and making my first costumes in a time where there wasn't a ton of resources available. But fuck them. I'm older now, have my life in order, and if someone tries to be an idiot now, I'd just laugh at them. Like, really? What are you trying to accomplish other than wasting your time?
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OK, two stories
I've never really been a bully to anyone, but the first one is me snapping back _real big_ when I was bullied in elementary school. The second is sort of a funny middle school one.

>6th grade, we have to sign up to check out those red rubber balls to use at recess
>those rubber balls were the shit
>finally get one checked out to me
>two girls (one was sort of a friend, the other I didn't really know) snatched the ball from me
>played keep away with me
>finally start crying, ask them to just give the ball back
>they keep at it, laughing and shit
>I fucking snap
>bite the other girl, Anne I think, really damn hard on the arm
>literally draw blood
>realize what happened, apologize, get her to say she won't tell on me
>bell rings, go back to class
>faculty comes in sometime later and calls me to the principal's office
>she suspends me for two days (I spend the time watching TV and shit since single mum worked during the day)
>come back the next Monday
>everyone stays the fuck away from me, district institutes zero tolerance policy

So I went to a middle school in a different district to avoid fall out from that
>we have scoliosis exams in 7th grade
>nurse tells all us girls to take off our shirts so we're just in our bras
>very slow to develop, have zero reason to wear a bra at this point
>not even mosquito bites here
>take off shirt anyway
>our middle school's Sassy Black Girl comes up to me after school
>"Hey anon, I hear you ain't got no chi-chis"
>dramatic snaps and mmm-hmmm gurrrrrl included
>what

I've made a few snide comments about people's costumes behind their backs, but it's never been someone I know. Guess that's something.
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Anyone in this thread defending bullying is among the scum of the earth. Kids fucking kills themselves over it (although I'm sure all you Edgy McEdgersons out there will reply with something immature and cliche about how that's either funny or no1curr) or worse, end up like the people who frequent this website.
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I friendzoned a weeb guy and then told everyone and their mother about it. I'm pretty sure I ruined his chances of being friends with a lot of people back then.

I feel really bad about it because he's a cool guy now and didn't deserve that. I still wouldn't date him, but it was no one else's business that he had asked me out.
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>>6776319
I don't think anyone was defending it. From what I read, it seems like people either feel remorse or don't. It isn't like they've condoned or promoted the act.
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>>6776336
I didn't read the whole thread, but there was someone who flat out said bullying should be shamed.
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Recently?
Sometimes I make a few secrets directed towards some uppity girls in my lolita comm.
I justify it by saying that they think they're hot shit and are drama cows, but really I know it's not a good reason to actually hurt someone's feelings.
Really the fact that I say anything directed towards them at all just validates their victim complexes and won't make them change for the better. I need to stop that.

Oh and a few months ago I posted some really good wank on this one girl from the local cosplay comm. She actually showed up in the thread and made an idiot out of herself.
I really dislike her, and I quite honestly don't know how the fuck people like her manage to have friends.
She's like:
>wahhh I was bullied in middle school for my eyebrows and bullies r mean QQ
But then she'll upload pictures of ugly or fat people and mock them. Or if she's in a fight with another girl she'll say how small her tits are, or how fat or ugly she is. It's like, make up your mind about attacking people for their physical looks, bitch.
>makes a million statuses about how she's foreveralone
Even though she hangs out with friends and her boyfriend almost every single day. And I admit I kind of project this hatred towards her because I truly am alone everyday and her saying that makes me want to slap her.
>says how she thinks she's sooo ugly but then posts a bajillion pictures of herself with generous amounts of cleavage
Bitch, you either hate how you look or you don't. If she were truly so embarrassed with how she looks then she wouldn't be posting two to six pictures of herself a day looking for asspats from guys.
I can't believe she takes titty shots and pictures of herself in the bath for FB when she's got a bf.
>always complains about her problems for asspats
Oh and then if someone gives her legit advice and tells her that livin' ain't easy, she'll freak the fuck out. I wish people wouldn't give her the attention at all and let her go seek a therapist.
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>>6776344
>>6776344
There's reasoning behind every action, whether it seems logical or not, and it is hard for outsiders to understand at times. The thing to know is that there are two sides to every coin. I'm just surprised people are admitting what they've done and how they felt about it.
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I've never been bullied even though I was an easy target (quiet, kinda aspie about some anime, good grades, thought I was above everyone, no friends, you know the drill). I was ignored but never approached in a bad way. Didn't bully anyone either.
But I did watch others get bullied, and nowadays I think I could have helped them but at the time I didn't really care about them. I even laughed about it. I thought they were stupid for not standing up for themselves. I still kinda think so.
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I haven't bullied anyone, but I'm strongly thinking about getting back at my bullies. They all really like anime and to cosplay too. I'm planning on getting in shape and cosplaying all of the cosplays they have planned and are passionate about. I get giddy thinking about seing the look on their faces. This is still far off though, I need look amazing or it's not worth it. I have my own cosplay plans and it's always been a hobby of mine, but getting back at some of my bullies through it is an extra perk.
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>>6776243
Well go honor some little girl in your basement then.
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I was never a real bully, but people tried to bully me a lot and it never worked out for them. I was an awful person though. An awful, awful person to the people who wrong me. In the first few years of secondary school (ages 12-18 for our American friends) I looked like a really easy target. I was fat, had glasses and all my friends where goths/skaters/stoners. I was really poor so I couldn't afford any nice things. However, I was confident and had a healthy self-esteem so when people tried to pick on me, it never worked. I shrugged off their verbal attacks, shot down their little snide comments with "witty" comebacks. I was physically strong too so I never got beat on or anything.

However, if they didn't give up quickly, I made sure to make their lives a living hell. One boy used to verbally abuse me a LOT. He would always, always say shit to me when ever he saw me. He'd get his friends to throw basketballs at my in gym class, they would follow my friends around at lunch time harassing them, dumb shit like that. So I decided to do a little research. Our year was a small year so it was easy enough to find out shit about other people if you asked the right person. I found out his home-life was in a bit of a mess, apparently his older brother had killed himself and his parents had taken it really hard, etc. I almost felt sorry for him, but he'd been a bully long before it happened so I didn't really care. So every time he said something to me, my usual response would be "kill yourself". A few times I cornered him in the halls or outside the locker rooms and I'd tell him what a piece of shit he was, how he was useless, how he should just follow his brother's lead. Real fucking nasty shit, I was such a cunt. It worked though. At first he tried to retaliate but eventually I wore him down. He got kinda quite, started avoiding me. Eventually he got over it but he never started shit with me again.
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>Make a lot of friends in grade school
>Doesnt matter but I come from a HUGE family. They were either smaller families or single children families
>Puberty happens, I have hirsutism. Male friends leave me out of fear of "crushing on me" (y'know how it goes)
>Friends want to do things but I stay home because we don't have money to throw around.
>Become friends with Michelle, a spoiled single child to a single mother
>We become friends fast because of same interests
>She's a complete attention whore, very rude, so when you "offend"her she turns on you
>Get a wicked tummyache from drinking too much soda, don't answer her phone call
>Leaves me threatening voicemails
>Mom gives "i'm so sick of her shit" vibe but figures we're falling out so let it happen
>Michelle comes over with another friend later than week, yells at me that I'm a horrible friend and I can't do this and that with the group anymore
>other friend doesn't say much
>mom comes out and calmly says that she doesn't need to say such rude things infront of my baby brother and she needs to leave
>next day I get a mass e-mail telling ME to apologize because of my attitude and my mother's. I don't have anything to apologize for so I don't.
>School was a Hell because of Michelle's bullshit. Basic mass ignoring campaigns, intentional pushing and blocking, all my friends would move tables when I sat down, I'd eat lunch alone in the corner sometimes, things were thrown at me in class, steals my shit and burns it etc.
>Eventually one friend asks for the truth and all is well. Michelle is still a bitch.

Aside from a much later mentally abusive relationship, I'm kind of okay. Now just super depressed and paranoid. I had a falling out with the friends I went to HS with. The last time I saw Michelle, she was intentionally avoiding me and was friends with the exchange students because she's a shit person.
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The bullying at my primary school was kind of give-and-take. Once an older girl (a year or two above me and my friends) got pretty bitchy, telling us not to play in a blackberry bush at the bottom of the school field (several of them had hollowed-out bits in the middle, which generations of kids had used as secret bases). The next playtime I kept punching and chasing a girl from my class, who I thought was that girl's little sister (don't actually know if she was or not). The teacher kept asking me why I was hitting her afterwards, but I just sullenly clammed up, too ashamed to explain myself.
It was the same when I first started secondary school. I'd gotten into a "good" school in the big city many miles away. Because I came from the countryside I was pretty simple and backwards. I was also more childish. I suppose city kids are always out to 'prove themselves' 'against' the other schools in the area, but in my village there was only the one school we all went to. On my very first day I was showing my Pogs around, and most kids looked at me like I was from another planet. I found some guy who liked them, but this older kid came up and lectured us on the fact that "nobody has Pogs in THIS school".
In my first week I actually got into a fight with one of the biggest bullies / popular kids, but "went easy" because I didn't want to face the shame of getting sent to the headmaster in my first week. Later on in that year I jokingly told somebody I had a flying car, and it got around the form, and everybody started teasing me about it. Towards the end of the year I stopped giving a shit and played up to it. But by then the damage was done and I was an ultra-shy beta faggot, right at the bottom of the pecking order. In fact, when I was in year 10 this kid from year 7 walks up to me in the lunch hall and goes "your mum's a bitch" then just stands there grinning. Wat?
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I think the furthest I ever bullied anyone was just trolling them. That's it really. I've been bullied up to my sophmore year of high school when I started to fight back. Beat this one dude ass during math class. I think it was the second week of school and there was no fights up to me and him fighting (the year before there was about 7-13 fights in the just first week alone. All freshmen.)

Some ghetto blacker than some African nigger black tried to bully me at my job (she was doing it for a few weeks) and I got tired of it, grabbed a knife (but quickly threw it in the dirty dishes tub because things would had gone bad) and chased her. She hid in our boss's office like a little bitch.

When HR got involved, she told one of the HR reps she was actually scare that I was going to kill her and was fearful of her life because nobody had seen me that angry before.

Granted, I'm not proud of what I did (unlike some of you tryhard tough wannabe bullies bragging about how you don't care about picking on people. 2edgy4me) but shit, I had to do what need to be done!
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>>6776483
Now another time, it was a bunch of girls. They weren't even the popular girls, who were all very sweet, but seriously thought they were straight out of Mean Girls. They weren't, obviously, they were just trashy stuck-up bitches from better off families (my school was in a poor area) who liked to pick on the two "loser" girls. One was this slightly disabled girl called Katie who was really ugly but it wasn't her fault. The other was this really quite goth girl called Gemma who was a weeaboo but kept to herself, never did anything to anyone. They made Katie cry in the locker-room once, and a few of the other girls, including myself told them they were cunts for picking on a disabled girl. They kept picking on her, but they also started ragging on me and some of the other girls too. They would call me names, steal or hide my shit, put trash in my bag, cut little holes in my bag or even my clothes, spread rumours - you know, real petty shit like that.

So I decided to fuck with them in class. Like a lot of the loser outside kids, I was smart. I did exceptionally well in class, and almost all my teachers really liked me. Because of this, I could get away with a lot of shit (not doing homework, talking in class, generally fucking around - it was a poor school, if you got the grades and didn't stab anyone the teachers didn't really care about other stuff). The bully girls were a mixed bag - some bright, some dumb. They were generally middle of the road, but I made it my mission to destory their confidence in class. Every time the teachers asked them something, I'd scoff at their answer and give a better one - even if they'd given the right answer, I'd just say it better (well, excluding things like math class cause that doesn't work, obviously). If I heard them discussing the answers, I'd roll my eyes and talk to them like they were fucking morons. I gave other people the right answers if I knew it so it would seem like most of the class found it easy.
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I was bullied relentlessly during elementary and middle school. The kids just hated how I looked. I mean mind you I'll admit as a kid I was a little shit but nothing warranting constant hair-pulling, name calling, and general playground physical assault. The most I did to retaliate was kick and punch the kids, but it didn't shut 'em up. Eh, it's whatever though.

I find it ironic that the curls I used to get called "poodle" and "Jackson" (as in like Janet Jackson? Idk it was supposed to be an insult) and that shit are now admired by many. I used to straighten my hair every day to try to fit in, now everyone says "Your curls are gorgeous! Are those natural? Wow I'm so jealous!" and stuff. So here I am, in university, having blossomed into a beautiful swan while they all remain mediocre as ever. Feels good.

sage bc none of this is related to lolita or cosplay
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>>6776538
Oh my god!! It's the FOGWOGGLER!!
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>>6776524
...mind you, I did used to run between lessons making Millennium Falcon noises, loudly talk about Star Wars, or make "funny" sci-fi references nobody understood. Well, I wasn't the only sci-fi geek (it was mainly Wars, Trek, Warhammer etc in Britain back then, Anime was only just starting to 'arrive' in a noticable way, and was thought of as "adult") in the school / year, but the others had the sense to suppress their power level. Basically I was a walking episode of The Big Bang Theory. Fuck, I'm surprised I wasn't bullied MORE.
I was also a "spy", trying to bring down the bullies and fight for justice. Once two of the biggest bullies were going to have a fight, and loads of the others went to watch it. Me and my friends ratted them out to the teachers, and they all got lectured in the hall and hundreds of lines. We then denied it like cowards, and eventually they decided the culprit was another guy who was sort-of friends with us, but also a bit of a loner (he was the only bigger sci-fi geek than me too). But he had various health issues and went homeschooled shortly afterwards. He only turned up on odd occasions, years later. By then me and my friends were in an "anarchist" phase and wanted to make bombs and bring down the government. We also openly talked about how we were downloading porn off the internet, or watching it on illegal satellite channels (this was 1999/2000). He was one of the few 'proper' Christians in our supposedly Christian school, and shocked at how we'd changed.
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>>6776534
I would steal their homework, deface their books and desks so they'd get in shit. In art class, which was my favourite, I'd often stay late to finish projects and stuff. I'd wait until the teacher, a good friend of mine, left the room to go talk to other students who stayed later or whatever then I'd find the bitches' folders and make little changes to their work like adding a little bit more paint so it smudged, redrawing lines ever so slightly so shit looked wonky, sometimes I just hid shit so they'd get behind on their deadlines.

Out of a group of about six girls, it didn't work for all of them, some of them just pulled up their socks and tried harder in class to make up for it, but for a few it did. One girl got such a low grade in standard grade art because she had a bunch of unfinished shit she wasn't allowed to take the next year in Highers. Another girl's grade slipped badly enough that she had to take Intermediate 2 English instead of Higher English, which is basically useless if you want to go to university. One had her mother called up to the school because of the homework issue/defacing school property, etc. Some of the others were just constantly in shit with the teachers.

I don't know if they even knew it was me that was fucking with this so much, I never got in trouble for it. They probably just thought I was being a tremendous bitch in class, which I really was. I was horrendously petty about it, but it was quite fun.

Thankfully I've grown up a LOT since then. I'm in university now, and I look back and I cringe. I'm a lot mellower now, I can just shrug shit off, but I was a little shit.
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>>6773562 (OP)
I was at a panel, asked some guy who he was, he said Beat from Jet Set Radio. And then I said, yeah, I played the game, you look nothing like him.
It was a packed panel, he left 5 minutes after I said that.
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>>6776448
>Well go honor some little girl in your basement then.

Now that sounds like a plan! Care to fill in for the little girl? Come on! I'll feed you bi-weekly, but you can lick the cheeto dust from my fingers whenever you want.
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>>6776113
>boo hoo I didn't have a date to prom
That's like, the least of anyone's problems. If you don't have people to go to prom with, don't fucking go. It's not a big deal.
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I cut off a girl's pony tail in class in high school...She sat in front of me and always used to tease this nerdy chick..We had the same interest but I hide my power level and didn't look as unkept. I liked to think of myself as a "bully slayer" since I defended the under dog by harass girls who were "mean" but now I realize I was way way worse and a total hypocrite. I do feel bad about that particular incident since I know if someone did it to me at that age it would have broken my heart.
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I try to stay away from body-shaming, since people can't help their genetics. But when it comes to people who have been assholes to me online, I'll shamelessly repost their worst photos on every thread/reactions post I can find, and let others do the shaming for me. If you're stupid enough to post 300 selfies a day and start shit with me, then I'm going to use your vanity against you.

I'm nice to people who are nice to me. I don't give much of a shit about bad cosplay unless you're an asshole to boot. If you're a stuck-up dramawhore who picks fights and lies about me, then I'm going to share your most hideous cosplay photos/selfies and pass 'em around for mockery. Karma sucks, huh?

I like to think I'm teaching them a lesson about not being assholes, but I think in the end it's just revenge.
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>>6776514
>Male friends leave me out of fear of "crushing on me"
Oh you special snow flake... You're anon, you don't have to lie
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>>6777053
Same anon
>>6777058
I know your feel...That's how I justify it to. I don't do it often but if someone is a repeat offender of being a huge asshole I can't resist
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>>6777073
The most recent incident was after this cosplayer claimed I 'insulted her weight,' in her latest campaign for pity. No, I insulted her hideous wig, terrible makeup and ill-fitting dress which was five sizes too small, and her terrible attitude to boot. Enjoy your internet fame, asshole!

The best part: she supposedly 'went to the cops' to report me for cyber bullying, because she 'feared for her safety.' Strangely enough, she didn't fear for her safety enough to block me, change her SNs, or stop sending me snide little PMs! Here's the problem with posting 300 selfies a day, sweetcheeks: I know what you look like, but I could literally be anyone at the convention with you. Enjoy your paranoia!
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There was a really dykey looking girl a couple of grades higher than me in elementary school. People taunted her saying shit like "he's a she!!!!1111!!!!!" I joined in once. Never again. I still feel like crap for it.
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>>6775179
>>6775224
>>6775286
>>6775303
Can't any of you read?

They stole a teacher's phone, not a students.
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>>6777110
Surprisingly, the dyke-y-est girl in my middle school never got bullied. She came out as bisexual in eighth grade, dated a chick, came out as lesbian, dated two chicks at a time (with consent), then finally came out as trans and went on to become prom king. Shit's actually pretty impressive.
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>>6777092

....Does this girl's name start with A?
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>>6777214
Nah, G
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>>6777227
Gundula?
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>>6777170
I respect him
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>>6777273
... that's a name?! Nah, this chick isn't big into cosplay, only started a year ago. She's mostly popular because she hangs her tits out of shit-tier prom dresses and calls herself a pony gajinka. Most of her 'fans' are teenage neckbeards who shamelessly fap to her, and it's given her one hell of an inflated ego. She likes to go around and give 'comforting speeches' about how her self-esteem SOARED after she started hanging her tits out at every brony convention she could get to.


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