i see two itas

am i the only one who says it's not what you wear but how you wear it that makes you ita?
i mean, i only see 2 girls who are good looking loli's there. and since ita = outfit so bad it hurts my eyes only 2 aren't "ita" in that sense.
why people are so bent on wearing wigs, makeup, and outfits that make them look so frumpy is beyond me/

of course i'm aware i'm an ~elitist~ but honestly can you guys say ANY of those girls except the Asian holding the mic and the one to the far far far far left where you can only see her face and the top of her pink JSK look... "good"? their outfits are okay, but /they/ look bad.

IMO of course

>>5565781
That's because they're the only two facially attractive people there.

>>5565783
i disagree, but i do think they're the only two wearing wigs appropriate for their faces.

>>5565781
Congratulations, you just became a member of the pixie_late fanclub.
... (the asian.)

And Charms makes this thread all about herself in 3...2....1...

Tania is so beautiful it hurts to look at her.

I still don't get the big deal over p_l. And no, I'm not a jelly fatty. I think she's cute and has nice coords every now and then, but her eyes bug me too much!

>>5565928
No. She is /cgl/'s Skyqueen. You just don't understand her sheer perfection.

>>5565933
>wahwah you don't like what i like

>>5565928
I don't have any problems with p_l but I am amazed that she almost gets no hate. I can only remember one hate thread about her and I find her to be less attractive than some other lolitas who get bashed here. My honest opinion and if people think she's absolutely gorgeous, who am I to say that they're wrong?

>>5565937
>>5565937
Don't be jealous because you can't learn from her angelic presence.

>>5565928
She just honestly looks like every other Asian girl to me. Nothing special.

>>5565940
>>5565940
It's because she's a genuinely sweet person, she doesn't have any immature drama mongering traits that so many lolis have.

>>5565952
And herajika is a raging bitch who deserves all the hate? How about no.

>>5565952
you must be new here.

>>5565952
while charms, chokelate, victoria suzanne, annie may, have had moments that people can point out to that make them hated but cgl still has not brought up any proof that herajika or jahr are the bitches that cgl claims to be. they seem just as sweet as pixie_late but they get the brunt of the bashing whereas everyone loves pixie_late. to get cgl's favor, do you only have to be considered pretty? i am still surprised that the majority of cgl finds her pretty because i find her to look average as well.

>>5565961
I didn't say that. I've never bothered reading any Herajika threads, so I don't know why people talk trash about her. Maybe it's because she does things like asking for to stay at a stranger's house for free on EGL. It could be seen as pushy or something. I don't know about jahr at all.

>>5565968
What's that supposed to mean?

>>5565928
I think she looks very pretty in her outfit shots and then I see a close up and go "NOPE". This picture of her scares the crap out of me.

I think that the lolitas in op's picture look pretty decent. I've seen groups of people who looked worse so this is a very good group shot.

>>5565984
You're getting your people mixed up there.

>>5566008
Ah
Shows how little I know about them I guess.

>>5565629
holy crap there are a lot of sweet lolitas there.

cgl, do you think that sweet is the most popular style or does it get more attention because it pops out more. if there was somehow to do a survey of every lolita and the styles they wore, i would like to know if sweet really is the most popular and dominant.

I find that /cgl/ has such a narrow view of pretty.

>>5565980
People are jelly of herajika and jahr and there is nothing more to that. herajika is as drama-free as a lolita can be and people hated jahr before she even did couch surfing requests. I still don't get why people got angry over that unless they do not know what couch surfing is. Both lolitas have been very friendly to me and I am not popular in any way so they did not have anything to gain by being nice. pixie_late has been very kind to me too so I just don't get why anyone would be mad about these girls except for jealousy.

It's so weird that lolis bash other lolis for not being 'pretty' enough when most lolitas are homely looking. Anyway, I don't give a shit if some stranger on the internet is ugly.

>>5566020
Care to elaborate? All I can say is that cgl goes "I SAY SHE IS UGLY SO SHE IS UGLY." and refuses to understand that people have different views of beauty.

This is going to sound weird, but does anyone know how much P_L weighs?
She looks tiny in that fairy kei photo.

>>5566031
>Anyway, I don't give a shit if some stranger on the internet is ugly.

My thoughts exactly. Although on one lolita thread, someone said that "ugly" lolitas should not post because they don't want to see their pictures online *rolls eyes* Such entitlement.

>>5566039
Not sure why my name is sage there. Derp.

>>5566039
I'd say somewhere between 90 to 110 lbs. This is eyeballing and I doubt that anyone knows how much she weighs except her and her doctors.

>>5566045
That's good enough, I guessed at 100 or so myself. Thanks!

>>5566001
Whoever took that photo made p_l's face color the color of my least favorite marker: the nasty light poopy green brown.

Curious but...

have any of the famous lolitas had ita phases? They all look so gorgeous and well dressed. I never saw a truly ita coordinate from pixie, charms, chokelate, jahr, or herajika.

>>5566060
now i want to know this too. anybody have the first coordinates that those lolitas did?

>>5566017
I think sweet is more commonly worn than many other styles when it comes to meetups and other lolita gatherings. For one, it's relatively eye-catching and very easy to start with, since sweet brands tend to be easy to buy from and produce full sets of accessories for all their pieces. And for another, there's a very pervasive perception (stronger in some communities than in others) that less mainstream styles such as punk, sailor, wa, and old-school are less lolita than sweet, or not lolita at all and are instead cosplay. When you're a lolita going to hang out with other lolitas, you want to put your best foot forward and you don't want anyone to walk up and start telling you that you're an ita. So you stick with what's safe and easy which is, in most cases, sweet.

>>5566060
FAMOUS LOLITA ITA PICTURES? YES PLEASE. I only have pixie_late though :(

Another pixie_late.

See lolitas, you have hope! Everyone can look good with a little more effort and trial and error.

>>5566071
p_l's first post was with this awful set of red and green bloomers. She was cute, the outfit was not.
http://daily-lolita.livejournal.com/1841671.html

The images are gone in herajika's first post but IIRC she wasn't as strong with hair, makeup, and accessories as she is now. Her outfits were extremely simple and while they were cute for 2007 they weren't as interesting as they are now.

>>5566104
SHE LOOKS LIKE ELEXIEL GRAE HOLY SHIT.

>>5566060
Here is herajika. I am very glad that she discovered make up and wigs because they do wonders for her. She looks cute here but the wigs and make up make her look much better and more glamorous.

No pictures of chokelate, charms, or jahr though.

>>5566149
CANNOT UNSEE.

So sniper_nyan made another account? http://egl-comm-sales.livejournal.com/17853872.html

>>5566228
I don't keep up with sniper drama but how do you know it's her? I dislike her trolling but I've bought from her before and never had a problem with her. But that doesn't mean she'll do something and I wouldn't put it past her to do some crappy shit.

>>5566234

because she has the exact same milk skirt picture on her blog

>>5566238
laughed so hard at the arrow.

and the gothic girl you circled. she will forever be the one i remember as "the gothic lolita who has bowel problems".

>>5566348
Actually, I didn't know that about the gothic one.

Oh well, you know, haha medical problem! SO HILARIOUS!

Arrows? Medical problems? Man, bless us with your wit and sophisticated humor!

>>5566368
i wouldn't have cared about her medical problems if she didn't act like such a dick about them and telling the whole world how she has bowel issues therefore she completely understands everyone's issues rather than understanding that just because she can control her problems better doesn't mean everyone else can.

>>5566348

Wha? Details?

>>5566228
Isn't she supposed to be perma-banned? Did you report her?

>>5566238
Whoa. Girl circled, in red and black. I saw her at Japan Matsuri last summer and she's gotten WORSE. How the fuck? Every new loli I met around that time has improved MASSIVELY, this is shocking.

>>5567556
Like, at Japan Matsuri, she was wearing what looked like an RQ-BL dress with no blouse or petti. I thought that maybe that was just because she was new and because it was a really hot day, but nope, seems not.

I think the thing about p_l is that she's not too pretty, so that the jelly fatties here hates her, but she's definitely not ugly either and her coords are pretty good, so people can't complain about that either. She don't create drama either.

>>5567556
She has been into "lolita" forever but she doesn't care to improves. She is the speshul snowflake type who thinks that she is doing it her own way and is rad! And I am saying all this cause she is an unbearable person too.

>>5567567
Oh lawd. One of those. She looks really young so I just assumed she didn't know any better.

>>5567569
lol, nope.jpeg

She's really old. I have her on facebook and I keep getting invites to all these fetish events.

Not who you were replying to by the way
>sage because I hate talking about people on here, but this woman just really pisses me off.

>>5567569
the one in red x black and mini top hat? nah she is mid to late twenties i think.

>>5567576
Thiiiiiiiiiis. Lemme say I have no problem whatsoever with people's fetishes. NONE. I don't mind if people dress according to their fetish publicly, or if they mention it, if they post pictures and all that. But this chick has no boundaries. It's like ok, we get it, you are into fetish stuff. I may be ok with it, but not everyone is, so stop trying to get them involved in the first 2 seconds that you met them. She and her bf always make lewd comments but I mean always, all the freaking time. It's not shocking and it's not funny, and it makes you look like an attention whore. Again, to clarify, I have no problem with more mature subjects or talking about sex. But meet this girl for a few seconds and she will immediately start talking about it, inviting you to fetish events, her bf will make a joke about what a big camera lens he has (har har) and all that shit.

>>5567576
>>5567585
I am friends with her on FB too and I find it hilarious how she fails at both lolita and fetish fashion. She has been into both for who knows how long, and she always looks like a cheap tart that got a costume from the local party store. Whether she is in lolita or fetish gear.

>>5567576
>>5567585
Oh, wow. I couldn't have been more wrong.

I like creative itas and whereas I think my more experimental outfits are nice, I'm sure people have circled me as the ita of the group. So, experimental loli = good. Then there's the people who somehow insist on taking every single ugly thing and fuse it to their bodies to somehow maximize the retard. These people tend to be really, really nice and it's hard to tell them that they're ugly as sin because you don't want to be mean.

Then there's terrible people who have the great idea of being full on itas so you feel totally justified in trying to get them to leave.

If a person is lovely but an ita, the niceness of the person always trumps their unforetunate coords. You can easily improve an outfit; the same can't be said about personality.

This is what she was wearing last year at HJ. I assumed that it was just a fusion thing and she wouldn't call it lolita, but when they called all the lolis on stage you can bet your ass she walked up there.

>>5567601
I don't mind people who experiment and once in a while they will wear something dreadful. That can be fun. What I mind is girls who claim they are lolitas, they have been lolitas since the ice age, and yet no one has ever seen them in an appropriate loli coord. At that point it is not "experimenting with lolita" anymore. At that point you just wanna wear whatever crap you like and you just wanna call it lolita no matter what. But I agree that if the pesron is nice, I probably wouldn't mind their clothes.

That's from last year as well, but it's the same dress as in OP's pic.

>>5567605
Oh... saw that, too. Eep.

>>5567608
Oh, I agree with you; lolita is a fashion and it is about a sense of style and experimentation. If you're going to stagnate, don't advertize it and dare hate on the ones who try something new. It's very frustrating when some lolis think that owning certain items do the trick and they don't need to think about it anymore. For instance, I've seen women throw on their brand items and said it was a coord because they were all from the same brand. No sense of style, no cohension, nothing. It makes me wonder why they're in the fashion if it feels like a chore for them to coordinate and come up with new concepts.

>>5565781
Ugh, why did you start tripping again? Save it for the Dakota threads, no one wants that bullshit.

First time on /cgl/ and I have to say you people are the most disgusting. You are so full of hate that you make /b/ look like a nice place.

>>5567644
Yes, I'm sure discussion of an outfit that is honestly ugly trumps gore threads and child pornography.

>>5567644
Are you by any chance the ita in the pic?

>>5567651
Except it isn't just a discussion about an outfit, people are being publicly driven in to the ground by these comments. If you really have to gossip and hate on others so much at least do it privately with your friends instead of slandering their name in a public place. Let others form their own opinions on people.

I'm not even saying it isn't true, maybe it all is but people will find that out easily enough for theirself if they met her. An online discussion board isn't the place for this type of conversation. This board is just a bunch of hate-mongerers, disgusting.

>>5567666
Wow, if your jimmies are that rustled by something as tame as this, you should really just leave /cgl/.

>>5567666
Have you read the thread or are you just moralfagging? If I got added by her and she kept inviting me to fetish events, I'd be pretty uncomfortable too, tbh. Saying OMG UR ALL MEAN BITCHES BECAUSE THIS THREAD IS MEAN is like saying everyone on /b/ is a pedophile because this one time, that had a cp thread.
I don't honestly understand why you're so mad about it, of course some people are going to have varying opinions, what do you want them to do, not post because it might offend you? I'm not saying everyone should bash on that girl all they want, but I'm also not saying everyone should be lovelies because I say so.

>>5567666

>buttdevastated ita detected

>>5567666

Just ignore them, they've long since forgotten what real human contact is like. They're now homo hikikomoro and all they can do is hate on those they envy.

>>5567674
Your samefag pains me... As well as being 0/10 because it's con season.

>>5567644
>>5567674
Dat samefag...

>>5567686
>>5567676

Still as awful at samefag detection as ever. >>5567674 here and that was my first post in years :)

>>5567671
Fetishfag here and that woman is even too much for me. All conversations with her have to do with sex and BDSM. And I don't even mean conversations that are interesting. I mean more like "hi, are you a lolita too?" "yes, I am a lolita but I also dress in fetish clothes, this here is my master, I am his slave" *insert sex joke by partner/master here*

>>5567689
uh huh.

>>5567585
>>5567590
Same feelings here. I hate to bitch also, but it's a constant stream of either 'I'm sick! I can't get out of bed!' or spending all her time in a fetish club.
What irks me the most about this is the fact that she has 4 children, never, ever seems to mention them and literally spends every weekend in fetish clubs. Not saying it's a bad thing to have your hobbies, but you know, spend just one Saturday night with your kids?
Been needing to rant for a while now. Also saging cause I still hate to bitch.

>>5567703
...and forgot to sage like an idiot. Too early here.

>>5567703
>she has 4 children
Are you sure? She looks very young to have 4...

>>5567706
She's 27, her oldest is 8 I think.

>>5567691
That feel when one person manages to make two things I love look shit at once.

>>5567708

I'm seriously not the kind of person who believes omg you need to quit lolita/drop other "non-adult" hobbies as soon as you have kids, but 4 kids? How does she even afford it? Are those just the only two outfits she owns?

And the fact that she attends fetish events so publicly people obviously know her name, her location, and her kids etc, that's just seems really wrong to me.

>>5567790
I believe she's admitted freely she has a shopping addiction, I think she's not working currently due to illness/disability, so I have no idea.

>>5566017

I find that, personally, sweet is better found (straight from the brand, to Closet Child, comm sales etc). It's also cheaper and can be coordinated easier.
I just bought a white and blue Moitié JSK and I'm having a HELL of a time finding shit to go with it. D: Even second hand gothic stuff isn't that easy to find at the end of the day.

That's my reason, anyway. I'm trying to get more into AaTP, though. Might be selling off my sweet prints that I don't wear too much soon for money to buy more gothy stuff.

Pic not really related, I just think this thread needs more pictures.

>>5567790
I dislike her as a person, but I don't think there is any harm to
>And the fact that she attends fetish events so publicly people obviously know her name, her location, and her kids etc, that's just seems really wrong to me.
We are not talking about some village inhabited by pitchfork and torch-baring rednecks... she is in London, lots of people are into fetish events and shit like that there and it's not hard to find out what with pics from events on FB and all that. Unless you mean that their children could be in danger or something? But still, it's not like pedophiles target kids of sexually promiscuous women or something and everyone else is safe...
I don't see a problem with your real name attached to fetish events, she is an adult and she doesn't seem to involve her kids in any of this..

>>5567800
This. Most adults have a sex life. A lot of them have kids. Not a biggie. What if people know?
But yes, she is obnoxious and an ita as sure as the sky is blue.

>>5567800

What kind of fetish events are these? Most events I've gone to don't allow cameras in most of their areas to protect the privacy of people who attend.

I guess when it comes to the kids thing, I just personally wouldn't want my kids knowing I was attending fetish events, or anything of the sort. Especially for a 12 year old that shit can be embarrassing and awkward.

>>5567804
there are always lots of photos from events like torture garden, the skin two rubber ball and other popular events like that

>>5567804
I don't think her kids "know"? If the oldest is 8, how would they? Unless they have facebook profiles and she friends them on facebook. Which I don't see as possible.

>>5567812
I dunno, I've seen fb statuses where she says things like "got all my fetish gear laid out on the coach, wow didn't realise I had so much!" or "got all my fetish gear laid out for cleaning today!" so I guess her kids might have seen it, unless they don't live with her all the time.

To be honest, at the age of 8 or younger, even if they'd seen the clothes and accessories, they probably don't even realise what they are.

>>5565781

No I agree with you. They look too bulky and random I guess? Are wigs supposed to look unnatural?

>>5567796
What I don't understand is that she posts things about how she doesn't even have the physical strength to make her own lunch, but she goes out partying and to events at least once a week, sometimes more.

>>5567800
>>5567703
>>5567691

Damn...is she in a wheelchair? If she is the person who I think she is, I have a story about her.

>>5567950
She does have a wheelchair, so could be her. I remember she got into a fight with her ex because he jokingly offered a prize to whoever could clamp her wheelchair or some bullshit.

>>5567666
>board is filled with women, im assuming you know this
>not expecting disgusting bitches who talk shit in every thread
/b/ is kinder than /cgl/

>>5567950

She was for most of HJ weekend only a few time I saw her actually walk around.

Is it just me, or is the UK community scary as fuck? You guys come off like a bunch of sandy vagina bitches on /cgl/ with the amount you complain about lolitas in your area

>>5568287
Wut.

No one's complaining about lolitas in their area, a few people are complaining about a woman who may or may not have inadvertently scarred her children when they become old enough to realise was mommy's special clothes are for.

Seriously though, wut.

Nahh we're not that bad. I think its the combination of forced politeness irl and suprressed rage :p

>>5568287
We do seem to bitch more than the rest of the lolitas in the world put together, but all of the UK lolis I've met IRL have been lovelies, save a couple who thought I had something to do with a grudge of theirs, but even they're cool with me now.

>>5568301
>>5568302

As a recent outside observer I liken it to the behaviour from high school UK school girls; friendly in person but put them behind a mobile/pc and they'll bitch about anyone. However I expect most of the bitchiness comes from those who don't attend the meets.

Yup that's pretty much it. People are so scared of conflict or being seen as a bitch irl that they let it out online.

Sorry for not replying properly, on my phone

>>5568316
Hmm, maybe. I can't really imagine any of the girls from my local group talking about each other on 4chan, the one time I'm aware of that we had drama, people actually talked to each other about it.

I think it depends whovthe people are. There's two groups that bitch about each other incessantly online and irl it seems. Shame really

>>5568325
Is there? :/ I've never noticed specific bitching from certain groups. Apart from when the london girls went apeshit over raine, but I don't even know that dramu properly.

>>5568323

That's the internet in general though, the audience is a lot bigger and there are no repercussions so you can say that girl who took your dream dress is a bit fat whatever. Things like *secrets which have corrupted the idea and lack neutral moderation certainly don't help either.

>>5568287
I think it's a mix of culture and country size. British culture is very much about polite fronts. I saw a really funny thing once, one of those "what a British person says, what they actually mean, what a foreign person thinks they mean" and it's true, a lot of British people do avoid conflict by wording things really weirdly. So we're kind of trained to not say it to each other's faces, but we vent a lot online. Secondly, we're a really small country comparatively and so everyone knows everyone, or at least everyone knows someone who knows someone. It sounds a bit creepy, but everyone seems to know what everyone else is doing just because it is a pretty small community.

There's a lolita in my comm. She's new-ish to the fashion, being in the comm for over a year now, but she hasn't changed or grown at all. I think i'll greentext.

>been in comm. over a year, hasn't grown
>When first came into the comm pmed most of the girls in the comm asking to go over to their house/go over to her house to try on their lolita (no one had met her before).
>has only been to one meet-up, but didn't even associate with any of the girls. just snuggled on a blanket with her boyfriend and left without saying goodbye.
>makes really idiotic posts in the comm.
>makes her own weird poorly spelled lolita memes.
>Taljks/Tipes llikes thgis gaiz. Kawaii desoo.
>Tried to organize a meet-up at some ghetto ihop. (no one went)
>Brags that her boyfriend bought her $500 of stuff from Bodyline
>All she got was three itatastic seperates and a couple pairs of shoes.

>Got called "little bow peep" at her college and came to baaaaw about it in the group.
>She was wearing the dress in picture attatched.

>>5568343
Are you guys sure she's not into ageplay?

>>5568350
No clue, man.
I only saw her at that one meet-up. I've never had an actual conversation with her.

>>5568354
whoops, fucked up the image.

>>5568343
>$500 on bodyline

This is gonna sound snotty but that concept is offensive to my senses. There are nice things on Bodyline, but $500 could have bought her a new release from just about anywhere... Ah well, I guess we all have our noobish Bodyline sprees. Hers was just huge.

Bah still can't reply properly. Yeah, it's not full on but every time there's an event there's always a bit of bitchiness between them, tho it seems to be one sided :/

>>5568369
I don't think they actually spent that much...
>Brags that her boyfriend bought her $500 of stuff from Bodyline
>All she got was three itatastic seperates and a couple pairs of shoes.

>>5568369
there are people who say Bodyline is their favorite "brand".
and people who honestly think Bodyline is as good as brand, so why buy brand when you can get a wardrobe full of brand new Bodyline for the price of 1/2 a brand new brand outfit?

>>5568377
It's just the implifications she made that he spent that much on her.

Also. for $500 dollars, before shipping. She would have had more than enough money to, if not buy brand, fill her closet with lolita essentials, like blouses/skirts/etc.

>>5568395
It sounds like she was just exaggerating. He probably didn't spend $500. Bodyline's most expensive dresses are about $80, so say she got three of those then it's $240. The most expensive shoes are $40, so $320 not including shipping.

$320 is still a lot though, and enough to get a few non-print brand pieces, or a less popular print piece.

>>5568378

Hey Charms, nice job selling that moitie choker you stole eh.

You really are shameless y'know.

>>5567576
>>5567569
>>5567590
>>5567585
Hahaha, I know who you guys are talking about.

The most MIND BOGGLING part is how she posted on the tea party facebook group about that "Are All Men Pedophiles?" documentary. She OF ALL PEOPLE said:

"Please take a minute to sign and share this if you love Lolita and don't want to be misunderstood when wearing it ♥"

I really wanted to call her out on it and be like "Bitch, you are more damaging to the reputation of Lolita being seen as a Fetish EVERYTIME you turn up to events".

Eurgh. She just has.. no filter. She'll happily tell everyone she's horny and how much she wants to have sex with her 'master'. The first time I met her she was bondaging herself up in Lolita with rope, on the stage. Really, you need to keep that shit to yourself.

I'm not retarded so I don't have her on facebook fortunately. I'm surprised anyone would want to quite frankly. This is quite mean for me, but it's honest. I'm sure she'd be a tolerable person if she learnt not what to say in public (I really don't know why a friend hasn't taken her aside and spoke to her about it?). She doesn't dress well either, but that is not something I care much about.

>>5567950

Tell the story!

>>5567965
>>5568666

Aha she is the same girl then. Nothing special, she was just amazingly rude at a lolita event. Demanding special attention, CONSTANTLY talking about her sex life, bitching at the hostess yadda yadda.

>>5568666
I didn't mind the bondage and I don't care if people are both into fetish stuff (even ageplay) and lolita. But this
>She just has.. no filter. She'll happily tell everyone she's horny and how much she wants to have sex with her 'master'

I don't know if it's that she has no filter or that she is a show-off. I know other people with no filter so to speak, but with her it's not even that she is discussing what is on her mind. It's more this deluded and desperate "oh look at me, I am this total sex kitten and my life is so hot and we have sex all the time, are you jealous yet?"

>>5568824
bump for the whole story

bump for more ita stories.

i saw this on tumblr,is the girl on the left wearing a skirt as a dress? D:

>>5569727
oh jesus, she is. she must be short as fuck.

>>5569727
I saw that too. I'm pretty sure that's a bodyline high-waisted skirt that she's using as a strapless dress. Just...doesn't work.

>>5569748
>>5569727

>>5569727

That's adorable.

No more ita tales to tell?

>>5569717

There's a girl in my lolita group that gives me so much second hand embarrassment. She's always coming up with new sub-styles like "safari lolita" and never actually wears anything remotely resembling a real coordinate. That would all be fine if she didn't appoint herself the Number One Expert of Lolita. She claims she's been researching the fashion for 11 years (since she was 10 years old, the fuck?) and thinks she's an expert on other j-fashion styles. She plans meet-ups at boring locations (Borders and Subway), and always shows up two hours late to everything - and yet somehow thinks this makes her an expert, so she writes this guide to planning meet ups on our community that's the most "no shit Sherlock" common sense thing I've ever seen. She also wanted to start bringing flags to meet ups so that we could wave them and all the other lolitas would see where we were.

Girl is nice and everything, but seriously needs to chill out.

>>5570102
The flags thing actually sounds like a neat idea.

Due you have any caps of what she's said.done?
I'm incredibly curious.

>>5570136

What kind of caps? Do you mean the things she writes?

I think the flag thing is silly because we dress in an eye-catching fashion, why would holding up a bunch of tiny flags make us any more visable?

>>5570205
This..

I can spot a lolita from a long distance..

What is it with lolitas and planning meetups at such shitty locations? Ihop, Subway, or Borders? What do you even do at a place like that? If you live in a city that has an active lolita community more than likely there are so so many fun and interesting places you could host a meetup, and it annoys me to no end when I see comms doing their meetups at dumb locations like that.

I can understand having a small meetup with just a few friends at a place like that, but to try to make it a real meetup for the whole community its just laughable that you'd want to meet somewhere like Applebees.

>>5570573
But applebees has those molten lava chocolate cakes that are freaking AMAZING!!!!!

No though, in all seriousness most cities, even small ones, have tea house or other places that are meet-friendly. What about museums, zoos and aquariums, theme parks, art shows, parks, small local venues, food tastings or what not. It's not that damn hard.

>>5570573

I can understand if you live in suburbia where there's literally nothing, but if you're in a major city and you honestly think iHop is an acceptable meet-up spot...god held you.

>>5570649

I've actually never been to Applebees... I didn't go to that meetup lol.

But I totally agree with that, there really are so many places to go that aren't Subway! I think a tea house, or even a little family owned coffee shop kind of joint would be much more fun and interesting than going to a chain restaurant.

I know seeing movies is also a big meetup location, but I don't think its very fun for the same reason seeing movies on a date isn't fun. You can't really talk and have fun, and also nobody could appreciate your cute outfits when its all dark in the theater, haha. I can understand if its like the opening for a film that you're all big fans of, but just going to see whatever movie isn't very fun.

>>5570649
>food tasting

What about wine tasting? Oooh. I wish that I was over 21, so i could plan that...

>>5570752
>Wine stains on my burando
I think not :|
You realize you don't drink the wine, right? You swish it around and spit it back out.

There's this girl who's always trying to give advice and acting like she's an expert when in real life she's the most terrible train-wreck I've ever seen.
She's very rude too, has a lot of grammar mistakes and puts "..." after EVERY sentence.

>>5570761

Yeah, also would it be kind of boring? And exclude everyone who is under 21 or who doesn't like wine. I don't know what its like though, I'm not 21 yet either. I think organizing some sort of tea tasting would be cute.

>>5570761
I'm well aware how wine tastings work, dear.
I just think it would be fun to do that with a handful of girls.

And maybe the wine wouldn't get on your burando if you were more careful.

>>5570752
A loli wine tasting sounds awesome! Or maybe a wine and cheese bar...It would be nice with just older lolitas out for once.
also if you get wine on your clothing during a wine tasting you are an idiot. Just saying.

There is a girl in my local community who is just awful. All of her Facebook statuses are putting herself above other people and talking as if she is god's gift to lolita and the world. She insults other people for not "putting their all" into their fashions or lifestyles or whatever and it all just comes out as a bunch of ego-stroking nonsense.
"haha not many Americans like me. i don't care."


She has a fake Japanese name and says that she is from Japan. Whenever someone posts on the comm page about buying a new dress, she posts saying that she just went out and bought the same one, even though she never wears it or shows it?

She answers noob's questions on EGL with stupid answers to boost her own ego. "A few months ago i decided to order from bodyline for the first time,I found them a disappointment comparing to Angelic pretty... They are just normal standard clothes just in lolita style, something you could find at the mall."
"Some people disagree... but you can wear brand everyday for everyday use (I do anyways)
I don't let clothes hold me back from going to the park or eating food i like...or doing anything for that matter.."
She got into a big argument with someone on our comm's facebook page about them misusing the word "otaku" and "abusing her counrtie's language!!1" even though she only writes Japanese on her facebook in romanji, I don't think she even knows hiragana. She attacked the girl personally because the girl said she had assburgers and she said "my brother has autism and he's fine!!" etc etc She got banned.

I understand this mentality is probably just because she's a new lolita and wants to be accepted and look cool, but she really is making an ass out of herself.

>>5570807

> "I don't let clothes hold me back from going to the park or eating food i like"

She doesn't look like she lets anything hold her back from eating food she likes.

>>5570792
My com kind of recently did something liek that, but with beer. Went to a brewery. Lots of free drinks. Not as fancy as wine, but still the same fun.

>>5568343
Why can girls never crop out their nasty ass floors?

>>5570807
This girl is in my facebook group too, but she's in a lot of them since she "travels a lot." She called one girl fat and lazy for wearing replicas even though the girl clearly stated she was way too tall for brand. She went to design school..in Japan of all places! Design school teaches you to hate replicas! And then when megaupload went down, she complained about not getting G&LB scans...I don't know if she did this in your comm, but she HAS TO BRING UP SHE'S HALF JAPANESE DESU any chance she gets.

>>5570775
No need to be condescending.

>>5570846
I also forgot to add that she told the girl who was too tall for brand to just lose weight because that's totally what she did.

>>5570848
Takes someone condescending to be condescending.

>>5570846

Yes, definitely. She needs to make sure everyone knows she is halfu Japanesu and you are all insulting her culture and misusing her language and someday she will go back to glorious Nippon and leave all you poorly-dressed baka gaijin's to rot!

How the hell does anything in this outfit remotely belong together? Did she dress in the dark?

>>5571028
>dat fake fur
I just don't understand it.

>>5568332
Passive aggression is what it is.

I don't think she puts in the effort for the brand she own, and the brand/orders I think she's going to get soon.

Personally, I think her perm looks fucking awful, like a dog.

>>5571258
Filipino? I think she's going for that "Korean" look. Too bad Koreans hate Filipinos.

>>5571258
She is really great at coordinating and has the cutest blouses. *3*
Her style is going to evolve, but for now, I think she looks great for the look she is going for.

>>5571258
I kinda like that hair, I dunno. The bangs are a bit thin and choppy, but I like the wavy effect

>>5571258

Wait, who is this and why should we care?

>>5571258

Does she even own brand? At least post an ita coord of hers.

>>5571258
Ha, at least have the balls to actually tell her. She has coordinating skills, and she will only get better.

>>5571785
Nothing to see here. Just vendetta. Move along.

i wish someone could ban hildekitten from the clearance bin for seasonal themed fabric

If >>5571258 has such great coordinating skills then why are none of you faggots posting pics of her said great coords?

She looks like a grandma, anyway.

>>5572047

sup fatty derpface

>>5572043

I HATE that tacky Joann's shit. Does anyone remember who made those hideous border print Halloween mansion skirts that people loved for some reason?

>>5571028
I actually rather like her coordinates. I'll admit its not one of her best, though. She can be really hit or miss in how she dresses herself.

>>5572047
Because friends don't post friends on /cgl/. Now, please, let's get a move on.

>>5572043
Is this the same chick that wore steampunk to an AP teaparty and threw a shitfit when people treated her poorly?

>>5572073
Yes

>>5572078
>>5572074
I don't get how she can even find any of this to remotely be lolita. does she even wear a petticoat?

>>5572073
i wonder why

>>5572047

Sup. You mad?

>>5572047

She's adorable. Fuck you vendettafag.

>>5571258
go eat more delicious jelly, vendettafag.

>>5572068
Transparent fetish apron. In my lolita.

You are either a troll or are blind.

>>5572363
LOL I didn't even think of it as a fetish apron. It looks kinda cute to me.

>>5572047
I don't understand your butthurt.

>>5572363
That's actually me... And its a vintage apron, not a fetish one. To each their own on their opinions, i guess.

>>5572363
Transparent fetish apron? Please explain? My mom has one of those that's christmas themed that she wears for our annual cookie swap. That's a fetish?

>>5572363
Fetish apron? It's just a sheer apron, I see them in vintage shops all the time. I don't think it goes with the outfit but how is it a fetish?

>>5572424
>>5572432
>>5572437
Obvious samefag.

>>5572450
>samefag

suuuure. we'll just let you think that.

>>5572450
Well, I'm 5572432 and neither of the others, so... Nope. Just one person with their mind in the gutter and at least two other people confused about it. I am also wondering if my mother knows she's some kind of apron fetishist now.

>>5572450
Yes, because the person who admitted that's them in the pic is also going to say it doesn't go with the outfit. Excellent detective work there, Sherlock!

>>5572063
I have one of those and I still think it's very cute. I can only wear it on Halloween, though. :(

>>5572437

I think it'd look fine with a dress/jsk that was a solid color. Possibly in a dusky rose. It looks horrible with that sweet print.

>>5572088
She is actually a really nice person, so I don't get the hate. I am not into steampunk, but I find her style cute.

>>5572760
Because her blog entry was so angry. She was just being a special snowflake that was pissed off that no one else thought she looked as good as she thought she did and Maki and Asuka didn't give her a medal and start making a steampunk lolita line because of how inspiring her outfit was.

>>5572884
Ok, I don't know, I wasn't friend with her then, but since I met her I think she is cool to chat to and comes across as really nice.

Anyone have screen caps of the chick from Oregon's blog where she was in some fashion show and decided to make a pissed off face, and got pouty because she didn't get the brand headbow?

>>5572898
I have the link to the blog, the entry should still be there:
http://megageeksinc.blogspot.com/

bump

>>5572884

UGH. She makes me so angry. She makes SUCH a bad name for lolitas who are into steampunk. She dresses like a quilting scrap pile and claims that it's ok because "it's steampunk!" then gets butthurt when people don't compliment her on her "creativity."

No. It's not steampunk. It's not lolita. It's a mess.

Also- I effing hate those spats she makes. They are frumpy and look like leg warmers with buttons on them. That's not what a spat looks like!

The Puerto Rico lolitas group on LJ always had more than its fair share of Itas, but damn. I joined the facebook group and it's almost exclusively hambeasts with their facebook names set to things like "Nana-chan" and "Chiki Uchiha" and "Hachi Ko" posting kawaii-uguu crap and sugoii-lolichan-meido-outifits. They have a meetup soon, and I almost want to go to collect the lulz, but I don't think I'd be able to stand being around them for more than a few minutes. I don't know how the two decent lolitas who post on that group stand them.

Pic very related.

lace monseters are soooo hawt

Semi-unrelated question... What happened to Sniper's blog?

>>5574211

vanished off the internet as far as i can tell... anyone know anything else?

Bump for more funny itas