Damn straight OP. Hell, girlfriends are more trouble than they're worth. Stay single, stay gold, and if you need sex go for hookups, hookers, or FWBs.

>>5465164

I'm not saying to stay single forever (unless that's what you want) but there shouldn't be this mad rush to get into a relationship.

I still want those cute things like hand holding, awkward dates and hanging out but I remember how much trouble they're worth too.

As for sex, usually if you get really into one of those moods where you want it, if you fap it usually goes away and you think "Why was I so anxious to throw away (pride/dignity/money/time/effort) for that?"

I like my job. So I'll work and on my days off I'll enjoy my hobbies, hang out with my friends and spend time with my family. If I find a girl who I really like, who I feel understands me to a degree I'll be happy to date her but I'm pretty confident I'll never meet that person.

Oh, look. Another /soc/ thread. In b4 115 replies.

>>5465184

It's either this or bitching about photoshopped whores.

Is there anything /cgl/ does right?

>>5465204
What do you expect? This place is dominated by a bunch of bitchy jealous women. At least it isn't /a/.

>>5465226
atleast /a/ doesnt thrive on drama, unless it concerns a mod going on a power trip

>>5465226
>At least it isn't /a/.
/a/ isn't nearly as off topic as /cgl/

>>5465231
>>5465228
At least /cgl/ doesn't have waifu threads

>>5465235

/cgl/ consists mostly of attention whores wearing over sexualized outfits.

I'm not picking sides, I don't really post in either I just lurk a bunch of these boards and I call them as I see them.

>>5465235
Waifu threads are more on topic than this.

>>5465246
Off topic is better than waifu is the point I'm trying to make.

Hey /cgl/.
Can I stress one thing for you all? I've been noticing a problem with it in every thread so far.
BREVITY IS THE SOUL OF WIT.
PLEASE REFLECT ON THIS.

Sure, it sounds all good to tell me that i'll find someone, but I know you felt the same way before you "changed". Let me let you know right now that i've changed so many times, i'm nowhere near the person I started out when I was in middle school. In high school, I changed to win over the trust of my choirmates. I changed to win over a girl who I barely even met. I changed to fit in amongst the kids who were the class clowns. I changed so many times, and guess what? When I entered college, I changed a good 7 more times. Oh, guess what anon? Still a virgin. Still unpopular. Still kissless (unless you count a make out session from the most hated girl in school due to her obvious lacking of social skills yet I did it because she was easy), still girlfriendless and a girl is nowhere in sight. You can tell me over and over "it'll get better, it's gonna be soon" but tell that to someone who is still patient. I've been patient for 7 fucking years and i'm not gonna be patient any longer. I've also been through the whole "don't rush into anything" but if there's even a small TINY chance a girl wants to date me so she can get easy dick, so fucking be it.

>inb4 hookers

I said I want a girlfriend, not fucking AIDS.

>>5465266

People don't need to be popular and I'm not saying that if you wait you'll get a girl friend, or if you change you'll get a girl friend.

Merely that you need to stop worrying about it and enjoy life without constantly having that "When am I going to get a girl friend? Am I going to be alone forever? Am I ever going to be kissed or get laid?"

Because they're all overrated and they build it up. Society likes to put out this notion that everyone needs to 'pair up' and it's counter productive.

If you're that desperate to get kissed and screwed than go ahead if you get the chance. You may see it's not as great you perceive it to be.

>>5465281

I see what you're getting at, and believe me i've made this issue be less and less important to me, but when you have most of your friends list "in a relationship" and V-day just so happens to be right around the corner, there's only so much buildup you can take before you just have to bitch and whine about it. All i'm asking for one chance to let me take out a beautiful girl on a date and maybe, just maybe, she sees me as someone she can spend the rest of her time with instead of just a friend and then goes off with someone who is skinny and better looking.

>>5465288

What is your perception of beauty?

>>5465288
>>5465275
You're ugly.

>>5465290

I don't really have one. To me, it just comes down to someone being skinny enough to pull off a good cosplay and good-looking enough to have someone say that to you in costume. Something i'll never have due to being a buyfag first and cosplayer second.

>>5465307

You may want to widen your standards a bit if they are locked there. Just because they're not thin enough doesn't mean they aren't a potential partner. If a girl is a little overweight but still was interested in you, you would be okay with that right?

ITT: People feeling lonely and depressed over a comercial date whose sole purpose is to buy gifts for some other person

What the fuck is wrong with you?

>>5465311

Of course. They don't have to look anorexic to look good to me.

>read books through all of Middle School without any friends

Doh why does reading have to be consider "nerdy" or "dorkish"...

However, having a boyfriend/girlfriend just for the sake of having one is just wrong and silly to me. The whole point of having a significant other is to spend time with someone you enjoy being around/show/give them something you cannot show/give any anyone else and that's love. Call me stupid or whatever but that's really how I see it. Like think about it, would you rather be lonely or hate every second of your life when you are with someone you can't stand? Sure sex is fun and stuff but it just means so much more when you truly care for that person. Or at least that is my opinion on it. For me I'm not going to waste my time with someone who just wants me for sex or is a complete douche. As much as I will get called out on it/flamed I'm perfectly okay with having no sex life unless it's with that special someone.

TL;DR Really wait to you find someone you connect with and don't give in just for sex/companionship (IMO)

>not spending Valentine's with your husbando
>2012
ISHYGDDT

>>5465373

To be honest not having a sex life outside of those whom you are seriously emotionally connected isn't bad.

It's not "no deal" when I meet a girl who has had a lot of boy friends she slept around with but it's not ideal either but I'm the jealous type. I respect a woman more when they're selective about how often and with who they put out to.

I respect you, I don't know where you get the idea you'll get flamed. I lurk though so for all I know /cgl/ may endorse sleeping around. I don't know.

>>5465509
>To be honest not having a sex isn't bad.
FTFY

The presumption that you need sex to lead a happy life is nothing but media lies and social pressure, mostly so that you can use someone's lack of sex life to humiliate them in front of others, or to accuse them of being homosexuals (not so often nowadays), pedophiles or rapists. And it works.

>in b4 Betas whose greatest achievement in life was, and will always remain getting laid come here explaining how procreating is the meaning of life

>>5465531

Sex life, it was the typo but I'm sure you know that.

I don't know about it being good or bad for your health, I'm not a doctor and even if I was I'd lie to you if it'd make me money but regardless I don't think sex should be so prevalent in society like it is now. You couldn't even say the word 'sex' on TV 30 years ago and now you can watch it on day time TV.

Unhealthy not to have sex? It's probably unhealthy to care, want, and need to have as much sex as most people do. Sex to me is like a perk of being in a serious relationship, not something you just kind of do because you're both drunk and no one will remember it in the morning.

ITT: betas giving excuses for their virginity

>>5465561

I've personally had sex, quite a few times and with a few partners. I just don't really understand why everyone is so crazy over and so desperate to experience it.

Yeah, it's good and if I had a partner I'd probably have sex on a regular basis but if not than I don't go out desperately searching for my next lay.

And why is being a virgin even a bad thing to begin with? What relevance does it have?

>>5465509
Thanks anon. What I ment by flamed is that basically (or at least what I have seen) is that any girl who says they don't do/like hookups and like to wait for a relationship get called liars and whores. Course hey, welcome to the Internet haha. I'm not the judgmental type so hey if someone wanted to go sleep around they are free to, it's none of my business. I just prefer to have that experience be more then just pleasure and it means so much more and feels so much better when you have that emotional connection, but that's just my opinion. Some guys/girls might just like giving/receiving for the pure pleasure, but hey that is their business. Honestly I will be surprised if this thread continues and I won't get called a liar because I am a women and according to /cgl/ all women (especially cosplayers) are sluts. But I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this way.

>>5465565

Out of morbid curiosity what character(s) do you cosplay as? I'm making the assumption you do since you're on /cgl/ and seem to have been here for some time.

>>5465562
>And why is being a virgin even a bad thing to begin with? What relevance does it have?
Because it shows you aren't good enough for one of the most basic things we do as human beings, forming connections with other people.

>>5465577
Wow I just realized I've been here for a year now haha. I haven't done a lot but my most recent ones (in order) were Mew Berry, Madoka and Fluttershy.

I won't lie I totally lurk these threads all the time but most of the time I try to contribute to cosplay threads/help people (like in the suggestion threads/progress threads)

>>5465589

Gotta be honest, I don't think having sex makes me any more social or well adjusted than when I was a virgin. It doesn't really change you and I think it's entirely possible to have connections without having sex.

>>5465590

Ah, alright. I thought you were someone in knew from the real world for a second and I was curious because she cosplayed but she did some Black Butler thing.

>>5465589
state of virginity ≠ forming connections with people

>>5465597
>>5465595
There's big link between being a virgin and sucking at social interactions, specially for men, just look at places like /a/

>>5465602

If you got them all laid tomorrow they wouldn't be social butterflies.

If you got them laid earlier in life they wouldn't be popular now.

I think it's a variety of factors that makes people anti-social and their hobbies don't really help. Relationships probably have a bigger bearing on that than sex actually does.

>>5465597
I agree with this 100% As crazy as it might sound some people actually choose to wait.

>>5465595
Haha no worries. She could come here since this is the cosplaying board haha. Lots of cosplayers here.

>>5465602
I was a virgin and didn't suck at social interactions.

Then I lost it and I'm still the same as before.

What.

>>5465604
Of course they wouldn't, if they don't work for it it's meaningless. The truth is that they're terrible at doing the most basic human interactions and being a virgin is the biggest sign of it.

>>5465614
Are you male or female?

>>5465616
Male.

I just don't see how the state of your virginity affects how you act towards people.

>>5465618
It's quite obvious, sucking at socializing leads you to perma virgin status.

>>5465623

>tfw a girl asked me out
>tfw i would have been perma-virgin if it wasn't for my "good" looks

i never really could appreciated how important getting it in that first time is for a guy until after the fact.

>>5465630
The majority of virgin guys won't be asked out so yeah

>>5465632

i also lied too boot, told her i lost it in high school.
I was so ashamed to be a virgin at my age.

>>5465633
Did she believe you after the fact?

>>5465633
No problem with that, girls will think there's something very wrong with you if you're a virgin past a certain age.

>>5465639
Not all girls.

I would actually love to take the virginity of a guy my age. Actually I'd prefer older, like 24-26. I think it'd be sexy. Ofc not just any virgin, they'd have to have some of the other qualifiers too.

>>5465640
Most of them, do I really need to say it everytime?

>>5465638
i never told her i was. we had a strange relationship, it was mostly physical. she was a few years older, i was 19 and she was 23. i doubt she wouldn't have believed me though.

ive lied so many times to so many people, im just too much of an introvert to have done it on my own that first time.

>>5465641
It's pretty bueno. All the insecurity and bullshit afterwards though, that's not so bueno.

>>5465647
All the insecurity and bullshit afterwards?

>>5465641
You need to be so careful with this. My first time was also with a virgin, and he was a few years older than me. He became VERY clingy and possessive afterwards, and that's not fun for anybody involved.

>>5465652
Just don't do it.

>>5465288

>goes off with someone who is skinny and better looking.
>a beautiful girl

Ugh, no wonder you're single. Not only are you only looking for a stunning girl (even when you yourself are average and overweight), but you only give a damn about their appearance.

Girls can pick up on the volatile misogynist vibes, you know. Any woman with an ounce of self respect would stay well away.

>>5465647
>>5465652
>>5465654
I'll probably never get the opportunity, actually know it and want it. I'm not really a participant in casual sex.

>>5465663
Why do you want it so badly anyway?

>>5465668
I don't, it's just something I always thought would be hot. Taking the virginity of an older guy. But like I said I don't partake in casual sex, in order to actually do it I'd have to have some sort of emotional connection with the guy. So with all those factors I just know it's very unlikely.

>>5465562
>why everyone is so crazy over and so desperate to experience it.
As I said before, it is a new way of society to control men. Back in the good old days, no one gave two fucks about a man's sexual experiences. The term 'virgin' never applied to men to begin with, until the rise of feminism... anyone sensing a connection? And there's no way of (legally) taking a man's virginity, since there's no way to prove it existed beforehand.

It is sad how pussy whipped the last few male generations became. A crippled war veteran is a filthy hobo, while some cowardly prick who spends his days in the tanning salon and sticks his penis into vulvae is lauded as an 'Alpha'. It's pathetic and disgusting. My own grandfather ended up like the former, after Vietnam. My grandmother abandoned him and he died in the street, without any gratitude shown by society. He was treated as *less* than an animal. And you shits think the world is cruel to you because your 'gf dumpd u' or you didn't get to 'tap dat ass'.

Men are filth, and the ones who accept this and their fates as being disposable sex toys to women are the ones celebrated by society the most.

I am really fucking glad that this society will eventually collapse thanks to the bulging overambitious dicks of China or some other prick filled country that doesn't bend to our Jew overlords.

>>5465860
>And there's no way of (legally) taking a man's virginity, since there's no way to prove it existed beforehand.
And the same can't be said for women? Hymens grow back you know, like how skin on your body heals.

Go back to school kid.

>>5465860
Eyup. Never used to be a thing. German doesn't even have a WORD for a male virgin, 'Jungfrau' very clearly describes a girl. It'd be nice if we could all stop giving a shit about who's had sex with who, because if they're not having sex with us, it's totally irrelevant.

>>5465879
Are you retarded?

The point is, you could, hypothetically, for... whatever stupid reason, use a woman's virginity (=the existence of hymen) use in court.

Plus, you must be a colossal moron if you think you can get a re-constructive surgery without it being mentioned in your record, or *someone's* record, at least.

As always everybody thinks virgin guys just want to get their dicks wet and live like guidos with fake tans.

The lack of sex isn't nearly as depressing as the thought that you're completely unwanted by every girl you ever met and that you'll never get to share a happy moment with anybody. That's the hard part.

>>5465886
Actually, same thing goes for English, thee word virgin comes via Old French virgine from the root form of Latin virgo, genitive virgin-is, meaning literally "maiden" or "virgin"—a sexually intact young woman.

>>5465889
this

>>5465889
>isn't nearly as depressing as the thought that you're completely unwanted by every girl you ever met and that you'll never get to share a happy moment with anybody. That's the hard part.
Oh well, if that's the case, then let me reassure you. At least one of the girls would (at least hypothetically) want you. The mathematical probability that absolutely none of them wouldn't make due with you is nearing zero, unless you are grotesquely disfigured.

>>5465890
There you go then. It's just a symbol of outdated repression and we should all cease giving a fuck.

>I wish my fetish would listen to this

>>5465899
>At least one of the girls would (at least hypothetically) want you.

Clearly that isn't the case or I wouldn't have made it to 26 without so much as holding a girl's hand.

>>5465886
>who's had sex with who
nearly love, nearly. using the old subterfuge tactics to try and sneak past the 'it doesn't matter who a womans had sex with' card that you, as a whore, like to promote.

it matters, deal with it. a guys on the other hand, not anywhere close to as important.

>>5465900
>It's just a symbol of outdated repression

And it's reemerging as a symbol of repression for the opposite gender.

>>5465899
>The mathematical probability that absolutely none of them wouldn't make due with you is nearing zero
That hardly counts when nothing happens and you're still alone.

>>5465903
Unfortunately, you still have to be the one who does the work. Just because you can't pick up the details doesn't mean none of them wanted to fuck.

If you are really desperate, you can always get in with some crowd (e.g. start pretending to like metal), you will get laid in less than three years.

Or, if you have some social friends, just go out with them, go drinking, and there you go, it is mathematically impossible not to get laid if you spend time around girls. Doubly so if their drunk and horny.

>>5465905
Well said!

>>5465907
And we're back to "everybody thinks virgin guys just want to get their dicks wet"

>>5465907
>Just because you can't pick up the details

I'd like to believe I'm not stupid enough to miss things like that, so I can say I had no "missed chances". I simply have not, and probably never will be, desirable to any woman.

>>5465911
what do you expect

you're on a board of women, women who think men only care about sex

>>5465911
No, really, once you get laid with any slut, other females will like you more, since you're not tainted anymore. It increases your chances of getting a real girlfriend.

>>5465917
>No, really, once you get laid with any slut, other females will like you more

It's really sad that it works like this.

>>5465905
Eeeexactly. And I think it's actually worse to encourage people to have careless sex than to pressure them into not having sex at all. Girls just make no sense man, who wouldn't want to be someone's first? Idgi.

>>5465915
It's really frustrating.

>>5465917
>No, really, once you get laid with any slut, other females will like you more, since you're not tainted anymore.
Maybe I'm being naive, but I don't think a girl who thinks like that would be a good girlfriend. Am I being that naive?

>>5465923
who would want to deal with some loser who doesn't know how to sex when i can just be with someone who does

>>5465923
Well, as I said before, virginity is used against men mostly to humiliate them, ruin their potential political career if need be, accuse them of being homosexuals/pedophiles (it doesn't have to be true, what matters is that society thinks you're guilty the moment you're accused) or rapists (see Strauss Khan - a completely INNOCENT man, he may have been a capitalistic swine and whatnot, but you call that JUSTICE? that his career was ruined, his life was at least partly ruined, just because of an accusation, and just because the media treated him the way people wanted to see it) and stuff like that.

>>5465928
It's not like she thinks like that, it's instinct. Society teaches us that virgins are weirdos to be avoided.

>>5465936
>Society teaches us that virgins are weirdos to be avoided.

and naturally you go along with it

>>5465941
And? You go along with a lot of things just because of peer pressure and what you see in the media too.

>>5465936

If society has taught me anything, it's that society doesn't know shit about anything.

>>5465936
Ok then.

>>5465944
it's still your choice to believe it or not

so no, she does think that virgins are weird, and she came to that conclusion by herself

>>5465931
Someone who's adept and confident enough in their own sexuality to be able to teach someone the fun stuff.
the kind of cheap skanks who look down on virgins aren't too good with that doe

>>5465935
I don't see what Strauss-Khan has to do with virginity, dude has four kids. I agree with the rest of it though. I especially hate the stereotype that virgin men are all closet would-be rapists- who the fuck would want to lose it like that? Sure, SOME people might think like that, but if that's a majority the world is doomed. All of the apparent permavirgins I've been friends with (there have been many) have been either scared of women or desperate to make a good impression on them. Neither of those things suggest the mindset of a rapist.

>>5465952
>Someone who's adept and confident enough in their own sexuality to be able to teach someone the fun stuff.

so not a single woman, since all woman are submissive and don't want to do any teaching

so are you describing gay men or something

>>5465957
I'm describing myself and the kind of women I like to befriend, sugar cube. There are enough of us out there for me to have hope that some day this attitude will be the popular one.

I understand that the average woman probably won't like virgin nerd guys but I expected atleast girls who share our hobbies to be more open minded about it. I hope most of these posts are trolls.

>>5465952
>I don't see what Strauss-Khan has to do with virginity, dude has four kids.
Yes, I just went a little overboard with how powerful was rape made by feminism.

>>5465973
>implying the women who share your hobby aren't having lots of sex too

Face it, you're completely unwanted by anyone. Just buy a hooker and get it over with. better to humiliate yourself to someone who will never see you again than someone who will remember how bad you are at sex every time they see you.

>>5465977
I never implied anything about their sexual lives.

>>5465977
Fuck off, we're having an intelligent discussion in here.

Hiding all posts from this faggot, I suggest the actual virgins in this thread do the same, because it's total bullshit.

>>5465973
Why would you expect someone to give a shit about you just because she happens to like anime and/or vidja? She owes you nothing; no consideration, no second look, nothing. And neither do guys who like the same things you do.

Do your own homework, you sad sack. Anime does not make you worth someone else's time, you do.

>>5465979
That doesn't matter. They're not going to be "open-minded" because they're going to be thinking the same as every other woman. And to every other woman, you. Are. Pathetic. A waste of time who couldn't even get a single girl to like him enough to fuck. If you can't even do that, how do you expect to maintain a real relationship?

Liking anime doesn't make someone more accepting of sad sacks like you. Take my previous advice.

>>5465985
Did I say they owed me anything?
I said I expected them to be more open minded and didn't go with the "virgin guys are trash" mentality.

To lonely virgins in topic: if you look like this
<-
you gonna get pussy.

Pic related it's me. Didn't go to Gym ever because all I need is my swag.

>>5465983
I'll trust your words. One day I hope to meet a woman with the same mentality.

>>5466006
you won't because they don't exist

except on the internet, where permavirgins can pretend they're girls who like permavirgins

>>5466000
>implying women have the right to choose in Taliban

>>5466017

>in Taliban

I'm sorry, what?

>>5466023
The muslim countries.

>>5466006
I highly doubt I'm the only girl in the entire world who accepts, hell, LIKES virgins. My best friend is the same way, for one. You'll find someone, don't stress about it. Just approach the world of dating without even thinking about the sex side of things.

>>5466011
Nigga please. Pic related.

>>5466027
lol stupid American cow

I am from Lebanon

>>5466031
Thanks alot, my afternoon got much better now.

Bloody flag flying in the wind.

Life is but a prism.

A burning man running down the hill.

Steel snow and iron rain.

Axe cutting through flesh and bone.

The flesh may burn, but the legacy remains.

The drums pound, greeting the hero.

Red plague covers the world.

Maggots feeding on the flesh of the world.

The cyclops beckons.

Song of the Immortals. They dig deeper and deeper. They sleep. Sleep long. Song of the Mortals. Immortals wake. Second Song. Second King. Second Sword. Second Flag. Second Kingdom. The Immortals come.

FRÚKOR DOU GÁ VALIMANDAR.

>>5466027
>>5466017

>>5466027

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taliban

durrrrr

I'm a virgin too you know. Nobody ever believes me.

>>5466053
you're from /a/, aren't you? a waifufag? I sure believe you then..

1- Slug is so much light than snail who have shell to copy slug technology.
2- The snail use the shell because is a fucking faget.
3- snail got crush so easy, and you can give the slug to ur dog chew and it'll still eat lettuce.
4- shell is MORE heavy than no shell.
5- some slug have internal shell because more evolved
6- Your cousin will not want to stay on your house to play slug.
over 9000- If you trow the slug on the wall, the wall will go up.
8- Trow both on water and watch which will come up first.
9- slug at mate will make a slimecord. The snail will show dribble.
10- All slug are hermaphrodite. Snail is too but because faget
11 - slug is the name of a bullet. Snail means it is slow.
12 - Slug will eat carrion, slug dont give a fuck
13- slug didn't needed an upgrade. Slug is perfect

>>5466031
Eva Braun - White Knight - Defensor of Sad Virgins

You wonder what you really have control over. The world carries on around
you; would carry on without you. The human race is just a blip in time, a
footnote in the history of the universe, and yet you keep going because
there’s nothing else for it. Your footsteps, your direction are out of your
control, decided years before you were born, years before anyone was born.
It’s not normal, this life: something is rotten. There’s a tumour; malignant,
growing, pushing out all the common sense, the patience. There’s the
madness, that rush, and no free seconds to reflect, not anymore. All we can
do is study the past, because deep down we know our future achievements
will be vile. The feet just keep on walking, to where, no-one knows. Nobody
wants to know. You realise there’s something wrong when your eyes don’t
want to open in the morning. There’s no window in your bedroom anyway,
no sunlight to stir the body; just blackness, and the musty smell of old
clothes, and stale smoke, and rotten food. And when you do move, your
bones hurt. They creak, like a rusted machine turned on after years of
retirement. You open the door and those eyes that barely open water weakly
at the light – you stink, smell the way a person does after weeks without
washing, but you don’t want to wash. There’s no shame, not when people
look at you with disgust – your breath, it smells of carrion and death, but
you don’t brush your teeth because you want to smell that way. Why
pretend? We are what we are: this is what humanity is without the
sanitisation, the make-believe, the mask.

>>5466068
Damn straight. I am a knight in shining ponies.

>>5465957
you don't know what being dominant is. painfully obvious with the amount of 'hurr i had da trainings to be a domme!' you've posted in threads.

at the end of the day, you bend over and get fucked just like any other bitch. that makes you submissive.

>>5466079
Have you fucked me? No, no you haven't. I believe I know more about my sexual preferences than you do, sugar cube.

It's all I can do now, tell people about the way I see things. I wish I had done something more. I know it's banal and overdone, but just think for a second how meaningless all our lives are. There are 7 billion people on this planet. If each of us were to have never existed, it would have made little difference to our families and friends, and absolutely none to everyone else. I wish life mattered more and it wasn't just a pointless journey to nowhere. What kind of retarded journey is that in which the journey itself is what matters, and not the destination.

You know, I love fantasy books. I always have. For years I've been writing my own stuff, just things that are loosely connected with one another, in some fantasy world where people matter more and do meaningful things. I probably have more than 2 thousand pages in manuscript. I know it's not very good, and it'd never get published or anything, but it was nice to play writer for a bit.

Fuck this pointless existence. I hate it and I love it, and I can't even break free of the fear. God I'm scared. I've known that I'll die in a short while for months now, and still every night I can't stop being afraid of death. There's nothing after that, you know? Not even an empty, dark space. There's no consciousness, no existence. Plain nothing. And I'm fucking scared of it. I see people who say they've dealt with it, and they aren't afraid anymore, but I'm fucking scared and ashamed of it. God I'm so fucking scared.

>>5466081
you can't know that i haven't for sure can you?

but is that what you're saying? you're saying you don't bend over and get fucked? are you the one doing all the fucking with a strapon and shit?
'cause i'm pretty sure nobody here believes that. so do enlighten us, it should be entertaining to hear you try and tell us you're a domme and in control when your view of domination is probably 'i tie you up and stuff!' whilst still getting fucked like any other submissive woman.

>>5466096

Oh, just shut up. I'm not defending Eva - I'm sure she can do that herself.

I'm saying your understanding of sex is flawed.

>>>>hurrdurr wimmins get it in them so they're submitting!

What? Wait, what? Also, "bending over"? There's more sex positions than that one, you realise. Also, domination =/= penetration. Domination can be mental, or the physical tying up you mentioned.

Polite sage for ranting.

>>5465660

Idk if that sentence just came off wrong or something, but what I'm trying to say is im always looking for a girl (no matter if she's average or pretty) and every time I find one, they run off to go be with some alpha. I'm the one who's average. They're the ones who wants perfection.

>>5466203

Deal with it. Beta guys don't get girls. If you do, you're lucky. If you don't get lucky - too bad, no one cares.

>>5466206
this

in nature pathetic fucks like you would have died out a long time ago

monogamy and the church made it so that beta faggots were allowed to reproduce, and now that marriage is falling apart women are going back to the men they always wanted; the elite, the best, the genetically superior

>>5466189
>that female dog is the dominant one, look at it get mounted, what a champ.
>wow she's such a domme, look at her with her legs spread in the air, as much of a champ as the dog
I have no investment in the argument, but that's what your response basically comes across as. Counter arguments should be intelligent, not opinion and really really bad examples, otherwise it leads nowhere.

Sage for pointing out the obvious and not being involved.

>>5466235
>what is cowgirl

Responding to whole thread: Teaching; I am always the one in the relationship to bring something new and the one who initates the sex. I have dated a virgin in the past who probably was one of the best partners I had because of it. I dont think there should be an shame in being a virgin, in someways/sometimes they have been more responsible. I also hate being on bottom, I hate not having control and just to lay there take it. Ugh, fuck no. I also feel like a women on top is the true original position, it fits better, feels better for both parties, and its easier on the guy since they dont have to adkward hold their arms up. THIS is just a theory but I think missionary position was used to take sexual power away from women. I don't feel like explaining it since it would just be a shit storm but if you know a lot about history it might make sense.

>>5466241
>THIS is just a theory but I think missionary position was used to take sexual power away from women

missionary position was developed before homo sapiens even existed

>>5466241

This is complete bullshit and just reeks of 'hurr i am womyn hear me roar' faggotry.

You should focus on the understanding that sexual intercourse is a really bad way to communicate anything above "I have a base level desire for you". Seriously. If you're bummed because you aren't having sex, you're focusing on the wrong aspects of what it is to be with another individual.

>>5466253
>>5466241

please re-read thats not what I said. I never said anything about the invention. I said that it was USED as a way to take power away from women.

>>5466262
I wouldn't care if it weren't for the fact that all women put a immense amount of importance on whether you've gotten your dick wet or not.

>>5466261

Not really, I don't think I am fucking cool or anything. It's just something to think about. There was a whole moment in the medieval times that repressed women, women were revered as strong in some cultures .I forgot everyone here argues without knowing shit about anything.

>>5466273
it's not something to think about

missionary was the primary method hominids had sex for long before gender roles came into play

it has nothing to do with oppression and everything to do with "our brains says to do it this way"

>>5466262

I, for one, am in no way sad because I'm not having sex.

I'm sad because I'm alone and all my attempts to change that have been met with laughter and pity.

>>5466268
What an overly broad statement. Are there women that give a shit about this? Probably. Are there women that don't give a shit about this? Probably. You shouldn't spend your time trying to invest in the former if you think it would impede your relationship with them. For real, if someone doesn't want to take the time to invest in you, for whatever reason, that's their problem not yours.

>>5466235
Now you just shush sweetheart, adults are talking.

>>5466241
Interesting theory, but I don't agree at all. Missionary is by no means the most restrictive position for the bottom.

>>5466291
Yeah, this. No point getting upset that knobends think they're too good for virgin guys, you really wouldn't want to date those girls.

>>5466068
>>5466068
>>5466068
this so much

fucken hate her, pretentious slut

>>5465146
I-I-I would like to be y-your g-girlfriend, anon!

OP here.

I didn't think this thread would survive until morning.

>>5466570
He was talking about girls, not traps.

>>5466603
A trap is fine too

Preferable even

>>5466322
Why exactly is she a pretentious slut?

>>5466570
That's a trap? Bummer. Guess it can't be helped, zzzzzzip...

>>5466770
No she's not. I don't even get why it got so popular, I made that shit up myself.

>22 years
>Female virgin
>Single
>Rather well adjusted, no terrible life-limiting social awkwardness, just a tad bit on the quiet side but can have a discussion about anything and meet new people
>Have yet to meet the (single) man who I find sexually attractive and comfortable enough
>Prefer to wait than regret it

And some of my friends
>Around my age
>Not a virgin
>In a relationship
>Socially awkward, terrible self image issues

So yeah does being a virgin and in a relationship really matter that much? You need to build your self conscience around other things than sex, it's much more sadder when getting rid of your virginity is your life's greatest achievement than being a virgin and actually accomplish something meaningful.

>>5466792
>So yeah does being a virgin and in a relationship really matter that much?

Not for men. Men are far better off single then they are with a timebomb.

>>5466792
For women it doesn't matter that much because no guy will call you creepy and refuse to date you just because you're a virgin.

>>5466880

Especially if they're a virgin themselves. Men would not only want to find a good girl to call their own, they would love to deflower a girl as well.

>>5466880
No decent girl is going to do that either.

Stop letting trolls on /cgl/ get to you.

>24 years old
>Female virgin, only kissed a guy once and I was drunk
>Extremelly social, with an extended group of friends
>Not extremelly ugly or deformed or fat
>Don't know why guys have no interest in me whatsoever

Even though all my male friends tell me I'm interesting, intelligent and hot. Probably they are lying.

>>5466930
actually I did that just yesterday

I went on a date with this one guy from school because he helped me with my science project

cos he's like the top of our uni and stuff, got scholarship and all that

and he wasn't too ugly either, but that was just horrible

and then when he said it was a vrigin I just dumped him there in the restaurant

what a dweeb

>>5466930
>implying they're trolling

>>5466944
because you're clearly giving off i don't want to fuck vibes

stop being ice cold

>>5466947
LOL, looks like someone dated Jim the swagger

>>5466944
Are you approachable? If you aren't a stuck-up bitch some guy is bound to approach you.

>>5466880
see >>5466973

In the men's world, a 20+ virgin is a creepy nerd. In the women's world, a 20+ virgin is either a hambeast fatty or a cold, unapproachable bitch. The girls don't have it any easier, most men don't want to fuck adult virgins (except the pedos, the fundamentalists and the possessive) since they don't want to experience awkward first-time sex. Seriously if a girl tells you she's a virgin at 21 I'm pretty sure your first thought would be that there's something wrong with her. That's how women have it. So don't push your beta shit here.

>>5467375
men don't give a fuck if you're a virgin or not

really, only men get shit for b eing virgins

>>5466880
If you're not Chris-chan, i.e. don't talk about your virginity on the first date, then you shouldn't have a fucking problem.

>>5466792

Mmm, I understand this completely. I'm in the same position, though a couple of years older. Honestly I just don't know that many guys...comes of attending an all girls' school and then having courses/hobbies that are predominantly female.

Reading through this thread really isn't representative of the RL world I know though. I know a lot of virgins around my age and none of them are particularly concerned about it. Just don't feel that pressure.

in so far as i am concerned,
sex is fun, and nice to have often,
but is only a part of an effective romantic relationship.
however, it gets frustrating quickly if the you and the person you are in a relationship with are not sexually compatible.

that being said, i dont think that a romantic relationship is needed to have one of a sexual nature,
some of the best sex ive ever had was with friends.

i think society places way too much importance on sex/virginity. it is fun, everyone does it...we can get over it now.

>>5467754

God, fuck you for this image. I was trying so hard not to smoke right now but....screw it.

>>5467916