I'm stupid small, don't like to talk about it, but I recently unfriended all of the staple jealous fatties I knew on facebook because they started circle jerking about a girl none of them even knew being small, calling her a twig, disgusting, that they could "snap" her in two, and how they were all perfect just teh way tehy werr!

It took everything in me not to call them out on being such fuckall hypocrites, for no reason other than to give themselves a boost.
Just quietly put them away, to never be dealt with again.

I can't stand fatties almost ever.
>eaaah waaah people make fun of me!
>I'm ~TRYING~ to lose weight!
>I caaaan't lose weight!
>Thin girls aren't even real women! I'm going to just pretend my rolls of fat are voluptuous curves and instaid of working on making myself better, gear all my work into tearing other people down! Yeah!

Fuck 'em all.

Damn... I feel bad for the girl. Issues..

>>5264932
Let's see a picture of your then, fatty.

There's a Lolita in my community that is always having "photoshoots" but only ends up posting 3 or 4 photos and they hardly look professional at all.

Half of me secretly laughs at her and the other half feels sorry because she has such a man-face :/ Lucky for me, I have a typical cute Asian face :D

Pics or I call bs

Fat girls always like to point out my weight, and fail to realize I've had anorexia. It's a bit awkward to bring up, and even when I do hint at it, they continue to berate me.

Example:
>Good friend online, I've known her for quite some time. She knows what I look like, and I know what she looks like.
>I talk to her about my body issues, and problems, including difficulties eating, keeping things down, and the fact I've only drank water for the past few days and that's it.
>The moment I meet her in Las Vegas after a year of knowing her, getting past these issues, she points out how much of a stick I am, how I need to eat things, etc.

Thanks lady.

>>5264966
Why would you call bs?

>>5264950
I wonder if you know how I could make my fat stay in the torax instead of my butt, because you can count my ribs though the quilt.

>>5264971
>op posts bragging story about how they are so thin yet have big boobs
why wouldn't they?

Every fat girl I've been friends with, save for one, has gone out of their way to make me feel like shit for being thin, when they realized that didn't work, they started doing it for any little thing they could.

>>5264974
I don't think OP was bragging, she was stating a fact relevant to the story. Plus, she also said she wasn't that thin and wanted to lose weight.

>>5264987
>5'7
>wants to weigh 120
lol proana thread

Can we post stories of jelly bitches if it isn't weight-related? I have a shit ton of them related to my university.

I'm average, but I do have the garden variety image issues. I could always stand to drop 5 or 10 pounds, but I wouldn't go about bashing thinner women just because of my own insecurity. That's pathetic.

>>5264994
That's not pro-ana at all. Yeah, she'd be kinda thin at that weight for her height, but she'd still just hover on the edge of the healthy BMI range.

>>5264997
Please do

>that feel when you don't have any jelly stories to tell because you haven't talked to your friends in months

Not really personal, but it pisses me off SO FUCKING MUCH when I see really ugly girls bitching about others' looks. Bitch please, you're a fat single mum with a face like a slapped arse, you don't have a leg to stand on.

>>5265007
Ohay my new friend!

My stepsister is a bit of a land whale and really bitchy about it. She likes to joke in front of the family that I never eat and look like a starving African child. She's sit across from me with her boyfriend and laugh about how small my boobs are. She's also pregnant now, and she's started blaming all of her excess weight on the baby. I hate being around her, she makes me feel terrible.

>>5265009
THIS

Oh god, I know a girl who's fucking hideous and she calls other people ugly all the time, usually girls who are much more attractive then her.

>>5265003
Fair enough.

>go to prestigious university
>come home to circle of friends who are generally unambitious, certainly very few are academic
>on the way to a club with a few girls I haven't seen in ages
>chatting about what we've all been up to, I tell a few uni stories, girl D asks which uni I go to
>I tell her
>'Oh RIGHT... personally I'm proud of my achievements in life... I have my family, men tell me I'm a MILF all the time, wouldn't waste my time at uni tbh, I'd rather be a real bird with a real life than bother with all that bullshit... I'm cleverer than most of those ponces already!'
>she's a fat fugly single mum at the age of 20
>mfw

>>5264932
>Inform her of this, she doesn't believe me, flash her then show her the bra tag that clearly states the size (I've had to this several times. People don't tend to believe me...)

oh you.

>Have fatty friend who is also foreveralone
>She constantly bitches about how no guy will look at her, there is no love, life sucks, she wants a boyfriend and can't get one because she is fat and looks are all that matters
>Tell her that if she really dislikes how she looks, she can work to change that
>LOL NO ANON I WON'T LET SOCIETY TELL ME HOW TO LOOK I AM BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIIIIIIDE AND I LIKE CARBS WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT
>bitching resumes
>whatever.jpg
>Another fatty friend of us starts dieting seriously, drops loads of weight, everyone is very supporting
>LOOK AT SHEEP CONFORMING TO HOW SOCIETY WANTS WOMEN TO LOOK
>I'LL JUST SIT HERE AND HAVE ANOTHER DONUT

>>5265023
Oh and here's another one, I get this bullshit all the time.

>A girl who was in the year below me at school applies to my uni and gets rejected, pretty upset about it
>About to comment on her status saying 'really sorry to hear that, I'm sure you have loads of other offers though'
>see this, from girl C:
>'their loss, (my uni and its partner) don't turn out well-rounded individuals and everyone who goes there tends to be a disgusting snob, when i went (partner to my uni) i felt so out of place, my rejection was a blessing in disguise and i love (her uni) now (just in case you need some reassurance ha)
>before her rejection from that uni, she wouldn't shut the fuck up about how she was *easily (that uni) material* and how she was *100% confident, she could easily outclass a bunch of priate school ponces*
>after getting rejected, she spent a whole week bawwwing about how her life was over and no other uni was good enough for her
>now this shit
>mfw

>115lbs of awkward skinnyfat
>had a girlfriend who is around 150lbs-ish, but has a thin face and she got DEM CURVES
>constantly bitching how skinny i am and how i don't eat
>i eat, but besides walking around outside all the time i don't exercise
>constantly bitches about how she is the fatass, how im lying when i saw she's not fat and everything on her looks evenly distributed unlike my awkward lumpyself
>throws about how selfish i am to complain when she's suffering and can't loose weight

just fucking go outside, christ.
she has kind of masculine jaw, big hands and shoulders so i dont even know why she's so obsessed with being a skeleton. maybe im the jealous one but she is pretty fucking hot and was obsessed with the idea that everyone thought she was ugly.

>mfw when guys would come up to us when we're together and ask her for her number and some of our 'friends' immediately tried to sink their teeth in with her when i broke the crazy off
>mfw i have no face

Whenever fat bitches make fun of me for being skinny, I just tell them I'd rather be my size than fat.

That usually shuts them up.

>>5265025
I expected the next line to involve the hambeast molesting her. Not a smartmove, OP. Not a smart move.

>>5264932

I had a friend like this for years. I've got a hypermetabolism so it's hard for me to put on weight. 5'6" and 120 or so, but I've dropped as low as 110. Girl was 5'10 and 245 or something.

We were in a lot of the same groups and she would constantly make belittling remarks about how I was "too thin" and "no one likes girls too thin" and I had no figure and how she was going to be a ~professional model~ and had "real curves" and stuff like that.

We both worked at a Haunted House. I was the front door person, read the rules, interacted with the guests in line, etc. As such my make up wasn't as scary as the others, to get people in the door. I got told by a group of gay men I had beautiful bone structure and I should do modelling, which I thought was sweet. I told my friends and this girl goes "Yeah, cuz they thought you were a man!"

Another time I had a guy at the waffle house ask me for my number after we got off of work, I still had my make up on from the Haunt. I told him I was taken and told my friends after he left because, lol, dude just tried to pick me up at a WaHo what. The girl goes "Yeah, he thought you were a crack whore!"

It was just insane the amount of snide comments she would make about me while constantly talking herself up. It was just like...really. Really?

Insecure people are such downers.

>>ITT: Bitches with insecurities who think they're hot shit for picking on someone else with other insecurities.

It reeks of low self-esteem in here. Are there fat bitches with insecurities? Fuck yeah! But I can name plenty of skinny bitches who project too because they're insecure as well. Do I make a jelly wannerxic story thread? No. It's stupid, but I understand the majority of you posting need to feel good about yourselves at some point today, carry on.

3/10 Good troll idea.

>>5265018

What is even the proper response to being called a starving African child or a holocaust survivor?

I'm not even thin (5'9, 40-27-40), but I often get negative weight comments from this one fatty who lives in my dorm. When she tells me I should eat more, I want to tell her that she should eat less, but I know everyone will run to her defense because BAWWW she can't help that she's fat~

Why are people allowed to openly bash smokers, skinny people, and people who can actually maintain a healthy weight, but it's a crime to comment on a fatty's unhealthy diet and growing waistline?

>>5265050
I assume you're fat?

I had a fat fuck roommate who constantly raged at me for me being skinny. I tried really hard to include her in my work outs too so that she could feel better about herself. Went COMPLETELY out of my way for her. Even dealt with her telling mutual friends that I said she was fat and all this other crap to get people to give her some sympathy, which wasn't true.

I'm as fit as ever and she's as fat fuck as ever, still making excuses for being a lazy pig. Wearing a shirt she gave me that she fit into when she was a kid, chuckling to myself.

I give no fucks for jealous fatties with no self control.

>>5265055
It's a good troll idea anon, you don't need to be a specific body type to appreciate it.

>recently got wisdom teeth out
>complications afterwards involving massive amounts of blood
>can't eat for 6 days straight due to pain, and even drinking ensure involves vomiting
>ask friend to take me to the ER again for fluids or some shit because DAMN
>she wont do it
>manage to drink some ensure to keep me somewhat functioning
>two more days go by before i can start eating

now they berate me because i lost a crap ton of weight and said i did it all on purpose. :(

>>5265043
>"he thought you were a crack whore"
WTF that doesn't even make any sense!

>That OP picture

>Be fatty
>Hanging out with a group of friends
>Friend A brings a few of her friends along that we don't know
>Excited because I get to meet new people
>Friend A introduces Girl A and Girl B
>Chatchatchat
>Go out to eat
>Order food
>I order tea with lemon, salad and the chicken
>Finish salad (Yummy as fuck, btw)
>Barely finish the actual meal
>Push plate up slightly and start to tidy up my area
>Girl A: "You're done?"
>"Huh? Oh, yeah."
>Girl A: "Wow. You barely ate anything."
>"Ha, ha. I ate most of it..."
>Girl B: "No, she's right. You hardly ate it. You're not hungry?"
>"No. I think i stuffed myself." Nervous laugh.
>Girl A: "I thought fat chicks were always hungry."
>Girl B: "Yeah, I though so too."
>Girl A: "If you don't eat that much, how come you're so fat?"
>"... I guess because I don't exercise a lot...?"
>Girl A: "Oh, we all knew that."

I don't have a problem with friends commenting on my weight, but what the actual fuck? I don't even know you two ladies and you're acting like... cunts. Especially since I was nice enough to
pay for BOTH of your fucking meals.

What's funny is that I've lost a good 80+ pounds and every time I happen to run into them, they mention how twiggy I'm starting to get and that I need to "eat more."

>>5265060

I'm trying to see how telling stories about fat people being bitches to people because their insecure is "insecure girls making fun of others for their insecurities."

The thread's no different than the Weeaboo Horror Stories threads. Especially since they both usually include copious amounts of fat crazies

>>5265055
I think the same, and I'm not fat

>>5265061
Aw, my wisdom tooth extraction went horribly too, but my best friend just made me lots of vegan smoothies, coconut milkshakes, juices and soups. Sounds like you were even worse off :(

>>5265073
Holy shit that's fucking rude. Dumb, stupid and rude to say to you regardless of weight at the time.

>>5265073

Duude.... not cool.
I wouldnt have paid a dime. Not one red cent.

Glad to hear about your progress- sounds like theyre eatin crow.

>be 5'7" and 118lbs, mostly skinnyfat though working on it
>Friend is same height and 120lbs heavier
>I'm flat chested and she has unfortunately small breasts for a bigger girl
>Thinks because she's fat, excuse me, "curvy" it automatically means she has a huge rack
>Wears corsets all the time, breasts still barely create cleavage
>I wear one to a renaissance festival
>"Anon you really shouldn't wear a corset, you're a skeleton and you have no tits, it makes you look bad."
>Constantly talks about how men only like big girls with curves
>One night, get drunk, tell her I'm insecure about the width of my hips
>She says "Yeah, if I had fat hips like you I would be insecure too. Luckily my tits are so perfect and huge men can't resist me"
>She goes back and forth between "You're a flat-chested man" and "Your hips are fat and misshapen" for months.
>Feel incredibly down
>Become anorexic again for the first time since middle school

We don't hang out much anymore and I've recovered from anorexia again. Now I'm working on gaining muscle.
The kind of stuff she would say though, like calling me a fat-hipped freak one second and a manish skeleton the next really destroyed my self esteem.
In retrospect I understand what a huge bitch she was being but at the time, I believed every word and took all the comments to heart.

>>5265080
i woke up choking on my own blood and it was just awful. my neck, hands, chest, everything was covered. you know in cartoons where someone gets kicked or stabbed, then they just start spewing copious amounts of blood everywhere?
it was that IRL. had to beg someone to take me to the ER since i can't afford an ambulance and when i got there the staff were complete total assholes who just made fun of me and whined that i got blood everywhere.

just started to be able to chew normally the other day! two and half weeks of this crap was awful.

i still have to get my top wisdom teeth taken out too eventually. oh joy.

>>5265063

wut. u never picked up a crack whore before?

>>5265074
You could easily say just a "jelly bitch story thread." I know you're insecure just because it had to be a specific body type that you're targeting.
Also
>implying this shit isn't trolling
>implying this is like weeaboo stories when "jelly fatty stories" aren't even remotely related to /cgl/
You could have at least made it cosplay/lolita related, otherwise this shit belongs on /soc/
>

>(I've had to this several times. People don't tend to believe me...)

IT'S BECAUSE PEOPLE WANT TO SEE YOUR BOOBS YOU FUCKING RETARD.

God damn, women are naive.

I hate it when fat chicks try to validate themselves by saying "REAL women have curves".

Fuck you guys. Fat or curves don't make you a real woman and neither does being a 'stick'.
Its such a broad definition and its gross to try and label them all the same.

>>5265113

lol u mad fatty?

>>5265120
Not that I like the "real women have curves" slogan, in fact, I hate it.
But I can't even explain how many times I hear it coming from bitchy girls that "Nobody wants a fatty." Is that validation too?

How about you little shits stop trying to tell other people what they like/want and worry about yourselves? /rant

>>5265063

I don't even know what she was going on about. I was just like "Yeah, he thought I was a crack whore sitting here with a bunch of other people in make up and all wearing the same T-shirt from work. Totally."

Reverse jealous fatty story incoming.

>Be big girl
>unassuming and polite
>tell friends that they're beautiful because they are
>dress for my size
>be in a relationship
>people assume I'm crazy and a bitch because of these stupid fucking threads.

>>5265128
Because if we didn't pressure other people, everyone would look like this.

People are fucking stupid about their health and the people who actually DO give a fuck about themselves shouldn't have to suffer from people like this.

Fat people who are fat and have REAL health problems(and not caused by them being lards) are excluded from this.

>>5265128

It's not cool on anyone but it's more frequently "acceptable" to make fun of skinny girls. Because it's not pc to make fun of fat girls. Telling stories about people saying things out of jealousy isn't being insecure, especially since most of the stories are pretty WTF. Crackwhore comments, the fat girl driving a girl to anorexia..etc.

This thread makes me feel sad because I'm a whale and yes I'm a jealous fatty but I would never berate someone for their weight. Also it's my own damn fault I let myself become the way I am, why should I pick on skinny people? I personally think people who are skinny are an inspiration to fat people because if they can be skinny so can I. Just like if they felt like they wanted to be fat they can be.

>>5265136
What about fat people who arent huge like that and are health conscious? I take care of myself just fine, I just weigh more than your average girl. I'm not obese. I have asthma and arthritis, but they arent related to my weight. They probably contributed to it though. I have trouble exercising because it hurts and I feel like I'm suffocating. I need a knee replacement and when I can fially afford it maybe I'll be able to lose weight.

>>5265131
You will only be assuming to be a crazy bitch if you act like a crazy bitch.

Anyone who thinks otherwise is not worth your time.

>>5265037
Oxbridge girl?

>>5265139
so you're a fatty but not a jealous fatty?

then this thread isn't about you. people might not like you because your fat, but dont feel too bad because you wouldn't have ANYTHING going for you if you were jealous, bitchy and fat.

This thread makes me sad because almost all of the fat girls I know are completely lovely. The only bad experience I've ever had with a fat girl doesn't even really count because she had a mental problem.

>>5265139
Why are you jelly? If you want to be thin, change or try to. But there's no reason to be jealous. Its your fault (excluding magic weight gain medical issues) that you have the weight. It's your responsibility to lose it. So take responsibility then.

>Be actually curvy
>>have over10 inch difference between hip/waist
bust/waist
>>>not fat not skinny, but average
>>>> my rage when im described as curvy and people Are shocked when a fitizen walks through the door.

I make sure never to hang out with fat people or ugly people. I couldn't care less what they say to me, but my best friend is the prettiest little thing and they always go straight for her self esteem. Every time a fatty or ugly person even attempts to join my circle of friends, I crush their self esteem.

>Play online game with friends
>Other players find out what I look like thanks to fucking facebook suggestion shit
>One random girl begins to talk shit about me all the time
>Her and her internet friends constantly calling me names and implying that I'm anorexic and cut myself
>I'm 5'3" and 115 pounds, don't understand how that could look anorexic to anyone so I assume she's fat

>Find a scantily clad picture of her
>I was right
>She's fucking fat as hell
>Find out she cuts herself too
>Mfw

>>5265136
>Because if we didn't pressure other people, everyone would look like what doesn't appeal to my physical interests

So then why are you bitching about fatties picking on skinny people? By your logic, they're just "pressuring" people to conform into what they think is "socially acceptable" too. Your. troll. logic. doesn't. work.

>>5265147
Yep, Oxbridge. I swear nowhere else gets this much hate and bullshit. :C

>>5265153
You're just straight up a bad person for doing that. I can't stand people who bully others.

>>5265156
Sounds like a stereotypical low self-esteem case. Lashes out at others, attention seeking clothing, self-harming.

Pity her, is my suggestion.

>>5265140
i should probably start saying obese other than 'fat'. fat seems to have a really big definition.
it might not sound like it but i really don't hate people with a little extra weight and i don't think everyone is a cow. but could you imagine what people would look like if no one bothered anyone about their weight or appearance?
i used to be pretty goddamn fat and i would probably never have bothered to take care of myself and lost the weight if i didn't have the heat under my ass about it.

>>5265163
>my best friend is the prettiest little thing and they always go straight for her self esteem

Obviously it's mama hen's job to make sure her friend is kept safe because she obviously doesn't have the power to do it herself. But only ugly and fat people though, because they're the only people that can really hurt others based solely on their looks.

>>5265153
Sir, thats her problem, not yours, indeed, you're not the one to judge if a person is ugly or not.

>>5265161
does this appeal to you, then?

>Fat friend decides she needs to lose weight.
>Find out that she's joined a pro-enorexia group online.
>Having had an eating disorder, I talk to her sensibly and explain that she doesn't want to be a part of that, no matter how badly she thinks she does.
>Get accused of not wanting her to lose weight so that she stays the "fat friend" forever.
>Fat friend puts all of her concentration into losing weight, no matter what. Loses almost 150 pounds in 8 months.
>Ask her if she's still visiting the pro-anorexia website out of concern.
>Her hair is thinning, her nails are looking bad, her face is haggard- she looks awful and I'm genuinely worried because she's showing all the signs of an eating disorder.
>Get bitched out because I still want her to be the fat friend.
>Get told that I'm the fatass now, and that I'm just jealous of her transformation from a fat caterpillar into a beautiful butterfly.
>Have been friends with this girl for nearly 20 years. Am genuinely hurt and worried for her health.
>Three months later, can't figure out why our social group has completely ditched me for every get together we normally have.
>Find out that 'friend' has told them that I'm the one with an eating disorder, that I got her into anorexia and that she can't recover.
>Friends believe her.
>Left wondering what the fuck just happened.

>>5265180
Not that person, but no. This does though.

>>5265018
Am pregnant, and care to say (To your SIL) BULLSHIT. Having a baby doesn't mean you blow up like the GodDamned Goodyear blimp. ESPECIALLY if you're overweight to start with! IF you're overweight when you get pregnant, nine times out of ten, your doctor will insist that you watch your weight very carefully, adjust your diet accordingly and keep your routine up to par as much as you can until your final trimester.

Bitch just needs an excuse. What the everlovin' fuck.

>>5265131
>AMEN
>AMEN
>A-FUCKING-MEN

>>5265186
and she looks fine.

this thread isn't about average/chubby people in general. its the jealous bitchy ones who probably live off eating cheetos, ice cream and McDonalds. the same ones who try to validate themselves by putting down other women(and not 'proana' women because vicious proanas are just as bad as jealous fatties) because they don't have 'curves'.
i admit i do hate the 'willingly' obese(its not fun watching your relatives need to get multiple limbs cut off because of diabetes, and them walk around with bruises the size of dinner plates because their skin is literally fucking rotting away and you can smell it) but i don't have beef for your average extra weight.

>>5265128
There's a difference between saying "you're unattractive" and saying "you're a sexless freak of nature."

>Had a room mate during college
>Most unfortunate looking girl ever
>Really fat, but absolutely no tits, really pinched face
>She seemed nice when we first met, and I wasn't exactly thin at the time, so I thought we would get along.
>LOLNO
>Turns out she had gained a bunch of weight between high school and college, so she was extremely defensive about weight.
>She had a ton of clothes around that didn't fit her anymore. She would lend them to me, and when they fit just fine she would glare at me and go "Shit! You look so cute!" As if she was yelling that I had shit on her floor.
>Just generally bitchy pissed off attitude at me all the time for anything, mixed in with being perfectly fine and nice.
>I start trying to lose weight, and am moderately successful, which just enrages her.
>"Anon! You don't need to lose weight! You're too thin already! You'll lose your boobs! Don't give in to society! Real women have curves! ect ect ect" all day erry day.
>Constantly trying to sabotage my diet. Getting supper butt hurt if I don't go out to restaurants every night, throwing out my healthy food because it had "gone bad" (I just bought it), and guilt tripping me whenever I want to go to the gym by saying she wanted to hang out all day and her classes are soooo haaaaard.
>Things eventually completely disintegrate.
>We separate on pretty damn bad terms. (Crazy bitch literally separated all our belongings onto either side of the apartment, down to putting out shampoos on different sides of the shower. I was surprised she didn't put a line of tape down the center or something.)
>I drop from obese to lower end of normal weight over the next year.
>She still goes to a con I like to go to. See her around, never talk. She keeps getting fatter, I keep getting thinner.
>She caught my eyes from across the hall one time. She was sneering, her lip practically curled up into her nose.
>I blew her a kiss.

>>5265213
>I blew her a kiss.

I snickered.

>>5265162
I'm wallowing in admiration right now.

>>5265213

see, THAT bitch is nuts.

>>5265206
I eat mcdonalds two to three times a week, no vegetables fruits, vitamins or anything healthy and don't excersize at all. I'm 5'5, 110. Habits don't decide your weight.

> Have (now ex) "friend" who is a massive fatty
> Be a big guy and get fed up with it
> Sort out my lifestyle
> Lose seventy pounds in two years
> Get constantly bitched about by her
> Get called fat-phobic
> Get accused of "cheating" (?!?!?) to lose weight
> Listen to her tell me a million fucking times that she's "lactose intolerant", or
> Her weight is "glandular", or
> Claims she eats less calories than she burns, all while she's
> Eating a cake thicker than a fucking door with ice cream on it
> She gets butt-hurt when I flip her the finger and stop hanging out
> Now bitches about me endlessly
> I literally could not give a fuck
> feelsgoodman.jpg

>>5265206
So you mean obese people. Not fat people. Look at societies standards. I'm gonna self-post and know you guys are gonna hate it because it's fucking me, but just look at me, and then the model. That's whats considered attractive now. Standards are so high that some days I don't even leave my bed I'm so depressed, I just want to take a knife to my thighs and stomach and carve it out. I hate it so much. I lost over 100 pounds and all people notice is that I haven't lost it all yet. Progress is slow for healthy weight loss.

>>5265225
I doubt that somehow but lolok. Only old people ever have anything good to say about it :<

>>5265236
How old are you?

If you're under 23-ish, it's your young-person-high-metabolism.
Keep up those eating habits and it'll all come back.

I do have a great crazy-bitch story, but I'm playing the part of the 'fatty' (5"9, 160lbs)

>Hubby and I decide that we're going to do the roomie thing during the first year of our marraige to save for a nice place.
>Move in with ultra-skinny man and his commonlaw-wife.
>Find out REALLY early on that wifey is crazy as fuck
>Constantly trying to shove food down my face while bitching about how huge she's gotten
>Explain calmly that I'm not a huge eater, that yeah, I'm fat, but no- I don't need to eat constantly.
>Have a pretty fair idea of what I look like, dress accordingly.
>She constantly tries to get me to pour my fatass into her six 00 skinny jeans, her xxSm tees and tells me how cute I'd be in them.
>try to smile, because I think she's trying to be nice, if a little bit naive.
>Find out later that she was trying to RLtroll me into her tiny clothes so she could post pics online and have a good laugh.
>Find out she went online and made up stories about me sitting down to eat entire cakes, pies or tubs of ice cream in one sitting.
>Confront her about it. Expect her to be an adult.
>LOL yeah right
>Get told that it's not her fault I'm a fatass and a pig. I'm jealous of her AMAZING BEAUTY!
>Explain that she's not pretty at all with her large jaw, sunken cheeks, baggy eyes (She's a non-sleeper), saggy tits and smokers teeth.
>Bitch tries to throw a punch, hits the TV stand instead, breaks two fingers.
>Tells everyone I did it.

I hate to tell you, but it ain't just weight that makes people fucking nuts.

>>5265247
I know how you feel. :|

>>5265240
i don't think you're fat though. and not saying that to be nice to you either.

but since that got so fucking derailed, the entire point of me saying that i hate the 'curves' slogan is that having curves/being fat/being morbidly obese isn't what makes a woman a 'real' woman. it just even worse when it comes from jealous fatties.

>>5265162
Augh, the shit Oxbridge gets. worse than primary school.

I just got my rejection letter from Oxford. Bunch of people swarmed on my fb status bashing it and making 'who wants to go there anyway' comments.

Bitches, I do. I loved it there. And we have friends who got in. Shut the fuck up.

sage for no fat or physically unattractive people

>>5265240
I don't know what people you're hanging around with but that model is anything but attractive.

Don't hate yourself, please. You should be proud for losing so much weight. It can be really difficult.

>>5265240
>mfw dem thighs

>>5265240

Why does everybody think that models portray society's standards
They're models cause they model clothes
not accepted body types

>>5265240
Whoa whoa whoa.

That's not what's considered attractive, that's just a runway model. The thing is, ladies, models are just sticks to showcase clothes on. Women arent usually that size and men don't usually even LIKE that size either. Average body types are more ideal. Thin but with lady bits-and I don't mean THIN thin like a runway model. Just normal thin. Skinny. You know? Average. Besides you don't even look that chubby. If you lost like 20 pounds you'd be set.

I know a couple of fat girls and they are some of the nicest girls I've ever met.

>>5265240

Runway models are not what's considered attractive, anon. Runway models are meant to look waifish and alien because High Fashion is more about Art than usability in the real world. You'd be better off posting celebrities or print models.

And your picture seems so familiar. Did you go by Kankuro for awhile? Or post in one of the threads she did?

>>5265254
Isn't it ridiculous? It's such a double standard, jelly cunts CONSTANTLY bitch about my uni, then leap on anything positive I say about it as an insult to their own. So immature. Which college did you apply to, btw? Sorry to hear you didn't get in

>>5265244
No, I'm being genuine. It really honestly impresses me.

Now I feel like a bitch.

>>5265240
it really annoys me when people post couture fashion and say "this is today's beauty standard" when it clearly is not.
they even pick models that look weird because it's unique to them.

post a cover of cosmo or elle or something, but do not try to argue that runway fashion models with all their frizzy poofed out hairsprayed hair and zombie makeup are today's beauty standards.

>>5265254
I hated that when my friends and I were getting our college letters back. To hear people putting down a school that I got into just to make other people feel better...

especially when they called it a "rich kid" school. urp.

>>5265273
Oh, sorry. Just the way you phrased it didn't sound very sincere at all

>>5265253
But when you guys see my face (I'm lucky you didn't recognize me by that picture alone) you all call me disgusting and a landwhale.
>>5265263
>>5265255
I always thought that models were chosen because they looked like twinks and designers are gay.

>>5265257
I''m flattered, I think...

>>5265240
Fuck off that model, she's just a bunch of bones. You're nice =D

>>5265246
I'm definitely under 23. I figure most people who're into cosplay are. I'd probably stop if I gained lots of weight, but doing this I'm 20 pounds under weight. It's probably malnourishment. I don't feel like I look that underweight, but I do get the "YOU'RE TOO SKINNY! GUYS DON'T LIKE SKINNY GIRLS!" thing, a lot.

>>5265276

I have two degrees from Russell Group top five universities. My other half has an Oxford degree. She probably worked twice as hard for the one that I had to for both of mine, and that is reflected both in the value of her degree and the entry standards of Oxford.

People who whine about Oxbridge as if they're a tenth as clever and hard working as the people who go there are fucking idiots with inferiority complexes.

>>5265281
Well...so what do you want us to say?

>>5265274
word

>>5265285
I don't know how to say this nicely so I'll say it as politely as possible. You are underweight, you can tell because your head is too big for your body. Please try eating more or eating better food.

>>5265278
No worries. I have that effect in person as well.

> mfw I'm a bit of a fatty with a lot of skinny friends and read these stories
Holy fuck, I can see why people may hate me before they get to know me from reading these. I refuse to make fun of smaller/thinner women because a body type doesn't define someone's gender. I know that someone who is half my size is just as much of a woman as I am. This shit makes me really pissed off at the group I'm automatically lumped into.

>>5265288
I'm not sure what you mean.

>>5265286
Wow... I find that kind of hard to believe (Oxford anon here). I've only just finished my first term, but it hasn't been anywhere near as difficult or stressful as I expected. Then again, I go to 'the drinking college' and I think we give considerably less of a fuck than the famous colleges.

>>5265288
She wants you to compliment her for being beautiful and not the standard size of beauty.

>>5265281

You ARE Kankuro aren't you?

>>5265295

She's a biologist, went to St. Johns.

>>5265240
Sis, I'm a freelance model. Whoever told you that is the standard of beauty is sorely mistaken.

It is not.

And if you have convinced yourself that it is, you are mistaken as well. The runway is not representative of the 'standard of beauty' chosen within Western society. The models are chosen by the designers for their ability to fit into the clothing samples they have made. Their choice to make the sample a 0 or 2 is not representative of society as whole. Far from. The sizes are chosen to best flatter design of the piece. It's all about making the clothing appear flattering.

>>5265298
...yeah.

I just have this horrible stigma here, even when I'm being sincere and trying to help I just fuck everything up.

>>5265290
What do you suggest eating? I eat a lot, but if I try vegetables or fruits I gag. ;_;

>>5265299
Ahh, that explains everything, St Johns seems to work their students a bit harder than us, plus sciences are a hell of a lot harder than humanities, going by how much work my college husband has.

I'm doing German at St Peter's, having the time of my life.

>>5265286
I'm torn between trying again for Oxford next year or just going to another uni. I mean, I can't see how much better I can get in application terms, but I really did love it there and I think I could do much much better on the interview.

I should probably take my whiny uni woes somewhere else. Sob sob.

(Captcha: oxeders Obviously, - are you trying to tell me something Captcha? Should I try again?)

>>5265281
>you guys
you know not all of /cgl/ consists of trolls who think anyone other than tiny asian people are all superior in every way, right?

now you're sounding super whiny and annoying.

>>5265310

And will still cash on in the Oxford name, you jammy Anon - So who's the clever one? Hehehe :D

>>5265308
Meat and dairy, you look like you need protein.

>>5265247

>mfw I am 5'9, 160 lbs, and never considered myself fat until now.

>>5265304
I have a model for a friend, which might help with my problems. I want to work in the plus-size field but I have strange facial features.

Would you mind posting a picture of yourself, if its not too much to ask?

>>5265312

It's Kankuro. She spent like three or four threads bashing all over thin girls. She's like the epitome of jealous fatty bitch. She tried to play the victim after telling thin girls they weren't attractive because they can't have babies and raise children.

We don't call her disgusting and a landwhale because of her looks, we call her that because of her personality.

>>5265317
Precisely. Then again, I probably AM doing a lot more work than language students elsewhere, given that my friends doing German at other unis seem to do precisely dick. I guess language degress are just easymodo if you have a talent for it.

>>5265311
Sure, take it elsewhere, I'd like to talk to you more about this because I love it so much here and it'd be great if I could be any help at all with someone else's re-application. My skype is hexen_harlot, add me?

>>5265305
then stop posting?

why do you post yourself here if you know you're going to be ridiculed and mocked? i don't understand the masochism of people here. even with 'attractive' people here, they still get bashed and ripped to shreds. this is definitely not the place to come looking for asspats.

>>5265311

Oxford interviews can be mental, but they have to be. They're basically whittling down the top 0.5% of A-Level students who *all have the same grades*. Chucking questions straight out of left field to see how you respond is how they deal with that. Mine was "Do you prefer blue or eggs". I got SO stoned thinking about that afterwards.

>>5265320
If you didn't feel like it before, now is not the time to start over some view someone else has of their own body that is probably shaped differently.

>>5265312
I did some stupid shit and did some even more stupid shit and said even more stupid shit and then when I tried to act normal thats all people could associate me with. I'm not trying to be whiny, but it's true. Do I look familiar to you?

>>5265320
I'm not trying to insinuate that anyone at my size (at that time) is fat. But... I know that if I had posted with "I'm average" or "Normal" the instant /cgl/ response would have been "Landwhale detected!" "Fatty!"

It's a /cgl/ thing.

For the record, if you're 5"9 and 160, you're right in the average/healthy category of weight according to most doctors. You're not fat. And I might not have needed to refer to myself as that, but.. It's how I felt at the same time.

I'm a hell of a lot bigger these days when I was back then.. And I won't lie- I'd break every one of my fingers and both my legs if I could be that size again.

>>5265330
I think they just want to prove a point. 4chan is the last place anyone should look for 'asspats.'

>>5265330
There's no where else to go for good advice on cosplay. Trust me.

>>5265333

ahahahaha 5 captcha girl

>145lbs 5' 11"
>know a guy over 200lbs
>he keeps telling me I look like a boy and that no woman would like me
>I tell him he's just mad because his fat is covering is dick
>He tells me he's average, around 6 inches
>I tell him I'm almost 8 inches
>He calls bullshit
>I show him the phallus
>Never hear a word from him again

>>5265333
you don't, but then again i don't come here solely for drama.

but now that someone has filled in who you are, you're exactly what i mean about jealous bitches who try to validate themselves by trying to dictate what a 'real' woman is. congrats! you are no better than the 'twigs' who make fun of average/chubby people.

and now you're just posting yourself more for.. i don't even know why. if you want attention then yeah, keep posting i guess. it isn't going to do wonders for your self esteem.

>>5265338

Their point is as stupid now as it was then. But it explains why she wants the girls complaining to be "insecure". Because this bitch wants sympathy for losing weight but still wants to bash on thin girls.

>>5265342
You bet. I've gotten professional help since then.

>>5265348
I'm not trying to. I realize that what I did was wrong, and I know if I apologize it won't make a difference, but I am sorry. I am so sorry that I acted so selfishly and so childishly. There's no reason I did and I want to fix it but I can't.

>>5265321
Sorry. I don't self-post to 4chan for various reasons.

But note, while I revealed that I'm a freelance model, I never told you my size.
I'm 35-25-35 but it could be just as likely that i'm 40-30-40. Or 32-35-38. There is a very large range of sizes and shapes. Check out modelmayhem.com if you want to see what I mean.

I have extremely large breasts for my size, so I am also not representative.

And strange facial features can actually be played up. It seems that a lot of agency models have odd features. It makes them stand out honestly.

Good luck. You're lucky you have a friend to give you advice.

>>5265340

You know you don't need to self post yourself and cry for sympathy to get cosplay advice. Especially in a non-cosplay related thread. It just reeks of seeking validation and attention whoring.

>>5265347

If this is true- I applaud you.

>>5265349
>>5265348
>implying this thread isn't one big clusterfuck for insecure bitches to try to validate their body types
Really? You're going to start pointing fingers at that anon -now- after all this time?
Get a clue, you're in a thread dedicated to pointless validation and insecurity.

>>5265358
It's stuff like 'how do I paint my face to look like x character' and people ask for a self-post.

Trust me I disliked self-posting here. I only do it when it contributes to the thread or when I'm asked now.

>>5265360

Not really, most of the thread was about people saying stupid shit to them because they were jealous as fuck.

Like the crackwhore story, or the girl who was driven to anorexia by her fat friend. It's more about schadenfreude from crazy bitches then "validation".

>>5265360
Don't the majority of threads here on /cgl/ end up being body-justification/fatty-hate/skinny-hate threads?

Very seldom do I see a thread on here that doesn't end up with some size argument. Threads like these just justify why we should hate anyone who isn't what we find attractive.

>>5265347
I imagine he stopped talking to you because you showed him your dick you fucking faggot.

>>5265368
>dont like posting yourself

THEN DON'T FUCKING DO IT. jesus christ. no one has a gun to your head.
want to learn how to paint your face like something? don't post a picture of yourself, just fucking ask or LURK THE FUCK MORE.

>Be 5'8" and 125lb, 28 inch waist
>male
>Medication leaves me with no appetite
>fast metabolism. Whatever I do eat never seems to add on.
>Eat just enough to keep my weight
>get shit from fat friends for being skinny
>Get shit from skinny girls for being skinny
>Every girlfriend so far can't help but bitch that I'm skinnier than her
>cant win.jpg

Oh my god why are you guys so shocked to hear about a thin girl with large breasts? I'm thin and I had DD's up until a few months ago. They were TERRIBLE on my back and the constant pain/headaches became too much so I had them reduced to C's. Best decision I've made in life so far. Big boobs on thin girls isnt some super crazy rare thing though jeez.

Honestly it seems like fatties are getting mad that there's actually a thread about them and how they bitch about thin people so much for once.

>>5265350

good. I bet your "profession help" told you to stay the fuck out of 4chan so gtfo.

>>5265368

You self-posting in this thread wasn't asked for, nor contributed to the thread. Especially not the second time where you were all "LOOK AT MY FACE RECOGNIZE ME".

It was just you whining for attention and trying to guilt someone for thinking differently than you.

>>5265333
If that's you, then you're pretty and have nothing to worry about.

/cgl/ can be abrasive but it looks like you've gotten your "punishment," or whatever, for old posts, so don't be afraid to post here.

>>5265380
I wanna get a reduction. Did your insurance cover it? or was is "cosmetical" ?

>>5265377
I don't know if you misread but I said that I was asked. I lurk a lot but most of /cgl/ is tiny and pretty or won't help.

I'm here a lot more than you would think, helping in wig threads and posting lolita and asking about wedding dresses.

>>5265386

What the fuck does being tiny and pretty have to do with anything?

>>5265373
Yeah, I do notice. And it sucks.

>>5265383
And I wouldn't have known any of this drama stuff about you if you hadn't brought it up. Just move on and ignore the butthurt anons who dwell on the past.You say that you've gotten over it but your posts in this thread indicate otherwise.

I'm trying to be nice, so I'm sorry if I come across as harsh. I bear you no ill will!

>>5265384
I'm not the person you're replying to, but I'm in Canada, and my healthcare covers the breast reduction because I suffer from back and shoulder pain, as well as migraines associated with the excess weight.

If it wasn't for being a "Medical" reduction, I'd have to pay the $$ out of my own pocket to cover costs.

>>5265382
I thought I did, and I know the second one was excessive. I'm sorry.

>>5265390
It's one of the many joys of 4-chan.

wall of text incoming
>Be underweight due to hyperthyroidism, basically my whole life
>Get called anorexic, stick, ugly boy-body, flat chested, gross, skeleton, etc on a daily basis in middle school
>Go home and stuff face till I'm sick, never exercise because I was terrified of burning calories (at this point I was unaware of the hyperthroid)
>Finally drop out and get homeschooled
>Not made fun of because I was practically a hermit, start to post pictures online about a year later, they get fairly popular and I'm feeling good for once
>Start seeing comments saying the same things; "She looks like a boy, real women have CURVES" (I have an 11" difference between waist and hips...) Sick, disgusting, girls like this shouldn't exist, she's obviously got a disorder
>Go to doctor for exam, she thinks I'm fine till she looks at the BMI chart, all of a sudden freaks out and threatens to hospitalize and force-feed me
>Wants me to eat 3,000-4,000 calories a day
>What the actual fuck
>Start eating really unhealthy shit just to get calories, refuse to exercise again, give up and active hobbies (discover 4chan)
>Am now unhealthy as fuck because of that
>Finally went to a good doctor and they found out my condition
>Still get called horrible names
>It still hurts
>But at least I have a good reason now
Moral of the horribly told story: Don't go around calling skinny girls shit, even if you're big. It might make you feel better for a while but it's still the same as when people call you names. And yes, skinny girls do have feelings too.

im 5'7 and 114 lbs usually
my bf thinks im fat
my friends (mostly short fatties) think im too tall and skinny

> 5'9", chub but not spherical
> hypoglycemic / low blood pressure issues
> pull out granola bars in class one day because I feel woozy
> teacher knows of issues, allows it as long as I don't make a mess
> girls sitting near me start complaining about "fatasses who always have to stuff their faces"

And this is why I hated high school. I'm fat because I'm lazy, not because I feel I must eat 24/7.

>>5265378
I like skinny boys <3

>Always be the fat friend in high school
>So many years of "You're too skinny, guys love ~curves~"
>Finally hits me that no guy actually likes my "curves"
>Lose 55lbs
>Stuck at 185lbs
>Want to be 160

SO CLOSE, SEAGULLS. :C

>>5265386
> I lurk a lot but most of /cgl/ is tiny and pretty or won't help.

Again. You were mistaken. Why would you assume that most of /cgl/ is above average in facial attractiveness and below average for weight?

Self-post threads are also not representative of the people who come to /cgl/.

Don't assume things, sis. It obviously makes you sad and feel inferior.

I know I shouldn't give you a buttpat.. but you have a pretty face and beautiful eyes. You're also not "fat", in my opinion. Try not to be so down on yourself. You've come along through hard out it sounds. Mentally and physically by the sounds of it?

>>5265400
Your story made me want to bitch slap someone. And it only further serves to prove that sanity is not determined by size.

>>5265392
Dang thanks. I live in US so shit pretty much sucks here. Should I feed my doctor lies? My back doesn't hurt or anything.. My proper bra fitting is an "I" so that pretty much sucks.

>>5265388
As a general, tiny, pretty girls and boys don't know how to make fat and ugly look tiny and pretty.

>>5265391
Thank you for that. I mean no harm to thin people as a general, but those who victimize bigger girls on the stereotype that we're jealous bitches just drive me insane! I'm working towards a lower weight, but it takes time with my weak health. I'm trying to improve myself for me. For my health and self-esteem.

I'm sorry if I sound a little weird, I'm just trying to be a better person and I'm not very good at being a good person so I trip up some times.

>>5265404
Indeed. And they were all "skinny bitches" either. Just bitches.

>>5265402

Holy balls anon. Congrats on waking up and losing the weight.

Even at 185 I just have to say you look good. How tall are you?

>>5265402
If you wanna lose more, that's alright. But I think you look awesome right now, even at 180. Just sayin.

>>5265398
This is terrible. Sorry anon. If my bf ever called me fat and meant it I'd be so pissed. It's one thing to try to help your partner lose weight, but it's another thing to be verbally abusive and make them feel like shit.

>>5265405
I would never suggest lying to your doctor, but if your breasts are causing you other problems (Psychological issues) I know of girls who have spoken to their shrinks/therapists and have gotten their reductions done on healthcare dollars because it's still considered a health issue, even if it isn't physical.

Talk to your doctor anyway. You'd be surprised at how many would be willing to help you.

>>5265384
My insurance covered it 100% !! I didn't pay a thing. It was considered medical because I had gone to the doctor about it many times over the span of 3 to 4 years. I tried many treatments to deal with the pain.. massages, different types of bras, exercising my upper area..none of it worked. At first I had a doctor that constantly rejected me because he said "well you look fine" but finally I was transferred to a different doctor who agree'd to it right away since he could tell I really was in pain.

The issues I had before were trouble sleeping, neck pain, back pain, rashes, headaches, slouching/posture, getting tired easily. Aesthetic wise I hated that anything a normal sized girl could wear looked cute but if I wore it it looked slutty. Hated being hit on, hated that no matter how hard I tried to cover them people still looked at them instead of me haha. I spilled all of this to my doctor too. It's been about 4 months since the surgery and I'm absolutely in love with the result.

>>5265402

wow!! good fucking job! :D I am so proud of you Anon.

how does that feel? it must be so bizarre.

>>5265403
I'm glad someone takes me seriously! Thank you for the advice. I didn't know that, actually and I appreciate you telling me.

Yeah, I've experienced some pretty bad stuff. I don't really have anyone to talk to so the pressure and sadness just rots inside me until I become a bitter, senseless, mean person.

I'm sorry if I ruined anyone's day.

>>5265408

Umm, no. No that's not general, that's not even close to being true. Size and beauty have nothing to do with skill. Absolutely nothing.

And you don't know what the word "victimize" means. You're victimizing youself because someone bitching about a fat girl being a bitch out of jealousy = ALL FAT GIRLS ARE JEALOUS.

Just stop while you're ahead. Please.

>>5265417

....Dear god everything but the rashes sounds like me. Maybe all my problems are due to my breasts. I never even thought of that.

>>5265398
solution: get rid of bf.

>>5265435
Canadian here: Definitely talk to your doctor!

>>5265436

this.

>>5265427
No that's not what I meant!

I meant that girls who assume all fat girls are bitches or psychos are being presumptive and stereotyping. I'm not acting as if it's never happened to me. I've met people from /cgl/ at conventions that assumed I was a bitch and then go 'oh gosh you're so different than what I expected!'

I tend to wear fairly loose clothes and long sleeves. I'm short, and people generally think I'm skinnyfat
>go to hang out in hotel pool
>take off towel
>insecure bitch 'friend' sees and immediately starts bashing
>"Ew, you shouldn't wear a bikini, your thighs look like cottage cheese. Look at that belly, are you pregnant?" etc
>Fat friend whitenights me with "real women have curves" and "she's a cosfluffer!"
>get supportive messages on Facebook and made member of cosfluffer (fat girl cosplayers) group.
>forever labeled fat
>I'm 5'3" and under 100lbs.
That sure helped my anorexia

>>5265451
Your Bitch friend isn't a friend. Just a bitch. What the fuck?

>>5265412

5'8". I'm about a size 10-12, I'd like to be a 6-8.

>>5265424

It feels better... I'm still on the large end of the scale (ha) but I can't believe how out of touch I was with my weight. I honestly thought I wasn't that overweight, and was shocked to find out I weighed more at my heaviest than my mother. I refused to believe I was obese. Now I'm stuck in the mindset of "I'm still fat" because I don't want to fool myself. My mom's joined me and lost 20lbs so far, and it's killing me how fast it's falling off her.

>am 5'8" chubs at 147, was 180+ in January
>Dieting, lost lots of weight. Eating healthy.
>Have really bad sweet tooth.
>Sometimes splurge on my favorite rocky road cake pops from Starbucks to make sweet tooth shut the fuck up.
>They are only like 200 calories whatever I can manage them into my diet a few times a week.
>EVERY TIME my skinny ass boss sees me eating one she makes comments like "Really, come on!" and shit like that, like I am eating an entire cake or something.
>Mfw fuck I want to smack that skinny bitch, let me eat my cake pop in piece.

>>5265448

I doubt that has anything to do being fat, and everything to do with you, I dunno being a jealous crazy bitch ON /cgl/.

Stop victimizing yourself.

>>5265435
It's very possible. The difference between having large breasts and smaller ones is just..I can't put it into words. I always had to wear a bra or else it felt like I was being pulled down, the weight was too much. Now I walk around topless at home! It's so free feeling and my sleep is just fantastic. I never knew how good it felt to sleep on my stomach without being propped up awkwardly with tits. I havent had a headache outside of periods since either. If you're in that kind of pain I'd defiantly see a doctor about it! Just make sure you don't get an asshole. I know it's hard to tell which ones are good or bad but with the first doctor I saw I later found out that he would only give breast reductions to large women because he found them unattractive anyway. He refused me because I was thin and he had refused a few other thin women as well. I wasted 2 years dealing with that prick.

>>5265478
I am so jealous. These fucking lumps of fat tissue. I don't even have big breasts! And they're still so, so annoying.

>>5265398
He is delusional. You're actually slightly underweight. Not in the unhealthy range. But just under "normal/average".

Please find a better boyfriend. This was sounds off his rocker or abusive.

>>5265469
I'll admit I was straight rotten there for a while. I'm trying to change for the better, and leave my horrid personage behind me. I'm changing my name when I get married as symbolism for starting over.

>>5265490

And yet you're still thinking "It's not because I'm a bitch that people think I'm a bitch. It's because I'm fat and their stereotyping me!"

You want to change, stop that. Girls in this thread aren't talking about any fat people, they're talking about the fat girls insecure with themselves who feel the need to bash, harrass and do the whole "fat pride! Real woman have curves!" shit.

>>5265402
YOURE BOOBS ARE SO HUGE AND FLUFFFY LOOKING. I just want to mush them in my face.

>>5265501
I don't consider myself a bitch anymore, though I have done some bitchy things recently. I used to be a bitch, yes. But I'm really trying to be a better person. This stereotype has been placed on me because of my history and because of the generalization that all fat people are the same.

I appreciate your advice and will try to take it into heart. Thank you for respecting me and giving me good advice.

>>5265506

You're still doing it. Your reputation has nothing to do with your size. Repeat after me. Your reputation has nothing to do with your size. It has everything to do with your actions.

You continue with that victim mentality and you will NEVER get where you want to be.

these days, i usually don't get anything more than "oh you really should eat more!" despite the fact i eat plenty. i love food. food is awesome.
although when i was younger, people did assume i had an eating disorder. that was fun. oh, and someone on here called me 'holocaust skinny' once, but that happened awhile ago.

5'10 and 112lbs btw

>>5265556
That's.... horrendously skinny.

You probably have infinite metabolism.

>>5265564
i swear i used to be 120lbs, but i have no idea where that weight went... one day i stepped on the scale and i was ten pounds lighter. a mystery...

anyway, i've always had a very high metabolism, but it's going to go out one day...!

>>5265573
I've noticed the 100-120 pound range is very..... inconsistent.
I weigh about the same as you do, and I keep gaining and losing pounds at the most random increments and times, while nothing changed in my habits. I wouldn't worry about it.

But dat height. Wow.

>>5265573
>>5265579
I'm assuming the fluctuation would have to do with how much water weight you carry and if you've eaten well or not.
A person can easily weight +/- 5 pounds in a day due to this, 10 isn't hard to conceive. Weigh yourselves at the very start of the day, if you weigh yourself in the afternoon after you've eaten and drank more you will weigh more.

>>5265586
i knew about water weight, but i didn't think it could be such a large number. i always thought it would only be a couple of pounds, haha.

still, this sort of clears up the confusion i had. thank you!

>>5265594
Yeah trust me, the numbers can be pretty impressive.

When I was on a diet, I went to weigh myself one morning to see what I perceived to be a 8 pound drop from the day before. However, the next day I weighed myself in the afternoon to find that I had gained the 8 pounds back plus 1. I ate below 1200 cals and had exercised so I knew it wasn't 'real' gain, it's just water/food/excrement. It's kind of a downer sometimes.

>>5265579

I'm generally about 110 but I can fluctuate anywhere 107 to 115.

it seems bizarre but...

I only weigh myself once a week and I usually try to eat a light meal earlier in the evening the day before, so I'll definitely poop most of my meals out before the next morning...

Wow these stories are frightening :(

> 5'10, 135lbs. Athletic fat (?) Wide hips, no boobs really.
>At con with girlfriends raging in sizes that are comfortable with themselves. Some are working to loose weight so I teach them Middle Eastern Dance and African dance to work out and have fun.
>Have a performance at a con which went very well showing off a multitude of different bodies in different styles. We had a blast.
>Approached by some large con girls who wanted me to teach them or where to sign up. Offered my studio hours, other studios and what is expected like hours and money.
>We dance from 1pm to 4pm on good days. Pay is a whole other topic.
>They blanch at my hours; "OMG how can you dance so long, you don't even have time to eat lunch or anything?!"
>Well the first hour is warm up and muscle training, then we dance.
>"Wow that sounds like a lot of work."
>My friend : "It is but its so much fun and you don't even realize the amount of weight you lose."
>Them: "Are you saying we are fat or something?"
>...................whoa, we fell for that one...........
Make up pathetic excuse to run away.

>>5265625
psssh that's an easy save.
say 'nothing about you, but you wouldn't believe how much weight *we've* lost.'

>>5265556
so jelly, any pictures?

>>5265625
lol, I've fallen for this trap before. Offer help, suggestions, aid. They accuse you of calling them fat, obese, etc. Feel really awkward. Call you nasty names then leave. Just plain strange.

>>5265635
good idea! I wish we had thought of that...it just got extremely awkward and they glared at us if we passed in the halls.

>>5265625
"Yes" is what you should have said.
>Captcha: performance dressay

I sort of have a story like this, but there's nothing really juicy about it. I was friends with a girl in high school and early middle school who was morbidly obese to the point where in gym class she actually gave herself a black eye because her tit flopped up and smacked her in the face. She was your typical attention whore: she was Wiccan and would always buy candles for "rituals", she was obsessed with sex, and she cut herself (which, while a serious concern, ended up being another bit of contempt I held because I genuinely cared about her and she was lightly slashing up her wrists with one of those three-bladed Gilette razors just for show). She would constantly rag on me about how I ought to eat a sandwich (even though I was on the chunky end of a healthy weight my whole life), and her catch phrase was "I COULD EAT YOU." In high school she ended up making a mutual friend of ours cry because the girl actually was legitimately scrawny due to anorexia.

I stopped talking to her not because of the weight difference causing rifts, but more because she was desperately playing every possible side she could and was antagonizing and shit-stirring.

Jesus christ, I went to an all girls school, and I never witnessed anything as catty these stories. Do people like this really exist?

People still call me fat.

>>5265659
Though I'm obviously not.

>>5265661

>>5265661

why would you take a picture of a beached whale under a pier and just stand there and not try and help it back into the ocean?

Actual land-planet here, long-time lurker but never posted because I'm always afraid of the backlash.

I'm an honest land whale. I'm 5'3, 202 pounds. I've always been big, since I starte puberty at 11, have Greek/Italian family and the mindset I grew up with is that it's disrespectful to not clear your plate at dinner time. Through my entire school life I was bullied by others because of my weight, by breasts which developed early (40DDD consistently) and my introverted nature. Any time I tried to stand up for myself I was taunted for having a 'fattitude', so I pretty much became ultra-shy and kept my head down.

I don't have body problems that other fatties blame their weight on, like thyroid etc. I went to the doctors and got a 100% clean bill of health. Surprisingly my cholesterol and blood sugar levels were healthy too, which is saying something considering I've always been large.

My weight ballooned in the past two years because my grandfather passed away. He was my step-in dad, so we were really close, and I fell into depression when he passed. Through nobody's fault but my own mistakes and laziness I went up to 220.

>>5265681

That's really sad, but...is there a reason you should be posting that in a "jealous fatties" thread? You just sound like a lovely fattie. :(

>mfw 6'3 230lbs in jan
>185 as of today
>havent run more than a mile at a time hate running. just diet and lifting weights
>mfw i can soon cosplay M BISON and feel like a dictator
>mfw this doesnt belong in this thread

>>5265655
Of course they exist. People are assholes. Fat people, skinny people, all kinds of people are assholes to other people for all kinds of reasons.

>>5265681 continued

Even though my family's always told me things like 'You look fine' and 'Real women have curves like you' etc. I've never been happy. I've change my diet and lifestyle to be healthier. At the moment I'm on a steady 1250-1300 calorie diet and try to fit in at least a half hour of exercise a day. Even if it's just walking, I try.

As a cosplayer, I strive to make costumes that flatter my figure and look alright on me. I wear a properly-fitted corset and bra combination and support stockings. In the small community we're in, I took the figure of Mother Hen, helping anybody I can with their sewing.

It hurts to be called awful names. Having been put down for years really leaves scars, and I've strived to be as nice and pleasant as I can to everybody I know, despite my crippling shyness.

Please, please know that not all is larger people are hateful and hurtful. Some of us are trying to get down to a healthy weight, but for me progress is constant but slow. It does hurt when you judge me as being automatically nasty, spiteful and immature of my body's faults.

I know I will get bad comments for these posts, and that's understandable. I realise my body disgusts people, and for that I apologise. But please, give some of us the benefit of the doubt sometime.

I cannot see how people can be this way. I mean, of course when I see a thinner girl, I'll be jealous, but I don't go and start to belittle them. Oftentimes I find that they are indeed kind perople - and I wonder how awesome they'd look if they cosplayed, ha.

I'm 5' 5" (although officially I'm 5' 4.5"), and weigh somewhere around 200lbs. I was down to 185 when I was swimming, but it wasn't coinciding with my schedule so I had to stop. So of course I gained that all back, and I know it sounds wimpy, but I didn't like working out alone because I was either on the computer, or it was too flipping cold.

So one day my sister realizes that her sitting around and eating everything in sight is starting to add weight. So she decides we should start working out together! So now her, my friend, and I, are all working out, 5 days a week, roughly 20-40 minutes.

Although this past week or two I've not been able to work out. Because I got this nasty fever/cough, so I've been trying to ride it out. But we all plan to (hopefully) drop some weight before Sakuracon '11, about four months away! LOL, sorry for no bitch story. Just awesome motivation over here!

>be a fatty
>don't gaf what other chicks look like besides my friends
>all my friends are hot as hell, anyway

It kind of makes me laugh that other people place me in the 'curvy' category when I clearly am not. Honestly, these girls do get encouraged to do so.
I've never really understood why everyone runs around fussing over other people's bodies, be they smaller or larger.

Seriously I've never had problems with fat chicks. I'm slim and nobody's ever gone all "REAL WOMEN have CURVES" at me or my super petite friends.

BUT I've seen fatties calling other, skinnier people fat. Trying to distract people from their own jellyrolls I presume.

>>5265009
Fuck, this. Seriously the ugly ones are always the first to comment on someone's looks and they're the most beauty obsessed. They talk about NOTHING but shallow beauty-related issues and criticize other peoples' looks.

I know it's corny as hell but to me, inner beauty matters the most. As long as you're not a bitch I don't care about how you look. That's how I roll.

>>5265701
>>5265681
I'm terribly sorry, I forgot to add something else.

There is no 'ideal' body type for women. Thinner girls can be just as beautiful and feminine as larger ones. The whole 'women have to have curves to be women' is a ridiculous notion. It's like saying your ovaries aren't taken into account.

It does hurt when I've worked very hard on a costume that I think (in my opinion) looks good, but because of the bad attitude of other large people I don't get any notice unless someone posts me in a thread to make fun of the fatty. Those things do hurt, like saying that none o my hard work mattered, because I'm fat.

To you girls who were made fun of because your fat friends didn't like your slimness - I am so, so sorry that happened. Please know that you don't deserve any hurtful words directed at you - you are all lovely.

As for me, I still have to avoid my mother thinking I eat 'rabbit food' when I turn down her calzoni and lasagna. Oh dear.

>fat girl calls skinny girl names
>OMG THAT CUNT

>skinny girl calls fat girl names
>lol well she deserves it

Eugh, this girl in my class is just... no.

I'm underweight, but only slightly and it's for reasons way beyond my control. This girl will not stop insisting that it's because I'm quote-unquote 'mentally diseased or some shit'.

To put this into context, this girl isn't really all that overweight, but she's always dieting and making everyone else feel bad. She constantly makes fun of other people's weight, too, whether they're fat or thin, so at least I'm not alone in hating her.

I can't eat fruit in her prescence because she sits there stage-whispering to her friends about me. While I'm right there in earshot. I'm not sure if she's genuinely partially-deaf or if she's just being rude, but she's one of those people that shouts all the time, even when nobody else is speaking.

Oh, and the other day she was regaling the class with tales of how she's self-diagnosed herself with multiple personality disorder because - and I wish I was kidding - she'd seen it on TV and it looked really cool.

Pic describes my feelings upon having to see this girl for five hours every day.

>>5265733
Welcome to /cgl/. Sucks, but true.

opposite of you op

>be 5'4, 125-135lbs
>pretty proud of this because I feel sexy as fuck as long as I don't drop under 120 or over 145
>men always call me fat because I'm not 120 or less
>actually have curves; decent sized chest and round ass, both rather perky
>I actually brag about what I eat despite the fact that I both binge drink on occasion and exercise regularly, which has been paying off now
>always called fat, always insulted
>date a guy who practically worshipped my body any chance he would get; would compliment me and everything
>he buys me a cute anime-related t-shirt for my birthday. it's literally an XXL, I wear mediums at best (only due to chest. if I were flatter I could wear a small comfortably)
>wear the shirt for him, it HANGS OFF OF MY SKIN. have to roll up some material and tie it off at the back in a knot
>a little disappointed because I liked the shirt, but find out where he purchased it from. find out if I can get the size changed
>he finds out, gets pissed and talks shit of me to his friends; breaks up with me days later citing I am ingrateful and a delusional fatty

loosely quoting something he said from a mutual friend, something along the lines of me being too stupid to know my own size.. he said that I told him I wore an XL. wat.

I know 135lbs isn't great for my height and I should be slimmer, but honestly, I feel I look amazing. my stomachs flat and my thighs are toned. are guys really turned on by visible bone structure these days?

>>5265747
Maybe I'm just sick- but maybe that's why they call them "bone"rs.

That being said, you sound like you take fair care of your body. The ex? Douche. 100%.

>>5265733
But IRL

>fat girl calls skinny girl names
>totally justified

>skinny girl calls fat girl names
>what a BITCH

>>5265637
i don't have many good pictures of my body type... here's a recent one but HAW HAW baggy shirts.

>>5265762
Not really. Making fun of fat people is quite socially acceptable. But thin people like to latch on to the three times they were told to eat a sandwich as PERSECUTION!!11!! FATTIES ARE SO ACCEPTED!!!!!!!

>>5265759
yeap, he was a douche. the funny part was I always thought HE could use more food. he weighed less than me and was also taller. totally nasty skinny. like so skinny your legs have no real fat in them and I can see muscle and not fat in your thighs kind of skinny. is that what you'd call skinnyfat?

>>5265768

What? Do what world are you living in. Making fun of fat people isn't PC. Where the hell have you been?

Do people? Yeah. And usually it's in those "edgy", "raunchy" humor shows. But on the whole people frown if you make fun of a fat person for being fat.

Hell, most of those girls in these stories would cry and bitch and raise holy hell if they were made fun of for being fat. Skinny girls aren't allowed to do the same?

>>5265770
I honestly don't know. I don't know many people like that- maybe he's skinnyfat, but is it also possible that he's active?

Once again, I dunno. But I know that I like me a man with some muscle and meat on him. If it looks like I can take him down, I'm usually turned off. At that point, he'd better have a damned good personality, sense of humour, or adorable face.

Shallow- I know- but I think this entire thread is fairly shallow, so I might actually get to say it without getting my face cut off.

Either way, it sounds like you're better off without him. Size didn't matter there: He was just being a man-bitch.

I'm 5'5" 114lb (When I checked in October, anyway.) with measurements of 34-25-36.
My sister constantly bitches about my size (Pretty chubs for my frame) while worfing down double bacon cheeseburgers.
She is 5'2", 39-30-43 and will burst into tears and start screaming about how she "only weighs 115lbs!" without prompting, too.

>mfw she's 31.

>>5265776
I live in the real world, where people are constantly told they need to be thin (not healthy, mind you, but thin) and where teachers, doctors, and professionals in every field condone people being treated poorly because of their weight. For everyone thin girl who was called anorexic by a fatty, there's ten fat girls who are told by teachers, friends, and random people on the street every day that they're a worthless pig. Trying to claim that Ohhh, fatties aren't made fun of anymore is ludicrious and you know it. Just look at /cgl/. Big bawww threads for thin people who got made fun of, but you know darn well if it was reversed the thread would be full of "Uh, you're fat, what else do you expect when you go outside than to be oinked at?" "WHAALE" etc.

>>5265781
he's not active. I'm sort of a gym rat now, and he hated that I was one, probably jelly even. forced me to not go a couple times a week just to "keep him company" on his days off from work which sucked.

he looked like a normal healthy person with some fat on him (ngl, I love husky guys. not TOO big though, but I love guys with fat on them. it makes me look like a dwarf standing next to them) I didn't know how skinny this guy was til he took his clothes off... total auschwitz mode man. but I'm not shallow! I can accept someone who looks underfed, even if they hardly ever fucking eat.

but thanks!

>>5265678

I'm not a whale, you obviously jelly fatty.

I am beautiful.

>mfw I'm 5'6 and 220 and most people guess me at around 180 and don't think I need to change who I am because I'm not obscenely unpleasant to look at and I relatively take care of myself hygienically and mentally

People don't look at you on the street and see your height and weight at the exact numbers. As long as you look like you're in okay condition, take care of yourself, are confident, have interests, have a nice personality, and aren't a vindictive cunt, people will not mind you.
This goes for fat and skinny.

>>5265793
I live in the same world you do: Where a friend who was pregnant with twins @ 5"3- 135 pounds was told to try to lose weight while pregnant. Where asking for a Breast Reduction from the first couple of doctors for myself resulted in "Go on a diet!" Even though that had already been tried. Where I've gone to work on my birthday and recieved a veggie tray (Not complaining, I love me some baby carrots and tomatoes) because I "Didn't look like [I] needed the cake". This was said by the manager of my department, and met with chuckles of agreement by my peers.

Sadly, I live in this world where fat-shaming is okay because it might scare us into losing the weight, or (as has been suggested to friends of mine in the past) at least killing ourselves so that we don't take up the precious resources and oxygen that other, more attractive people need more.

Yeah. Fat-shaming is so NOT PC where I'm from.

>>5265793
Land whale that posted a little while ago. Anon, you're right about this... And sometimes us fat people are hurt even when we try to seek help.

The first dietician I went to when I was 13 told me that I was worthless. And during my weight loss, I went to /fit/ to ask for more advice to see if my diet was alright (since I'd lost 18 pounds, but wanted to make sure I was doing the weight loss thing right).

They just called me 'a disgusting, obese-as-fuck piece of shit'.

Felt so bad. Just remembering it is making me sad. Be right back, going to go in the corner for a bit.

>>5265797
Ahh, I see. So he was jealous of your ability to maintain yourself and got pissy when you ended up better than he was.

Funny how that happens from time to time, yeah?

>>5265646
>in gym class she actually gave herself a black eye because her tit flopped up and smacked her in the face.

Stay gold.

This thread makes me happy to be a sane fatty...

>>5265831
No matter how sane some of us fatties are, we'll always be looked at as delusional upon first glance... Because we're fat.

>Pity some poor weeb girl because she didn't have any friends, and I was a weeb at the time too.
>She was OK, a little over the top with her love for Japan but OK. Also fat, but insisted that she was skinny.
>She would eat at least 5-7 cookies a day and a shitton of junk food. She wasn't obese or anything but she was pretty chubby.
>Other friend and I be pretty skinny, not like a twig but healthy-ish weight for our height/age, pretty OK about ourselves.
>We both are eating cupcakes at a party
>Fat friend comes over and tells us that if we eat that kind of stuff, we'll get even fatter and that we already need to lose weight.

Escuse moi???

>>5265811
>>5265813

And then you know exactly what it's like when you tell someone they look like they need a sandwhich, when you say that "men don't like you, you're not a real woman" or "Real Women Have Curves", or "I'm only saying this out of concern! But you look so thin!".

No one is free from being made fun of, but it's worse when vindictive bitches with weight problems do it because they /know/ it hurts, they know what words can do. And yet they think they're justified because they've been "fat-shamed" or whatever SJ term you wanna throw on it to make it sound like something horrible. Telling someone you think they're anorexic, that they have a mental disease is just as damaging as saying "Loose some weight fatty!"

You don't want fat-shaming, don't shame other people no matter their body type because you don't KNOW that person, you don't know why their body looks like it does.

TL;DR You're not special in this, and it doesn't give you a free pass.

In general you, I went off on a rant.

>>5265834
Feels bad man... Feels bad.

>>5265840
>You don't want fat-shaming, don't shame other people no matter their body type because you don't KNOW that person, you don't know why their body looks like it does.

But fat shaming (and body shaming in general) happens to everyone. Bitch or not. It does not happen exclusively to someone else that has said something about another person's body. You're basically saying "Well, you don't want to be mooed at by grown adults while you walk down the street to the store? Then don't say shit about other people's bodies" which... doesn't make any sense at all, because the people don't moo because "Oh shit, there's Big Bertha! She called Olive Oyl a twig the other day!". They moo because they think it's funny/fun/fine to make fun of someone solely based on appearance.

While we're on the topic of fat-shaming/skinny-shaming, can anyone tell me the signs to look for for anorexia?

The people at my work are pretty pro-fit because you have to be physically fit for the work we do. So of course a lot of our co-workers are skinny. Like, 5' 5" and 125 lbs of pure toned muscle.

However my one co-worker who is 5' 2" is dropping tons of weight. Last time we weighed ourselves for fun she was pushing 109 and proclaimed she had actually gained 10 lbs. However she insists that she is fat/chubby. When we go out to eat, she won't eat. She will either just order drinks, or order something and push it around her plate or pick at it. At work she always seems tired and has fainting spells, or gets dizzy very easily.

I asked my friend who used to suffer from an eating disorder but she waved it off as my co-worker was just being a "lol I'm fat" skinny girl. However the dizziness, fainting, and growing dark circles have really got me worried that my co-worker might have developed an eating disorder. Are these the symptoms? Or is this just normal for really tiny girls?

>>5265840
Land whale here. I completely understand you. Nobody should be made fun of for their bodies, skinny or fat. Some are working on taking off weight, others puttin it on. It just makes it hard when others develop their Special Snowflaek Syndrome (fat or skinny) and diss the other type of body weight.

Wishful thinking, but I just wish everybody could get along. Aaaaand that will never happen, oh well.

>>5265840
I don't think that thin people never get picked on- but what I do think is that someone who says that it's not socially acceptable to make fun of fat people is probably missing something.

Personally, I don't make fun of people because of their weight. Not going to lie to you, though: When I watch a girl who's so small, and so thin, with the hair on her head thinning, her eyes looking tired, her face looking gaunt, yeah. I really do worry for her safety and her health.

But no: I don't walk up to skinny girls and say "Hey! bonesack! Have a burger!" because I. DON'T. KNOW. What they're going through. I DON'T KNOW if they have a medical condition, a mental condition, a fast metabolism, a slow metabolism, depression, good genes, bad genes, a bad diet, a bad DAY, or what. I can't say something to someone because I don't know.

But it's never stopped anyone from making commentary about my size. I hear about it very time I leave my home. In the gym, on the walking path, at the grocery, and I've even heard it from my daughter's teacher. "Your daughter is so thin! Her father must have good genetics... Because well..." *General hand gesture*

When I was underweight (under 110 pounds at my height is QUITE underweight) I might have heard "Eat something!" once a WEEK. Often less.

I never felt as conscious about my body as I do now. And the sad thing? I'm not even a landplanet. (200 pounds) I'm just plain ass athletic fat. Yeah, you read that right. Athletic. Fat. I like to run. I like to play sports. I like outdoor activity. But to hear people tell it, I'm some sort of slavering beast, waiting for my next super-sized meal to jump between my hungry jowls before I move onto the next buffet line.

>>5265793
This. I couldn't have said it better. "OH BUT JEALOUS FATTIES CALL ME ANOREXIC AND SHIT BAWW IT HURTS SO MUCH YOU DON'T KNOW HOW HARD I HAVE IT". No. Fuck that. Those who call skinny girls anorexic are people like pixyteri who are in denial of their own bodyshape and jealous as hell of the slim girls. Nobody insults fatties out of jealousy. Nobody wants to be overweight. Commenting on how skinny you look won't cause eating disorders like anorexia.

I was a chubby child, not overweight but had a chubby frame. I had to endure constant fat jokes and insults. When I grew up I lost weight and now I'm in a good shape, but I still look in the mirror and see all the smallest traces of fat. In my eyes, I'll be a disgusting fatty forever, no matter how much weight I lose.

>>5265856

I'm saying you can't cry and whine about being "body-shamed" and then turn around and insult someone else for their body. Or act like shit that happens to you is so much worse than what happens to others. Trust me, being called fat is NOT worst than being told "You have a mental disorder, lawl, I'm only concerned for your health".

>>5265840
Where did any of those people say it "gave them a free pass" to make fun of skinny girls? Just pointing out that fat shaming is perfectly acceptable in today's society, internet or otherwise. Which is true. It doesn't mean that shaming anyone for their thinner body is fine, just that - well, it is what it is.

>>5265857
Those are classic signs of an eating disorder, however I would be wary about "sign diagnosing" anyone with a mental disorder unless you know them better. Do you happen to know any of her friends/family that you might address your concerns about her to?

>>5265865
But no one said that it's okay to say body shaming is bad then turn around and make fun of skinny girls. All anyone did was point out how idiotic it is to say that poor skinny girls get made fun of allll the time, but that fat shaming isn't socially acceptable.

>Or act like shit that happens to you is so much worse than what happens to others.

>Trust me, being called fat is NOT worst than being told "You have a mental disorder, lawl, I'm only concerned for your health".

So - you just said not to act like what happens to me/someone is not worse than others, then flat out state "Well, this ISN'T worse than that!"

Hypocritical, much?

>>5265866
No, those aren't classic signs of just an eating disorder.

I had cancer when I was sixteen. I went from being a very healthy weight to being very underweight. I was gaunt. Pale. And my hair was thinning. Random people on the street thought it was their god given right/duty to come up to my parents and sometimes me to say "You/Your daughter is anorexic! Her hair is falling out and she's pale and very thin!"

I lived in a very small town and the people there knew my situation, but when I went into the city for medical treatments/shopping/ANYTHING people would inevitably say something.

The plain fact is, it's not your business to say shit to people. If someone is anorexic, chances are, someone close to them knows. Let them or a doctor say something.

Shut the fuck up because you do not know what their situation is.

Please forgive the selfposting again.

When my Nonno died and I gained weight, it was hard not to spiral into complete depression. It sounds like a cop-out excuse, but I was hurting so much that I didn't care about anything, least of all myself, hence the weight gain.

Fat shaming shouldn't be justified because people think 'Oh, she's overweight, and overweight = nasty bitching about skinny people'. I am friends with some ridiculously good looking, thin people, but not once have I berated or taunted them for their body type. So how is it fair that I get called horrible names when I'm usually so socially-awkward and shy that I can barely speak to strangers?

It isn't fair. But life and society in general isn't fair. All I can do is build a bridge, get over it, and keep trying as hard as I can to achieve a healthy weight. And I won't lie, it's damn hard. Some conventions I go home and cry afterwards because all that happened that day was mockery.

It's not alright to make fun of anyone, because as previous anon posted, you DON'T know what some people have going on in their lives.

>>5265873

Oh stop twisting words.

Put those two together and what do you get? "Don't act like shit that happens to you is so much worse because it's not. IT HURTS THE SAME."

>Be fat
>Jelly of skinny girls
>Cry while eating KFC and cookies

>>5265875
Actually, those are classic signs of an eating disorder. But not just eating disorders.

Which is why I said, RIGHT AFTER THAT, it's not a good idea to sign diagnose somebody unless you know their situation and that they should talk to a friend or family member.

Don't flip out on me because you have poor reading comprehension, man.

>>5265857
Dizziness, fainting spells and dark circles can be chalked up to severe anemia, as well as an eating disorder.

There are other things to look out for: thinning hair, brittle or yellowing nails, constant fatigue, changing behaviours, depression, anxiety about people seeing her eat, or leaving in the middle of a meal and returning to not finish anything.

She may have an eating disorder, but if she's Pro-Fit, it's likely she's gone into a mode of body dysmorphia. It's still a type of eating disorder, but it's... With a different intention. She might feel that she's not pretty enough, may be overworking her body with multiple workouts a day, and suddenly becoming super aware of the nutritional info for all of the foods she's taking in.

She may start drinking more than 2 litres of water a day, taking numerous suppliments, or only start eating certain types of foods. (All veg, all fruit, all fibre)

But do not jump to any conclusions. Concern on the behalf of a friend is fine- I would talk to her calmly and explain my concern. She might be experiencing overwork FROM work, and be dealing with the physical results of stress from it. (weak appetite, tiredness, absentmindedness and so on)

>>5265882 No, those aren't classic signs of just an eating disorder.

And that's what I said. So check yoself before you wreck yoself.

>>5265879
I'm not twisting words. But speaking of twisting words, you've yet to point out where anyone said it's okay to make fun of anyone for their body weight which is the basis for your whole string of comments.

>>5265875
>>5265866
That's why I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to be like "omg I THINK she MIGHT have an ED" and there be some other underlying cause. I only really became concerned about it when she started fainting at work.

I took it up with my manager, because the co-worker really trusts my manager like a mother figure. I mean, I'm not expecting my manager to say anything or do anything, but I wanted her to watch out for her too because our job is not a safe job to be getting weak in the knees in. [Tile floors, sharp objects, metal errywhere]. Otherwise I don't really know any of her friends and family [other than us since we are all friends with her.]

To cancer-anon, her hair is thinning, but I'm not sure if that's because she also bleaches it a lot. But thank you for posting your experience too. I came here because I've been really concerned about her since outside of work we are good friends and if there is anything I can do to help her, or even just understand her situation so I can be supportive for her, I want to do that.

>>5265887
Uh, no, you told me to "shut the fuck up" because I don't know what their situation is so how dare I point out those are signs of an eating disorder - when, right after I said those were classic signs of an ED, told the person that they don't know what their exact situation is so talking to family/friends close to them would be a good idea. Check yourself, dear.

>>5265889

Not out right stated but things like this:
>>5265768 Pretty much imply that and other things. Like "Oh they don't have it so bad who cares you got told to eat a sandwhich twice".

Who cares someone told you to drop the fork?

See how that works?

>>5265901
So that one comment saying that thin people like to harp on the few times they were made fun of, as opposed to fat people who are more likely to be made fun of every day on a consistent basis because making fun of fat people is acceptable = "You fatties are saying that it's okay to make fun of thin people, right after you baw about people making fun of you!!" When... nope, no one said that.

>>5265827
I wish I was joking.

>>5265895
Fair point, anon. And I'm sorry. I get so angry when I see people saying "but those are classic signs!" that I just sort of go off. That was the justification that people used every fucking time they said something to me that it sends something to the "WHARGARBLE!" part of my brain.

Just as a general note to everyone- other people's medical conditions aren't your business. There is no right to know why someone has lost a lot of weight or looks physically ill. I know it sounds harsh to say just STFU and let them be, but if they're not letting you in on their medical secrets, even if it is an ED, then its really not your place to say something.

Trust me when I say chances are their parents or doctor know.

>>5265915

There were other comments along that vein but I'm lazy.

Also, you're exaggerating. I've hung with plenty of fat people in public and talked to them and never heard them made fun of and they said people rarely commented on their weight.

So this "more likely to be made fun of on a consistent basis" is an exaggerated fallacy. Just like you claim thin people do.

Stop it. It's a my horse is bigger game and it's absolutely stupid. If it's not okay for you to be made fun of and you're allowed to whine about it, it's not okay for a thin person to be made fun of and they're allowed to whine about it.

>>5265901
Someone being told to eat a sandwich by someone once IS a radically different experience than being fat when you are much more likely to experience consistent harassment by people throughout the day.

It's not "Someone once told me to drop a fork," it's "I wake up and am insulted and harassed by multiple people [including strangers, people I know, teachers, professionals etc] throughout the day" for many people. Are there thin people who get harassed multiple times throughout the day, whether it's about their weight or appearance or whatever? Of course. But when someone is made fun of for being thin, guess what? "Aw don't worry, it was some jealous fatty--" hence this thread. When someone's made fun of for being fat? "Well, lose some weigh then and people won't make fun of you."

>>5265927
>So this "more likely to be made fun of on a consistent basis" is an exaggerated fallacy

Keeeeeep telling yourself that. It's just pathetic at this point how loosely connected you are to reality. Look up research on the subject. Look up personal experiences. Look at /cgl/, for Christ's sake.

>>5265927
In the area you're in, it might be the case that the bigger people you know aren't bothered. (I am not the anon you're replying to, btb)

In other areas, however, I think you're wrong. I've lived in places where my size was never an issue, but the place I live in now is a super-health-nut kind of area. If you're bigger than what the locals deem healthy, you're fair game. And they don't encourage you to "Get Healthy". It's easier to shame you.

So you might be right for your area, but that one place doesn't make up for the others that are so much worse.

>>5265931

Read the thread. These people weren't told one time to eat a sandwich. It was consistent harassment by one of their bigger friends for their sizes. THAT is what makes a Jelly Fatty in a Jelly Fatty thread.

Not a bunch of thin girls whining about the one time they were told they were too thin.

Your horse isn't bigger.

>>5265941

>look at /cg/ troll central! It's totes credible for my point.

And you called others out of touch.

>>5265948
Neither is yours. They're the same goddamn size.

>>5265942

And one area that is bad about it doesn't invalidate the other areas either.

>>5265963
Never said it did.

>be a fat bearded dude
>wear loud hawaiian and tropical style shirts all day erry day
>otherwise dress appropriately
>even cosplay appropriately
>give no shits
>people expect me to be a jolly fat man
>mfw when I am

Sounds like you ladies have it rough.

>>5265960

That's been my POINT the whole time, thanks. You can't act so persecuted about it and then go "Oh those silly thin girls like to cling to the one time they were told to eat a sandwich!". Because it hurts JUST as much for either side.

>>5265969

Then making the grand generalization that all fatties are consistently harassed for their size isn't valid.

Because it's not true.

>>5265977
I wasn't the person your were conversing with- I just don't think you needed to repeat the horse thing again, when shit's pretty obvious.

>>5265976

Or their just bitter as fuck.

>>5265983
I get that you're hot and bothered for an argument to show how right you are, but that wasn't what I said.

>>5265984

I thought it was pretty obvious too, but if it was we wouldn't be having an argument about it.

>>5265977
There was one comment which pointed out that being made fun of for being fat is socially acceptable (which it is) and that thin girls harp on the one time they were called a toothpick.

And then you responded to other people, after you said making fun of fatties wasn't socially acceptable, implying that they were saying it's totally fine to make fun of thin people while they cried about being called fat, WHICH NO ONE DID. Is it really that hard for you to get it through your skull?

I found his thread a little late. I was about 1/3 down the scroll bar when I had enough. Someone actually said, "Habit don't decide your weight." Unbelievable. Some of you fatties are in such denial that it fills my mind with fuck. I have never facepalm'd so many times in just one thread...

>>5265999

>fat people who are more likely to be made fun of every day on a consistent basis because making fun of fat people is acceptable

So I exaggerated a bit. But no, fat people in certain areas are more likely to be made fun of everyday. Just like being fat in others is almost the norm and they're not as likely to be harassed every day.

>>5265976
If you cosplayed as this person, I would hit it so hard the next person to pull it out would be the next king of England.

>>5266016
I laughed- you win.

ITT: Bitter fatties ruin a thread because they're being stereotyped.

I just can't we all just WTF at the stories of crazy fatties?

>>5266024
Why can't we all just WTF at stories of crazed skinnies? Or just Crazies in general?

Because it's /cgl/ and drama is needed for each and every thread. No exceptions.

>>5266028
We do that in every weeb horror thread.

>>5266028

Well the thread was for the crazy fatties, but there were also stories of crazy thin girls being bitches to fat girls too. That's more interesting than fighting over who gets made fun of more often.

>>5265976

What are you talking about?
I get to be the sassy fat best friend. I'm the one everyone comes to for advice, to cry on, to rant to, etc. I'm also the one that makes everyone nearly piss their pants laughing.
It's pretty much the girl version of your archetype.

>>5266016

I wish. It's a bit beyond my budget at the moment. Everyone's got that one cosplay they dream or aspire to doing, and Xiahou Yuan is mine.

>>5266038

I do miss having a sassy fat best friend. They're the best friends.

>>5266044

Hell yes, my sistah.
Everyone needs a sassy fat best friend.

>>5266038

You sound like a girl I used to live with. Good times.

I knew this bitch. I'm not fat, so I wasn't personally insulted, but she either made a fat joke every time she saw a big woman or tried to tell our group they glared at her or gave her a jealous look. Only woman. The bitch herself was probably really insecure.

How many people get it when it's family who's the jealous fatties. I feel bad for one of my friends. She's 5'1. She's a perfectly normal size. She's not fat at all, but her mother is always giving her a hard time. Telling her she has a fat gut, and even saying her hands/wrists were getting fat. She even takes photos from when she was a child, and tells my friend that she isn't as pretty as when she was a little girl, and even tells people that, like the hair stylist. Her mother even asked me if I was pregnant.

>Friends face when mother said that to me.

We both agree her mother is far to caught up in appearances. Even my parents agree that her mom is being stupid.

Relatively fit, average dude here. I just want to give all you fatties and skinnies (and normals, no discrimination here) a big hug. Make love, not war. I propose a three some- a representative from each camp and I. We can make a sandwich- fat girls love and skinny girls need.

Skinny-bitch whines about Fat-bitch calling her too skinny>>> HOW can she be so MEAN?

Two sentences later.

Skinny-bitch calls Fat-bitch a hambeast>>> Hypocrisy.

I lol'd

Not a jealous 'fatty' story, but a jealous 'mom' story.

>Be 5'6, 160 lbs, pretty flabby, big ass, small waist and relatively large breasts for my body type
>Constantly told i'm fat, that my ass is huge, that i'll have 'cottage cheese thighs' and how gross i am, at the age of 9-12, by my own mother
>shes 6', 140 lbs.
>Lose 30 lbs, grow to 5'9
>Suddenly anorexic, need to eat, accused of puking up my food and how i should stop eating splenda, using cooking spray instead of butter and how 'real women have curves' wtf
>Gain 10 lbs back along with a lot of muscle definition, mountain biking 3-4 times a week, lifting weight 2-3 times a week, getting into running and eating high protein diet
>GETTING FAT AGAIN, GOING TO STUNT MY GROWTH, LIVER FAILURE, HYPERTENSION, CANCER, STOP BEING SO FAT ANON

Be lucky its just friends or strangers who give you shit, i live with this monster, and i can't move out for a while.

What I've seen in causing a mean fat jealous (or ugly) woman is more often than not a person that was made fun of all or most of their childhood and adolescence by anybody that wasn't as fat. It's sad how some just turn to this behavior though. Hell they could drop the weight but some people confidence either grows or collapses i guess.

>>5266286

On the same topic...
>Mother goes borderline crazy at one point in my childhood
>Stops feeding us, Father is out of the house, I'm too young to work.
>End up dating someone, he finds out what's going on and takes care of me and feeds me and the like
>Put on ~20 pounds in the first few months of being with him because I have no idea how to pace myself when it comes to eating. I'm around 5'3" and 110 pounds at this point.
>Panic massively because I've never been anywhere near that weight before. Develop a bit of an eating disorder and drop back down to 90 pounds.
>Tell boyfriend about this after a few months and a marked decrease in my health again. Start eating properly with his help, exercising a bit more, generally improving my health slowly.
>Go back up to 95-97 pounds, develop a bunch of stomach problems that run in the family and can't gain weight past this for the longest time.
>Mother takes this point, months after getting over any eating disorders I had, to start calling me anorexic and states that I have pretty well every other eating disorder she can think of.
>Forces me to eat until I'm sick and weigh myself daily.
>Still can't put on any more weight
>Have to deal with this every time I see her.

So glad I moved out. I've finally put on a bit more weight and am sitting at about 100 pounds now that there's consistently food I can eat in my house. She still makes comments every time I come home though.

Sage for super late contribution and not really wanting to bump the other dramus in this thread.