>>5042226
I know this is lame, but thanks to the G+ hangouts my crush is a tripfag.

He pipes my curiosity, and well, that's good.

But he's in another country. Goddamn it.

He's cool. Two years and counting.

>>5042233

Diavolo

>>5042226
Not really interested in anyone really after my last romantic journey went sour,
there's a girl I kinda wanna ask out but I know nothing will come from it,
but really I'm just posting to post this picture because RKO!

He makes me feel like I am the center of the universe. He's as much of a part of me as my own skin. He's my best friend, someone who's traveled 5000 miles to see me and someone who I've traveled 5000 miles to see.

Right now he's renovating a flat for me in Germany. God I love that kid.

"Don't kill anyone at the tdk tourny today( (including yourself), and don't kick anyone's elbows again you retard. I love you :D"

>>5042247
Who?

>>5042253
Please don't cry Anon, like I said nothing will come of it so I have no intention of pursuing her,
so who knows who I might be interested in someday.

http://vocaroo.com/?media=vVyNvRqzPYBNfzTTa

WARNING: SAPPINESS AND TIRED AS FWUARK

I don't really have one, well kinda?

It goes back and forth, some days I absolutely can't stand her , the demands and the requests she asks me to do. But like I just can't help but think about her on certain days, even after realizing what kind of person she really is. I hate it man, I absolutely hate it. Worst part is that she's already taken, so I get to hear every single bit of the relationship issues between her and her significant other, despite making it clear that I don't want to hear any of that sort of shit from her.

I wish someone else would catch my eye already, this blows.

Trip droppan

But my crush, well I personally think she is the best thing to ever happen to me, she knows how I feel about her. The problem is she doesn't feel the same way back and she just does this with loads of boys. I'm not jealous of the other boys, it's just that I was stupid enough to fall for her when it's something she does. I need to find a way to break free or something because well right now, I think this is just causing me way too much harm.

Probably missed out a load of shit and stuff but meh, I don't care.

I've decided to just be alone forever. I have the worst of luck when it comes to guys. Too many guys have messed with with me, don't want to deal with it anymore. So... No crush or SO for me....

awwww yeeeeeah romance

>>5042256
You basically said everything I was about to say about my husband and more.
He really knows how to push my buttons but its only because we know each other so well. All I want in the world is to make him happy. I would throw away everything else in the world if he asked me to. We just fit. All I can really say is, Babe if your reading this I fucking love you more than anything else in the world.

>>5042262
EMOTIONAL TAMPON.

I can't because I don't have one, ahaaa.

>>5042260
brb embarking on an epic quest to capture your heart.
Justkiddinghopeyoufindanicegirlthoughsomedaybecauseyoutotallydeserveitbro.

>>5042261
Oh Matt <3

>>5042283
Aww, thanks Moose! <3

I have an entire harem, anon. And I love each and every one of them with the passion of a thousand suns. <3
But for realsies. There's my select few in the top ranks of my harem who I love like the stars love the sky. I don't know what I'd do without them, and I thank the world every day that I have them in my life. They're there for me in the highs and lows, inspire me in so many ways, encourage me to do better, and support me when it feels like I can't hold myself up. I would do anything for them, and even though I can't pull down the moon, if any of them asked, I'd damn well try.
You guys know who you are. I love you, so much. <3

No woman could offer me anything interesting other than her vagina.

So no, I don't have a significant other yet.

It's funny when you think about it, but now it's full of women whose only sense of worth comes from being able to be penetrated, and some feel entitled to any male just because they're 'hot' or 'sexy'.

Such shallowness and self-entitlement is... unattractive, to say the least.

I wonder if I'll ever get any valuable relationship with a woman ever again, now that I've come to the realization that if they only can offer me a cunt and a pair of tits, I can get those things out of a relationship, too, so there's no point on being in one.

He's so cute and he makes me want to smooch him whenever I see him. I want to smooch him and then take him to bed and cuddle with him while it's raining outside and then wake up and feed him delicious things and then talk about comics and books and MtG with him until we get fat and die.

She's absolutely perfect in every which way. The way her hair falls over her face and she has to push it back. The dimples in her cheeks when she smiles. The way she laughs and the way I can make her laugh. Even the weight of her body lying against me. Knowing she'll always be there.

I don't think there's anyone better. Pic related it's me and my girl. Nothing gets in the way of 2D.

>>5042296
Isn't Innistrad so rad?

>>5042299
DUUUDE you play? I dunno how I feel about Innistrad yet.. Still a huge newbie to the game so I don't have a strong grasp of card values and power yet, though it seems interesting. Played a game with my buddy's Innistrad deck and there were some interesting things in it, definitely.

Don't care for the werewolf bullshit, though.

>>5042249
Sage for double post, but d'awww, Charizard, I'm sure there is a lovely lady out there for you whenever you begin searching again. I send you much luck, and many internet hugs. Or I'll reach through the future to hug you at ALA, whichever is easiest, because sometimes hugs work better than a band-aid and chicken soup.

>>5042300
Oh yeah. I just got back into the game with the current set. My other decks are Ravnica/Pre-Ravnica haha. Me and a friend were thinking of splitting a box tomorrow as well. Aside from that I pulled Liliana of the Veil. SO GOOD. All that money come to me.

Considering building a blue/black mill deck or a Red/Green werewolves. Why can't I hold all these wolves.

I stole him from an attention whore
Now she went psycho and we are both happy

>>5042308
MMmm I dunno if the premade Innistrad decks are really that great an investment, although it'll probably be okay if you split them. Even if they have premades that are similar to what you normally play, I feel like you don't get a quantity of cards that are all that flexible though... I dunno! That flippy card is trippy as hell though ahhh.

I've been wanting to do a Red/Green deck because I kinda like aggro stuff, but I haven't been able to build something I really like with my fat handful of shitty cards haha. My favorite deck right now is a Black/White Artifact deck. All of my cute little myrs, come to my bosom yes.

He's my best friend. Been together for 7 years (our aniversary was last September). We even have a furry, 4-legged "daughter".

He makes me feel so happy, comfortable, wants me to be myself all the time. We get along pretty well =3

What would I say to him? Stop using my pillow! I'm watching you right now!

>>5042303
Thanks MK! <3
But not to worry,
I may been upset when it happened but I'm past that (In record time actually lol) and I'm totally looking foward to moving on,
I have no intention in giving up or closing up my heart anytime soon.

>>5042318
Oh god Myrs. Fucking Myrs. We should play next con we're both at. PMX? ALA? But yeah we're not buying premade decks, we're buying a box of booster packs. Considering trading in my Liliana for $50-$60 worth of packs on top. We do have a charity box I can lug to you though. It's a bunch of cards rares/uncommon/commons that none of us could use in our decks so we put it in a charity box for new players to build decks with.

>>5042293

I'm glad you're talking about us
Pic related its us

>>5042249
I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL MAN
And you should totally just do it, you never know!

Also this is how I feel about the last guy I was in a relationship with ohoho. Things just got really realllly awful and it was at a point in my life when I was going through serious issues and I needed someone to help me through it. It started off amazing and then he just crushed me and disappeared. I never got closure but im doing okay, made some new amazing friends and re-connected with old ones~ Since then i've been interested in a few guys but not enough for it to develop into anything. Im sure I will but for now im happy with the support of my friends ･ω･

But yeah this thread is amazing you all have such cute things to say.

>>5042324
>>5042303

I still ship you two and I'm sure Tim does too after the duet of Baby it's Cold Outside you two sang in fanfiction

So yeah, get to it. You're face combined with her face would make the most amazing babies

>>5042333
My heart, it swells with my feelings for you all.

>>5042299

>>5042338
W-wait, what? I know I've been gone a while, but what have I missed, exactly? U guys so cray-cray.

>>5042351

What do you think? You guys did a duet of Baby it's Cold Outside in a fanfic of you two together during Christmas time. Now get to it, my ship is sailing

>>5042338
Meh, I'll stick with my Hatsuu x Charizard ship.

Actually scratch that, I like my new MK x Hatsuu ship.
Sorry Charizard I guess you're forever alone again.

I like her, unsure if she likes me ... I be crushin hard... holding all that patience in to make sure I don't scare her off.

I think sitting in the tree outside her bedroom window at night is really bringing us together.

>>5042358

He has Mika

>>5042338
>>5042358
Y'know I get pretty weirded out when people ship me with other people especially when these two are good friends of mine

>>5042362
.....That's it, I'm done

>>5042374

You must make babies with Reno though
Its for the greater good

Got a ickle crush on a girl I know. She's studying away however, so it wouldn't work for the time being. We're going Russia together with a few friends so I may get closer during that time, who knows.

Nerves can be a bitch sometimes though. I don't need her, I want her, so if it doesn't work, it's all good.

I have a crush on this one boy online, fucking stupid, I know.
We used to be good friends, and fuck.
I started hitting on him a lot.
He liked it, I liked it.
recently he hasn't been getting online much.
And every time I hit on him he just apologizes for not being in the mood.
then I went through some shit and I've been like fucking sobbing my eyes out to him.
I feel so fucking stupid and guilty.
he says I should take medication or something.fuck
I blew it

Lmao this fucking thred

I met him through friends at a con this summer. We didn't get to talk much that one evening, but fuck it, I really like him. If anything were to happen, it would be a long distance thing, which probably wouldn't work out. I don't even know if he likes me back. Seeing him much sooner than expected though, next week actually, so who knows what will happen...

<This is how my guy makes me feel.

>this thread

She's the most beautiful cosplayer I ever met. I just wish I met her sooner, before she got engaged. ;_;

He's pretty much the best guy in the world. I love him and have recently realized that he's the man I want to marry once I finish college. The summer after we graduate, I'm going to take him to Carrabba's, treat him to his favorite meal and a glass of good red wine, and propose to him in the parking lot. And then we'll live happily ever after. <3

>>5042346
For Anon.

I'm sorry, I feel like posting in this thread for some reason.

He spent the night last night, which was surprising. He never spends the night on weekdays since he has to be up early to go to work. Other than his snoring, it was nice to have him over. I'm so happy to have him in my life, despite the issues we may have.

This way. Yeah.

My crush... ok

Well they make me feel like I actually wanna help them out. I think I kinda want them to be happy even if it's not with me. I have never really felt this way before so it's hard to put into words. I just think they are really cool and I even want to put up with them when they say/do shit that makes me mad. It doesn't feel like a physical attraction though. I don't even know what physical attraction feels like. I have never felt "oh that guy is so hot I want to lick his abs." What. I don't even understand that. I know what I don't want a guy to look like and that's about it.

What do I wanna say? Fuck you crush I don't even know why I like you. We just seem like we'd get along. I just have this feeling. That is all. I hate this shit. Fuck crushes. Fuck the world. I am tired and at work.

So, I'm crushing on her, but she's crushing on somebody else. I'm willing to bet that those two end up together mostly because I'm not her type physically.

Still resolved to love her anyways, cause It's just my thing to try and love everyone. Romantic love would be nice though.

...even had a spiffy date idea, but I don't think she's be interested.

Ohyeah, her smile totally lights up my day.

He's okay. He is a complete sweetheart but sometimes he can't give me the comfort I really need, and I feel as though I'm sometimes too cold to him. We've only been together for 2 months now, but I still get really awkward around him or even when we're on the phone. I love him, but I'm always nervous when I'm in any kind of relationship.

We have only been dating for about a month so far, he treats me SO extraordinarily well. I've never been treated so well before, it's almost surreal really. I feel so lucky and I really want to make him as happy as he makes me! I know most relationships start out this way, but the way he is, I don't think it's ever going to change. I love the man!

I've been dating him for a week...but it's the happiest I've been in....months. I've never met someone so interesting. I've never talked to someone so...consistently before. He's so interested in me too. I asked him what he wanted to this weekend, and he earnestly just wanted to hang out so I can work on costumes...

It's surreal. He used to go to my school, graduated awhile ago. I looked up to him , he was a source of inspiration and a leader. It just seems weird that he feels the same way about me. But I'm happy. I'm very, very happy he does.

>>5042331
ALA most likely. Awwww yeeeeaah errday we shufflin'!

Forever alone

He's very cute and sweet to me, yet he has someone already close to him, and it seems like they will get to together at some point.
I'm naturally very jealous at them, and to be honest, I think he's clueless about the fact he has two women after him...
(I don't know for sure the other girl likes him, but I have extreme suspicions due to things I've seen online.)
He says things that make me feel very very happy and good about myself.
And I don't know if my jealousy is crowding my vision, but I think she'll be bad for him. She's attention seeking and always talks about her problems and has apparently confided in my crush a lot about them too.
I'm scared she has the sympathy vote, and I feel terrible because I'm this jealous.

Shes really sweet. I find her super interesting. The problem is she's shy so im finding it hard to read if she likes me. We've been talking and we have plans to hang out though so there is a possibility there. I asked her for her contact info but she only gave me her email. Shes says she has a cellphone but never uses it. Im not sure if she's being honest or just doesnt want me calling her. What do you guys think?

>>5042880
If you get him, there'll be a chance of you ruining the friendship he have with the other girl.

But on the otherhand you can get hurt over it and just suffer in a corner over not being the one who got him, so make a choice really.

Either you go for him all the way and maybe ruin another person or else you take it yourself and suffer.

>>5042262

lobitah. derp.

My fiance is awesome. He's my best friend and the sweetest guy I've ever met. We hardly ever argue, and this is after 3+ years of dating.

I occasionally go through bouts of wanting a super-masculine guy (he's more lanky and crossdresses occasionally) or wanting a guy who will tell me how gorgeous I am (he's very affectionate, just not verbal about it), but I generally get over those. Plus, I couldn't see myself growing old and raising children with anyone else.

>>5042888

Anon, I'm a girl with a cellphone but never use it. (Outdated model, poorfag, etc.) It's awkward as fuck when I tell people to don't call me.

>>5042926
I see. So are you trying to say you think she was being honest then?

>>5042942

Yeah. It's pretty hard to say that without looking like a douchebag either way, but since you say she's sweet, I think she's telling the truth.

>>5042952
thanks anon, I feel less paranoid now.

I have a crush on a tripfag.

He's sweet, funny and caring.

But I have a feeling he won't open up to anyone. Let alone me...

>>5042977
The worst you could do is hide it. Be open and honest with how you feel about him.

If he's worth your crush, he's gotta be worth your time to talk to.

My boyfriend and I are hopeless romantics.
We met in middle school but didn't start actually hanging out until about 2 years ago.
We started dating after his last "girlfriend" was pretty much denying him even a hug and would barely talk to him.
I'd had a crush on him for a while, I told him how I felt, we considered, then started dating (after he broke it off with the other chick) just to try the waters.
We've been together since January the 10th of this year :3
He's very lovely and, while slightly effeminate, stands up for me and treats me like a really princess( even though I wear the pants in the relationship teehee)
He went off to college though in August and I'm stuck a couple hundred miles away (still in highschool). While it gets lonely, I'm just glad I'm able to see him everyday on Skype <:3

(Pic related: it's us on our way to drop him off at college for the first time)

>>5042977
What Matt said. Talk to him!

I can't wait to cook stuff for him, uguu~

>>5043018
Is that my reward?

We passed 1 month of being together yesterday, although it feels much longer than that...
We're doing the long-distance thing after meeting in one of the G+ hangouts (shout out to Izusa, cheers man). Recently we've been talking almost constantly on skype (and through texts and stuff when not online), so I really don't feel the distance all that often...

I really love her. Just seeing her smile is enough to pull me out of even the deepest slump. We're in a call together right now, and we aren't even talking, but I love just being with her. She's really amazing...

Oh damn, she's seen this thread. Better finish up quickly, or she'll post before me...

>>5043024
wh... who are you?

>>5043026
>it feels much longer than that...
And by that I mean that it feels like I've know her forever. Damn I'm bad at wording things..

Disregard my other posts. I (wish I) suck cocks.

I really like this goth guy that I sort of know. He's pretty cute and exactly my type as I have a huge thing for androgynous guys with small bone structures and long legs. I'm not exclusively attracted to one race, but if they're white, I like it best when they're really pale with dark hair and light eyes.

I met him about a month ago through a friend of his that comes to the un-official "anime club" at my uni. I've liked him ever since then. He's never come to any of our anime nights, but I've talked with him a few other times and he's pretty nice.

Even though our mutual friend says he can be chatty, he's usually pretty quiet when I try to talk to him so I'm not sure if he even likes me. The only time I've gotten him to really open up is when we were talking about books. Other than that, I have no idea how to talk to him so I usually end up yammering like an idiot. Sometimes, I wonder what he thinks I think of him because he'll tell me about something he likes or something he's interested in and immediately afterwards go "You must think I'm weird." or something to that effect.

I'm pretty sure he assumes I'm straight, too. Bringing up my faggotry in normal conversation has always been kind of hard for me since it's even less obvious as my powerlevel. Come to think of it, I'm not even 100% sure he's gay, either. I mentioned my dilemma in passing on another board once and they said that he's probably just really effeminate since he's into goth kind of stuff.

Feels pretty hopeless, man.

>>5043034
Is someone causing you problems?

>>5043034
I'm Katsuragi Keima, and you cant ignore my swag.

>>5043037
Protip: it seems like he wants you to fuck him.

>>5043038
help me #1 D:

>>5043048
I can try.

>>5043080
Acting like a tsundere i see, i'll still capture your heart with time.

Awkward bathroom moments.
Awkward hallway moments. My fault? Your fault? Not sure anymore.
Anyway I like you. Lets go out for thai sometime.

They're amazing. Sometimes a little too clingy, but everything else is worth it. 2 years+

>>5043099

>>5042262
So we all know who she is, and you're going to call her out openly on /cgl/?

Wow dude. Low blow.

I love you Stephanie and I'm always thinking of you.

He steals all the bed and covers. Pretty sure that's every man ever though...

She fucked someone in a bathroom during a con.

/cgl/ I'm in love with my manager. she's 19 years older. And my manager.
She's so warm And she does treat me differently. I'm the only one that can actually tolerate (and love) her at work. She will hold my hand and ask me if I'm okay. And she pats/rubs my back when she's close.

She also smells nice. Pic related it's her.
Also I am a girl.

This is how a certain someone makes me feel
http://vocaroo.com/?media=v5DgBUjex3prCGVfj

Also, her name isn't Fionna.

>>5043126
SHE is 19 years older than you?? How old are you, anon? Ten?

>>5043144
I'm 18 she is 37. Clearly she is a babe.

>>5043145
You got that right.

>>5043151
she also used to be nuts.
http://www.myspace.com/cristacleroux/blog
enjoy /cgl/

I like the way he falls asleep like a little baby at 5pm, then gets annoyed by me taking pics of him sleeping and posting them on facebook.

It's good that were both equally lazy (well, I have very low energy levels so I usually nap around 3 or 4pm)

I... I need to use "I want your gene-seed" at some point.

Man, I suck really hard at wording these things, excuse how terrible it all comes out. I'll keep it short so I don't ramble like a madman.

He makes me ridiculously happy. He's horrendously sweet and wayyyy too good to me. He's prob'ly the only person I've been with who isn't a massive geek, so the fact that he takes an interest in my hobbies and the like makes me feel way more important and loved than I should.
We've only been together a day over a month, and we've yet to meet each other offline (July seems way too far away right now... ), but I've already opened up to him a lot and he doesn't hate me for any of it, so... that's pretty much fantastic. Also with all of the skyping and texting and his being completely stupid and never sleeping I really don't feel the distance most of the time.
Umumm.. He's a really great guy, and even though he apparently doesn't see it, I think I'm really lucky to have him.
/Rambling incoherently and not doing him any justice with her horrid wording

>>5043076
Really? Am I missing something?

>>5043216
>>Quiet around you
Could mean he doesn't like you or he could be shy.

>>opens up when talking about something he likes
talking about a subject that he enjoys makes him forget his nervousness. Suggests he likes you. At the very least he thinks of you as a friend. That means that if he does, he'll probably be forgiving and let you down easy if you ask him out and you're unsuccessful.

>>repeatedly says you probably think he's weird
suggests that he's worried about what you think of him. Friends are concerned about how their other friends see them, but usually they're more worried about how someone who they have a crush on feels. If he's mentioning it a lot like you say, that probably means that he worries about it more than with just his friends.

Seems like you have more of a shot than you think you do so you should at least go for it, bro.

I absolutely adore my husband. We got married in April this year and time has just flown! He's just the most adorable, wonderfully silly, responsible, geeky, overly affectionate, understanding, sexy, and supportive man I've ever known. I get rather ridiculous when he's not around. For instance, when he leaves for work an hour before I do I secretly feel really sad. I hate seeing him leave me. I know we're still in that "fluffy newlywed" stage but we've been like this since we met each other two years ago. I honestly feel like I married my other half and now I feel totally whole and at peace. Sure, he's got his faults but so do I; he's so patient and loving through and through. I really love him.

I am the definition of happily married.

>>5043154
This is the cutest thing. My boyfriend falls asleep pretty easily and I'm not sure if I want to cuddle up with him or just stare at him for the entire nap, quietly reveling in what they call "the moes."

She's my roommate. Sitting next to her right now, dressed up like zombies for the zombie walk today. She's really sweet, and kind, but she worries way to much about how she comes across to others when she shouldn't. We're really close friends, and she likes the feeling of physical closeness (i.e. heads on each others shoulders, lying in each others laps, etc.), but she is adamantly straight, so I just keep my feelings to myself. Even worse is our other roommate has started joking that we're in lesbians with each other, and this has been REALLY bothering my crush. I feel so bad about that, but I enjoy being so close with her, even just as friends.

adsjhajkshfdahefkdjhjustsoconfusedaboutfeelings

She's busy.

>>5043240
I never really thought of it that way. We have a class together and he gave me his number so we could call eachother to study. I guess I could text him or call him and ask if he wants to go for coffee. What's stopping me, right?

>>5043316
>>he gave you his telephone number

Are you retarded?

>>5043316
>call each other to study
...You seriously didn't get that he wants to see you outside of class from this? Seriously?

SHE'S FUCKING AWESOME.

We basically met on Google+, but knew eachother from /cgl/ a while before that. She makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside and completely loved, and I'm really, really happy with it.

She lives 8000 miles away but we're possibly meeting in March, and I'm going to make sure it's the best week she ever has. I know she'll be reading this, so I know she'll feel happy when I say that I love her very much, and that I want to be with her forever and ever <333

>>5043398
I asked him for it, actually. I totally had calling him up once or twice to hang out outside of school as an ulterior motive, but I haven't had the balls to do it yet. I figured since he didn't give it to me without my suggesting it, it didn't count as a sign that he might like me.

We text back and forth pretty often, though.

>>5043434
Text him right now and ask if he wants to hang out this weekend.
Do it.

she doesn't exist.

It's been almost one year since the last time I've got a crush (celebrities don't count, because it's a vast range there). Is that weird?

He's not my type at all. He dresses like a hipster and has light, short hair and even lighter eyes. He's not very tall, and he's really not what I would find attractive in a guy at all. I stopped dating about a year and a half ago to work on myself and my self esteem issues (among other things), and I want to continue not dating so I can focus on my studies and get accepted into my university's study abroad program. However...my feelings for him are growing exponentially and even though we talked a bit about how I'm not interested in a serious relationship, I'm positive he knows how I feel about him. I haven't told him, but I'm sure he knows. He seems to know how to make my heart skip beats and how to coax my ridiculously shy self into eye contact.

His eyes are so blue. Crystal ships, dripping with ice, if I can make a Coco Rosie reference. One night, I invited him and a few friends over to my dorm to watch a movie, and we ended up playing a drinking game where I got pretty drunk (fucking lightweight). Drunk enough that when he left, I followed him out to the parking lot and called him and when he came over, I didn't have any words. I stuttered through some stupid "thanks for coming over", and then I grabbed onto his tie for a second. I don't know what I was thinking, but he put his hand on my cheek and kissed me and my heart exploded like a shower of fireworks.

WHY DOESN'T HE LIKE MEEEE a blub blub blub blub blub

Took /cgl/'s advice a while back and gave the guy in my Design Fundamentals (Art) class my number. I ended up asking him for his after he brought up my little written note and we've been hanging out since. I really like him and I kinda think he likes me. I think we're both a bit wary on the age difference though. I'm 25 and he's 45 which I didn't realize. I mean, I knew he was older, though I was thinking mid to possibly late 30's.

He's very sweet, down to earth, and just very intelligent. He's taking classes to get his master's for architecture. He's worked in it for years but wanted to finish school. He's very awesome and he and I can just chill. I'm actually happy seagulls. He's been helping me with so much. Getting over the scars of previous relationships and forcing me out of my shell a bit.

Like I even have a chance ;_;

It'd be nice if she had a little more intent when she talks about moving down here.

>screw the rules, we have green hair

>>5043445
Just "Hey, do you want to hang out?" or should I suggest an activity?

I swear I'm not normally this dense or dumb. I think the problem is that all my other relationships involved people I've already been friends with a while. Since I already knew them, it made it a lot less awkward.

He's....amazing. Without even trying he makes me really happy and my heart flutter. I can't help but smile whenever I hear from him or see him. We live about an hour and a half away from each other, so every chance we get to be together it makes me realize just how much I like him.

He saved me at my last con from a bunch of drama and managed to make me smile through my tears and pain. I owe him a lot and want to do everything I can to make sure he's happy and to take care of him. Even if I do have a habit of rambling around him just because I'm nervous about looking or being stupid....

Err, oh cripes. I don't even know where I'm going with this.

Hey, you know, I really like you a lot <3 Thank you.

>>5043479
What kind of things does he like to do?

She's wonderful, kind, funny, sweet, and she'd rage just as hard at OP's picture as me because there are no female Space Marines. Maybe an Imperial Guard, but that's really pushing it.

>>5043474
she's too hot for you

We met online and still haven't met in person. It feels like he lives on another planet, but even so, he makes me happier than anyone else can. I love seeing his face and can't wait to hold his hand.

I'm hopefully going to see him in March and can't freaking wait, it's going to be the best week of my life. I'm going to be able to tell him how much I love him, finally in person <3

>>5043506
That's a side/angle shot. She might be fugsters from the front.

She's awesome. She makes me happy. Happy when I wake up, happy when I go to bed. Doesn't get much better than that.

What do I wanna say to her right now? I'm afraid that's between me and her, but it'll be lovey-dovey stuff that would shake you to your core.

>>5043509
he's just ugly.

>>5043516
Yep. He sure is, I'm mad jelly though.

ughh these threads...

If I had a significant other, I'd tell her "snuggles, NOW"

...wow... how many people have met through /cgl/, exactly? Especially as of late.

>>5043498
He seems to like some anime and games, but he seems to read a lot more than he spends time doing either of those things. I think he likes being outdoors a lot since he does lots of wildlife photography and always takes walks in the woods near our school. He once mentioned that he bird watches, too. (That was one of his "You must think I'm so weird" moments.)

He also likes B-movies. That might be a pretty neutral place to start?

>>5043535
It's all because of the hangouts, I swear.
So... Thank you, Izusa?

>>5043535
I believe this place was made just so we could meet each other.

>>5043549
there's romantic
then there is creepy
which one do you think you are coming across as

>>5043549
dude... no.

>>5043549
preety sure piplup is taken
and not by you

>>5043519
>>5043516
>>5043509
>>5043506
Yes, yes, yes, and yes on all accounts.

>>5043537
B movies are a great place to start. Look up a bunch of titles that look interesting and torrent that shit. Text or him and tell him you found some great B movies online and ask if he wants to come over and watch sometime.

>>5043553
I also believe in this thing called " destiny ", so next time let me hear what your heart have to say.

>>5043561
>destiny

>>5043556
Agreeing with this and suggesting Oasis of the Zombies.

>>5043554

this. piplup is mine bro.

>>5043579
...no. no I'm not.
and I'm not adding you on facebook.

This pretty much describes me and her

(with OwlD looking at us like we're weirdos, out of nowhere and with no reason)

>>5043580
I-I'm not sure if I like Piplups new attitude

>>5043580

>piplup's trip
>not a pic of piplup

u phony, the real piplup would add me without a second thought!

>>5043586
not denying or anything really, just sayan.

>>5043584
I've never liked pokemontrainermay.

>>5043582
WAIT, ARE YOU TALL AND LANKY ENOUGH TO DO ALLELUJAH?

>>5043591

butt whayyyyy?!

I could be a famous k-pop singer! you'll never know until you add me on facebook desu.

>>5043591
EVER

>>5043592
>>5043592

are you NOT FAT enough to cosplay Izusa?

>>5043592
skinny? kind of. Lanky tall? hah, no. I'm only 5'7". But my gf is 5'0" so I think it's at least decently manageable.

captcha: nuentn girlfriend
well shit, it's like some sort of internet divine sign or something.

>>5043596

don't you encourage her poor choice asshole!

>>5043556
Okay. I know of a few already that he hasn't gotten around to seeing yet that I can torrent.

>>5043578
This sounds like something he would be all over and I don't think he's heard of it. I found an online version, too.

Sending him a text now. Wish me luck.

>>5043591
I thought you two got along swimmingly

>>5043601
good luck! *o*

>>5043607
No it was all a lie, so that she could have another trainer, she's two-timing!

He has

I swear to god

A head like a lion

And I want to pet it SO BAD

I've known him for over a year, crushing the whole time... ffff. He lives in England, while I live in canada so it's just not really meant to be. I finally met him this summer and it was amazing, we had the most adorable kiss, etc... I couldn't have asked for a more perfect day but it really sucks now. I'm doing a semester abroad next year so I'll get to see him then, but for now we're not doing a long distance thing. I miss him a lot.

>>5043624
pics

She makes me smile even when I am in a shitty mood or feeling really depressed

Really don't want to mess it up by meeting her

I like him but I don't think he likes me as much anymore now that he's gone most of the time. If he's home and I don't jump him at the door I get this blank stare before the "Ok whatever" and he'll eventually leave to go out with his friends.

If I had to say something right now I'd probably ask when I can expect him to be moving out.

the only one who cheers me up when im depressed

get in mah belly!

I can't even tell when I have a crush. It could be admiration, but I'm not sure.

My boyfriend instructed me not to claim that I love him until we've met in person.

I do love him, though I'm forbidden from telling him that.

Hopefully his job offer comes through so he can begin saving money for a trip before the end of this year. If that doesn't pan out... I don't know what he'll think of our relationship at that point. I often worry that I am more invested in him than he is in me.

In a way it frightens me that the longevity of our relationship could rest on the back of something so flighty, beyond both of our control.

>>5043601
Here. He said yes and asked when.

>>5043671

>>5043632
Here.
>Don't judge meee.

when he plays minecraft, I make the perfect hissing noise that a creeper does so my boyfriend freaks out. Then I laugh at his fear, but he gets back at me by tickling me. I don't play minecraft because I am afraid of becoming addicted when i really need to focus in my studies.

>>5043671
TELL HIM YOU'RE NOT DOING ANYTHING RIGHT NOW FAG IT UP WITH HIM AND RETURN WITH DEETS

GO GO GO GO GO

>>5043681
>181x378

He's shorter than me and I'm not very tall and a lot of our friends make jobs about how our roles are reversed in our relationship. (I'm usually the dominate one I guess) His hair is usually always a puffy mess and his glasses are usually crooked. He has small cuts/raw areas (probably from scratching, but I'm not too sure) and scars from his eczema which still hasn't gone away. He's also allergic to pretty much everything and has to bring an epipen when we go out just in case. He's also the funniest guy I have ever met in a weird nerdy creeper kinda of way and is really nice too. Also when ever I invite him over for dinner he helps me even though he can't cook at all really. It's so adorable watching how clueless he is in the kitchen~ I love him so much and we even thought about getting married after college. Hopefully it all goes well!

He's a friend I guess but all I seem to do is observe from afar.
I feel like I irritate him and even more so since the last time we 'hung out' was at a party we were at and he was the only sober one and I teased him on how skinny he was.

;A; ONE DAY I WON'T BE SOCIALLY AWKWARD AND ACTUALLY TALK A NORMAL CONVERSATION WITH HIM.

You fucking pokeignorant faggots. Piplup's trainer is DAWN, not may. Get your shit together. Plus any landwhale with half a fucking brain even if its all gelatinous lard can tell that this piplup is fucking todd. FUCK.

>>5043674
I feel like a total faggot for being as excited as I am. I'm trying not to get my hopes up, though. Like I said I don't know if he's gay and it's entirely possible that he could think we're just hanging out. We'll see, though.

>>5043704
We're talking it out right now and he mentioned that he wasn't doing anything. Still, you don't think that it'll make me look too eager?

>>5043762
hey, if it doesn't work out, don't feel bad. At least you tried!

> significant other
We both real comics
>Hes a Marvel and im DC
We have close to same views on anime, which is cool. Im 5'0" and hes 6'3", so i feel really lil around him. We met at a Hellsing shoot at Katsu'09 (i was Seras, he was Anderson). We got together shortly after Katsu'11. Im moving in next month, can't wait.

>>5043749

woops ure right it is dawn lolololol

>piplup is fucking todd

well if he's going MtF w/e idm

can't resist...
my boyfriend is the best person i've ever met! I've been crushing on him since last May, and he finally asked me out this summer. He's so supportive and loving, he makes me feel like the most important person in the world. He's not into anime or anything, but loves it when i tell him about shows im watching or show him costumes i'm working on.. he also loves it when i wear lolita out on dates! We both love cooking and make super intense classy dinners together all the time. He's seriously my best friend, i'm never upset or insecure when we're together, and we always have a ton of fun, even if we're just pretending to be old people; reading books/drinking tea in bed before we have to get up early. i love him so much.

Oh, goodness. He's amazing. He's one of the smartest guys I've met. He composes music, sings, and plays piano/trumpet/bass/guitar/whatever else he can pick up. He's really funny, really nerdy, and I think he's really attractive. He makes me feel really happy and being around him is just joyful and effortless and awesome.

Thing is, he's not mine. We dated for about a year, but he suffers from depression and went on a self-destructive tirade for a little bit. We're still reeling from that. He's still my best friend, and I still have feelings for him, but whether or not we will end up together is difficult to really determine.

I just want a man to do some hot bara pairings with at cons. Two ripped guys in costumes at cons...tell me people wouldnt love to see this.

>>5043764
That's true. He agreed to come over tonight since we're both people who tend to stay up really, really late. I did a whirlwind cleanup of my room and put on a clean shirt.

Anyone got anymore last minute pointers?

>>5043979
You got condoms? If not ask him to bring some.

I have a boyfriend. Recently I started speaking with a girl from my local lolita community. Once she held my hand, joking. I liked it. Then I started thinking about her, even more than I do about my boyfriend. And I want to see her, talk to her, be together... I love my boyfriend, but it's my first time having a crush on a girl. Feels weird. She got a boyfriend and she won't realize this because we're not too close.

Don't start me on my boyfriend!

He's really cute~ I love his pretty brown eyes and hair. And he looks so young! But he's just a few months younger than me. I wish I could look that young!

He's got a great voice, and I love it when he sings to me~
He sounds like an angel~

People say they don't like his new haircut, it really does make him look older, but I don't mind! He's still beautiful~

Lots of people make fun of him and it breaks my heart... I figure they're all just jealous of his success!

Unfortunately he lives in Canada, so I don't see him very much. He's always in my heart though!

<3 <3 <3

To anyone currently involved in an LDR:
How amazing is it falling asleep on skype with your girlfriend/boyfriend and waking up to see them sleeping beside you?
We do it together all the time, and I find I'm feeling the distance between us less...

Hey I've always wondered something. How do LDRs work? I mean, how often do people who are in them see each other in real life and how often do you talk online?

Ehh, the guy I like is really sweet and adorable. He always says the most interesting and d'awww-worthy stuff that makes me gush. Too bad he's not really what I'm looking for in a potential husband.

I've had a crush on her since late 2008.

I saw her cosplay randomly on here and I fell head over heels. Told her how I felt recently knowing I would get shot down, but she still acknowledged my feelings.

I think she's amazing, though she does get a lot of shit from mad jelly fatties and tryhards. Hoping I can meet her next year at a con.

My crush is a cheerful japanese girl in my Kyudo class who happens to be a mechanical engineer and has a dog named Capernicus.

...shit you not.

/cgl/, There's this guy I've gone out with a few times that just saw some of my cosplay photos online. He's not really in to anime and I have no idea how he's going to react to me dressed up as a cartoon character. Tell me it's going to be alright, seagulls!

>>5044164
He is going to be disgused.

My crush is a short, short-brown haired girl who goes to college a few hours from me. She's majoring in literature/writing, I think. I've known her since kindergarten, but we didn't really start getting close until junior year of high school.

>>5044182

Oh, to make it /cgl/ related I'm fairly certain she used to cosplay when we both lived in California

She has her quirks and is a little too hyper
Sometimes I get annoyed from the things she does
She's completely yandere
But, but, but, BUT
She's also adorable when she curls up next to me
She loves me way more than I deserve
She makes my day better, every day especially when we're talking about something stupid like bear semen.
She sends me these little adorable love notes that make my week
She puts up with me when I feel like I screwed up with her

I wouldn't have it any other w ay, you know I love ya <3

>>5044056
changes from person to person. If you are looking in to getting in to a LDR then be sure you have feelings for them, I guess?

The distance sucks but I've seen people occasionally finally meet in person and they just seem really ecstatic but then there are some who finally meet and realize that there was more to their partner that they could hide like habits or quirks or something, idk.

I wonder why my post was baleeted?

Odd

My boyfriend and I are both in medical fields of work (he's a cardiologist and I'm an neurologist).

He's so cute sometimes, he takes my pulse when we're kissing/holding hands/having sex and usually comments about how high the rate is.

I could go on about him and adorable things he does forever.

fucking horrible
>treats me ilke shit when he is with friends
>he acts way more different when alone
>dont know y im still attached to him
>been hurt all the time
>just attracted by douches

>>5044423
>women general

>rlly been hurt a lot of times
>doesnt give signals of being interested in me or in someone else
>i bet hes gay
>hurts like shit
i dont know if i have to take the first step
prolly getting just rejected, btw im rlly average looking like in average average

I've had no SO's or crushes since the GF I wanted to marry left me a year ago.
I've only had fucks.
I would like to change this, but I haven't met a woman with a reasonable cognitive ability since.
Perhaps that's asking too much, but I prefer to think it isn't.

>>5043521
You called?

This thread is so cute, I love happy couples.
I'm not crushing on anyone atm, when I'll meet mr dream guy, I'll just know :)

This thread does make me slightly sad since I've never had a significant other. Especially considering I am now 22. Happy for all of you though.

Ah... my crush is... exactly how a crush should be! Provokes turbulent and often negative feelings in me, but still able to give me butterflies every time I see him online. I'm really looking forward to meeting him!

We had a fight earlier but it was short and now everything is great. I love him so much and would never ask for anyone or anything more.

>>5044446
How you doin'?

>>5044395
He's usually half-asleep when I talk to him.
Sometimes he gets a bit on my nerves.
He's a bit stupid.
But~
I always feel better when he's holding me.
An unexpected call or text from him (even during the most awkward moments) always brightens my day.
He knows I get very affectionate with others and tolerates it.
He's a bit stupid. But I know he still cares.
He loves me a lot more than I deserve.
He always brings a smile to my face.

The best person in my life <3 I love you~

>>5044555
I'm good, I'm good~
How YOU doin?

(ex)Girlfriend went out and got a boyfriend and texted me about how wonderful he is, so I broke it off with her after that. It was really shocking, considering she told me she was gay. Not that I am/was upset that she's bisexual; I'm upset because she got a fucking boyfriend while we were dating.

My crush is the cutest girl I have ever met in my whole life. I can't even explain how cute she is. I met her in my campus gsa, and she's mtf and bisexual so heres hoping I get to go out with her someday.

She makes me feel giddy. It's her adorable, nerdy optimistic personality, I think.

Fuck if I wasn't such a wimp I would ask her out. So if I saw her now I'd probably just try and get to know her better.

<- this is my significant other

How can someone be THIS PERFECT.
I would tell him, " Why are you so perfect?" and "I love you unconditionally"

>>5044825
whoops dropped my name.

On a serious note, some kid I see walking around school. He has the cutest face ever and I want to hold his hand. Everybody thinks he's a loser and hates him, but that just makes me like him even more. You're cool to me ; _ ;
hell, you're even groovy.

I miss him I miss him I miss him I miss him I miss him
;________;
He makes me so happy, but he lives so far away that I can't see him more than every couple of months.
yeah yeah, I know. I should try and find someone else, but I DID try that and it turned out horribly. I just want him and his cuddles and his chu's and his ability to make me feel like I'm not alone...
Pic related, I miss playing video games together (especially dragon quest)

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You are my favouritest bunny and my best bunny and I miss you more than I'd miss macaroons if I didn't have regular access to them - they sell them downstairs in the shop - and I wish that you could come and hang out in my flat all the time but you can't because you have your own life and own things to do but I miss you SO SO SO MUCH and I wish in hindsight that I'd gone to uni somewhere closer to London except not really because you shouldn't let relationships get in the way of a good education and Bristol is such a nice town but I really, really, really miss you and I wont get to see you until Expo but I miss you loads and also I bought a fez, fez's are cool.

I just got out of a LDR where I was losing my feelings for him, (loads of other stuff was happening as well + I can't really handle a relationship atm, let alone a LD one) so this thread should make me feel really bitter that I haven't found somebody who I can imagine spending the rest of my life with yet...

But actually, this feels me with loads of fluffy feelings and hope. ;_;
Thanks.

"Alas, the third dimension will not be known by you."

>>5044790
I'm allllright

She's brilliant. Creative, honest, intelligent, practical, beautiful. She keeps her emotions and insecurities private, which worries me, but I will be there for her when she needs someone to talk to. She is the first person I have fallen in love with, and the only person I can imagine being intimate with. I have never been able to stand talking to the same person on a daily basis before her. Without even trying, she has made me a better person. I'm afraid I'm not good enough for her, but she feels the same way about me.
In time, when we have settled and found a measure of security in our lives, I will ask her to marry me.
Pic related, it's a goddamned adorable motherfucking spider playing the bongos.

>>5043037
>>5043216
>>5043316
>>5043479
>>5043537
>>5043601
>>5043671
>>5043762
>>5043979
Again.

Just dropping in to let you guys know that everything turned out better than expected.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pMM4iwC-ag&feature=artistob&playnext=1&list=TLOZGyDWzatm
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>>5045185
spill

>>5045185
Dudebro. Tell the story

>>5045185
aww cute

>>5045211
>>5045217
>>5045228
We watched a couple of movies and ended up making out. The lead up to that was awkward as hell, but worth it. Then it got late so he stayed over. We went and got Waffle House this morning and hung out a little more. He wants me to go birdwatching with him soon, but we're definitely going to hang out before that.

You guys might think it's anti-climactic, but I'm incredibly happy about it.

>>5045554
Fuck. Yeah. Congrats!

>>5045554
YES YES YES YES YES

AWESOME

>>5045554
and you thought he didn't like you.
oh you~

Congrats Anon! That's fantastic! I hope it works out.

Shes absolutely amazing and beautiful.. Ever since I met her shes changed my outlook on life completely, all the depression goes away when I'm with her and the thought of being with her gives me strength to make it in this world for the both of us..

Shes a regular tripfag here on /cgl/ *which was terribly hard to get over, fucking tripfags. lololol* and found out she was also a /b/ro only after a few days. =p

God I really love her, and I honestly don't know where the hell this luck or wish came from, but I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life and I believe she is too, she is my world :D

Also, I don't usually lurk here, only every once in a while. Straight up /b/ro, yo.

Happy early anneversary babe!! =]

>>5045627
I really missed you today so I said fuck it, I'll go to /cgl/.. and I found this thread. =p I love you!

i really love him. He's made me such an incredibly happy person. But lately he's been feeling really out of control of his life so he chose to break up with me. I'm extremely hurt and he's just going on like he never hurt me. He says he doesnt care for me like he did, or like how I care for him. It sucks so fucking much.

>>5045589
>>5045627
>>5045638
oh gosh

the girl i like is so incredibly intense and dedicated to her goals it's both cute and amazing. she's kind of hard to get along with since she's convinced herself she has to be all cool and stoic because of some pretty traumatic things in her past, but she was also super awkward when she was younger so i guess the zero social skills thing carried over. she doesn't break promises and cares far more than she lets on, though. she also has a sort of girlfriend who is the goddess of magical girls.

>>5045654
I heard you like Pokemon

I became interested in someone a little over two months ago, and I went into it headstrong and straight out told him how I felt. He turned out interested himself, and so we started dating about a month ago. He lives four hours away, but that's alright. We've become very open with each other, and I trust him very much. I feel very passionate about him, and not so much romantic. 
Though recently I feel like I'm not enough for him. He complains about things that aren't right with me or things he wants to change about me. I used to be really confident about my body until he kept complaining my breasts are too small. Which is alright, to those their own prefernce, but it's like he complains about it to an extent that it hurts my feelings. He's just generally insensitive twords me, and it's not like I expect him to cater to everyone of my needs/demands/wants but he never ever thinks about my feelings. I just feel like I could never pick up the phone and cry to him. 

I just hope he turns out to be someone I can love. In every other way he's amazing and makes me happy.

I wouldn't know as
> the more I speak t
>he less interest My love interest seem to keep in me.
The worst pain .

lolbawww: He was the first person to treat me just like anyone else after a really bad time in my life left me kind of crazy and broken, and he's been a dear dear friend for a few years now. I'm not too sure when I started feeling like this, and he's the first person i've ever seriously considered being with and it's really hard to explain. He was with the same girl for most of that time, so it didn't really matter anyway. It was easier not to think about when it was just a fact of life that they'd been together forever.

A while ago, they had a nasty breakup, and this promptly came back really hard. I ended up confessing during a fit of featherweight drunken babbling a few weeks later. He says it was good that I did, just so it's in the open, but he can't figure out anything he's feeling right now. Of course it would be insane to expect much else, but we haven't talked a lot lately, and I hate that I can't do anything to help but be there and hope that's worth something. Even if it's just rampant paranoia, I can never stop feeling like I ruined everything.

Love's stupid and scary and I hate it.

>>5045654

We are total opposites. I'm a shy, awkward nerd; he's a loud, obnoxious bro. I don't know shit about sports, and he's probably never touched a comic book in his life. We have next to nothing in common, which makes conversation awkward at times, and while we're both smart people, we don't even share the same intellectual interests. About the only thing that we have in common are our voracious sexual appetites, so it's no surprise we spend most of our time together getting busy.

Imagine my frustration with myself when I have been unable to give a number of awesome people with whom I have a lot of chemistry a chance because I'm stuck on this guy.

Imagine my surprise when he asked me to be his girlfriend about a month ago. Now, I enjoy going to football games, and he's addicted to Farscape. Life's funny.

I like a girl from tumblr who lives in my town.
She's pretty and I have no friends and I want her to friendzone me so we can always hang out forever and ever.
I want to be her kitty cat.
Sex is gross.

>>5045962
you're my favorite trip

my most recent ex: i'm still in love with you. i don't know why you dumped me. but it still hurts. i miss you. and i just wanna go back to being friends. i want you to be happy more than i want a second chance.

the guy i've been crushing on since we were freshmen in college: HEY! YOU KNOW THAT I LIKE YOU! AND I EVEN ASKED YOU OUT! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD EITHER TURN ME DOWN OR GO ON A DATE WITH ME! SUSPENSE BLOWS!

and because of g+, i've now got a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge crush on what i would assume to be a former tripfag. gyah. i'd drink whiskey with him all night if i could.

Recently broke up with my girlfriend but had an emotional pillow at the time. He's the sweetest thing, even if he may be socially inept (might have autism/Aspergers). We've agreed on being FWB; obviously not going to take it fast, so it'll just be like cuddles for now.

howfuckinginteresting.jpg

Met her when I went to Rocky Horror for the first time about a month ago. Was crushing on another girl at the time, but was starting to lose hope because a friend of mine was already making moves on her (beta as fuck I know) Met her roommate, hit it off pretty good.
The following monday, I asked her out to coffee on Friday - much to my surprise, she accepted, and we met up one-on-one for the first time.
Was awkward on our first "date", as it had been so long since I was in any kind of relationship, but I think I did good. Good enough, evidently, that we met up later after she came back from a party tipsy enough to be as obvious as the sun. I spent time talking to her til she was sober (not going to take advantage of anyone like that) and finally worked up the courage to kiss her that very night.

Since then, she's started to get into roleplaying, especially LARPing (she even got her sister, a total sorority girl and now kindergarten teacher, to have enough interest in coming to next event) and she's introducing me to new movies and music I have never gotten the chance to experience.

It's a new, unfamiliar feeling, but I kinda like it.

My SO? He browses this board sometimes..I don't know if he'll see this though.
He waited on me for three years. Watched me date other guys, almost even get married once. And for some reason I will never understand, he didn't give up on me. He has a dedication and a patience to him that is unheard of in most people these days.
We only recently got together, though. October 4th of this year. He sent me flowers with a letter attached to them, asking me out, right after AWA where we spent the whole weekend attached at the hip and finally sat down to talk about everything.
I think--hope, pray--that this is finally it.
You're amazing, Mr. Law.
Simply amazing. Thank you.

dating for almost 2 years....

i think it may have run its course, but I don't rly want to admit it :(
also, he's perfectly content in this relationship

My boyfriend of 4 months.
He's wonderful. He's funny and I love that he tells me that I'm beautiful. He understands me and I love cuddling with him and kissing him.
Gah, I just love and miss him.

Though I would want to tell him to pay less attention to games when I'm with him.
And to not get annoyed when he's tired and I want to kiss and hug him. I just want you to pay more attention to me. Don't get annoyed, please.
But I love you. I don't know what I'd do without you.

I want to die. I dated him for 2 years and was so happy through most of it, but somehow it just broke 3 months ago. When I saw him, something felt wrong. I kept trying to place what it was, which just made me more and more depressed. It got to a point where I couldn't eat, I just slept for hours and hours. I missed school, started hurting myself, I just didn't know what to do. When I saw him, it just didn't feel the same. I used to think we had so much in common and that we were so compatible, and we still are, none of our interests or personality traits have changed. We always used to make each other laugh, and I thought it was so great that he was the only guy I knew who'd ever forego sexual attention to play pokemon cards with me. Even when I was feeling my worst, just seeing him made me feel better. Then it all just went away one day. This whole transition has been hard, starting college for the first time. That might've been the problem, but I don't know. I broke up with him a few days ago. I just hate myself. I dont' want to see any of my friends or go out and have fun, I just want everything to stop. He's always cared about me so much, and gone so far out of his way to make sure I'm ok, why am I so numb? I tortured myself for 3 months, and this isn't the first time this has happened. Why do my relationships just break off for no reason when everything seemed to be going perfectly?
I just hope we can stay friends. I mean the world to him, and of course he wants to stay friends with me, but I don't know if I can do it.

>>5047285
I want to, for his sake, but I feel something calling me to just start a new life with new people. That can't be the right thing to do though, I shouldn't just abandon everyone who cares about me because I'm going through a rough time. They never did anything wrong to me, why should I betray them this way? It feels like every time I find a group of people I have things in common with, I just discard them to be alone and flounder until I find another one of the type of people that will hurt me or drag me down. Why am I this way? I just feel so completely numb... The worst thing is, when I see him now, I still want to touch and kiss him. We always end up in each other's arms by the end of the night. Then, I leave, and I wonder what could've went wrong? My worst fear is that this whole time, even though I felt such an unbelievable bond to him, it's been some stupid childish crush and I just grew out of it and now I don't know how to cope. I felt so close for so long, it couldn'tve just been a stupid teenage crush, but I doubt myself all the time. I've had several psychologists tell me I'm depressed, but what if they're wrong and it's just conditional? I'm not allowed (and can't afford) to take medication anyway.

>>5047286
and now I'm just going to sit here on /cgl/, refreshing the page over and over, waiting for some anonymous person to give me the same advice people that call me their friend have been giving to me for months. Instead of going out and trying to be happy (because maybe once I feel better in general, I'll feel better about him.)

>>5047286
You're depressed. It's not conditional. Trust me on this one, I've been there.

>>5047322
you have? did medication help? did you ever mend things at least a little with the people you hurt?

>>5042261
Oh. My. God.
I hnnnngh'ed so hard. That was fucking adorable.

>>5047369
Medication did help. Lexapro didn't work for me, but citalopram did. As long as you communicate regularly with your psychiatrist / doctor about how the medication is effecting you, they can keep you regulated and change your dosage as needed. Episodes of major depression aren't something you can just "snap out of", they're chemical imbalances in the brain. The drugs will get you on your feet again. Be sure to talk about side-effects and allow for other positive habits to develop (like keeping a good sleep schedule, daily exercise, so on). I've been medication-free for four years now and am doing very well thanks to the routines I was able to set up while I was still in therapy and on pills. (I was lucky, perhaps. My counselor and I got along very well, and she knew what she was talking about.)

>>5047369
Forgot to answer your second question, sorry about that. I learned who my friends were. The people who stuck with me through the worst of it were the ones I kept around. I explained my situation to them, and while some of them were still upset, they eventually came to forgive me once they saw the progress I was making. Anyone I lost during that time was for the better.

He thinks I'm a really cool friend. Don't get me wrong, I'm genuinely glad to be friends with such an awesome guy, but...goddammit, this keeps happening. Everyone thinks I'm such a great friend. It fucking sucks.
He's perfect. He's so nerdy and awkward and he has the best singing voice EVER. He's also the most handsome man I've ever seen on my college's campus. Oh, he doth teach the torches to burn bright! I was never supposed to feel this way. I was all hung up on this crazy depressed guy and then THIS guy and I end up fucking. We hooked up twice before we realized how much we had in common.
Now he wants to be friends.
Just friends.
All he wants to do is watch Fullmetal Alchemist with me and hit on my housemates.
It's one thing to get friendzoned by someone who doesn't find you attractive.
It's quite another to get friendzoned by someone you've already fucked twice.

>>5042226
He's amazing. Pretty much the most perfect individual I've ever met. Makes me smile, makes me laugh, and I miss him when I don't get to see him for just a day.
I pretty much say all the things I want to say to him all the time. It makes me sound corny and soggy, but who cares? I love the guy.
Our four year anniversary is coming up very soon, and my ass needs to get to ordering his present. :P

Right now? In my hearts of hearts?

I want to punch her in the face. She's an amazing and smart girl (fuckin sexy too) And she can't choose a college for the life of her. I don't want her to end up like my brother and be working a dead end job (if he ever gets a promotion, he'll be making less than he makes now), and I know for a fact her mom hates me and that's fine with me because she's a big cunt.

Oh, and I really want her to come out to her mother so we can move to Canada and finally get married. But that's nothing major /sarcasm

>>5047548
ooh that's rough. You have my sympathy, anon

He makes me feel every emotion possible, only more intensified. When things suck (and boy, do they ever suck a lot these days) all I have to do is hear his voice, or be wrapped up in his arms, and everything just fades away. I want to tell him I love him, but I think it'll scare him off (even though he's said it wouldn't)

That boy. <3

She is the best thing that's happened to my life and has been for 2 and a half years. She is super cute and therefor has been dubbed "desu" by me. We kiss, cuddle, and waste the days away together happily whenever we get the chance to see each other and I wouldn't have it any other way. I scratch her back, she hugs me and scratches mine.

We both read this board (her more than I) and laugh together at the hilarity that ensues. We plan couple cosplays, skits, and even panels on some occasions and travel to events together. She had me watch all of Dragon Ball while she's watching Sailor Moon because of me (ironic I suppose, since I'm male).

I love her, value my time with her, and want her to know that she's my favorite person ever. Really.

Right now I just want to ram a calendar down his throat.

I love him dearly but his inabilty to commit to anything is utterly infuriating. I'm not talking about moving in together or marriage or anything serious like that, but I can't even plan a fucking weekend break with him. I wanted to take him away to a posh hotel in the Lake District for Valentine's day/ his birthday next year. I was going to do it the weekend beforehand so it didn't get in the way if he wanted to spend time with his family or anything on the actual day. I was quite prepared to pay for everything. We've both been wanting to go for ages and it felt like a great time to do it, but we can't because he's "not sure what [he'll] be doing". Any prior engagements? NOPE, he just plain doesn't know. Is a weekend away really too much to ask after 2 years together?

Apart from that he's a fantastic guy, but it's really been upsetting me lately. I feel like we'll never actually get any further than the end of the road because he can't plan ahead any further than a bloody fortnight.

Well, my significant other makes me feel rather wanted! It's a lovely thing. I worry about her constantly, however. I usually let my own ideals and ambitions get in the way of happy relationships, but I'm trying not to subject her to that.

I would tell him that I meant it when I said he was adorable and that I miss his comments and junk..

only posting because I know it'll never happen, but this thread makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Hugs for everyone!

>>5044825
ditto

He's amazing. We've been through a lot of shit over the past couple months but now we've got all that behind us and our 2 year is coming up. Awww fuck yeaaahhhh.

Pic sort of related I guess.

I don't think anyone has ever understood me so well or has had such a burning desire to take care of me the way he does. It's so strange to me that he loves me so much, I've been really burnt in the past so I'm trying to get over the fear that his heart will turn cold as soon as I've let go and learned to accept the fact that he does love me. Mostly I'm afraid he's too good to be true. I'm not good at expressing it, we weren't very lovey-dovey in my house growing up, but I love him and feel like we've given each other the strength to start being adults about a lot of things. I can absolutely see myself spending the rest of my life with him, I am so excited for when we move in together.

If I could say one thing to him - just know that as bad as I am about letting my guard down and telling you how I feel, as annoyed as I may seem at times - I do love you. I'm just shitty at showing it. You're always telling me that I'm your everything. You're the reason my heart beats, too.

>>5044829
Don't dilly-dally, talk to him. You have the potential to spare him another day of loneliness and make waking up in the morning worth it to him.

She's at school right now, it's my last day visiting her state. I'm already feeling the tears forming for when it comes time for me to depart.
I love that we can talk about anything and everything together. We can go from being deeply romantic to extreme levels of dorky in seconds and give no fucks about it.
We have so much trust and support for each other.
She's gorgeous and talented and we share opinions on nearly everything.
Whenever I'm scared or embarrassed she's always there to reassure me.
It's just that feeling of shared happiness and understanding. It's completely overwhelming, man.

We've been friends since we were tiny kids. One day we decided to fumble around. It was electric and he smelt good.

It all started when I would hang out with him at his house (his parents lived abroad). Rather then him keep driving me home after visiting, he set up his spare bedroom and surprised me by moving a load of my things in there. He decorated it and put my name on the door; it was at this stage we still weren't an 'item', but becoming his housemate was fun. After falling asleep in each other's arms on the sofa so often, my things gradually found their way into HIS draws and cupboards, and eventually we started sharing a bed.

It was so fun and perfect how it happened. You know when you're in that honeymoon phase with a new lover and ALL you can think about is them? the only thing you look forward to is being in their company? Now imagine that, but you're living together. We did (and still do) everything together. we bathe, eat, sleep and just hold hands constantly as we're pottering around our house (we share a mortgage now)
People thought that it was an unhealthy amount of time we spent together- thought we'd get burnt out pretty quick. They thought we were being stupid, lovestruck young folk. But three years on we're looking to our wedding, and I just know that I'm going to spend the rest of my life with this man. Every second in his company is just so much fun, and we're so ridiculously in synch, we even have the same dreams. He's funny and adorable, and he looks after me when I need it. We're intellectually matched, although I know that he's more logical then me. Where we differ, we compliment each other.

He still gives me butterflies. Thinking about his smell, the faces he makes when...when y'know...when he shows signs of emotion, his cute singing voice...seeing him dance, laugh, take pictures. God he smells so good.

haha, sick.

>>5050588

also forgot to mention that he's 6ft 4"

I'm 4ft 11".

The only time I've ever felt ok about being short is around him. He just picks me up, and pops me over his shoulder as he's cooking and stuff.

ah, he's a great cook, too. I am an awful cook. He cooks for me most nights.

And he does all this whilst smelling great.

He really saved me during a terrible time in my life. I'm actually kind of scared to say I love him after everything I went through in my last relationship, but I'm pretty sure I do. He makes me feel safe and loved and beautiful and gives me the real tough love advice no one else seems to give correctly. I have days were I lapse and want my ex-bf back, but I'm trying so hard to not be so weak.

"I know we don't want to think about this for a while, but if you asked me to move to Colorado with you, I'd say yes. Without hesitation."

>>5050612
>>5050588
aww

>>5042267
Late into the thread, but if you are who I think you are:
Yes, I know that you like me and I do feel the same way back. No, I don't do what I do to you with other boys. You're the only person I'm attracted to as more than a friend. I'm just a bubbly and extroverted person. I can't help it. I know a lot of guys are attracted to me because I'm fun and can hold a conversation but I'm not interested in them. It's not my intention to play anyone. That's why I'm very careful about making friends with guys who are not taken and/or gay. Do you know that you're only straight, single guy whom I consider a close friend, Don't you think there's a reason behind that? It's because I want to move beyond friendship. Well, I know your personality a little better now... I really wish you would say what's on your mind sometimes. It's not health to bottle up your emotions and beat yourself up. It's not your fault. I have a lot of love to give. I'm happy to give platonic love to everyone but I only have romantic feelings for you. If you can see beyond what's on the surface and connect with me emotionally then you would make me the happiest girl in the world. I'm getting tired of the game. It seems like the more I pull, the more you push. If you don't think you can handle me for who I am (and I won't take it personally), then please let me know directly. I don't want to lose you as a friend and I need some time for physical and emotional antipathy before I can let go of my romantic and sexual feelings.

>>5050612
>I'm 4ft 11".

for real? woah.

>>5050612
You're so tiny!<3

He was our new God for a little while, then he got possessed by the Loch Ness monster. It's been kind of downhill since then. :(

I don't have one, but bump for all the other sweet and/or heartbreaking stories in this thread.

>>5050612
HNNNGH, I love couples like this.
ALL OF MY WANT

He's silly and sweet and my best friend.

We've been close friends for over six years. In that time, he has asked me out on at least three occasions. I turned him down every time. He was the kind of friend I knew would make a great long-term partner/husband, and I said so many times, but I wasn't looking for that.

In January of this year, I asked him out myself.

Moral of the story: the friendzone is not forever. I'm happier than I've ever been, and we're both working towards becoming stable (financially and career-wise) so that we're ready to move in together and get engaged in a year or two.

bumpin for more bf stories :(

He's probably playing League of Legends while pretending to do homework.
I'll probably join him later.
This sums us up in a way I can't explain using words. Be it sufficient to say it's not as sad as it sounds.

We've been very close friends for about half a year now. He feels like the brother I never had when we hang out, but I can't help that I grew to love him more than I've ever loved anybody else.

It's no use though. He has a boyfriend. I'm better off just getting over him.