He has to be rich and gorgeous.

good looking, stable job, a nice car (two preferred)

>>5033202

I have always wondered about the car part, why is it that some women care about what car the guy drive? I understand if it's some shitty volvo from the 70s, but if it's a decent car it shouldn't matter.

Loyal, trusting and trustworthy, kindhearted, supportive but with enough sense to tell you off when you're being a bitch, I hate doormats but also guys who use you. I want the guy to stand up for me.

Of course I will do all the same for him.

Smart, witty, not abusive. That is all.

>>5033206
What's wrong with 1970's Volvos?

Ahem, anyway, the only thing I really look for in a guy in honesty, trustworthiness and kindness. Money is a nice bonus, but it's not exactly a deal sealer.

I want a guy who I can be my dorky, weird self with, but I don't want a guy who only wants me because I'm dorky.

Appeal to the girl's personality, her person as a whole, as well as appreciate her hobbies.

>mfw I can't find a guy because they always forget I am more than just video games

I love my man because he doesn't put up with any bullshit and calls me out on it when I act a fool. He keeps me grounded and reminds me not to take myself too seriously. He also has the most absolutely corny sense of humor in the world, I hated it when we first started dating but after a few months I realized he was perfect husband/father material so I wifed him.

>>5033215

Nothing wrong with them, I love them myself. I would guess it's not very appealing to everyone though.

>>5033217
Also, lots of money means nothing to me. My requirements are basically 1. Employed period 2. Hygenic 3. Treat me like a human being.

I just like someone who adores me and treats me like the most important person in the world while not demeaning himself. The fact that I got one that was a good-looking virgin with money and a Porsche was just a plus.

(The kicker? I'm not even skinny)

A chocolate dick that ejaculates money.

>>5033225
I hope it's not this easy to troll /cgl/....

Someone who's dorky and doesn't take himself too seriously. And who isn't afraid to poke fun at me on a regular occasion.

>>5033206
>>5033195
are lolitas
>>5033206
>volvo

Fuck you they're made of Volvanium

Pretty much a male version of what OP said, although videogames aren't necessary. I'd like someone slightly geeky in part because he (and as an extension, his friends) would then be less likely to disapprove of my own geeky tendencies and interests.

Reasonably good looks, a stable income and independence are nice, of course. However I wouldn't be comfortable with someone super gorgeous, because of extra competition and low self-esteem on my part, or rich, because I'd feel like or would be accused of mooching or being a gold-digger. In short, I'd rather have someone on my level than some superstar fantasy boyfriend.

Sage for not /cgl/ and this could devolve into another misogyny thread so fast I don't even want to know.

>>5033237
>stable income

>>5033237
it wouldn't descend into a misogyny thread if half the whores in here hadn't mentioned money or some euphemism for it.

>>5033257
>half
scratch that, more like 90%.

This thread has made me terribly, TERRIBLY depressed...

he just has to have a house for me and enough money to pay alimony after i divorce him.

>>5033257
What's wrong in seeking a partner that is doing alright in life?

Male here, and honestly don't understand what the dislike of the whole subject...

Men seek their own things in a partner, and in my opinion women are being very mature in what they want. They want a stable life with a trustowrthy person who isn't a walkover.

Fuck, I'd take a woman who has a job and lives alone over a girl who is still living with her parents or depends on someone else, but yet it's not negative when men seek wealth in a woman.

I think I've found my perfect man.
He's funny,sweet & caring. He teases me a little but its all good.
We both cosplay,go on 4chan and play vidya together.
Oh&nice broad back<3
so yeah,quite a bit in common.

I can't put demands on someone I love.

As long as they treat me with respect and kindness, don't smell disgusting, don't mooch off my cash and do more than sitting around the house watching television, I'll love them.

Number one is a compatible sense of humor. If you can truly make me laugh, I'm yours.

>I am NOT a whore, YOU need treat me with the respect i DESERVE, i am a human being!!!
>Lol but if u want me 2 date u you need to have a high status job, high status car n u need like treat me with respect and stuff or else ill dump you and join a rich mans harem

>>5033257

>I'm a jobless manchild living in my mother's basement with a sense of entitlement. Women shouldn't expect anything from me ever and they're bitches and whores for not liking me!

Fixed that for you.

>>5033290
I applaud you sir/miss.

a big beard and a nice bicycle

>>5033283
>do more than sitting around the house watching television

in other words, has a job so they can pay for your dinners and buy you presents. whore.

>>5033276
It's the idea that you don't actually care about the person and would leave them as soon as their luck ran out.

>>5033290
>I can't think of anything else to say so ill just insult and use shaming language

>>5033276
It's because of the way our legal system works (in America atleast) you naive retard. The women get absolutely everything, while the men are left with nothing except child support and alimony bills. If the divorce industry wasn't like this, I doubt people would continue to frown upon women for wanting a man with money.

>>5033257
>>5033264
>butthurt virgin neckbeard detected

but seriously, why does wanting your partner to have a stable income make you a whore? It'd be nice if love paid the bills but it doesn't, and considering the amount of bums/goldidggers/scroungers in these particular kinds of hobbies i'm not really surprised it's one of the first things they thought of.

The thing I don't get about this, what about people that go to college and are jobless? My college also doesn't have dorms so I live with my parents.

I have my own car and shit, but shit like this confuses me.

>>5033276
>women are being very mature in what they want.
HAHHAHAHHAHAH. women constantly talk about how they want a "nice, sensitive man" and then go out and fuck the biggest douchebag they can find.

>>5033295
Nope. Would be perfectly fine if he was unemployed and played video games, went on bicycle rides, made costumes, did volunteer work, as long as there's some motivation in him to do more than sit still and watch the same shit over and over.

he gotta have le big c*ck lol dnt lie 2 urselvs aldies if it aint big it aint worht skwat lol lmao
megusta

Kind, polite, not mooching off of his parents/siblings/friends, has a career goal so we can split payments evenly, conscious about his health i.e. no drugs, smoking, over drinking, shoveling down terrible foodstuffs, exercises, but also fine with having those days where you only get out of bed to piss and get more food, and general geekiness of couse.

>>5033300
>don't know about america shit
>herpaderpderp u naive retard

I want a guy that with be more of a 'house husband' he'll cook and clean. While I work.
Then when I get home we can cuddle up with our cats, because there will be cats and watch some anime or play some vidya.
We'd make cosplay together and shits too.
More or less, I like submissive,quiet guys. Who are friendly and artistic.

>>5033301

Because a mans worth shouldn't be gauged exclusively by his income you whore.

>>5033301
see
>>5033300

A big wallet.

I like Someone who challenges me (smart, witty, creative etc), is spontaneous, Confident, patient, geeky--but with more than just one interest, can calm me/balance my manic personality, sweet/romantic

oh /r9k/ how your spirit lingers

>>5033306
You're just picking and choosing, man.

There are bitches and whores, true. And you're just using that example to paint all the women with the same brush.

There are douches, there are guys who just use women, fuck them then leave them, cheat on them only because they can, while the woman wasn't a bitch or a whore, was just a person. Yet this is never mentioned in any of these arguments.

I think most of these opinions of women come from closed off people who don't have much expirience with anything in life.

People in general are selfish, not just women. I see it as a plus if a man is stable, not what seals the deal for a woman. It's the same if you liked a woman, then found out she also has a qualiy you adore in a woman.

I just want a kind and mature man...

I don't think I've ever met one.

>>5033300
>>5033295

Nice excuses for being unlikable and single. I bet you think you're a 'nice guy'. Brotip: Stop acting like an ass and maybe nice women will want to hang around you.

My girlfriend and I exchange gifts and treat each other to dinner all the damn time and I love it. It's called not being a leech on your partner and being equals.

I think I've found my perfect woman.
She's funny,sweet & caring. She teases me a little but its all good.
We both cosplay,go on 4chan and play vidya together.
Oh&nice rack<3
so yeah,quite a bit in common.
...Not that I have a nice rack or anything - DFC.

I got pretty much my ideal man.

He's really mellow. I'm constantly running around being late and stuff, so it's nice to have someone who doesn't let my hysteria get to them. He's also really confident with a dry sense of humor, so it's a bit like I have my own peanut gallery following me around making snarky remarks. I love it though.

He's really nerdy, like me (anime, manga, video games, RPGs) but we like completely stuff in those genres so we developed hobbies together. I introduced him to Captain America who is now his favorite fictional character of all time.

As for looks... taller than me, long hair, green eyes, fucking perfect in every way. I don't deserve him. (I hope he never realizes that!)

>>5033290
wrong on (almost) all counts, whore.*

i just find it repulsive how shallow you all are. you value material items equally to deep, psychological and emotional connections. the thought that you would snub a perfectly good man simply because he wasn't materially wealthy enough for you is a depressing indictment of women. you strive for the deconstruction of gender roles while clinging on to these base, primordial instincts (i.e. the desire for a 'hunter gatherer' to mollycoddle you) that contradict everything social progression stands for.

* the "almost" is the sense of entitlement, maybe that is true.

>>5033340
>post that I don't care if my boyfriend would or wouldn't be unemployed, as long as he's motivated to do anything
>still get called a material, repulsive whore
Wat?

>>5033340

0/10 Try harder next time.

Whore.

I want a nice boy.
I like those beta virgin type boys.
The ones who are raised well, but had some sort of trauma in their life, ergo, they are very asocial.
He dresses nicely.
Very humble and shy.
He'd be sexually attracted to me and submit willingly when I have sex with him.
We'd share a lot of common interests, but, I'd like for him to have his well needed solitary time.

Looks don't really matter as long as he's well put together and at least moderately attractive.
I like dark hair (either black or brown).
A nice butt is a plus.
I also like baseball caps, he can wear them sometimes to spoil me.

If it helps, pretty much an IRL Shinji.

Am I the only one who wants a /fit/ guy? I'd be embarrassed to be seen with a twig.

Looks are good for the initial attraction, but they're not the deciding factor. A guy can't be boring, and he has to challenge me intellectually. He should to have similar interests. He has to be sympathetic to my feminism (aka pro-choice, pro-me having a career if I so choose)

I don't look for money. I look for stability and ambition. I don't expect a guy to take care of me, because I'm perfectly capable of doing it myself. A rich guy who got his money from family wealth will impress me much much less than a guy who has a modest living and earned it himself.

Fortunately, my boyfriend has similar interests, is extremely good looking, and owns his own business. But again, while these are all pluses, they're not what I consider when getting in a relationship with someone (since my boyfriend is seriously the sweetest, most romantic man ever). And while he makes enough to support us both, I still work and contribute.

>>5033353
Suprise twist: you actually only fuck men who act like total douchebags and assholes.

i dont know a single person who believes women when they say they want a nice person.

shouldn't it be a given that your partner will have (some) money? i mean, no-one in their right mind is going to date a vagrant. it seems suspicious how you all place an emphasis on it, like you expect that money to be invested in you.

as a man, i expect my girlfriends to have money. enough so they can look after themselves and, basically, survive independently in the real world. every functioning human should be in that position once they finish their education. it's such a basic and trivial thing that it would never even occur to me to list "moneyed" amongst the traits i find desirable in a partner.

My perfect man is the Doctor.Doesn't have to be an alien or any of that, I just really go after super adventurous types with a big heart and a love for being alive.

>>5033362
No. I have never fucked anyone in my life.
I'm not looking for a nice guy, just a schizo boy I can give my love to.
You don't have to believe me, that's your prerogative.

>>5033369
duuuude

freakin' this, man

>link thread on /r9k/
>all of a sudden, misogyny

>>5033368
thats the thing though. they can't survive independently in the real world. they need to find someone to get a house from and recieve alimony. you now know the motivation behind modern marriage.

>>5033387
Do you live in Alabama?

>>5033362
>every woman only ever dates assholes!
>every man who has ever been with a woman is an asshole!
>my father is an asshole and my mother is a whore!
>flawless logic

Question to the women.

Knowing that a guy would never want to get married and possibly not even have any children whatsoever.

Would you still date him?

>>5033411
absolutely.

>>5033411
Yes.
I personally don't want children.
And I never saw marriage as being that important.

But you know, he or I could both change our minds at some point.
Life is about change!

>>5033411
Fuck yes. Marriage is something two people decide on later in life after years of living with one another, so I'm sure that if a guy who originally didn't want to get married stayed with one person for so long that maybe he'd start to have different thoughts. I'd just want to take his last name as my own, personally. As for no kids, party on. More time for us.

>>5033353

another male

Good luck ever finding a guy like that, most of them will be to socially inept to ever leave the house, or are to painfully shy for you to realize it.

I fit that profile quite well, but I avoid most social stuff, rarely do I ever go to movies or out to eat with friends. I even have my career to allow me to work from home with minimal interaction with anyone.

>>5033362

I HATE nice guys. Niceness is insipid, fake, or both. Niceness indicates stupidity and blandness. Nice guys are suffocating--they want to do everything for you and turn you into a helpless princess.

A kind man has a true sense of empathy. He cares about things that matter, but he can also be rude, or snarky, or harsh. A kind man wants you to stand on your own two feet, and he might even hurt you to make you stronger in the long run. Kind men don't let you feel sorry for yourself, they make you take responsibility, so when you really ARE fucked over by the fates and they say, "that sucks, let me buy you dinner" you know it MEANS something.

Fuck niceness. I want a kind jerkass, a real-life tsundere.

>>5033432
>>5033428
>>5033424

>>5033330
Pick one, those traits are mutually exclusive.

>>5033411
Marriage is kind of stupid.
I want the chance to be a terrible mother though.
I mean, I don't think I'd leave a guy over it at this point in my life, but eventually...
Rambling aside, ja, I'd date that, I prob'ly wouldn't settle down with someone opposed to spawning though.

A question for girls here, say if a guy was in a "pretty bad" state in his life, but wanted to improve himself and get a job in the future, would you date him?

Or would it be too unrealistic to trust him saying something like that?

I like guys with medium/longish hair. I really really really can't find a guy with a buzzcut attractive, I'm sorry. And Not being a manwhore.
If they have to smell good.

But other than those two things, I totally don't care. As long as we connect, have some things in common and can have a good time with eachother, I'm fine. Even though I hate video games, my current gamer boyfriend is wonderful, and I absolutely love him. We've been going for 2 years years and counting. And that's despite the stuff we've gone through.

So, that's my verdict on guys.

>>5033444
Kindness can Kill.

>>5033442
I know. It's sad.
Usually I have to pry for contact for virgins off the internet in order to find them. That way of work is degrading in itself.
Even so, it's so very hard for them to open up to me.

Ah well, all good things come with patience and effort.

;_;

I have always been interested in this question so I might as well ask. Would you girls date anyone with a receeding hairline as long as the guy was a good guy? Obviously not full on, but a bit on the sides etc.

I just have a feeling that since you girls are interested in anime (where most characters have super kawaii sugoi hair) you wouldn't be interested. But I might be wrong?

>>5033454

Does he MEAN it? Does he accept responsibility for what he's done wrong (I'm lazy, I don't work hard, I fear success) and also place blame where it deserves to be (the economy sucks)?

Is he really trying? Does he push himself? Does he ask for help? Does he find me inspiring to do better or does he just mouth the words so I won't leave him? Does he have a sense of humor (even a bitter one) about his lot in life or is he a sad-sack?

A man that's unemployed who lives in his mama's house, but is going back to school, looking for work, who admits he fucked up at his last job but is also concerned about the poor economy. who laughs at himself and has realistic goals for the future...

well, that's actually where my real-life boyfriend is. And I love him to pieces, so yes, there's hope.

>>5033454
Define "Pretty Bad".
That said, if there was evidence of him attempting to improve himself and it wasn't just being used as an excuse, yes.
I have a huge thing for self-improvement though. Like, a HUGE thing.

Assuming this is you you're talking about, I wish you all of the luck, sir.

>implying any half decent men would date any of you whales and you won't have to settle for some beta faggot anyway

>>5033411
Not wanting to getting married is fine, but if it's because of obvious commitment issues then that's a different story. I'm also okay with someone not desperately wanting kids, but being aggressively childfree is also not attractive to me. It depends on how vocal he is and his reasons behind it, I guess.
It's not like first guy I'll date is automatically going to be my soulmate, anyway.

>>5033474

Assuming he was what I wanted BESIDES the hair, then I'd give him a chance. Especially if he didn't try to do a weird comb-over or act all upset about it. If he was like, "Yep, going bald, it happens" then definitely.

My stepdad was bald when he met my mom, and she thought he was just the most amazing handsome man she ever met (and not to be creepy, but my mom used to be rockin' hot). So there is hope for bald guys.

To be honest, it helps if you have another really good feature to offset the baldness, like great skin or unusual eyes. My stepdad has super-intense anime green eyes, so I think that's what really pulled my mom.

Also, my stepdad is just about the coolest guy ever, so bald men have a good track record in my book.

I need to stop reading this thread, but I can't seem to pull away...

Overall kindness and trust- and how do I put this.... letting me have my freedom. For nearly a year I was in a relationship that turned rather abusive (not physically thankfully, more verbally and not allowing me to see my friends and that shit) since then I wont touch a guy who I think is going to try and limit my life. I'm fine with not flirting with other men, and being loyal to him of course, I mean that's a relationship. But I want a guy who has his own life and respects that I have mine.

Other than that- I would want him to be witty. Nothing charms me more than wit (and if paired with a british accent then hot damn)

and most of all, he doesn't have to be a con goer, a gamer, or a cosplayer. But I'd want him to at least respect my hobbies, and support me and I'll return the favor (though it would be nice if he was indeed a con goer, a gamer, and a cosplayer too)

>>5033454
That's a pretty good question to ponder. Is he taking steps towards his goal, or at least working on a plan of some kind? I'd day yes in that case. It's easy to say you want to improve yourself or your situation and then never actually do anything about it.

I don't know, the way I see it is that I can date a guy who doesn't have a job, as long as he's actively working towards doing something with his life. The relationship is not yet as serious as marriage, if it doesn't work out I won't be stuck in that relationship forever. Sometimes people do need someone to support them and help them out. If you love someone you won't mind being that support, although the limit of your support might vary from person to person.

>>5033475
Well, to answer some of those questions, he is in therapy, making progress, the therapy covers asking for help and he would look to improving himself for himself as well as to make you happier.

He has his ups and downs, he can be down and get into the depressed state so he would be a sad sack sometimes but then he has his up sides where he is happy, loves fun and enjoys doing stuff.

>>5033477
Pretty bad is rarely able to leave the house but is working on it.

>>5033411

Assuming he has all the other qualities I want in a man--

depends on the reasons. My current BF doesn't want kids because he doesn't want the responsibility or the cost, but he wants to have other people's kids over all the time. (We plan to "rent" our nieces and nephews. A lot).

Marriage might be a dealbreaker, but mainly because I'd worry about what would happen if he died, if he was in the hospital, legal documents for trying to buy a house, etc, etc.

Basically, I'd want to be married for the same reasons gay people do--legal security, so we'd have to talk about that pretty seriously. My grandparents has some issue with their 55 year old marriage certificate and my grandpa couldn't see my grandma in the hospital for three days before it got all worked out. It completely devastated him, and I'd never want to go through with that.

>>5033495
>not wanting him to be able to give you a challenge in fight games

JILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY why did you miss that out!?

There are basically 2 things I look for in a girl. Yep, just 2. She can't be bitchy, and has to be faithful.

inb4 "plenty of girls meet your criteria"

WRONG

>>5033492

Cool to know. It's always been one of the things I've been wondering about for some stupid reason. Girls that are not interested in anime in general have no problem with it, and I would say I do have some other good features.

I've never had a relationship because of this, because I look for geeky girls while the normal girls are interested in me (and I'm not in them) so yeah. I'm sure things will work out eventually.

>>5033507
the reason you actually want to get married is so you can take him for everything he's got in the divorce. you arent fooling anybody

>>5033504

In that case, self-awareness mixed with a genuine (if small) steps towards improvement and independence, then yes.

My biggest worry is I'd become his emotional punching bag and crutch, so he'd have to be dealing with his mental/emotional issues in a very healthy manner. I don't mind being a shoulder to cry on but I can't be your 24/7 sob story attendant. It hurts too much and it makes the relationship dysfunctional and unhealthy.

And remember, this assuming you have qualities I desire anyway. Perhaps you are an amateur botanists who love plants and plant conventions and thinks 1940s retro is the coolest style ever. You could be a socially outgoing philanthropist millionaire and I still wouldn't date you because you just don't interest me.

>>5033442
Same anon
>>5033468

I have trust issues with just about anyone. My ex had to put up with it for over 6 months. At best we held hands, and even still we barely saw each other more than twice a week.

The only reason I ever decided to give her a chance in the first place was because of friends pushing me.

You'd be better off changing your scope honestly, by the time you do find one he will just be questioning himself when you will leave him.

Back to forever lurking.

>>5033504
Ah, then, ja. Assuming he was someone I'd date to begin with, I wouldn't let that stop me. Again, provided he was constantly striving to fix it etc. etc.

>>5033493
Go the fuck outside and meet a girl.

>>5033514
>2011
>still thinking girls like that exist

I don't know about anyone else, but I just want a guy who respects me, my opinions, and my point of view. I am open minded enough to respect their beliefs and views, I only expect the same in return. Also, someone who can have a meaningful conversation, not some bubble headed prettyboy with a car who thinks he's god's gift to women. In short, I want a real man, with his head firmly on his shoulders.

All women are worthless whores.
Repeal women's rights now!

>>5033526
But I want exactly that.

I want to make him happy.

>>5033532
the quality of the world would go up if there was no more women's voting rights. ever since the got the right to vote in america, america has been on a straight decline. think about it. its true.

>>5033538
Oh boy.

Any woman who has ever had a sense of self-worth of herself would never marry for money or physical looks alone (although these would be nice perks). I cannot imagine a situation more horrifying than to be at the mercy of an abusive partner that feels he has power over you because of his better financial standing, your co-dependence, and his constant threats and put-downs of your self-esteem.

A man worth his salt in my eyes is one that is down-to-earth and treats his woman like an equal and not as an inferior unable to think for herself.
>inb4 misogyny joke
I also appreciate men who are -tactfully- honest and clever, straightforward, hard-working, and loyal.

Relationships in the modern sense should be based on teamwork and mutual understanding and respect. Responsibility is also another attractive quality I find in a man.
I've been in relationships where I didn't find the hobbies were very interesting (ex. football). I've also dated men that had god jobs and nice qualities, but didn't seem to care much about their appearances. However, so long as their priorities and qualities were in check, it didn't matter what their interests and looks were necessarily.

If you're dating an intelligent man, you'll have other things to talk about besides looks, money, and common hobbies.

>>5033525
>>5033527
I guess there might be hope.

Aw shit guys.

>>5033531
>I am open minded enough to respect their beliefs and views

even if he's a national socialist?

I prefer a guy who is okay with my hobbies (Cosplaying, vidya gaems, anime watching, and just generally being a nerd), even better if he did some of these things with me/already did them. A guy who's loyal, or at least doesn't do that bullshit "lets break up" "lets get back together" shit (and ofc doesn't cheat) Oh, and he can't be lazy. I'm not saying he has to have a job and make a consistent income, I just don't want a guy who stays at home all day doing nothing.
As far as looks go, I love glasses and skinny/weak looking guys. I don't care if he can't protect me against everything.

Ive found my perfect guy. He makes me laugh, been friends for years, we hang out all the time, anime, vidja, hes taller than me (which is rare), dark poofy hair, really pretty, amazing eyes... We are into all the same things, finish each others sentences, etc etc... Oh, and he makes pretty decent money (but I suppose mentioning that makes me a whore, amirite?)... Too bad Im with someone else. Always someone else. ;_;

Cheer up. Have a picture of Emma Watson's younger brother.

Finally making an actual post in here rather than just responding to some of the smaller questions...

Geekiness is a huge plus for me, like right off the bat, if someone can play vidja games and partake in various more /tg/ related things with me, I am more than happy. At the very least, taking an interest in such things when I go off on my inevitable rambles about them is enough for me.

Overall kindness and various things like that kind of go without saying. Being able to put up with my manifold physical and mental problems is pretty much a necessity until I get over all of them. Similarly, being able to keep up with me throughout my "I NEED TO IMPROVE MYSELF IN ALL WAYS AUGH" spurts.
Intelligence is also a big thing even though I am the stupidest person ever. Going along with that, rationality.
Common interest, or a willingness to learn about the other's interests... Supporting each other... Open-mindedness... Someone who is enjoyable to talk with...
Oh, and a drive to improve. Did I mention that I like self-improvement? Because I do.

As far as looks go, I tend towards more thin, androgynous guys. That is not always a thing though, apparently.

/Rambling incoherently due to sick and painting

Would you girls date a guy who still lives with his parent despite being 22 years old?

>Inb4 Implying implications in regards to self

>>5033411
Definitely. I don't want any of that either.
Having a happy and healthy relationship is what matters. Marriage or children are not required for that!

>>5033271
Cheer up, buttercup!

>>5033612

how skinny are we talking here? pic please.

>>5033643
As long as you have a decently busy schedule with school/work/a social life, it's not a problem. /cgl/ is one of the boards that seems to really flip out about it though.

If the guy can't talk vidya I won't talk to him. Like I don't mean "hurr CoD is so great its the only game I play". I mean "did you hear about how they took tens of thousands of photographs of New York City to help design the cityscape for Crysis 2?". You can't just like video games, you pretty much have to love them and be able to talk about all aspects. VG music composition, art, gameplay, logo/title design, how a game starts up and gets to the menu...

Uhh other than that I can't think of a whole lot. Maybe being able to cook as much as me, which isn't much, but you know not living off instant food. Being able to hold a job is good... You know just basic stuff.

>the man must have a stable income, nice car, must love and respect you and your needs while not being a doormat, and must stand up for you
>meanwhile, you work a dead end job / live with your parents / dress up as video game and anime characters for fun

>>5033708
Pic of what? How skinny I like my males? I don't have any pictures of guys saved... Not terrifyingly thin but definitely below average?

>>5033734

I've got a busy enough a schedule with training, work and school.

Social life?
eh... Not so much.

Clean
Intelligent
Plays vidya

Its all I actively look for, and I love those who don't mind cuddling a lot.

>>5033757
I thought this was an "ideal mate" thread, not "acceptable mate"

>>5033809
>common things you adore about men
>munny munny munny

Asian (Maybe white if they're attractive enough)

Confident (In the way that they're comfortable in their skin and what they do, not HURR I SO BUFF BITCHES BE MIRIN confident)

A nice laugh/smile/eyes (One is fine, two is great, all three is hngg tier)

Sadly. I only ever meet guys who tend to browse 4chan, so they're, more often than not, loners who aren't confident and always have something i dont like about them (teeth, morals, attitude, etc) but no 'regular' guy would go for me because i'm pretty.... perverted, And i'm very vocal about it in relationships, so it tends to scare them off.

Eh, you can't get everything you want.

> tall and attractive
> passionate
> experienced
> doesn't cheat

in other words, my fiancé.

>>5033831
So you are extremely shallow, you only want a certain type of guy, date others and then bitch about them?

He must make 70k+ a year.

>>5033838
>dont mention physical attributes other than teeth and eyes

>Didn't bitch at all, just saying guys from 4chan tend to have something a bit off about them

>realize you're only butthurt because you browse 4chan, are probably a male, and are a loner and will never get a girlfriend.

Dohokay then.

>>5033843
I make 70k yen a year :D

>>5033734

I'm confused, you want a guy t have a busy schedule so you can bitch about how much time you don't spend together?

Fucking women.

>>5033879

Fucking women indeed, man.

>>5033857
damn nigga thats like 7 dollars

>>5033857
Oh Todd. You're just rolling in money aren't ya. Lol

Popular
Rich
Successful
Ripped
Doesn't like any women other than me
Loves kids, cooks, cleans, fixes everything that's broken
Plays sports, music, reads, loves travelling

An alpha male I'm entitled to because I have a vagina and tits.

>>5033857
...so you make less than 650 dollars a year...?

I take the bus.

Shit.

>>5033369

Yep

>>5033495

Yep.

>>5033531

Yep.

I fit the bill of so many posts but never run into anyone I like personally. Must be my own crappy social skills, these things tend to fly over my head.

I wish I could find a guy who was just fun to be around and got along with all my friends. Someone who would gladly go out and would ask me to go places with him. fuck. Like GODDAMN IYEASU. SHIT. I'd love someone who was like him.
Adorable, nice to everyone, all around great.
And now I wait for someone to make fun of me for liking someone who doesn't exist.
I know.

Loooooooooaded with money.
Otherwise homosexual/bisexual with strong homosexual leanings/no previous girlfriends.
Looks better in a dress than I do/will crossdress with me/pretty and effeminate.

In order of importance.

It's anonymous and nobody will ever know who I am.

>Can cook
>Not a pansy
>Doesn't shove his opinions down my throat or tell me what to do.
>Pretty boy
>Rich is a big plus, not a deal breaker

>>5034003

I exist though.

this is the number one thing that is most important in a man for me

>>5034044
Then I love you.

>>5034051

Why thank you. You make me blush and all that usual stuff.