I've never been part of a panel, but I've done it in my personal life and for photos. It's fun, sexy and artistic, although people who aren't experienced riggers need to be careful with what ties they choose to do. The ropes can compress a nerve and you wouldn't even notice sometimes. I've heard stories from other bondage models/photographers.

>>4823904

Ive always wanted to be Tied up but i am worried about finding some one who can do it right and also wont rape me. how do i find this?

>>4823932
Google. Learn it.

i think its Pritty, and i'd like to see more Cosplay with it

I don't know what it is about this, but it makes my skin crawl. I can't see what would be enjoyable about it. I'm not saying OMG U GUIZ IZ PERVERTS, by all means do whatever makes you happy, I just don't think I'll ever understand it.

>>4823957

>>4823977
>by all means do whatever makes you happy - her
>lol u a jelly fatty gtfo - you
You can see how smart you sound and not at all retarted

ITT: some fucktard samefags his own thread then gets mad>>4823977

>>>/s/

>>4823977
Huh? How does that make me jealous or fat? I just don't get it. I mean I seriously don't understand at all. If someone walked up to you with a piece of cheese and said "Check this shit out, this is sexy" you'd know how I feel right now.

>>4823990
I thought that said cheesecake. Mmmm cheesecake.

Also, ignore the moron. They obviously just saw that image for the first time and were dying to use it. Carry on.

That picture reminds me of Repo! The Genetic Opera.

Sage for no contribution.

>>4823983
Blue, it's retarded, not retarted.

>>4824004

Repo is the fuckin shit. This thread is now diamonds.

... but sage anyway because it wasn't diamonds until someone reminded me how sexy Mag is.

>>4824019
took somebody FAR too long to notice that

I just wanna know if cosplayrs Do this or want to do this? and if they have what it is like?

mayuri, an ex-boy scout, loves shibari and can do it with his eyes closed so we always go to shibari panels at cons and he walks around and helps people with it.

i always get used as an example for the panel. "ohh look at how good he tied the rope" it's really embarrassing but i guess he likes the exhibitionism thing as well.

Some things about these panels:

1. People are going to get naked or semi-naked and it's going to be weird

2. You will see people you do NOT want to see in shibari in shibari, i mean people who look like those tied hams in the supermarket.

3. You may see bizarre shit like someone suspended from their ankles for the entire panel. that made me extremely uncomfortable to watch

other than at panels we don't do it too often in regular life, but when we do i wear it under my clothing when we go out as a sexy, uncomfortable secret or do it right before sex because the ropes make good handles.

>>4824043

Have you ever been tied to other Girls before?

>>4824050
I hear the fapping all the way from here.

>>4824050

nope, just me by myself!

what made you want to do it and what was your first experience with trying it?

how to self shibari, btw. This is helpful, and worked for me.

>>4824043
>ex boy-scout

Lies. They told me all sorts of stories about former Scouts wooing women with their mad outdoorsman skills. It's all bullshit, I tell you. Unless blank looks of mild disinterest signify "fuck me now," nobody cares if you can start a fire in two minutes with no matches.

Feels bad, man.

I wish I had a pretty boysub to tie up. Female subs give me the heebie jeebies these days.

>>4824104
If you do it when its actually needed, its cool. Or try using tracking. Girls like to look at fuzzy things.

>>4824059

Me too. Thinly disguised thread for OP to get his rocks off to.

>>4824097
This picture always cracks me up.
She's so cheerful!

>>4824097

I just looked at that properly, can you seriously not see all those knots under clothes?

>>4824122
nope, it's really easy to hide under anything thicker than a tshirt

I'm kind of interested in shibari as a concept, but tbh as a sexual thing it just seems like a hassle. I'm not going through the time/trouble of getting tied up just for sex.
I like looking at pictures though and all the crazy techniques that go into it.

This thread reeks of 40 year old man.

>>4824104
The only reason I liked this one guy in school was because he was a boy scout. He could go on for HOURS talking about hiking or badges and it was fucking adorable.

>>4824137
no it doesnt
take your shirt off

>>4824137

GIRLZ!!

My boyfriend wants to try this with me. We have rope and a book and everything but he doesn't get it and we gave up.

I do wonder though... a lot of the things in the book cover the vagoo. Of course there's oral and things like that but...is that it for that kind of ropework? I'm not very creative in thinking here and covering up doesn't seem very fun

>>4824172
No, there are tons of different ties you can do. My husband and I do shibari together every once in awhile, and he's only done a tie that involves rope near my crotch once. The best ties for having sex in are centered around the chest and arms, in my opinion. I'd show some of my personal pictures if I still had them.

shibari is not meant to be a Sexual act or part of sex, it can be but its more of a Activity ether before hand or just an erotic display, its a form of behavior modification and being restrained, it can give a very large sens of euphoria
as well as raise sensations due to increased or restrained blood flow. and it is a fetish for some to be held in a power exchange position that gives them a feeling of safeness, along with the sensation of being weightless when suspended.

i really want to get into this...

>>4824116
I know right?
>>4824122
I did it one at a con when I cosplayed Seras. I got hugged and no one noticed, or said anything, at least.

Seconded >>4824227

How do i get into it and find people who can teach it?

>>4824250
Sadly, hit up /d/ about shibari and other Japanese rope bondage techniques. You can learn a lot online too.

http://shibari-nation.com/freecontent/main.php?page=ropeprep

>>4824250
www.justfuckinggoogleit.com/

I've always wanted to be tied up in Shibari, but never had the chance.

...I have this weird new longing to find one of these panels. Doing it while in cosplay would just be even better.

>>4824400
I've heard nothing but good things about that site. Well worth a look.

>>4824250

Very good Starting Book series, it had information and step by step, vol 1 is for starting, vol 2 gets into suspension.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQl4YWTYB8I&NR=1 easy step by step online

is shibari just the Japanese word for Bondage?

>>4828172
No, shibari is rope art bondage. If it's just tying someone, it's not shibari. If it involves decorative ties then it probably is. There's also another name for shibari, another Japanese name that I can't remember.

>>4828185

dose it hurt to be hung up? it looks like it dose..

>>4828190
It can be uncomfortable. An experienced rigger (aka the only people that should be attempting suspension) should know how to distribute weight properly if it's a tie with multiple points supporting the body, but the ones where your whole weight is on just one point... It gets painful if it's prolonged. You also have to do more safety checks with suspension, nerve compression and circulation being cut off are dangers that need to be checked for.

>>4828208

dose any one have any pics of how this could be used with cosplay? or at cons?

Most people are not bold enough to just go out and say "it turns me on to be tied up and Looked at" at cons but i think that it would be cool in the right context, like a bible black meeting if imari was bound for a photo shoot.

its still a very bold topic to just come out and say.

>>4828238
>>4828190
I don't mean to be rude, but it seems you don't know.
It's 'does', not 'dose'

Polite sage for offtopic

>>4824759
I'm not going to lie, I got wet watching that.

Man, you guys do realize how easy and accessible the fetish community is? Get thee to a fetlife profile, kids! There are many many hundreds there who do all sorts of cosplay/anime shibari and ropework, some with good photogs even, and TONS of venues in which you could do this shit IRL with likeminded people. I know there was a kink meetup at Otakon this year, but there are also always themed events and costume play parties where you can break out the ropes (and chains and whips and needles and flogger and knives and vibrators...) right then and there, with an appropriate audience. It's full of a lot more normal people than you'd expect. That's kinda why I'd prefer shibari at a fetish event and not a con. Kink events are usually vetted at least a little and you can avoid a lot of the creepsters and weaboos. As mentioned, there will be fatties and old people, but the kind of people you'd meet at a supermarket, not the kind who will touch the tied-up girl without permission. There's a lot more people willing to teach, and I'm guessing an even higher skill level and degree of complexity. Rope is a kind of trendy thing in the fetish world at the moment, so things can get pretty complicated and fancy - I encourage the interested to go explore and learn! I myself am not the biggest fan of rope - someone here mentioned this - I have a kind of "now what?" every time I get tied in rope - I see all bondage as a means to an end (for me, it's pain), so I don't find rope, in and of itself, sexually exciting. Plenty of people do, though.

I guess I'm just shocked that all of this is news to anyone...

I am a cosplayer who does this. I have done bondaged Rei Ayanami and Misato Katsuragi and have done Rei suspension shoots. It is really fun. You really get into character being the DND.

Glad to know an anime con has done panels on this kinda thing. I really want to do more cosplay bondage and suspension shoots and would be cool to see other cosplayers doing it. Love seeing figurine bondage too.

>>4829541

so there are Cosplay fetish groups and Fetish cosplay party's too?!

this thread is ether Hot or fucked up and I'm not sure witch...

>>4829716
Pictures.

Pretty pretty please? :3

Can Men do it or is it only acceptable for girls to be bound?

Hm. It doesn't look like I'd be turned on by it, however, it does seem like a cool art form.

In a funny way, I'm suddenly reminded about Maude Lebowski's Vagina Art.

>>4833449
Not sure. I'm a boy and I want to get tied up, but it's kinda the norm for girls.

Thing is, don't they have to use different styles for male body types anyway? Different shape and all, but also no crotchrope, no breast bondage...

>>4833449
>>4833471

why the hell not?
i'm a girl and while i'm mostly a sub, i could picture myself switching and teasing a tied up boy. :9

>>4833449
It can be done to men as well.

>>4833449

I ask because i wanna be Hung like the girls i see but i am nervous to ask... :(

>>4833585

Awwwwww :p

>>4833529
Of course it can be done to men. This style of rope tying to both restrain and fit the contors of the body reasonably comfortably was done in the first place to hold high-ranking lords captive

>>4833449
oops, sorry No.4834215, meant to reply to this guy

So does shibari usually contain element of S&M, or is it mainly and exhibition thing what with having people look at you when you're tied up and such? Sorry for the n00b question; the rope/tying really piques my interest but I have no interest in large amounts of pain/caning/whipping/etc.

>>4834229
I really like it for the bondage factor, and I'd love to have the S&M while I'm tied up but it's not necessary. In situations like this, I doubt there'd be any at all.

>>4834229

*elements *an

sorry, I am getting used to a new laptop.

>>4834215
wow why does that turn me on
"high ranking lords" asdhkhgjghklkjk

>>4834229
I believe shibari just refers to decorative ties, so the emphasis is more on the beauty of the person tied up and how the rope is tied (patterns, pretty knots). There is another term for rope-tying that refers to the more functional aspect - as in, getting the job done (be it suspending, forced bow, etc.) without worrying it being pretty. This type would be more for sexual play.

You can certainly be into rope/being tied up by itself, without the sex and/or the pain. Basically, rope, sex, and pain are all different things and you are free to indulge in only one thing, a mix of all three, or each one individually.

Somebody correct me if I am getting any of this wrong.

>>4829541
This. I'm into latex, not rope, but I'm shocked at how many people in this thread are completely clueless about this stuff. It's kind of cute, actually.

I would second the recommendation of Fetlife and also there's a podcast I listen to sometimes (there aren't enough latex podcasts and he's kinda entertaining) that you can find by doing a search on "Graydancer's Ropecast".

>>4828185
Kinbaku.

>>4834282
Nah, that sounds about right.

Still, I've personally never seen any con where they've had a shibari panel, I'm not personally familiar with the kinds of things they do there or what the clientele looks like.

I'd like to try it out but honestly I think that the waiting crowd of somewhat kinky men are expecting attractive girls to do it, and that I wouldn't suddenly draw a crowd of girls wanting to see a guy get done up.

In other words I'm a shy fuck. Feelsbadman.

>>4824097
My boyfriend tried this on me once, but got distracted because the rope was too long, and he wasn't sure exactly how to do the knots, so he checked wikipedia. Then it ended in him getting distracted by wikipedia shinies and me getting cold and going to put on a sweater.

Also, no con in my area would EVER do this. They're so concerned about being family friendly they're trying to get rid of anything even jokingly related to sex. Which is weird, because they still have swimsuit cosplay competitions.

I want to attend more munches. There are a lot of cool demos there. Even if it's not your fetish, you have to respect someone who's letting someone set them on fire for your amusement.

>>4834282

So, Shibari is more like... rope porn, then? Or like, porn with an aethetic theme? Artistic nudity type?

Shibari is like baking a cake with roses and sprinkles and fondant and stuff; it's mainly to look pretty, but it can also be eaten. There's another type of cake that just has icing slapped on, and it's meant solely for eating.

Is it like that?

>>4834311
Yes. You can still eat your cake, it just looks prettier this way. Also, some people use the knots they learn in it to use ropes in place of other things like harnesses and bars.

>>4834301

I'm pretty sure my city has a bdsm convention or convention-esque thing, and I really want to go to get more information.
But my boyfriend is underage and I could never go alone.

>>4834229

it can, but it doesn't have to. personally, i'm into dominance/submission and being restrained, but i'm neither a sadist nor a masochist.

>>4834327
A lot of people do, or they go with a platonic friend for support. Most events include demos, which are like panels in an anime con, with as much audience participation as you're comfortable with, and munch-like events, which usually have rules about making people uncomfortable and are meant more for making friends and learning things than for picking people up (at my local munches, there's an older couple who take younger people, especially girls who are sub, under their wing and make sure no one creeps on them or makes them feel excluded.) and a vendor room. Those areas should be fairly safe to go to without anyone making you feel uncomfortable.

This thread has convinced me to get a fetlife account! Long time interest in shibari, but I've never had too much info/was too embarrassed about it.

>live in midwest
>never have hope of ever seeing a shibari demo

Damn you people and your inhibitions.

>>4834680
Uh, what part of the midwest? There are big rope scenes in Wisconsin and Chicago...

Also general note to those of you who are worried about being on the younger end of things. Look for a group in your area that's called TNG (The Next Generation) although they name it differently in some places. It's usually in the ballpark of 18-35 (sometimes they start at 21, sometimes they end at 40).

>>4835894
There are also a number of fetish clubs in Detroit if I remember right

fetish clubs are very different than an actual Dungeon. a Dungeon allows full nudity and some times intercourse and has strict membership rules and and identity protection. a fetish club is the same as a bar except that people where a bit of racy clouting and Maybe some one will be spanked every now and again. you would have better lick just going to a Goth or industrial club, to find this sort of thing. but the best way is to go on fet life and start to look for stuff in your area.

>>4840900
>>4838322

That's why I said "scene" and not dungeon or club. I meant that there are all those things.

To add to the list, besides dungeons and fetish clubs there are also:

- munches: group of people meeting somewhere public (usually a restaurant, sometimes a bar) to get to know each other (see >>4834354)
- educational events: can be a single demo for a few hours or a weekend-long con-like thing, where people are demonstrating different kinds of kinks or discussing aspects of it
- sloshes: same thing as a munch except it's at a bar and involves drinking
- play party: usually a private event either at a dungeon or in someone's home

I am fascinated with this as a art form, though its a very hard to share or talk about openly, i wish i could learn more about it or do it more, but being a single male its hard to find some one who let me tie them up even after going to munches or play party, the undertone is "look but dont touch" so i can never learn. so /cgl is there some one who is willing to help me Learn?

>>4842210
Screw the undertone, you're clearly a nervous and passive creature and your social barometer is poorly-calibrated as a result. Ask. For the love of god, ASK.

Here's a script, so you can practice:
"I'm a bit new and I'd love to try out a simple tie on you, would you be interested?" While you're knotting, make idle conversation and be endearing about how it's really nice to get to practice. Afterward, say thank you and don't ask for anything more. Repeat with other people, using slightly different wording.

Not so grim, is it? Suck it up and get out there.

>i was at AX one year and they gave a panel on it one night and i was amazed how many girls just came out of the wood work for it, and wanted to be demoed on!

Now where the hell was I when this was going on?

>>4835894
Missouri, sadly.

Why isn't Shibari more popular? Maaaaan, it looks so beautiful.

Is it mostly men who are doing the demoing on these things?

...Because I'd really like to get tied up, but I'm a guy, and I'd really rather it if a girl did it. I mean I guess I'd just feel more comfortable that way. :s

How do you, um... How do you UNTIE it?

Are these all made with a way in mind or do you have to just cut that shit?

>>4843309
looking at most of these I don't think its going to have an easy way out, so probably cut, not sure

From what I read in an old book (http://www.amazon.com/Seductive-Art-Japanese-Bondage/dp/1890159387), the knot work isn't really the most important part. It's more about repeated loops that cinch everything together. Most of the time, it seems to be fancy wrappings and bundling excess length that's usually tied off with something as simple as an overhand knot. I mean, being a boy scout is helpful, but not a prerequisite.

>>4843309
If you do it right, you should be able to untie it. When I do this kind of thing, I try to make sure you can release everything as fast as you can in case something happens. Kinda backwords from how it's supposed to be done, I guess.

>>4843701
>>4843309
>It's more about repeated loops that cinch everything together.
This. I've never had to cut my ropes, and yes, it is secure.

>>4843714
>>4843701
At least you don't have to waste such nice rope~

>>4842210

That's beautiful.

I'm a male sub, and whilst I've never been in any of the truly complex shibari ties, I have been in simpler shibari.

Once you're in, it's comfortable (usually) - but there's no way in hell you're getting yourself out. It helps to stretch out first.

It's great if you love those pretty rope marks afterwards. Communication is key - if you're in discomfort, let your top know. Never let somebody you don't trust tie you down. Go to local munches or find a Shibari day-clinic. Check Fetlife.

>>4844326

Oh, and for fuck sake - Always always ALWAYS use a safe word, even if there's no S&M involved.
If ever somebody you're considering letting Dom/me you says they don't use, don't "do" or don't believe in safe words, or if they ever fail to honour a safe word - Get the fuck out of there.

Play safe.

>>4844329
This. This forever. There's a reason why safe words exist. If someone says that they aren't willing to use one, then that is someone you don't want to be intimately involved with because they don't care about the possibility of you wanting to stop or the possibility of you getting hurt.

>>4844329

The only time you can ever really forgo a safe word is when you've been playing with somebody for a very long time and they know where your limits lay, and they know exactly how far they can push you - and even then, you still want to be able to Red.

Another PSA: if you're tying someone up or getting tied up, make sure that somewhere nearby there are a pair of paramedic shears. They're designed to cut through really heavy stuff quickly, including ropes, and they are crucial in case something happens (medical emergency, fire alarm, etc) that requires the ropes come off NOW NOW NOW.

I'm not sure if this would be my thing, but I do find it aesthetically pleasing and this thread has been a fascinating read.

>>4844341
>>4844329
Safe words are for the weak. SSC is nothing but bullshit. New nonsense. European and Asian scene don't even use those. Shouldn't do BDSM with someone you don't trust in the first place.

>>4844401

>European and Asian scene don't even use those

'Scuse me, but that's bullshit.

Why do I say that's bullshit? Well, because I'm in fucking Europe, that's why.

Even if you're playing with somebody you know and trust, you should always have a safe word. If you're a sub and you don't insist on one, you're a goddamned idiot.

>>4844408
As a Dom it's your responsibility to know your sub. Period. There life is in your hands after all. If the sub is someone new to you, you don't start off with the hard stuff.

>should always have a safe word
No. SSC is new, will have nothing to do with it. I study my subs will and know what they can/can't take.

>>4844416

Well, that's between you and your subs, and if you're all experienced players and you know their limits, then fine.

But it's not always so clear cut; I'm a sub, and once I go into subspace I no longer have readable body language; I relax into the pain and go limp. I have to rely on my Dom/me honouring a safeword, and I have to count on the fact that they'll keep that in mind...Also that I'll have the presence of mind to safeword out - hasn't happened yet, never needed to, but I know I can if I must.

I personally think that even if you think you know your subs inside and out, and know what they can and cannot take - you are horribly irresponsible if you don't have a safeword to fall back on. Keep in mind that I was addressing the newbs with the above post; Certainly, they should have safewords, and if they get somebody who insists on not using them then, as newbies, they need to know that that shit is not ok, especially if it's the first time or two they've played. Don't want them getting an abusive bastard.

I don't go by SSC either, by the way - I prefer RACK, since I enjoy breathplay and SSC says OHHELLNO. But for newbies, SSC is safer - once they have a feel for it, and they're better informed, then they'll probably want to move to RACK anyway.

>>4844416

Okay mister man.

Enjoy your sub leaving when you fuck up! Because as a human you make mistakes. Safewords are just another way to mitigate the risks.

>>4844431
The way BDSM has been moving, it's become more casual, or at least much more appealing for newbies to enter. I won't disagree with you on the usage of SSC for such purposes.

However, for someone who has been doing it for years, who doesn't go to a cons/meetups to pick up a fresh face, it is unnecessary.

I disagree with you calling me irresponsible, for i am very responsible to the caring for the will being of my subs. Yes, i do use RACK. For my newer subs.

>>4844445
>when you fuck up
Never have. I don't take unnecessary risks.

>>4844479

>I disagree with you calling me irresponsible

Sorry, but...I stand by that. I think it's irresponsible to not have a safeword, because sometimes subspace does funny stuff; I really do mean it when I say I have no readable body language once I hit it, and once I'm there I can actually outlast the stamina of the person beating me, and outlast them easily in many cases. I have to have a safeword, because there is absolutely no way for them to know I'm overwhelmed.

As I say; I prefer RACK, on a purely personal level, because amongst other things I enjoy breathplay, which is a complete no-no under SSC. I think the key is being logical and sensible; in my eyes, having a panic word, even if it's never used, qualifies. I personally have never had to safeword, even after extended caning, and it's possible I never will need to - but all the same, it's just sensible to have it in place.

At the same time however, I also wrote >>4844362 - so I can understand why you'd not want to play with a safety, but it's not something that should be encouraged for newbies; They should come into it with the expectation of a safeword, for their own wellbeing, and once they know more then they can discuss not having one.

>>4844484

No - everyone makes mistakes. When flogging, you might accidentally aim too high and hit a kidney, for example, or you might have a rope slip and dig into a joint or compress a nerve.

Mistakes happen. Whilst I don't like the complete elimination of risk a la SSC, the likelyhood should be reduced as much as possible. Keep in mind that only a handful of people reading this thread are likely to be experienced players; they majority are going to be underageb& or newbies. Arrogance like that is going to turn them away from trying it.

>>4844499
NO EVERYONE DOES NOT MAKE MISTAKES!!!!!! HE IS SUPERDOM!!!! HE KNOWS HIMSELF AND HIS SUBS BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE!!!!! HE IS A MASTER OF THE ART OF NEVER FUCKING UP, EVER!!!!

Whatever, man. This guy....I know who I'm not letting my subs play with.

>>4844514
>caps
Would seem your upset, relax, no need to be yelling.

>>4844499
You misunderstood. The post that i responded suggested i'd make a critical mistake that i would have a sub leave me.

I am human. I make mistakes. However, not one that would put the life of my sub in danger.

>>4844538

Ah - my apologies, I misread the tone.

Still, it raises a question - if you were playing with one of your subs, and they started shouting "Red" or even just "Safeword", what do you do?

>>When
>>4844538
>>doesn't get
>>4844514
>>is making fun of them.


this thread is full of jizz and gay sweaty man tits

>>4844544
If they can speak. If they can stare at me. Which in most cases they cannot. i only work on people i know for years. My wife handles the newer folks

>>4844563
Oh i got it alright. Perhaps my sarcasm wasn't evident enough for you. I am, after all on 4chan.

>>4844598

no I couldn't tell mostly because you lack even the basic spelling abilities of a ninth grader.

>>4844613
>no

>>4844598

>i only work on people i know for years.

That's the crucial distinction; As I said in one of my posts upthread, once you know somebody for years, and you know their limits and what they can take, then sure, play without explicit safewords.

But for everybody else, Safewords are just....necessary. As far as I can tell, there are only three experienced players left in the thread; almost everyone else reading is going to be a newbie, and they've got to have safeties. Once they know themselves a bit better they can start thinking about losing the safewords, but not before then.

I mean, shit - half the time I'm stuffed fore and aft with inflatables. You can't make a goddamned sound with one of those in your mouth.

>>4844616

that's not a spelling issue fggt. THAT'S PROPER SENTENCE FORMATION.

Um... can we go back to talking about just, y'know, simple shibari and bondage, instead of grumpy asspained circlejerkery?

>>4845152

Sure we can.

I'm going to regret this, but have some OC, maybe it'll help bring the thread back to life.

>>4845195

It's remarkable how totally rope can actually disable you.

>>4833446

>>4845195
>>4845236
Ooh, pretty!

>>4823904
LOL I thought that was a cupcake when i first glanced at it.

>>4845253

Thanks. I'm hesitant to post more, not because I'm identifiable but because, well, I was wearing a humbler and I was letting it all hang out - this board is blue, so...

It was surprisingly comfortable, too - though being forced into a kneel like that starts to really kill the knees and toes after a while.

>>4845239
This thread just became a hundred times better.

I don't have any shibari ones but have this anyway.

>>4845239
Now that is what I really want to come home to

>>4845268
>>4845236
>>4845195
I am so jealous of you. That looks wonderful. :<

>>4845195
Why would you regret that?

>>4845270

Thanks. Yours is really good. More can be seen here - http://www.simplytied.com/

>>4845281

...huh, so that's what it feels like to be on the other side of that statement.

Seriously, it was sheer dumb luck; I happened to catch the eye of a wonderful (and wonderfully sadistic) lady who just so happens to have a dungeon in her cellar. If you want that, I can't really offer any advice but to get involved in local munches and keep your options open - just remember, play safe.

I'm afraid I'm out of images that show no genitalia; I'm already pushing the definition of SFW, and this is a blue board, so...yeah.

>>4845195
>>4845236

Looks amazing.

>>4845297

Because I'm a little paranoid about putting myself on 4chan in such compromising situations. Irrational, I know, since only the person who took those photos knows it's me, but still.

>>4845313

It felt incredible - the pressure from the latex, the immobility from the ropes, the, shall we say, insistence from the humbler that I not stand up too far, the constant need to regulate my breathing due to the corset and the inflatable gag and the hood...It was very fun.
I'm due to play properly again next week - hoping to explore masochism a bit more, maybe try some breathplay, but nothing is planned - we just say, "I'd like to try this that and the other" and we see what happens.

I can't fucking wait - it's very addictive. After each proper play, I yearn to be back in the binds - it's hard to explain. Subs will know what I mean.

>>4845307
>SFW
>/cgl/
Oh you!
Far worse is posted in here.

>>4823904
Bring this Back to just suspension...

When i Do my rigging i Just tie off with simple square knots, you really dont need anything more if there wrapped correctly, also another secret to making it fast is just have links of rope in 4 yard lengths that you just tie together as you go so you dont have to loop a 20 foot piece of rope with some one and also risk giving them burn if you go too fast!

plus natal fibers like treated Jute or Hemp is best rather than that expensive crap, and its usually not worth the money!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImNct9xSCs0
this is a good one to use too because my sub really likes having her hair Pulled too ^w^ if anyone has other good ties to recommend that they like having done to them or like seeing plz share!

>>4845326

I wish we could Play together!

>>4845328

Oh, really?

I don't spend that much time on /cgl/ usually - more of a fa/tg/uy /po/oper.

This was about as far as I could rise, due to the clamps and the humbler - I also couldn't let my head slump forward, because of the collar and because my hair was incorporated into the tie.

I really advise you - if you have an interest in being in this kind of situation, or the urge to be tied up - don't wait to act on it. I wish I'd tried it sooner, because wow, what a feeling.

>>4845349

Heh, well odds are you're an ocean away. In the case that you're not - if I find myself at a loose end, then perhaps we might someday.

>>4845326
You don't have to answer this if you don't want
Is your "real" life the opposite of your kink life?

>>4845341

Suspension is way up on my list of Stuff I Want To Try - though that said, it isn't exactly a short list. Might be quick to list what *isn't* on that list.

It's not the easiest thing in the world to pull off, though.

>>4845375

Can you rephrase the question? I'm not entirely sure what you're asking me.

>>4845383
Me as an example: I have very little control in my life bottom f the pile job leting ym family be arsehole to me etc. So for Kinky stuff I'm a dom I have control
Am I making any sense?

>>4845418
typing fail
I have very little control in my life, bottom of the pile job leting my family be arseholes to me etc. So for Kinky stuff I'm a dom, I have control

Well, this thread is convincing enough. If I ever make it to a con that has one, I'm definitely going to give it a try if anyone would be willing to demo on a shrimpy seagull boy~

...Which is highly unlikely and I probably would be a chicken and shy out of it unless I could find a girl offering to do the tying, since, well...

>>4845418
Ah, I see. Well, lets see; I'm a Networking and IT student with training in Microsoft and Cisco systems. I spend most of my time around people who treat me like I'm an idiot, even though whenever something breaks I'm the person they come running to - even if it's not related to my fields, if it's got a chip in it, it's "my thing". In my spare time, I admin a forum with just shy of 22k members. I am unemployed, never had a job, though when I've managed to cadge my way into companies for work experience I've always left with glowing references and in one case, I was asked back for a second week.

I know what you're getting at - and in a lot of ways I'm the same, I have a shitty home life, and I hate being told what to do - I have very low self-esteem, though I am aware that I am very capable, and I have a history of depression.

Stupid field length
>>4845473

At the same time...I love to please, and I love to help. Most of all, I love new experiences - as a sub, I've learnt so much about myself - my personality, my temperment, my limits, what my body is capable, the mental strength I'm capable of and so on.

Submission for me is actually an expression of strength; I endure pain, suffering and humiliation and turn it into pleasure and joy. It's also an escape; In the past, I used to cut. It's something I am very ashamed of, and I am not proud of it. In submission, I have a healthier outlet, and at the same time I get to please and service my Dominant or Sadist.

>>4845480
Apparently part of this comment isn't allowed.

>>4845270
I wish I could find the rest of that set

>>4845448

>willing to demo on a shrimpy seagull boy

Dude, I'm built like a fucking twig - but I'm flexible, and I'm willing to learn, and I'm eager to try, and all that bullshit.

Whatever your bodytype - there will be somebody wanting to tie you up, if you're willing to give it a go. In my case, it was my hair length that caught the eye of my Dominant, and then it was my personality that made her think, "I want to play". Just...be yourself. Don't be arrogant, make it clear you're a newbie.

>>4845360
Niice.

>>4845473
You sound scarily like me!
But you like to sub I guess the opposites theory crap!
I do know what you mean liking the bonds I just don't enjoy having mean things done to me

>>4845503

Thank you.

>>4845448

I apologise for the unsolicited cockshot, but I offer proof that I am not lying about being built like a twig. That's not pectoral muscle; Those are my ribs and sternum.

Don't worry about things - just go with it. It's ok to be nervous - I don't know anybody who wasn't, and anyone who says they were not nervous first munch or event or clinic they went to is a goddamned liar. Just be open and approachable and friendly.

>>4845505

I might decide to see what things are like from the other end of the crop one day, but for now I find peace and happiness in submission and pain.

Oh, and stay away from collarme. It's full of scammers and "Tribute" dom/mes.

Fetlife is your friend.

BURE BURE BURE BURE

>>4845539

It's worth expanding on this; Fetlife is not intended as a dating site per se (though it can be used as such and is), but more of a social network for kinksters.

It has extremely good lists of fet events, clubs, parties and munches. If you have a local munch, it's almost certainly going to be listed. It also has really good discussions and group.

>>4845645
>>4845539
I tried getting a Fetlife but really it didn't do much for me since I live out in the middle of nowhere and there's nobody of similar age/likemindedness who would even be up to talk about it, let alone me finding a domme.

I guess I need to try looking at exploring it a bit more, even if I won't find anything that I can physically participate in.

>>4845539
I'm on the fence about signing up,I've had both sadistic and masochistic fantasys for some time now.

The problem is that I have a history of anxiety attacks.
Being bound could feasibly trigger one and that would obviously be a serious issue because a panic/anxiety attack is your flight or fight response going into overdrive
You feel like you are dying during one and the only way to not die is by escaping or fighting the trigger (in a panic attack you won't know what the trigger even is which is more frightening )

>>4845668

Never say never. I'd all but given up on finding a playmate when my current Domme (and my first proper Domme!) contacted me on Fetlife; The length of my hair had caught her eye, and the way my profile reads and the way I spoke to her further cemented that; We met up and I like to think I impressed her, and things have led from there.

Just join some groups that interest you - a Cosplay group, Anime and Manga, Kinky and Geeky, whatever it might be - and get to know some folks.

>>4845673

I know what an anxiety attack is - I also have a history of them. Proper panic attacks are the worst - you ache for days after.

I find I'm a lot less anxious immediately before, during and after play, but I can get subdrop in the form of anxiety days afterwards. Make your Top aware of that history and find a way to avoid subdrop - for me, I tend to get anxious about things I could have done better, what I might have done etc, so for me, aftercare consists of warm tea and evaluation - just us, discussing what happened and what we did and didn't like, what we found impressive or intense and so on.

You could start with binds you know how to get out of - maybe have a large loop going through your hand you can pull to completely release that wrist, for example, and over time work up.

Usually I don't like the look of just rope, I'd prefer just, like, cuffs and all, but the things that these people do with Shibari is amazing.

>>4845673
Continued

And it wouldn't only possibly happen if I was a sub
I could get an anxiety attack while I have someone else bound due to a fear of causing permanent injury and in that case the other person cannot do anything to help me or themselves


But these fears I've posted could just be my goddamn anxiety acting up.

Being mentally ill is something no one should experience

>>4845740

>cuffs and all

Metal cuffs are a Bad Idea - or at least, the type most people thing of are.

They're too thin, you see; Any real force on them will cause them to dig into the wrists and damage tissue there.

>>4845759
Oh, I meant like the leather cuffs. I mean, as a personal preference I like the heavier metal ones but that's more of a visual appeal than actually being used, they'd be uncomfortable as fuck. ...which might just be the point but hey, different strokes.

>>4845701
Anxious Guy here

What is subdrop?
I don't really know any of the jargon

>>4845766

Ah, no - leather cuffs are fine, I thought you meant the metal ones. If you want to use the metal ones, you more or less have to use the fuckheavy shackle type.

>>4845773
Subdrop is something that not everyone gets. It's a period of feeling low after play, attributed to body chemicals returning to normal. It can feel a bit like depression, or loss, or longing - it's different for those who experience it.

Not everyone will experience it; Most won't. Sometimes I get it bad, other times I maintain a full on Haters-Gonna-Hate swagger for weeks after.
If you eat well before play, if you keep hydrated, if you rest properly and if you have chocolate after play, you can almost always avoid subdrop.

>decided to finally get a Fetlife after being told I should get one for years
>search one of my fetishes, fell nervous
>all fat/old

Le sigh. I'm sure if I sift through all of them I'll find something good.

>>4845793
Seriously, I can't find anyone around me who isn't like, 40+ and a gay male crossdresser.

There has to be some way of uniting the younger kinky people of this world. Fuckin' inhibitions keeping people from discovering their fetishes until they're ancient.

>>4845793
No, don't do that - it's not how Fetlife works.

Don't look at it as a meat market, look at it as a social network; Whilst you might end up talking to somebody near you who doesn't share your particular fetish, they might know somebody who does.

I'm lucky in that I don't know precisely what I want and made that clear on my profile; It was part of what made my current playmate interested in me, that I kept an open mind and wanted to learn.

Join groups that are relevant to your interest, set up your fetlist, and just get a feel for it - find some local events and show up.

>>4845801

Roughly where are you?

>>4845801

Start by filling in your profile, then joining relevant groups - for example;

>http://fetlife.com/groups/12225
>http://fetlife.com/groups/663
>http://fetlife.com/groups/81
>http://fetlife.com/groups/361
>http://fetlife.com/search/groups

>>4845805
I'm in southwest Missouri. Not too culturally bountiful an area.

>>4845844

Ok, I don't know shit about Missouri, I'm a Britfag and I honestly couldn't point to Missouri on a map, so...yeah.

Try looking through here, though;


These are pretty potluck.
>http://fetlife.com/administrative_areas/3962/groups

These are in chronological order.
>http://fetlife.com/administrative_areas/3962/events

>>4845861

Anyway, I am going to go to bed, because it's half four in the goddamned morning here.

Feel free to add me - djehuty3.

Ive been doing shibari and Rigging for about a year now and i don't consider myself the best around my area but i am worth my salt and i know that there are not a lot of people my age (22) who are as good as myself. my question is this. If some one was going to a Con and Wanted to do a photo shoot in shibari with cosplay, would anyone (sorry but i am asking the females, i know a lot of men would enjoy it but probably not from another Man) want to try or be willing to be Tied up? and if so where would you want to post the meeting for it because i wouldn't want to invite you back to a hotel room given the personal safety that would be a no no with that... I am gonna be at the Colorado Nan desu kan in the next month so i am trying to get a feel if people would be interested and if i should post on it?

>>4845804
I wasn't looking for anybody to actually play with as I'm married and my husband puts effort into fulfilling my fetishes/fantasies, but I was hoping for some hot pictures. Why is it so hard to find zentai pictures to my tastes, dammit?

Holy crap, this is still here?

>>4845874
Damnation. SPG, MOfag here; apparently I just missed you (fuck, it's late)

>>4847010

Nope, I'm awake again now and back.

>>4842633
I'd assume there'd be something in the St.Louis area

>>4847138
I kinda guess there would be, but I'm trapped on the exact opposite side of the state in a bum town.

>>4847177

I know your pain. I live in a tiny-ass village of maybe 250, in the middle of nowhere. We have a castle, an 800 year old church, two schools, a pub, a steam railway and that's about it.

Luckily, I'm only about 2hrs from London by rail, and there's always something happening in London.

>>4847177
Which makes Springfield or Kansas city an option.

I'd imagine that any significant metropolitan area would have some sort of fetish scene

>>4845949
Damnit, I'm 21 and female and curious to experiment but I'm living in America's hat and nowhere near you.

Sorry if this post is totally disappointing but if you lived near me and I got to know you first I'd totally be up for it!

>be 18
>literally EVERYONE on Fetlife or any other fetish community nearby is really old or really... pretty-entirely-disgusting
>find ONE possible domme a few years older
>lesbian only
>feelsbadman.jpg

I will never be a shibaribro.

>>4847337

I Go back and Forth to Canada every few years or so. if you would be up for it maybe we can talk of Fetlife.

>>4847422
This i understand and feel your Pain. tow options, go through every group in the state or literally town by town near you and try to find people who are an acceptable age with a Recent activity on there account, then tell them your plight and dont Ask em to dom you out of the blue, but just ask them for help or if they can recommend anyone. or if you really wanted you could find cyrcle in san Fran then go there for a weekend on a cheep budget enjoy the weekend getting tied up.

>>4847445
What area of Canada are we talking here?

On an unrelated note, goddamnit they deleted the other fetish thread and I replying to someone. bawww

I'm an extrmely dominant guy, and I've always found lolitas (and to a lesser extent cosplayers) to be insanely cute. I'm into making girls do degrading, humiliating things alongside dominating them though, making a girl go out sans panties, or with a remote controlled vib inside of her, oh, another fun thing is to write filthy things all over her in marker pen.

I kind of like slapping girls about in bed too, choking, biting. I've always loved sort of... turning their throats into 'a third fuckhole' (even if they throw up in the process). And of course, making them wear a dog collar and chain while eating cum out of a dog bowl.

There's also all the vanilla stuff alongside that, but it gets progressively more degrading the more I experiment with a girl.

>>4847464
That was a good thread.

I wish we had a larger kinky /cgl/ community since then we could just sorta expand outwards.

>>4847468

>or with a remote controlled vib inside of her

That's hot. Try it with an inflatable in the other side.

>>4847464

british columbia, but i drive there so i could make a detour if it would be worth it...

>>4847479
Sadly that's not my area, but if you'd be interested in going near southern Ontario region someday, let me know.

>>4847472
Maybe we could start a thread on /d/ and have something here redirect over there?

>>4847468
On a related note, I'm not really into the whole 'BDSM scene', I don't think dominating women is a 'fetish'. I think it's natural for any red blooded male to want to dominate a girl.

>>4847482

maybe, my Fetlife is GrayOmen, send me s message before you add me

>>4847484
I kinda like how many people hear who dont know about this sort of thing who are really turned onto it have replied though.

>>4847485
I think it depends on the extent of the domination. Humiliation is a bit far to be considered "normal" by my standards, for either gender, but hey, we've all got different standards of normal.

>>4847497
I don't have an account yet but maybe I'll get started later in the day. Cheers.

>>4847498
No, you're right in that sense. That's fetishistic. I think most women like it though. I just dislike the whole sort of... obsession with using words like 'master' and 'slave' and so on. I prefer calling girls I'm dating/screwing a variety of demeaning names anyway.

I know it sounds fucked up, but I want to be in an abusive relationship.

>>4847511

I think that depends on your definition of "abusive".

I'm a male, and I want to be in a completely dominated relationship; I want to be punished if I fuck up, with pain, with isolation, with restraints, with deprivation. I want to have to earn the right to eat with tools, to have a blanket - to be treated like chattel.

At the same time, I want to be appreciated for that submission; For my surrender to be appreciated, and to be cared for and wanted.

Dunno if I'd do it; I probably would, but I likely won't find out soon.

The other thread seemed to have a lot of Lolita dommes.

If only they were in here. :<

>>4847524
It's rarer amongst guys I think.

>>4847502
I've always found a woman calling her male partner "daddy" kinda creepy

>>4847502
If I had a Mistress, I'd love to call her that, but there are lots of names that still have the same function of submission. Plus, I think just Miss is also good enough for being used casually.

>>4847597

>It's rarer amongst guys

I disagree; For every Dominant out there looking for a sub male, there are four or five sub males who will never have a Dom/me.

What I think is rarer is a male who accepts, embraces and is proud of that submission.

Giving this thread has turned into a fetish thread, I would be more into anime fetish stuff and roleplaying as cosplay characters.

Anyone here into casts, braces and halos? Would it be a good idea if I start a cast girls thread here sometime?

>>4847786

>casts
Yes, but probably not in the way you're thinking. I want to try mummification, you see, and full body casts are about as mummified and immobilised as one can get.

>>4847795
I imagine that could get ichy to a unenjoyable degree very fast.
The worst part about the time I broke my arm was how fucking ichy the cast got after less than an hour

>>4847899

I have never worn a cast, so that's something I didn't know about. Perhaps best to stick to clingfilm and shrinkwrap.

>>4847484

/d/ banned any and all discussion threads about a month ago. There's been attempts to get a /dd/ made (/d/ discussion) but it hasn't happened yet. Any discussion thread will get deleted, sorry to say. You're better off sticking around here.

>>4847961
Curses.

Thanks for the heads up. We'll probably be fine as long as it stays cosplay related and the photos aren't too porny.

>>4847961

They're actually sticking to it?

>>4847786
I would LOVE to tie up a girl cosplaying as Alita from battle angel alita, a manga that made me realize a number of turn ons (leather/latex catsuits and bondage)

Unfortunately I've seen maybe 4 good alita cosplays ever
That will probably change if James Cameron ever fucking gets around to making the damn movie (seriously he wants to finish the avatar trilogy first)

>>4847970
Yes which is annoying because they won't do anything about the ALL DICKGIRLS ALL THE TIME issue

>>4848138

Damned shame - the discussion threads were just about the only reason I went to /d/, to get tips, advice and suggestions.

>>4848138
And /soc/ is the worst board so making threads there is out of the question

It would get filled with shit like: WANTING TO BE TIED UP AND PEGGED BY AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN MAKES YOU A FAG, NOW I MUST POST PICTURES OF MY COCK ELSEWHERE ON THE BOARD

former ontariofag here, any seagulls feel free to add me...http://fetlife.com/users/1058460

>>4848207

Urgh, tell me about it.

Fetlife is great and all, but without the anoninimty it's harder to talk frankly; Here, it doesn't matter what you say so much, it doesn't matter what you reveal or how embarrassed you are about something - it's gone after a couple of days at most. We're about to hit the bump limit in this thread - it'll be gone this time tomorrow. It doesn't matter.

Fetlife, it'll linger.

>>4848253

>anoninimty
Derp, anonymity. Sage for noncontrib.

>>4848232
>Ontario
>YES
>make profile to check
>...
>I actually know you and I'm not attracted to other girls
>awkward lol

>>4848267

Don't you just hate when that happens?

Still, could be worse - you could find a family member on there.
...Hasn't happened to me yet, thank fuck.

>>4848207
well try /d/ then. You're just shitting this board up.

>>4848267
hahahah, no problem. >.>

>>4848276

>just shitting this board up.
>220+ post thread
>civility, openness and sharing abound
>no trolling
>no vendettas

That word...

>>4848311
150+ replies of unrelated shit. Yay!

>>4848154
/d/ always did have good discussions back before this shit. I mean, even during that stint last year where the Traps took over to try and combat dickgirls and futa and shit, you could find good stuff.

And yet now us deviants of other boards are exiled and forced to live in the shadows of threads like this.

>>4848339
You didn't even READ the thread, did you?

Nope. Now go away. Your very presence is the cancer upon the thread that you are complaining about. YOU'RE not talking about shibari, are you? Shibari. Shibari Shibari.

>>4848376

The bitch of it is, every board says to go to /d/, and /d/ says to go somewhere else!

>>4848339

If it was unwanted, the mods would have deleted it; The thread remains, so evidently it is not an issue.

>>4848381
You know your posting unrelated garbage, why does it piss you off so much?

>>4848387
There's other boards where this is more appropriate like
>>>/soc/
>>>/s/
>>>/b/
or you could try another chan all together.

>>4848387
Sadly our best bet is still to go to /soc/, even though it's mainly filled with shit, but sadly /soc/ won't have the theme of Cosplay and Conventions and they won't keep to Shibari at all.

>>4848390
Please go away. Your argument is invalidated early on by your grammatical failure.

>>4848397
>2011
>implying that /b/ is even a board
>implying that /soc/ is anything but CHUBBY GIRLS TAKE PICS and SHOW US YOUR COCK
>implying that /s/ is meant for fetish discussion

Yeah, not so much.

>>4848400
Herp derp typo.
See how it is when people post unrelated garbage. It's what you're doing with this entire thread.

>>4848405
Well if you're going to be strict about board definition then Cosplay and EGL is about Cosplay and EGL not to mention it's a blue board. Stop trying to make your self feel good about your shit posting.

Can people just ignore the shitposting sagefags, please? They're only serving to jerk themselves off over how righteous they are in their hypocrisy.

Still, I think it's sad that the Cosplay/EGL community at large hasn't embraced the wholesomeness of fetishy stuff like Shibari anyway. I mean, I know panels and stuff exist but they're rare and nobody seems to talk about them. I don't want to rely on FetLife for it, and we all seem to really like these threads and have lots to talk about before the faggots shit them up.

>>4848397


...Yes, because when I think /b/, /soc/ and /s/, I immediately think "cool community, people I want to talk with", really, I do.

The thread has derived from it's original topic, which was shibari at cons; That's the nature of interesting threads, they'll wander and meander back and forth. It's the way social interaction works - conversations go off on tangents, exchange is fluid.

You should look at threads like this not as having gone off topic and offending you, but as proof that hey, the people on your favourite 4chan board are capable of having a functional conversation!

Or, you know, just hide and report it, let the mods decide. They mods have been roaming these halls since this thread was started, and they did not smack it down; Ergo, it did not offend in their sight.

I'm extremely curious about exploring a few kinks but I need to do it with someone I can trust, in a safe environment. Unfortunately I have a lot of issues trusting men, and I'm a straight girl, so my needs and wants are at odds with each other. I'm completely new to this. Not new to sex since I was in a long-term relationship, but I have no idea how to pursue this interest when I have no experience with the fetish scene or anything aaaugh

foreveralone :(

Never posted in this thread, but I keep seeing it.

OP, nothing against your fetishes and all, but this is not cosplay related whatsoever. Lolita either.
Move it to /d/, it's more fitting there than anywhere else.
If /d/ complains, oh fucking well, that's the fetish board, they can get over it.

>>4848433
If you're worried, go to a public event, like the Shibari panels at a con; You get to try it from an experienced player, and you're in a very controlled and safe environment.

>>4848436
Actually, /d/ is not the fet board, they're the hentai/alternative board. The mods there simply instantly delete discussion threads. It is most vexing.

>>4848431
Cons are not a subset of cosplay.
>mods
>cgl
>laughing sluts.jpg

>>4848445
Then find a fucking forum.
There's a place called Google outside of 4Chan, you know.

>>4848433
The best way to trust men is let some creepy douche bag tie you up and take pictures of you.

>>4848433
Find a girly boy.

Problem solved! ...although then again, in retrospect, that probably isn't even more likely an occurrence.

>>4848448
Why don't you take your grumpy ass out and find a good one for us then, if you don't like us that much? It would undoubtedly speed up our leaving. Make sure it is a forum for cosplayers and Lolitas appreciative of kinks, fetishes, and primarily Shibari.

Come back when you have one.

>>4848445
Thanks for the tip!
>>4848450
My last relationship was with a guy who didn't mind me topping, but we stuck with mainly vanilla stuff other than him having a stocking fetish. I don't know if I would be able to go full domme on someone though.

>>4848448

>stop talking about things that don't interest me.

It was about Shibari panels at Cons. We're the default Conboard.

At least it's more on topic than OMG HOW TALL R U? and What's your faults gais?

>>4848462
Yes cons about cosplay , not cons about other crap.

>>4848460
Well, um... I'd let you tie me up!

...Sorry, one gets desperate as a sub boy. Still, I guess being a domme isn't for everyone, I can't even imagine myself topping in a relationship but I'd be willing to try switching for someone. Still, not like it fits for everybody. I hope you find somebody of equal-or-greater kinky value that you can trust!

Ugh this thread. I can smell the 40 year old neckbeard stench from here.

When does /cgl/ get a mod.

>>4848448

We went over 200 posts without any bullshit until one or two people decided that the thread offended their sensibilities; If you have a forum you can suggest, that is for cosplayers, lolitals, geeks and kinky bastards, which is anonymous and as easy to use as 4chan is, by all means - please, enlighten me.

Otherwise, just hide the thread and move on; We're harming nobody (who doesn't want to be harmed, amirite) and we are, or rather were, having a civil discussion.

>>4848460

You are welcome. Remember, whilst you might want to play the sub, you have the ultimate power over what does and does not happen; Never allow anybody to convince you to play without a safeword unless you are ready to do so, and do not be ashamed to have to use it.

>>4848478
This. Threads on /cgl/ are pretty much always fine until some fat bitch on her period gets herself all a-grumble and decides to shit on it, at which point she has free reign to derail it all she likes.

>>4848467

Dude. The cons aren't about cosplay they're about the culture. It's mentioned that Shibari panels are held at ANIME cons, hence the thread is relevent.

Just hide it if it offends your delicate sensibilities. Or was it that you couldn't stand to see a thread go this long without retarded drama?

>>4848478
>kinky
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now was that so fucking hard. Enjoy your board shitting.

>>4848459
Why does it have to be cosplayers and lolitas? If your pictures are anything to go buy, Shibari is done naked, yes?
So bringing cosplay/lolita into it kills the point.

Hey look what a quick trip to Google gave me!: http://planetsuzy.org/showthread.php?p=4051454

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>hide the thread

I don't think they know how to DO that.

>>4848483
1. Pictures depicting those in costume play ("cosplay") and elegant gothic lolita ("EGL") dress are welcome.
2. Don't bring community drama into this board. Singling out particular cosplayers and trolling them will not be tolerated.
3. ALL DRAMA ALL THE TIME!
If we're using these as the rules then we would be able to talk about the part of cons that have something to do with cosplay. Yes they're was shibari booth at a con but had nothing to do with cosplay. This is clearly just a fetish thread.

>>4848487
Shibari doesn't have to be done naked. It's just that for the most part, it's about the beauty of the tying and the girl being tied, and it's done in a more private or intentionally adult setting. Stuff like the topic of panels at cons would be done clothed, I'd figure, and the idea of girls being tied in Cosplay or EGL isn't out of the question. Personally I'd love to try it, if it wouldn't totally ruin my outfit. I guess I could just try getting a top harness done if I wasn't in something too poofy.

>>4848500
>"they're was"
>ignoring the ALL DRAMA ALL THE TIME

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>>4848472
Haha, that could be fun. I think I do have a bit of a thing for submissive, nice guys, since I love being the one in relative control in the bedroom. I'm not into sadomasochism but mostly just being the one to pleasure the guy in a way where I'm the controlling one, because their reactions drive me nuts.

...I suppose that comes off as pretty vanilla and not particularly fetishistic, derp. Maybe I'm just boring, haha.

>>4848478
Thanks again. I'm really eager to learn about all this before I get started anywhere. I sent one message on Fetlife to someone who didn't seem particularly intimidating (wasn't extreme one way or the other, pretty flexible), so maybe we can have a chat about stuff.

>>4848501
You could play baseball in lolita but that wouldn't make baseball relevant.

>>4848490

Well, it IS summer.

>>4848487
>If your pictures are anything to go buy, Shibari is done naked, yes

Yup, you didn't actually read the thread.

Back on topic, we're approaching the...no, I stand corrected, I think that we've gone through the bump limit; Time for a new thread?

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Bump limit is 300 and with this post we'll be about 31 posts away. The shitstorm will probably make it reach the limit soon.

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...Actually yeah, it kinda would. LOLITA BASEBALL, NOW IN SEASON. Shit, we'd all ruin our outfits, though. We're going to need one of our design experts to come up with a new style. Baseball!Lolita. Gonna need shorter skirts and some kind of padding.

>>4848509
>new thread
Hit it up. Just make sure it's worded well enough to dissuade the further pursuit of these... "people."

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>>4848500

So...go tell that to the tripfag fanfic thread, the "How are you feeling today" thread, the "What's your greatest flaw" thread, the thread mocking that manga artist girl who doesn't cosplay or wear lolita or even attend cons, etc.

And those are just threads in the last week that have been WAY more offtopic than this. You can't just pick and choose you want to bitch about one, you should bitch about them all.

At least this one involves cons.

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>>4848515

Duly Noted.

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>I sent one message on Fetlife

Well there you go, you never know where it might go!

Just - remember to play safe. Wanting to learn more before you actually play is commendable, and I'm not just saying that because that's what I did, no sirree.

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THAT is clearly proof that your argument against this thread is justified. The 4chan equivalent of throwing a temper tantrum in a department store. Real fuckin' eloquent there, bitch.

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>>4848509
Try to make the op slightly more on topic to shut the retards up

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There seem to be enough people on Fetlife, do you think that it would be worth it to have just a tiny little /cgl/ group? I mean, not like we'd have much to say and the lack of anonymity's a problem but we could at least just have somewhere nice and private away from
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Congratulations, you've proved that your argument against this thread has no merit by throwing the 4chan equivalent of a tantrum. I can now safely just hide all your posts and know I need not worry about you.

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>>4848531

Your efforts would be appreciated in the highly /cgl/ related HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX? thread that just popped up. >>4848492

Pondering over dinner, I realized the place for this thread:
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So, random pictures and spamming.

I'm seriously envisioning some obese landwhale in sweat-soaked Lolita mashing her keyboard with ham-sized fists. Probably just jelly of those of us who are thin enough to be suspended~

Seriously though, this is just... sad.

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>>4848539
I wouldn't mind. My Fetlife profile is pretty anonymous right now (newbie from upthread here).

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Seems true enough, /jp/ doesn't seem to mind things like that. Although, to be fair, we'll lose our demographic and will likely be easy prey in a sea of fat basementdwellers.

...Still, better than nothing. Someone brave go make us a new thread.

>>4848556

They were just upset a thread that was only mildly ontopic didn't have drama in it and was still going strong.

You guys should be talking about what you ate today and get tripfags involved while making fun of peacockfeather.

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>>4848560
Well, if we feel like getting one made we might as well talk about it in a safer thread than this. We're being thoroughly destabilized by the shitspammer.

>>4848571

Anon, for real. Go after all the other offtopic threads too. If this is such a big deal. You'd be a hero on the board.

Otherwise you come across as a bitter jealous prude.

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I think we've had enough proof from the correlation of horrible spelling and grammatical errors in the text posts before the whinegasm and the fact that there were no actual arguments placed that this is all the work of one single JELLO MAD FAT BITCH.

New thread is up.

aaand now fatty is gone, we can continue this thread.

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