Moral of the story:
Don't drink if you're under age.

0/10

>>4668776
Stop that. I'm serious.

>>4668782
then you are an idiot.
No one here is going to help you, its fucking 4chan.
pray your period comes and get yourself tested.
Don't drink if you do stupid shit like that, and if you feel like you have to at least make sure you are always with someone you know.

You fucked up, sorry.

Holy shit, that sounds like date rape drug to me. You should get tested and contact the police immediately.

Get the fuck off 4chan, get the morning after pill, go home, get yourself tested for STDs.

Its your fault that you drank and were around those type of people. Suck it up and learn from your mistakes.

Don't get drunk and then sleep with random men, you whore. You wasted your 1st time on some kamina cosplaying cunt and you only have yourself to blame.

This is a horror story among horror stories.... and yet, I'm still not sure if I feel only pity.

A dark part of me doesn't really care because the circumstances were brought on by stupid irresponsibility which could have been easily avoided.... unless this Kamina forced his way into OP's bed, of course.

... sage for no contribution.

Anon, if you were a virgin, and your vagina doesn't hurt like hell, and there isn't a strange sticky unfamiliar warm fluid coming out of your vagina, sex didn't happen.

If it did, you need a morning after pill.

I'm sorry this happened to you. If he took advantage of you while drunk, fail on his end, but if you consented and don't remember, I think it's still consensual. I'm not going to give you be careful who you get drunk with lecture, I think you already know.

>>4668789
I know I fucked up, I'm just trying my best to work things out. I don't want to bother anyone, I'm just trying to scrape for as much help as I can get, even if it may be pointless. It's not like anything I do can turn back time.

Maybe I should just give up though. I haven't called my parents about it yet because I've been too scared, but I should. I'm sorry, maybe I'll just delete this thread, it was stupid of me to think I might find any clues.

>>4668799
>mfw I forget to sage
>mfw I have no face

How do you know if he actually fucked you? Blue body paint means nothing.

>>4668771
I'm sorry, OP...

>>4668801

Weel, I think enough anons have said the same thing, but I guess you could keep the thread and hope that the Kamina you met is one of us and will see it to.... or an acquaintance of his....

Get yourself tested for any drugs in your system before it's too late, though....

You only have yourself to blame.

Do not drink and then have sex with random people.

Now. Find the guy and if you like him, start going out with him. He took your v card, so be a good girl and marry him.

iif you get tested for drugs now, it can be used as evidence for date rape. Don't wait till later after you peed it out.

I'm not blaming anyone for my stupidity though... I know it was my fault.

Is this a troll thread? I really hope it is...

Also, thanks for the suggestions. I'll look into getting tested right now and get a morning after pill. I may reply later if the thread is still here.

So you want to hook up OP?

>>4668810
Give us a better discription and we will find him. A name would be great. or anything other than his height.

There's probably gonna be a Gurren photoshoot sometime at AX. Make be you can go there and try to identify the guy?

OP still hasn't answered how she's so sure something happened.

I didn't bleed the first the time I had sex because I had already popped my cherry a few years before while masturbating. However, if no condom was used then there would be some fluid evidence of this.

Answer the questions, girlie.

Also, is it bad I want to fuck a Kamina cosplayer now?

Well you're all terrible people.

OP, GET DRUG TESTED RIGHT NOW, GO.

Ask for the morning after pill, too. And remember, no matter how drunk you were YOU DID NOT CONSCENT TO ANYTHING. IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT.

As for contanting Kamina dude, ask the photographers / con staff somebody may have recognized them.

>I'm 18 but look like I'm 14 or so
BUENO

Post pics?

Don't believe it.
Though if he took off in the morning he's a dick. Unless he remembers nothing either. In that case he probably couldn't keep it up.
Still don't believe it.

Slut-shaming and misogyny at all time high here.

Seriously? It's all her fault? Guys are told not to take advantage of drunk girls. And he could have deceived her into thinking he was a nice guy she could trust.

Just a life lesson learned the hard way, and yes this is 4chan, but you guys don't have to be such dicks to an obviously distraught girl--obviously none of you ever fucked up.

Give the size of the con its unlikely you'll ever see him again.

However just be safe and get the morning after pill.

Honestly, if "tall" is all you know, then you're in trouble unless the guy decides to be a Decent Human Being.

So yeah, morning after, tests. Getting drunk is dumb, don't do it, it's a waste of both your money and time, and sometimes dingity + well being. A few drink to get a buzz going is all you need.

I love the thought that he just painted you with blue paint for shits ang giggles.

Shit, anon, I hope you're doing okay and that nothing happened. Don't beat yourself up over it, alright?

Get tested as soon as possible and try to get a morning after pill like some other people said. If you think you were drugged, contact authorities. Take care.

>>4668818
>>4668822
She is to blame. If she was drunk and gave consent but does not remember it in the morning, she still gave consent.

She got drunk and flirted with a guy she saw earlier and liked. She wakes up after getting piss faced drunk and crys rape. You women are all the same. If you're going to go drinking with a guy and then fuck him, don't cry rape when you realise how much of a whore you are.

I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
Get to a pharmacy and get some Plan B. ASAP!
Contact someone in charge of the convention and tell them what happened.
I hope you'll be okay, this is really terrible, I'm sorry.

The TTGL gathering is happening outside, by the west Hall. Too many kaminas to count.

This thread, it smells like bullshit.

>>4668833
You can't give consent when drunk, you fucking idiot.

>>4668841
Take a picture. Post it on here.

>>4668844
Oh boy here we go.

>>4668833
More like they are both to blame.
Both got drunk and had sex with someone random.
Both had impaired judgment.

>>4668844
If they were both drunk then they raped each other?

>>4668847
>>4668844
>>4668848
>>4668851
Guys, let's not fight.

>>4668846
Fuck that, I'm going to my hotel to cool down.

I like how yesterday a guy told a story about how he got drunk and was raped by a hambeast weaboo and everyone immediately let him know that it wasn't his fault and that he was a strong individual and that they'd kill the chick if they came across her.

Moral of the story: get drunk as a chick and raped, you're a slut who should've known better. Get drunk as a guy and raped, holy shit where's the bitch? I'm going to strangle her.

>>4668848
>>4668851
She never said he was drunk too

>>4668859
she cant remember anything about him, let alone if he was drunk

>>4668833
Except OP never said any of that happened. Stop assuming things - she's "innocent until proven guilty" and all that jazz.

This is all her story is:
>I was drunk and that's all I really remember about him. I only know there was fucking blue body paint on me and in my bed this morning. [...] None of my friends heard from me all night nor saw me so can't help out, and there's no condom in the hotel garbage or anything.

She may have consented, he may have slipped something in her drink, who knows? We don't. So there's no need for slut-shaming here. I think everyone's made it clear that she put herself in a bad situation and learned this lesson the hard way.

Instead, let's just try to help her as best we can.

I GUESS YOU CAN SAY YOU GOT DRILLED!

DOOOOOHOHOHOHO!

Date rape drugs are largely a myth, by the way.

>>4668862
>he's "innocent until proven guilty"
The irony?
Can you feel it Anon?

>>4668864
Kamina used Giga Drill Break.

>>4668844
If she went out drinking with him, she probably saw him earlier at the con and thought I like the look of that guy. she saw him later and hit on him. They both obviously like each other, so they hit the streets.They drink alot and they go back to her room and fuck.

He thinks yay I just scored this cute chick, I haven't got her name but i'm sure I can find her on a cosplaying site. He's at home looking for the girl he now has a crush on and is trying to contact her to see if they can meet again and date. He comes on cgl and sees that she is crying rape. And he is crushed. She consented and flirted with him and he thought he had found a future girlfriend.

Next thing you know, he is in jail because some whore can't remember how she fucked some dude.

O God OP thats some heavy news you posted. I guess the best thing for you to do is get tested or take something so you arent pregnant & definetly try to out who this guy is.

>>4668858

yeah, a lot of girls really seem to hate their own gender. it's sad.

>>4668868
I doubt that's what's gonna happen...

Here's my question...she mentions that she was really drunk and that's all she remembers. That means it's a good chance that she met up with him AFTER getting drunk, and being 14, that's not a difficult task to get that wasted. So, again, chances are that the guy didn't "slip her anything". Don't be stupid, read the story.

>>4668866
I'm not arguing that. For the sake of helping the OP, let's give both parties the benefit of the doubt.

Arguing back and forth about the moral issues here isn't going to help anyone. But getting the two of them in contact to figure out what /did/ happened WILL help.

>>4668868
he liked her so much he couldn't stick around in the morning until she woke up or anything like that

are you literally retarded? just curious

Guys! Can we stop fighting and try to help OP??

>>4668880
I agree. let's not wank about this, guys. OP is obviously really upset and could use some support.

>>4668875
She's 18. She only looks like she's 14.

>>4668833
>You women are all the same.

The fuck, man?

>>4668872
It happens more often than you may think. Guys go out drinking with girls and hit it off. They fuck like mad and then leave the next morning for work or whatever. They fall for the girl and try and get in contact again. Little do they know, that the girl has cried rape and now he is being taken down to the poilice station.

It's a sad story and it happnes more and more these days.

Well there's this guy...

http://blogs.laweekly.com/stylecouncil/2011/07/anime_expo_2011_south_hall_eva.php

>>4668888
>no blue paint

>>4668875
Right, mate, she's not actually 14. If you read her post, she says she's 18 but LOOKS like she's 14.
Don't be stupid, read the story.

>>4668880
>Can we stop fighting
You are aware you are in /cgl/ right?

I hope you get everything sorted out OP.

>>4668878
My girlfriend left in the morning to get her train the first time we fucked. It happens. It was a one night stand and eventually turned into a relationship.

Just because you're so damaged and you have had bad experiances, doesn't mean it is the same for everyone else.

>>4668887
a guy being sad that the girl he scored with is none too happy about what happened should not take precedent over the girl's feelings, considering she's the one who could be pregnant. if OP were a straight dude freaking out over the fact that a guy might have fucked him while he was drunk, none of you would be saying it was his fault.

>>4668880

I dont see a desire for help other than finding this person, and honestly, a "tall Kamina" at AX that she remembers nothing else about leads us to jack shit, blue paint or not. I see a cry for pity, and in the end, all she will get is reprimanded for thinking that we feel sorry for her stupid actions.

You want help? I got some advice.

Stop drinking underage.

Stop making stupid fucking decisions.

Stop trying to seek pity from those that will obviously hold you to your actions.

I didn't go to AX/not a cosplayer, but here are some contacts that might be useful.

For Convention Operations Inquiries, please contact conops@anime-expo.org

For Cosplay Inquiries, please contact cosplay@anime-expo.org

http://www.anime-expo.org/contact-us/
http://www.sass-lane.org/ -sexual assault support services.

>>4668901
And that's not helping, because it's pretty clear that she's learned that by now.


OP, it's not the Kamina in this picture, is it? >>4666590
I'm strongly hoping it's not, but I figure it's better to eliminate as many as we can.

OP, you're not bothering anybody or spamming up the board. if anyone is bugged by this thread, they can hide it and continue scrolling.

is there anything else you can remember about him for a more detailed description? I myself am not at the con, but maybe if there's another distinguishing quality to him, someone will recognize who you're talking about. Did he have any of his own tattoos, piercings, a birthmark, scars, something?

feel better soon, btw. it'll be alright.

>stop drinking underage
Because alcohol stops working when you're 21.
Fucking Americans.

Fucking whore.

Stop crying rape after getting drunk and fucking some dude. Use your head before you go to bed, whore.

>>4668800

You are stupid, not everyones first time hurts like hell. What the fuck is that anyway I don't know anyone who has had that kind of experience. Off topic but fuck that generalization pisses me off for no reason

Wow, I came back and there were a lot more replies than I thought. Someone tried impersonating me earlier here so I'll use this crappy try for now.

I'll try to answer whatever stuck out for me.

I didn't know about the fluid thing. I am in pain though, and there was blood on the sheets, so I know I've been penetrated, but there's nothing icky. So if that means there was a condom used then it's at least more of a relief, but still pretty heart breaking.

He was giving drinks out to multiple people, not just me. I don't remember much about him aside from him being pretty tall. I just remember drinking a bit because I've never had before and I was being stupid with my guard down. I don't know how much I drank, it was intended to be maybe half a cup, but I really don't remember anything else. I was in my hotel room, but I had my hotel room number in my purse so I've no idea if I brought him to my room myself or if he just snooped around to find it.

And no, I didn't like him, he was just acting as a proxy and buying drinks if you gave him money with a small profit for him.

I'm going to the nearest pharmacy now so I'll update later.

>>4668909
Well no, but the US government thinks that you're probably responsible enough to drink when you're 21... Which may or may not be true.

if you're serious, go get plan B in the next day or two. or really, go to the hospital and get a rape kit done-- however if you've taken a shower already this may be pointless.

>>4668909

If you're over 21 and something like this happens, the alcohol doesn't end up working against you in the end. If you are drinking underage, then have something happen while drunk, then it doesn't help in the end.

>>4668915
you should probably go to the hospital if you haven't taken a shower yet and get a rape kit done.

>>4668915

You took a drink from a person you don't know at a convention. You're an idiot.

>>4668909
I think the implication wasn't that alcohol stops working at 21, but that you a) can get it yourself and b) are legally considered "responsible enough" to handle it. I'm more concerned with a at this point, since the OP said that the guy was buying drinks for her, meaning that he could have slipped something into it without her knowledge.

She confirms that here: >>4668915

Half a cup shouldn't be enough to black your memory out unless something else was in it. Given that he high-tailed it the next morning, I'm going to guess that that was the case.

I had this happen to a friend at a party when we were in college. The friends she went with stupidly let the guy who drugged her "help her back to the dorm." It really is awful after the fact, because telling the cops that your drink was drugged automatically discounts you as being a victim. If you were drinking underage, they consider you to have been "deserving" of being raped.

>>4668905
http://www.rainn.org/get-help/national-sexual-assault-hotline - hotline so you can talk to someone to process, they might be able to help you find a resource where someone can take you to the doctor to make sure you're okay.

You couldn't have know what would have happened, and I hope you're okay. I hope your friends are supporting you and that someone can help you figure this out. Please contact the convention or something. It sounds like you could have been drugged.

>>4668915
>he was just acting as a proxy and buying drinks

So can we assume that he's at least 21? Or did he have a fake?

>>4668915
That sounds like a date rape drug. Holy shit.

>>4668913
My first time hurt afterwards, and I was uncomfortable sitting. I know others who were sore afterwards. I actually don't know anyone who wasn't sore. Just because a small minority don't go through, especially if they've penetrated themselves with a sex toy, doesn't been it isn't a valid generalization. Chill out.

>>4668912
Yeah, because when she was drunk she magically made the guy's pants disappear, and jumped on his cock! The guy took advantage of the situation to get laid (not saying rape or not) and she's the whore? Please.

>>4668906
Not him. I realize this thread was kinda silly to make if I've hardly any information on him, I'm just really scraping the bottom of the barrel. I'm not looking for pity, I never wanted any either.

I just wanted any kind of help. Even the stuff here that's common sense like getting plan B and stuff is what I should have thought about but my mind is in such a mess that I haven't been able to think clearly about anything all day. My friend has taken the day off the con today to help me out a bit, but she's (she takes no offense to this because she realizes it) not quite the brightest person to go for this matter. All she can do is give me support and tell me not to tell my parents just yet until I get all the facts straightened out because she knows they'll probably give me hell and never let me go to another convention as long as I'm under their roof.

Really off now, my ride came while typing this up.

>>4668915
>>4668905
http://www.rainn.org/get-help/national-sexual-assault-hotline They can help your process and maybe help you find a resource group to get you to a doctor, for testing.

By the sounds of it, you were probably drugged. Please contact who was in charge of the convention asap and maybe they can help you.

OP:
- Get a drug test;
- Take a blood test (STDs and such);
- Take the morning after pill ASAP.

Good luck.

Wow, immediately jumping on the rape bandwagon? Yeah, lets destroy a guys life over speculation. Even if he never was to blame in the first place, a claim like that will follow him forever. I could name a dozen different scenarios that happened and by her saying she remembers so little, it's not worth saying anything but "you are an idiot for taking a drink from someone you dont know".

And thanks for everyone who posted, even the even the insulting replies. Getting a few slaps in the face kinda hurt but I think will help cement this experience a bit more in my head to learn from it.

>>4668915
I'm sorry this is happening to you, OP, but I'm glad you're heading out to the pharmacy now

ignore the assholes in this thread, okay? what happened isn't your fault and that guy is a creep for what he did. take care of yourself.

>>4668943
read the thread.

>>4668915

So, you remember nothing about him but the cosplay he was wearing and that he was giving out drinks? That's some selective memory there. Pretty convenient to remember that and absolutely nothing else.

>mfw it wasn't even the kamina guy who did it but he still gets blammed because he's the only guy the whore can remember

>>4668948

I did read it, what proof do we have exactly?

>>4668946

Good luck.:(

>>4668953

Exactly. There's no way to know one way or another, and if no one can back up her story or give some light to the situation, she's SOL on any sort of case.

This shit pisses me the fuck off.

I went out drinking at a club, hit it off with a girl, don't remember after that, wake up in her bed, leave cuz I have to meet up with my mother soon, next thing I know I'm being taken to jail for rape.

Thankfully the entire court room was smart and my record remains squeaky clean and I was able to counter sue the bitch, but it was still a shitty situation to go through.

OP I seriously hope you're not screaming rape because you got drunk and fucked some random guy. Don't put him through that bullshit because you made a choice that you now regret.

Unless you get drug tested and find a bunch of drugs that you don't do in your system, then put the fucking creep in jail and carry on with your life proudly, knowing you saved other women from meeting a similar fate.

>>4668858

There's a huge difference and you know it. The guy who was raped actually remembers the rape occurring, and he also, along with another male rape victim in that thread, got called pussies etc. The OP isn't really telling us anything, just that she got really smashed and woke up with blue body paint on her.

>>4668950
Need help getting that stick lodged in your ass out bro?

>>4668950
He was handing out drinks. She only intended to drink half a cup. That sounds like it *could* have been drugged. Then it would make sense that she didn't remember much after drinking.

>>4668959

...how is that a stick rammed up someone's ass?

>>4668943
bawwww the fuck harder.

It's not speculation anymore. I can guarantee you nobody is going to get blackout drunk from half a cup of alcohol unless that shit is drugged.

if he didn't want his life ruined, maybe he shouldn't have gotten himself into such a preventable situation. see how this works?

>>4668958
Shitty situation, but that's WHY you don't run out after fucking a drunk girl.. Or a least leave a note.

Anyway, she's not saying rape. She's saying she doesn't know what happened.

>>4668953
Such is life. Women bringing the good man down while the bad men get away.

I hope it was some really ugly std carrying coloured individual that raped her.

I love how all these butthurt guys are calling her a whore for screaming rape when...not once has she mentioned pursuing something like that. She only mentioned trying to find him. If someone took my first time and I couldn't remember I'd sure as hell try to find him.

You have to take a drug test. If you were date raped, you only have a few days of it in your system. I don't know about you internationals, but in America only 3 things constitute unable to give consent in court; underage, drunk/altered state of mind, and mentally deficient. Being under the influence of anything impairs your judgment (and likely motor skills) therefore you cannot legally give consent. Whether she pursues this as rape, or just meets her first time, is up to her.

>>4668960

If you've drunk alcohol before, you know that if someone has a low tolerance and drinks "half a cup", they get pretty loose, possibly mildly drunk and keeps going. It's the way the shit works.

So did anyone else have that happen? He didn't know her, she didn't know him, and he handed out drinks to numerous people. That means they were part of a group. No one else that was there with her could identify him? How did she get there in the first place? She claims to have no one know where she was...was she not in her room? Then figure out who is in that room. Was she in her room? By herself? At a con? That's a rare find, and I'm guessing her friends would have known where the room is.

This story doesn't add up, I'm starting to think this is more about "first time regret" than anything else.

>>4668915
>>4668915
>>4668915
>it was intended to be maybe half a cup

So how much did you end up drinking??

>>4668915

you need to report this immediately. It sounds like something may have been put in your drink. You didn't give consent, so you were raped. Call police, get a plan b one-step, get tested for STD's. It's very important that you call the police because at the very least he will be arrested for giving alcohol to minors and this won't happen to anyone else. The longer you wait the narrower the window gets.

>>4668974
Good point. Do you think this is a troll?

>>4668966

I was so hung over, and I was meeting my mom who was actually raped and needed someone to talk to. We were supposed to do it the next day, but she texted me in the club saying tomorrow when I was already smashed. Waking her up or leaving a note didn't really cross my mind

>>4668976
true, she might have started with half a cup, gotten buzzed and not remember drinking more till she blacked out. Could be a lightweight for all we know.....

jesus christ, can we victim blame a little harder here? stop trying to excuse the guy by any means possible. How about instead of expecting girls to never drink in public or wear revealing clothing or ever be by herself we, wait for it, expect dudes not to be assholes and show some fucking self control.

but wait! what about the poor man in this situation! he could have been drunk in this situation, or counter-raped, or somehow led astray! well never fear, cgl, I assure you the guy in this scenario will be PERFECTLY SAFE. why? because no one fucking believes rape victims when they come forward, and this thread is the god damn proof.

yes, I mad.

If you know what happened and are making this up, you need to realize the consequences of your actions if you try to claim something was done to you. This man could have his life absolutely ruined. He could go to jail, he could be on a sex offenders registry, and so much more. I can't tell you how many times I've seen this happen where the woman knows but tries to make something up to make herself feel better. If that's the case, stop it. Right now. That man's future and life is not worth trying to find a way to kill your own regret.

maybe late but dont shower (dont wash away any fluid) and go to hospital asap to get rape kit done

The first thing someone who has been raped needs to do is see a medical doctor. Most medical centers and hospital emergency departments have doctors and counselors who have been trained to take care of someone who has been raped. It's important to get medical care because a doctor will need to check you for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and internal injuries.

You should get medical attention right away without changing your clothes, showering, douching, or washing. It can be hard not to clean up, of course — it's a natural human instinct to wash away all traces of a sexual assault. But being examined right away is the best way to ensure you get proper medical treatment.

http://kidshealth.org/teen/safety/safebasics/rape_what_to_do.html

good luck op, it's natural to be scared so dont beat yourself up

I find it outrageously irresponsible to be suggesting to this girl that she was raped.

Law of unintended consequences, idiots. You're only going to make things worse, because as you keep repeating it, she's going to start to question whether maybe she was raped, even if that's a completely ridiculous idea. How does that help ANYBODY?

There is no reason to conclude she was raped. The only "winners" here are the smug assholes who satisfy their egos by insisting that OP was raped, because they "know" it's true. How do you know? "Oh, I just KNOW." Fuck you, Nancy Grace.

Care for her by building her up, not by tearing others down. When you chase some invisible bogeyman, we all lose.

Supposing she even did have sex with him, which it sounds like may have happened, we've all done things we've come to regret while drunk. Some people end up touching the stove to learn it's hot. Life goes on.

>>4668980

We went from this just being a cosplayer that she knew nothing about having sex with her while she was drunk into "he was buying everyone alcohol, giving out drinks (...what?), and he was the one that did it". Story is changing. I call bullshit.

>>4668983

Your attitude is one of the things that makes me extremely worried for many feminists who support things like Slutwalk, and here's why.

Of course, we're going to expect that normal, metnally healthy men behave responsibly and show some self control. But you can't go up to a psychopath, tell him to have some self-control, and expect that he's not going to rape anyone. 99% of men DO show self-control. The other 1% or so are sociopathic and no amount of feminist rhetoric or Slutwalk demonstrating is going to stop them from raping. They're not going to turn around and think 'oh, maybe I shouldn't do this', because they have no morals and no empathy.

If you expect that simply 'telling men not to rape' is going to stop rape, you are sadly extremely naive. We tell people not to become serial killers, but nutcases do it anyway. Mentally sound men will not rape, and the men that do aren't going to have their minds changed by a mere sociopolitical movement.

(and by 'rape' I mean actual, legitimate, completely non-consensual rape, not 'I got drunk and slept with some guy and now I feel guilty so I'm going to accuse him of rape'. For the record, it sounds like the OP could have actually been drugged and taken advantage of, in which case I feel extremely sorry for her and I hope she can find the guy and find out exactly what happened.)

I still think she's either lying or not telling us something. Far too much that makes no sense at all. Like again, if she was in her hotel room, she was in it by herself and none of her friends had a room key, or went back to the room for most, if not all, of the night?

Honestly, I don't think you can tell if she was raped or not. All that one tell is she had sex without meaning to, and is freaked out. I don't think it matters what happened, the guy doesn't have a name or can be identified so no one is being accused of anything.

But she still needs a morning after pill and to be tested and make sure she doesn't have aids now.

>>4669012
Both the girl and the guy have to be responsible. It's no one's sole responsibility. A lot of situations are 'so-so was a dick, but the other person made bad choices'. If you're going to call a girl a whore for having sex with a guy, the guy she was sexing up should be called a whore as well.

>>4668771
Yeah, I know him, but why should I tell you his name?

>>4668983
Shouldn't you be taking part in a slutwalk or something?


Anyway, the OP is gone (i think) to get the meds, people in the thread were both helpful and non-helpful.
OP already said that she doesn't blame the dude only, and that she knows that she's partially responsible, so the slut-shaming can also stop.
And feminist brigade, quit your propaganda, ignore the trolls and shut up for 5 seconds, the rest of the world will thank you.

Really late reply because posting was down.

>>4669012
>implying all rapists are sociopaths
>implying 1% of men are responsible for sexual assault, which has happened to a third of all women
>implying mental illness can't be treated
Stop with the excuses. Men who aren't mentally ill rape, too, and then turn around and use the excuse that they couldn't control themselves.

Also, blacking out after half a glass? Yeah, that's hard to believe even if OP is a lightweight.

All you assholes trying to say it was her fault are just trolling,get a likfe,because this girl is just asking for help,and people should help each other.I have never seen anything saying that people can't drink and get drunk when they want,and whoever that man was should have been the responsible one and had seen she was drunk ,and not have taken advantage of her.Whoever says that it's her fault,gtfo because she is asking for HELP not your stuck-up remarks or your stupid unhelpful opinion.She understands that she has done something wrong,and the only way you learn in life is through experiences.She undestands her mistake,now leave her the fuck alone.

Guys, GUYS. Calm your shit for Christ sake.

Anyway, for any sort of situation like this it's always best to assume the worse. (NOT about the rape, but about the condom.) Go take the morning after pill, go to a doctor to make sure you didn't contact any STD, try to clear your head and see if you remember anything. Try to contact this person and talk things out.

Personally I don't think you were raped. If you really did not want to have sex with him I think you would have tried to get away, which would have caused a struggle. Struggling would have caused him to hold you down, and I think you would have bruises or be sore because of it the next morning. But then again IDK, maybe you were, maybe you weren't. But don't cry out rape, because you don't remember and clearly you don't have enough evidence to support your cry. I don't think you're a whore though, you just made a mistake. Shit just fucking happens. Now try to be level headed about it and make the right decisions.

honestly I think you are very stupid to let this happne to yourself but what you are going through right now is punishment enough I believe..Anyway, maybe check here? http://www.cosplay.com/showthread.php?t=236424

>>4669031

Ma'am,

This board is full of garbage already. But you adding this shit before AX is DONE makes it all the more painful.

I give you on sympathy for your actions, you are a sad excuse for a human being, and my God have mercy on your soul.

Now, I found some awesome cosplay porn videos recently. So I am going to fab to those in piece.

Bo-yay!

Boo-yay!

>>4669058
Maybe even this guy http://www.cosplay.com/member/241401/

>>4669053
HOW COULD SHE GET AWAY IF SHE WAS DRUNK OR DRUGGED, DUMBFUCK

I hate everyone in this thread

Honestly, you people don't even think

Whoever says "how convenient you only remember him giving you the drink"
If she the drink was drugged then NO SHIT THAT'S ALL SHE REMEMBERS

You fuckers are the reason I hate people.

OP I hope you go to the hospital. Don't shower.
Go get a rape kit done, try and FIND THE DUDE AND ASK HIM WHAT HAPPENED. Not in person, try and find other contact info.
If something doesn't add up, then take legal action.

Good luck and godspeed.

I'd just like to say that OP posted this on /a/ first, and then they all directed her here, so, probably not a made up troll.

>>4669066
Cosplay porn is great and all but anyone have any con-sex videos proper?

Random hookups with strangers at a con is beginning to become a fetish fantasy....

>>4669031
Your friend doesn't have the manners to stick around for the morning after, and while he's lucky in that she doesn't think he raped her, he might not get so lucky next time regardless of what happened.

Buuuut I think you're trolling. I don't think you know shit.

>So I am going to fab to those in piece.
>fab to those in piece.
>fab
>piece

like most of the people on here (who arent trolls) say,go get yourself tested,and get a morning after pill.it's better to be safe,and to check for STD's at a hospital.You might see this guy later and talk to him about what happend and such.also,no more underage drinking!or not even that,just dont get so drunk your sleeping with blue people.

>mfw i thought someone was going to say they had sex with Matt and now they regret it.
>i have no face for my reaction to the actual content of the thread.

>>4668983
wait, are you saying that men should have self-control, but women should not be held to the same standards? Why is the girl not in the wrong for drinking (while underage) without making sure she had someone she knew there/knowing her limit (and if you are drinking for the first time, do it somewhere where you can safely find out your limit, not in some crowded place where you know no one)? If you drink and kill someone or steal something, you are not let off of the charge because "you were not in a correct state of mind". People need to take some responsibility for their actions, and be aware of the situations that drinking may put you in. If you don't like the possible consequences, then don't drink!
Now, I'm not saying that he should have had sex with her if she was passed out/said no, but if she hit on him and willing engaged in sex, she consented even if drunk. And what if the guy was drunk too? Did he still "rape" her cause he couldn't handle his alcohol? There is so much wrong with our legal system in regard to rape that I fear for future generations.

>>4669073
You dumbass this thread was made before the /a/ thread by 3 and a half hours. Clearly a copypasta.

>>4669072

You fucking know she wasn't drugged. Even IF she was, it's way too late for conclusive tests at this point.

Her best bet is to get tested for STDs, a morning after pill and stop making herself such a big damn target.

Even if it wasn't her fault in the primary focus, preventative measures can be taken to prevent stuff like this from happening.

Also, don't be a whore. As obvious as that may sound, some people just can't understand that rapists just go "MMMMMMM" at the sight.

>ITT Internet detectives

Wow, I should have said this earlier.

Guys, I'm not planning to hunt the dude down and get him buttraped in prison for a few years. I want to get in contact with him and find out exactly what happened and why he just left without any clues for me to trace him with. I may feel a bit bitter towards him for taking advantage of me, but I still don't know if he himself was drunk or anything.

If the drug test shows anything in my system, then I probably would, but I'm actually not going to jump to the conclusion that he right away eyed me out as prey and hooked me into his rape scheme.

I was really worried earlier. I've had time to calm down. It seems whatever happened, it was done with a condom (or he pulled out, whatever). I'd like to at least meet the dude that took my first time, even if it's just to talk about what happened and maybe exchange contact info.

It's just really scary to wake up one day not knowing what the hell happened and being too inexperienced to tell whether you're in really deep shit or not.

As an update, I did take a morning after pill. I did have to tell my parents about it for the drug test, and of course they were furious and probably won't let me out alone for a while. That's really understandable, I guess. I'll get over it eventually. Now I wait. I feel bad that I made my friend waste her whole day on me when today is the most eventful day of the con. But she said she really would rather stick with me than go off having fun and leaving me to worry and alone.

>>4669088

>>4669091
Hey OP try looking around the con for him.

>>4669083
she said she didn't like him. I doubt she hit on him.

drop the bitches and whores act, /cgl/, the guy drugged her and fucked her while she was passed out and that is wrong. if a hambeast or a gay guy did that to any of you, you'd lose your shit. it's no different.

hope you're doing okay, OP.

>>4669088

>>4669083
It has been said that they are BOTH in the wrong,you cannot blame one or the other.She was underage,yes,we know,but also it sounds like he could have drugged her , so you should not be blaming one or the other,because nothing is for sure.Again,she is asking to find him,she's not yelling rape.She is trying to be responsible and simply find him,as stated

>>4669012
Nobody's trying to stop rape from happening by feminist rhetoric and slutwalks. They're actually trying to prove exactly what you just said. You see, a lot of times if someone gets raped (or any negative situation really) people will look for ANY reason to blame them, since they don't want to allow the idea into their head that sometimes bad things happen to good people. SO, they'll say things like "yeah she got raped, she wasn't a virgin anyway." To make themselves feel better. Most people view themselves as good, upstanding citizens. If they admit that other good, upstanding citizens have horrible things happen to them, it puts them at risk, and they don't like that feeling.
So yes, no one thinks that by making it known it's never the victim's fault in a rape situation that rape will stop. However, they're trying to stop rapists from getting off the hook in courts because the girl was at a bar alone or was wearing a short skirt or had blonde hair

OP, I know you may feel like shit right now and fellow anons have given you advice but I think you have gone to the ER when you woke up so they could have done an exam and if that had been signs of penetration, requested a rape kit to be performed.

I don't want to scare you but one thing I would want to point out is when you get home, you may want to go to your doctor and start having blood tests or such done for STD ( consult with your doctor or the local health department in your area.) Also, even though you are underage to be drinking, please inform the staff so they know what is going on.

Granted you should have used better judgement, I hope that you will be ok and in good spirits.

Kamina, I don't know if you browse /cgl/, but I'm not out to press charges on you. I'm a pretty cool person and I really just like taking it easy. I guess I took it too easy last night and things got a little out of hand. I want to know what happened and hear your side of the story. I don't want to be forever left in the dark about what happened last night, it'd really relieve me to have some idea on what transpired. Please don't be afraid to drop me an email if you don't want to bring it out in public. I realize it's a longshot, but who knows, maybe coincidence will smile upon me today if you happen to let it. I pray that this message reaches you, and I'll wait for a response even if it seems hopeless.

Sincerely, Hakurei Reimu.

>>4669096

>if a hambeast or a gay guy did that to any of you, you'd lose your shit

lolwat

Why would I be in a position to where I would be drugged and raped by a hambeast?

Gay guys, however... Now that is an entirely different story. Hopefully he puts me in a skirt first and records the shit so I can make good use of it later.

Now, I'm not even gay for the most part ... but damn, a man can dream.

Guys, stupid decisions aside, she's handling this like a champ. Everyone calm the shit down. She told her parents, got emergency contraception, is getting tested, and most importantly TAKING RESPONSIBILITY. All things she SHOULD do.

Good lord people, take the semantics somewhere else.

OP deserves some credit for not falsely crying rape, unlike some of the whores in this thread. At least she can accept some responsibility instead of trying to ruin people's lives just to save face.

Meanwhile, the nutcases and manhaters are trying to put her on a guilt trip, make her paranoid, and make everything sound even worse than it is. If she were a guy, she'd be congratulated and cheered on for getting laid. But she's a girl, so you have to convince her that she's a victim and she's supposed to be traumatized. You should be telling her "as long as you didn't catch any diseases and make sure to take the pill, you'll be fine."

Some helpful facts:
1. Depending on the type of drink, half a cup can contain a lot of alcohol. This girl is a first time drinker (zero tolerance) and a tiny asian girl (very low tolerance). It's pretty easy to believe that she'd get messed up by light drinking, and that she'd continue drinking back at the hotel room.
2. I've seen people lose memory after nights where they were able to carry conversations, walk around, and take care of themselves. It can happen surprisingly easily to people who happen to have shitty tolerance.
3. Date rape drugs have more severe side effects than alcohol. It doesn't sound like any were involved, especially considering the group setting.

>>>/a/51423621

>>4669103

>Most people view themselves as good, upstanding citizens. If they admit that other good, upstanding citizens have horrible things happen to them, it puts them at risk, and they don't like that feeling.

Holy shit, it's like I'm really back in in my psychology class. I remember why I quit now; I was diagnosed with Depression and the responsibility was eventually targeted to humanity's patheticness.

>>4669127
I didn't make that thread, so you know. I don't know who posted that, but I guess it's better than I got a tripcode now. I don't really appreciate someone using this as copypasta, but I guess if it gets the word out then it's okay.

>>4669096
first off, i'm a female, and second, how do YOU know that he drugged her? were you there? third, how do you know she didn't find him attractive when she was drunk?

ultimately, people need to take responsibility for their actions. Don't get wasted if you don't want to sleep with a random person (don't get drunk surrounded by strangers either), don't have sex with passed out people, and don't try to blame every action on alcohol.

>>4669072

Clearly Anon I didn't say she got away. If she was just drunk though, wouldn't she had tried to get away? Date rape drug or any other drug, OBVIOUSLY not, but just being shit-faced drunk? Honestly I see more crazy and feisty shit-faced drunks then super calm and half passed out shit-faced drunks. If OP really was against having sex, she would have tried to get away at all costs, because no one wants to be raped. I haven't heard of many rape cases either when the victim didn't try to get away.

>>4669115

Dear, let me tell you something.

Inform the staff of the convention that you are in desperate need to contact one of the attendees for some varying circumstances and that you need him to have your email or something of the sort

They can't give you his information, I'm sure, but they may be able to give him yours.

There couldn't have been TOO many people cosplaying as Kamina there, so it's not like it's impossible.

If they ask for a reason, you can either me honest (which is most likely to produce results, especially since you're handling the situation with a class unheard of by most girls your age) or make up some bullshit excuse.

Either way, it's a legitimate route to pursue if you really just want to have a conversation with this guy.

No one wants to go through life unaware as to who they lost their virginity to, even this dude should understand that.

Oh wow, I didn't think I'd ever here from you again.

Well, it's not like I got you drunk or anything. You basically threw yourself at me.

I did use a condom, but I think it broke.

Oh well.

>>4669091
I hope you're doing okay sweetie. I hope everything turns out alright. My situation is different, I made stupid choices so I ended up alone with a guy and got raped, my parents were angry with me and I was grounded for breaking there rules, but it wasn't the end of the world. They forgave me.

Off topic, you don't have to be dressed as a whore to be raped. I was in jeans and a t-shirt. So yeah. You all saying it's your fault for being whore are just stupid. A guy taking advantage of a girl has nothing to do with how much of a 'whore' she is.

>>4669126
WOULD YOU ALL SHUT THE FUCK UP AND LISTEN.
STOP PULLING STORIES OUT OF YOUR ASSES.

>>4669134
learn to fucking read, dumbass, that was a general 'you'.

If you're so fucking worried why don't you just go to the damn police/hospital? They can check you for rape pills and if you got STDs.

/cgl/ full of retards.

>>4669133
How are you holding up, OP? were you able to get the morning after pill?

Just wanted you to know several STDs are for life and can get them even if the guy wears a condom.

L o L

>>4669153
lol gtfo troll

>>4669174
>implying OP isn't a troll

>>4669153
Don't troll about things like that. You know what. Just get a gun and shoot yourself. You're not funny and better off dead.

>>4668983
It is, of course, completely inconceivable that she ran off with him willingly. That couldn't happen, right? People don't do that.

One time, I tried brussels sprouts. I hated them. However, I didn't go back to the grocery store and argue that they raped my mouth. I just haven't had them since.

It isn't classy for the dude to have ditched her. Not classy at all. But, it isn't criminal.

Oh yeah, I remember you.

Pretty boring fuck, TBH.

>>4669179
SHE ISN'T SAYING THE GUY RAPED HER.

Fucking hell, can no one read?

>>4669133
>>4669133

>I don't really appreciate someone using this as copypasta

Well... You DID post it on 4chan, and it pretty trollish at first glance.

Still could be in my eyes, but given the real possibility that it isn't, I most certainly wish you well and want you to know that despite where responsibility may lie (I wasn't there, ergo I can't really say), you're not a whore or any of that shit, you're just human.

It's all a part of being human, just make sure you take better care of YOURSELF next time. That's, by far, the most important thing here.

Just make sure the heavens are the only thing Kamina's drill pierces next time and keep track of your alcohol intake.

Hell, it'll spread your legs for you half the time, even if you're essentially unconscious and talking in your sleep.

>>4669179
>However, I didn't go back to the grocery store and argue that they raped my mouth.

Wow, a whole lot of slut defense force on this board.

>>4669176
Considering how upset OP seems, I'm willing to give her the benefit of the doubt.
>>4669181
How about you hang yourself?

>>4669196
how about you calm yo tits? its 4chan and OP's trollan

>>4669177
>>4669174

Who's trolling

>>4669205
Based on her responses, I doubt it. What reason would there be for OP to troll in this case? She's handled herself admirably in the situation, compared to a lot of other similar stories.
What about OP's post makes you think she's trolling? Not mad, just curious.

http://youtu.be/tVZz1NnqOh8

>>4669218
>ax2011-picture23.jpg

THATS ALL THE PROOF I NEED.

+1 internets to you sir.

>>4669218
Wow, that Kamina looks like such a doucheclown.

>>4669225
Is that Maguma next to that Kamina. :/

>>4668915

>meet a stranger in cosplay that involves being shirtless
>accepts alcohol

If you're asian, enjoy your shame.

If you're white, good work, you are now a woman.

>>4669220
Friend goes missing for a night at a con, nobody is worried.

Wake up with blue paint on you and assume it was the Kamina, not the Avatar cosplayers.

>>4669218
Is that Maguma in that picture?

>>4669218

>>4669220

>handled herself admirably well
>blogpost on 4chan

why do i bother responding to tripfags
fuck

>>4669245
She probably posted here because it's anonymous and there are a billion cosplayers here. It's not like she can post this on the AX forums. I don't blame her for trying to get some answers.

>>4669245
...I'm sorry, what exactly are you trying to get at?
What I was saying is that based on her posts in this thread regarding her situation, it did not come off as a troll thread like others in the thread are claiming it is. Whether or not I'm using a tripcode doesn't matter in this situation, as that's not what this thread is remotely about - it's about the OP finding out what happened to her. NOT about me or any other tripcode user, except for the OP incidentally.

>>4669218
>ax2011-picture23.jpg
>MFW
This shit is just too perfect.
Bitch gets her v card taken by alpha kamina and he just waltz's in like he just doesn't give a fuck

And this is why I don't consume anything that would impair my judgement in an environment where people could easily take advantage of such.

>>4669258

You're either backpedaling or missing the point. The POINT, in case of the latter, is that writing a blogpost on 4chan, no matter how heartfelt, no matter the circumstances, does not meet the previous anon's standards for "handling it well." The fact that you think so means that you show the level of intelligence that the previous anon expects from tripfaggers. ie: none.

The fact that you thought it was all about YOU, as a tripfag, rather than how you fit in the expected stereotype of tripfags, lends some weight to his position, I'm afraid.

You fucking stupid tripfag.

>>4669269
You are retarded.

>>4669205
Well, I'm so sorry sir, that you didn't like my comments in response to pretending to be the guy in question and making insensitive hurtful comments. Let me try something nicer.

Please go stick your head in a oven.

>>4669218
If I got my v-card taken by that douche I'd cry rape too. Just saiyan.

Please tell me you are all trolling and you don't actually believe the guy in the picture is actually him. There were probably over 20 Kaminas at AX

>>4669301
we are gonna have to wait until OP gets back and takes a look at the photo

>>4669292

And that's why people who cry rape aren't taken seriously.

You ever read that one story about the boy who called wolf? It's like that, but no one dies, and there's a penis and vagina involved.

>>4669292
Dadada and there you have it. The fear behind every single argument in this thread.

To answer another question I saw somewhere in the thread, yes I was rooming alone.

I was going to share a room with my friends but my parents found out 2 guys (their boyfriends) were staying in there too and threw a huge fit saying they're willing to pay the extra costs to make sure I get my own male-free room. It's extremely ironic, but it's in the past now so I shouldn't get worked up about it.

>>4669151
Yeah, I need to get in contact with the staff. There are a lot of Kamina's though, and for all I know he's cosplaying different characters. I only have a vague idea of how he looks that really doesn't help me much. I don't think I can really identify him like this. My main hope is someone seeing a Reimu and Kamina couple or him seeing this thread and getting contact with me.

>>4669171
Yeah, I'm still shaken a bit but I'm doing fine. Tomorrow I'll go around and try to get more info and talk to staff and such.

someone need to archive this shit

>>4669274
>>4669274
0/10, here's why.
>The "blogpost" you were complaining about the OP making, in my opinion (while opinions vary) is a viable solution. As far as we know, she could have also made a thread on coscom or some other cosplay community site - what's the harm in asking here? There are a large amount of cosplayers here on /cgl/ that aren't on coscom or deviantArt or anywhere else.
Moreover, I think she's handling it well because she - if you read the posts - has been taking precautions after what happened - taking the morning after pill, informing her parents, all that. Instead of automatically jumping to "I WAS RAPED OMG OMG SOMEONE FIND THIS MAN SO I CAN SUE HIM" - which she explicitly stated was not her goal.
>You wrote "why do I bother responding to tripfags" as a response to my post, implying that because I am one, i'm classed in with the general stereotype of bad tripfags.
Can we please focus on helping the OP rather than bitching? That would help.

If this guy did in fact do ANYTHING, and just left, he probably doesn't want to even be recognized anymore, and took off his costume.

Assuming of course he isn't a retard.

I hope we''ve all learned something valuable today.

Taking alcoholic beverages for the first time in a large crowded anonymous area from a man with blue hair, wearing nothing but a cape and pants, is a pretty bad fucking idea.

Especially if you're not legally allowed to, because this removes some legal safety nets in the event something does goes bad.

GG NO RE

>>4669301
>>4669225

Here's another pic with me and my bro

>>4669316
glad to hear you're doing alright. good luck getting info tomorrow, too; I hope you're able to find the guy somehow.

>>4669322
This is the internet we aren't all the same white knights like you.

>complain that no one takes rape seriously
>call rape when they get piss drunk and fuck someone by accident
>call rape when they fuck someone and then regretted it
>call rape when a condom breaks
>call rape when you decide that you really hate your ex

Feminists, are you even trying?

>>4669312
actually most people don't take rape seriously because they think women are whores and sluts who always deserve it.

Reading this thread, I can only hope that this girl is a bitch I used to know. It would effectively complete her cycle of karma, too!

>>4669344

And most people don't take male rape seriously because they think the guy should be grateful that he's getting some.

People need to take rape more seriously, no matter the gender of the victim or the perpetrator.

>>4669316
I've been following this thread since i saw it on /a/, and from my initial skepticism to actually sorta believing you, i seriously hope everything works out for you and you find this guy.

>>4669337
>implying idiots who call themselves feminist while spewing bullshit are real feminist

>implying you aren't just another sad individual who is upset that men and women no longer wish to live in the cavemen days

>>4669355
>>4669352

Women /are/ all whores who deserve it, and men /should/ be grateful that they're getting some.

>>4669355
yes, that is true, but OP isn't male.

>>4669365
It's because of guys like you that I can get guys drunk and fuck them in the ass without having to worry about them going to the police.

Thank you for existing.

>>4669360

>wish that rape wasn't thrown around all the time
>must want to live as a caveman.

No, I just want people to understand that rape accusations are very serious and that by throwing them around willy nilly, you devalue it.

Women who wrongly accuse men of rape make the women who were raped look like liars. That makes it harder for the rape victims to be taken seriously, all thanks to a few bitter people after petty revenge.

>>4669326

it's buff kotick

>>4669380

>implying I'm a male.

But, please, continue. I love pegging. Send me a video some time. You dirty rapist whore scum.

Unless... Oh. You might be a dude. In which case, please keep the videos to yourself.

>>4669380

But I thought that getting someone drunk to take advantage of them was wrong. Is it only okay to do to guys?

>>4669355

>And most people don't take male rape seriously because they think the guy should be grateful that he's getting some.

No, it's because they're too busy lolan.

I'll tell you now; it's just human nature. Women are genetically programmed to be the pretty little princess and the men are programmed to mock and beat the shit out of each other until the strongest is decided.

All this liberalism and conservativism is only denying our nature; we're animals.

People are NOT going to change, and the best way to help people are in this situation is to ACCEPT THAT FACT and go from there.

It's simply the whole "alpha" thing. Guys want and need to feel it, so they'll desperately try to do it. It's pretty pathetic when they need to bring down others to feel it rather than bring themselves up. Anyway, women are the same. They want to feel "worth" it in ANYTHING they do, even rape.

That's the way DNA helps us to survive through natural selection. THE STRONG SURVIVE, even in our society.

It's mother fucking genetics; human nature, quit with the liberal thinking, it just makes things worse.

>>4669389

NO U

/cgl/, I'm a female but I self-identify as a gay male. If I were to go and get drunk, and accidentally bang someone, would that be rape?

don't listen to the trolls. YOU WILL BE OKAY. I'm sorry fellas, but the law in California at least (and most other places) states that if she was drunk she couldn't consent anyway. Sex with any girl (or anyone really) who is drunk is rape, you can't legally consent if you are drunk. It's a fine line, but according to the black and white world of the law it is. It may not be fair and sex while drunk can be a grey area, but it's true. So taking advantage of that girl over there because she's drunk, yup, it's, by the law, rape. Sucks bros, but it's true. This is why I don't drink, don't get drunk. I'll go to parties, but I'll just have my soda thanks. Seirously, don't know what's so wrong about sober sex, do you really have to get a girl smashed just to get laid?

>>4669405

Legally, it depends on how drunk you were; also wtf, you must have been one ugly-ass bitch.

>>4669400

>All this liberalism and conservativism is only denying our nature; we're animals.

I really hate this mentality. It's basically excusing any sort of bad behavior just because.

Animals shit on the floor and fuck in public. Animals rape. Animals eat each other. Animals steal. Let's just wallow in the mud and be shitty to each other because we're just animals. What the hell is sapience worth when you're just an animal?

Sage because this shit's off topic.

>>4669321
Just did. Maybe it'll help if no one recognizes the Kamina now.

>>4669409

>California

There's your problem, cops can't even use their fucking guns till they get shot in that retarded-ass state.

You can only be so Liberal until you're catering to criminals or criminalizing the wrong people.

>>4669411

It's people like you who make me scared to walk outside when I'm crossdressing. I hope you're proud.

>>4669415

I'm not excusing shit, it's still unacceptable. My point was that people try to pretend that we're vastly different in some way, but we're not and denying that just makes wrongful accusations and more complicated situations.

Also, nice sage.

>>4669418
From the midwest here, actually, not it's not just California, same here too.

>>4669420

>I hope you're proud.

Hell yeah, slut/faggot!

Seriously though, what does my opinion matter? Sure, I think you are probably an ugly mother-fucker but I won't get in your way of being happy. After all, happiness is the meaning to life.

Doesn't mean I won't call you a faggot, I might actually like you if you're man enough to handle it. If you just bitch, then I'll probably mock you.

Such is life as a dude, even gay. Get used to it, bro/sis.

>>4669422

There is a huge difference. Self awareness is the difference. I'm actually shocked that people seriously think that there's not a huge difference between a dog (that isn't conscious of the repercussions of its actions) and a human (who /should/ be conscious of its actions).

Seriously?

Also, holy shit. I must be the first person on 4chan to ever forget a sage. Better find a rope and a chair.

You mirin my sage?

>>4669400
So what you're saying is, men are no better than animals and thus, should be treated like animals? Hey, that's fine with me. When a man commits a crime he will be put down instead of jailed. And every male should be neutered once he reaches puberty, unless his owners are willing to pay a breeders fee.

>>4669432

Your "opinion" is hate speech.

>>4669438

That's... Sort of hot, to be honest. And we can sell the sperm of the most desirable studs. And have breeding stables.

>>4669436

This is true, but self-awareness often leads to willful ignorance.

We get so deadset on "right and wrong" and various other subjective things that only exist within our own, self-contained reality that we forget to think objectively.

As such, we poison our society with a bunch of ignorant "opinions" that we mislabel as facts. People forget that reality is an illusion and don't want to see existence for what it is, especially their own.

We're always greater than everything around us, like, in our own opinions bro.

>>4669439
In today's society, EVERYTHING is hate speech.

>>4669439

Your "opinion" is your "opinion". I got nothing but laughs here. If you interpret that as hate, why would you blame me? That's called "misdirected". If someone is that affected by someone else's opinions then it shows a lack of confidence and one with an inferiority complex must blame others, right?

>>4669452

So much enlightenment.

>>4669462

Such is as the great Buddha tells us. He also tells me that death is release from suffering... and I'm here to save you all!

Let me see if I get this chain of events correct...

>Under 21 girl staying in a hotel room alone
>Goes to a room party. ALONE.
>Has never had alcohol before, but accepts it from strangers
>Has no friends at the party to spot her first time drinking
>Wakes up the next morning, having had sex. Doesn't remember who it was.

I can't say the guy is innocent, but, goddamnit OP, you're a fucking moron. What made you think going to a room party and accepting ANYTHING from a stranger was a good idea? You're like a fucking lemming, no self preservation skills. Your parents should lock you in your room and chain you to a body guard whenever they let you out of the house.

The guy, if he took advantage, is not excused at all, but, seriously, you hear stories about this kinda shit all the time, you gotta take precautions and not act like a retard.

OP;
- did you only drink half a cup? What did you ask for?
- other than the alcohol bitterness, was anything off? Did it taste metalic or salty?

Unless your tolerance is super low (even for a non drinker), i doubt half a cup would black you out. If you remember it being salty a bit, it was likely G, or possibly flunitarzepam. Since G has a very short half life, it's undetectable after 12 hrs. Flunitarzepam however is detectable for a few days in urine, and with new techniques up to a month in hair.
That is, if you really wanna get tested.

Best decision would be to learn the lesson and just take an STD test and plan B pill. You can also start collecting any Kamina pix you find from the con in hopes of tracking him down. However, landing this guy in jail when he might not have even drugged you is lame. Maybe you really did throw yourself at him while you were tanked. What guy wouldn't take that?
Cali rape laws are fucking retarded.

I can’t believe that there are some many shit for brains /cgl/’s that believe this faggot OP’s trolling.

>>4669446
Not to keen on the whole selling sperm thing, but the breeding stables sound like a sure hit. Although I imagine it would be more like a harem sort of thing. Women paying to go mate with the strongest alpha in the pack. Can't you just imagine a bunch of bronze well sculptured Adonis-like men lounging near a pool waiting to be picked for sex by a big breasted Amazon like woman?

>>4669503
/cgl/ is mostly retarded whores - idiots taking this seriously

>>4669446

I have the weirdest boner right now....

>1 (MAYBE 2)/10

>244 posts

Damnit /cgl/. You're better than this. I'll assume you're playing along for the lulz. I don't think my heart could take otherwise.

Just saying this to the likes of Maguma and the rest of the tripfags that aren't cglchat2 trips...
Fuck off with this stupid shit. I knew you guys were fucktards to begin with but really?

>>4669527
>You're better than this.

Nope.

>>4669192
/cgl/ - Slut Defense Force

>>4669409
Not to mention, if the guy was handing out drinks without checking ID, he could get in big shit.

>drunk
>can't remember anything

Bullshit. Unless you went binge drinking to way past the point of vomiting, you know very well what you fucking did.

>Op doesn't want the guy in prison for rape
>Just buttmad (literally) about awesome Kamina cosplayer Pumpin'n'Dumpin her in the morning.
>Outraged that she didn't even get a number, since the guy was probably hot, and she would like to be plowed by him again given the chance, but with more remembering this time.

/end thread

I would like everyone to know in advance that I am a terrible person, and also a sociopath.

>>4668771
>touhou Reimu cosplay

And this is how I can tell it's all bullshit.

See you at the panel later today, OP!

And now I want to sleep with the next Kamina I see at Otakon.

But really? I'd like to congratulate the OP's willingness to be a calm and respectable human being.

>>4669316
The pure hatred in this thread makes me want to kill myself, to be honest. You're all fucking disgusting.

Someone is asking for our help so she can work out what happened to her. She might be dumb, she might be a troll, she might be a rape victim, we'll never know the truth. If any of you have a fucking shred of humanity about you, you'll show a bit of compassion regardless. There's no such thing as a slut. Having sex with someone drunk out of their skull is rape because you can't determine consent if they're three sheets to the wind.
OP, I hope you can move on. If this fuckwad raped you, I at least out of the cockmongrels here hope that whatever you choose to do works out for you and that you find peace.

As for the rest of you, Jesus fucking christ I hope I never have the bad luck to meet you.

>>4669807
>The pure hatred in this thread makes me want to kill myself
>on 4chan

Please do if this is what sends you over the edge

>Everyone assuming it's a girl
>Touhou cosplayer

This is clearly bro rape.

>>4669807

Assume that this is fake until OP gives details about the time up until meeting "Kamina" Only thenw ould anyone have enough info to help, anyway.

>>4669816
Yeah, yeah. I was around at the birth of the fucking internet, kiddo. I'm allowed to be horrified when /cgl/ is worse than /v/ and would rather be wannabe rapists than a little bit human.

>>4669837
>I'm allowed to be horrified when /cgl/ is worse than /v/ and would rather be wannabe rapists than a little bit human.

>Surprised that a board full of attention whoring/socially dysfunctional/sexually polarized/cartoon costume wearers are worse than 13 year old brats who scream about vidya.

No, you really have no right to be horrified. You should be expecting this. Most people in this hobby are quite fucked up.

Especially the girls. Daddy issues up the fucking ass.

This thread makes me glad that only a tiny fraction of "rapes" end up with the guy jailed.

If it was up to you girls every guy would be a rapist.

Girl here, please don't group all of us in with the paranoid morons please. Some of us understand that you can't cover up your big drunk mistake by calling rape. (not talking about you op. You people know who you are) After all if getting drunk then sleeping with some douche who will probably never call you again is considered rape, why are frat parties legal?

>>4669867
Because his dad owns a dealership.

>>4669867
You're intelligent.

>>4668858
That reminds me of a social experiment done on /r9gay/.
I did not see the thread about the guy getting raped by a hambeast, but it might as well be something similar.

Oh god, how I miss arcanine ;_;

>>4669807
>There's no such thing as a slut.
fucking lold. inb4 "they're just sexually hyperactive" bullshit

>>4669920
There aren't, slut is just their working name. They go by whore now.
The more you know.

OP I hope you were able to find out some info.

>(I'm 18 but look like I'm 14 or so)

Why do I have this feeling that it's the other way around?

You are a fucking moron and have no business being blackout drunk at 18. Dumbass.

>>4670296

it probably is.
Also,
>>4669807
Go fuck yourself and read what an intelligent girl has to say >>4669867

It shouldn't be rape unless;
- Girl is unresponsive
- Girl is being forced
- Girl is unwillingly drugged

If she's on drugs (that includes alcohol kiddies), it's due to her own decisions and the consequences that come with those actions. Girls know guys want to fuck. GIRLS want to fuck. Just because her decision making process is impaired by her own making does not make it the guys fault. If you offer pussy to a man, you should be prepared that he'll accept regardless of the circumstances. It's NOT the mans responibility to say 'no' unless he's a faggot white knight. You shouldn't expect that.

It's like blaming the death of a stuntman on a set on the production company when everything was done according to the book. Does not fucking compute.

Also, unless the man goes under a lie detector test of some sort, we will NEVER know whether she was conscious or not during the sex.

Stupid whore got what she deserved, stop bitching and playing the poor victim.

You can't assume she only drank one cup.

If her memory is hazy she could have drank more, that's why she blacked out and can't remember events well.

I'm not saying that's what happened, but still.

so many rape apologists!

it's even more sad since like 75% of this board is women.

it is never the victims fault. you cannot consent to sex while drunk. regardless of whether or not she admits that she was raped. SHE WAS RAPED.

Alcohol turns men into rapists and women into victims, god I love society.

>>4670346
>SHE WAS RAPED
If the guy was really, really drunk as well at the time could he also have been raped?

Like, mutual raping. Both parties could mutually ruin each others lives! Everyone loses!

Matt?

>>4670356
I've been thinking that while reading this entire thread, haha

>>4670321
Now that's just sexist bullshit. A man is expected to have sex whenever he can, and thus has responsibility in the situation? Being friends with a lot of guys, I know a lot of them resent the stereotype that they're sex machines with no self-controls. That's just a shitty invalid excuse.

Also, how can a girl be a slut or whore if she slept with one guy one time?

Oh, and for all the retards saying "you can not consent while drunk"
Go die, feminazis, odds are that they both drank and they both wanted it at the time.

>>4670346

So if they were both drunk, they raped each other?

Makes no sense.

First, if both people are drunk and they have sex and neither feels that they have been violated (feeling violated is not the same as feeling regret or embarrassment), then no crime has been committed. However, if someone does feel violated, then the culpable party is the one who actively engaged in sexual behavior or advanced the situation towards and through penetrative sex.

>>4670365

Yes, because we can TOTALLY make an accurate assumption based off of feelings.

Retard.

>>4670359
Feminism is the perfect example of a completely valid movement being gradually ruined by extremists.

I really wish the more rational members would form an offshoot of something like "Gender Equality" or whatever, because at this point I associate feminism with "MEN RUIN EVERYTHING".

>>4670365
>feels that they have been violated
No, no and no. If she said yes, then it's not rape.

>mfw when I saw this on the front page
>mfw when some stupid cunt couldn't keep her legs closed
>mfw when someone who can't handle their alcohol can't handle the consequences
>mfw when Kamina probably said "Who the hell do you think we are?" when dicking you

7/10, I laughed, I cried, it was better than Cats.

>>4670346
She went out and got trashed around strangers without a buddy to spot her. Yeah, it's not entirely her fault if the guy took advantage, but she deserves some blame for being a fucking MORON.

>>4670296

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought this might be the case.

>>4670382

you guys are worse than the "look at she was wearing, she was asking for it!" assholes.

Going to the bar he was buying the drinks from might help. Find out who was working at the time you were there and at the very least you might get a better description of him.

>>4670392
The OP seems perfectly aware that she fucked up

>>4670392
No. She could be walking down a dark alley in boston wearing hooker heels and miniskirt and it wouldn't be her fault.
But there is nothing suggesting that this was not consensual. Not remembering what happened after getting wasted happens all the time. If it's in her own room, odds are she invited him in. He fled the scene because he woke up next to a 14 year old (looking) girl.

WOMEN SHOULD NEVER DRINK IN PUBLIC. FUCKING WHORES
I also like tha everyone assumes this girl is crying rape. All she posted was asking if anyone knew him, cause she didn't remember anything.

You have to love the double standard here.

Girl goes out, gets drunk, wakes up with knowledge of a guy possibly fucking her, automatic thought is rape or she's a stupid bitch.

But if a guy goes out, gets drunk, wakes up with knowledge of a possibly girl fucking him, automatic thought is "he just had seeeeexxxxxxxxxx and it felt so gooooooooooood felt so goooood", without anyone considering rape. Not even considering the other things could have done to him.

If the girl isn't happy about it, it's either "oh you poor thing" or "you stupid whore"

But if a guy isn't happy about it, it's simply just "you're a faggot pussy"

The girl at least has people on her side immediately, the guy is an outcast from the start or people think he wanted it.

>>4669316
Something similar-ish happened to be OP, my parents didn't want me living off campus with some guys I would trust my life with, so I lived on campus and some guy in my dorm harassed me and eventually tried to force himself onto me.

I hope you're okay OP and figure out what happened. Get some therapy to work things out, no matter what you find out, it's still a traumatizing event. I hope you're family is supportive.<3 You didn't make the best choices, but there was no way you could have known they would have ended that way. And if he did take advantage of you, that's not your fault.
Best of luck!

>>4670408

And with that question she could have easily gotten him in trouble.

Better to be safe than sorry, even if its for other people.

>>4670415
>girl has people on her side

Lolwut?? That's the problem with you mens rights faggots. You're all delusional.

>>4670415
I'd feel bad for the guy.

Also note, girl being called a whore, etc.

>>4670422

Not really, because you just proved my point.

>>4670423

Yeah, if that situation came up in real life I don't know if that would how you really felt.

A lot of you guys need to get your priorities straight, comforting and offering advice to someone in peril should come before vindicating a lifestyle you don't approve of or calling out a troll thread.

OP made an incredibly boneheaded move but you guys are coming after her like it's not at all possible for someone to get caught up in the moment at a party.

People are only human, and this is THE quintessential party-abuse scenario; someone forgets to do something (have friends spot her) and/or a reg flag doesn't occur to her (stranger passes out drinks). It isn't just after-school specials, this happens to real people all the time.

Why hasn't OP posted a picture of herself? Other people that attended the con and might have seen her with the Kamina might be able to offer more info.

>>4670422
The idea of a man not being able to give consent because of alcohol isn't even considered in our society. I have no doubt the ratio of men accusing women of rape due to lack of consent (alcohol-related) vs women accusing men is incredibly skewed.

>>4670426
>assuming I haven't

Assumptions aren't nice. :/

>>4670440

Then I apologize. You're a very aware person with a very big heart.

>>4670427
>this happens to real people all the time.

And that's exactly why people that fall for this are stupid as fuck.
But NOOOO LET'S GET DRUNK, PARTY WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
Getting "caught up in the moment at a party" is exactly what everyone in the entire world warns other people about. If you still get caught in it, it's sad, but it's also stupid.

Next you're gonna feel sorry for some punk that threw himself off the second floor in a building because he thought it would be so rad to tape it and put on youtube.

>>4670455
Sue the architects for not designing proper safety devices and warning signs. Suing people is practically a national sport in the US, I'm pretty sure.

Eh, don't buy that. As a guy, if some girl is drooling all over me while obviously really out of it, I wouldn't take her "yes" as clear consent. Sure, drinking yourself silly is dumb but the responsibility should lie equally on both parties.

Here's my opinion.
She shouldn't have been drinking with a guy she just met, especially with no friends around and no previous experience with alcohol/most likely really low tolerance. That's a no no. Even though he was in the wrong for giving her alcohol in the first place, she could have said "no."

However I don't think its right to go "oh you deserved it, whore" when a girl wakes up and doesn't remember what happened the previous night, probably lost her virginity and may OR may not have been drugged. Silly move to make? Yes. Still traumatic as hell? Probably.
That's pretty darn scary. She's not crying rape, isn't trying to call him out and press charges, she just wants to discuss what happened for herself and meet the guy for some closure. How that makes her a NASTY GROSS SLUT is beyond me. Yeah, she made a stupid decision, but still. Maybe he was out of it too, who knows? She was dumb, he was dumb. Hopefully she wasn't raped/drugged.

Having sex with a drunk girl is essentially the same as rape.

I have some pictures of Kamina cosplayers that attended AX 2011. I'm debating with myself whether to post them or not. I don't want to implicitly accuse any innocent person of rape.

>>4670656
>Having sex with a drunk girl is essentially the same as rape.
No. Go away.

Hey op I'm at ax, wanna get drinks sometime?

>>4670656

wow my opinion of you just dropped by a few thousand notches.
Go fuck yourself. It is YOUR responsibility as a drug user to understand the drugs you're using. If you fucking know for a fact that a particular drug lowers inhibitions, why would you cry after when you did something uninhibited?
If she was not passed out or did not try to resist then it is not rape.
Your opinion is garbage. Learn your substances.

Bump limit is the only mod that does his job.
I hope he shouted something about drills piercing. I hope it was hilarious and clever.
Eat shit seagulls.