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06/14/11(Tue)23:51 No.4594966>>4592187 It's
not always by choice. It's easy to get out and have fun if you have
friends and they live reasonably nearby. It's even easier if you have
money to spend.
20-somethings with no social lives are becoming
more common, and most of them aren't just lazy androphobes. if you cant
find a job (look at the unemployment rates) then you dont have money to
go out and have fun. and chances are your friends are as broke as you
are, if you still have any after high school when everyone starts moving
away and going to school. it's great if you're in college, occupies
your time and helps you meet people, but what if your family can't
afford to send you to school? and for young people that have to support
themselves, chances are they have a short resume and can't get anything
better than a crappy fast food or cashier type job, and since those pay
so badly, they may have to have two jobs just to pay their rent. then
you don't have time for much of anything besides work and sleep.
Yes,
I know a lot of people surpass all those difficulties. I always hear a
comeback for every reason I can give anyone for why my life is the way
it is. I know some people work AND have a social life, or go to school
AND have a part time job to fund their hobbies, and so on and so on.
those people should be proud, but luck is an element too. some of us
just have really really shit luck. and yes, we can change our lives, but
no one said it's easy. |