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04/25/11(Mon)19:47 No.4391632The
rapes...are much more difficult to say. I don't know each girl's
individual story but telling someone you've been raped is hard, and on
top of that, he's scary, has friends who cover his ass, and
manipulative. Then there's the way people act if you say you're raped. I
know mine (I'm not sure I was raped, I tried to make him stop, he said
don't you dare make me stop in this scary way, I screamed stop and was
terrified to say anything else, went along with anything he wanted or
lay there).
I was 15, too ashamed to tell anyone, and he told me
if I did, I would destroy his life, and he'd kill himself. I couldn't
face the prospect of someone's death being my fault. So I didn't tell
anyone for years, and when I did, I was accused of a lot of things,
including that it couldn't be rape if I didn't call the police on him.
Plus,
with some of these girls, if they had been underage drinking, they're
scared to go to the police, because they don't want to get in trouble
for drinking. Then to finally get up the courage to talk to the police
and usually get brushed off...it doesn't feel worth it for the girls
unless they report the crime as soon as it happens, and the girls are
such a wreck as soon as it happens.
The best thing to do is to
report it, and hope they at least put down this guy needs to be watched
out for, but it takes a lot of courage to open up about. Police are
strangers on top of that. The way the world, and law system works, it's
just easy for these guys to get away with it. |