i was bullied, My gameboy was my only friend.
;_;

Did I just grow up in like, Rainbow Paradise Town? Yeah kids were jerks sometimes but no one went totally out of their way to piss on another kid's parade. Everyone was just chill and hung out with their group and did their thing.

Except the black kids. They all kept starting gang riots and stabbing each other and punching teachers. But generally they were laid back. It was just those roided up football players starting trouble.

Yes, I was bullied.
I got suicidal for a while, then discovered alcohol was my friend and started to chill out. Every once in a while, I get a friend request from one of those people and laugh.
I am not much of a white knight, but will generally tell people to cut that shit out.

I was bullied in middle school. the usual reasons - not being "black enough," not watching BET, liking anime instead, being awkward, tall, lanky, etc etc. felt bad, man. On the plus side though, it really fucking does get better. the girls who used to pick on me all have kids now. and they all have a good 50-75 pounds on me. they like to comment on my cosplay pictures and shit and talk about wishing they could go to cons and I'm just like why? you bitches know this is the shit you used to pick on me for liking, right?

>>3681821
>I got suicidal for a while, then discovered alcohol was my friend

Oh man... That doesn't sound healthy. You're a pretty cool guy from what I've read on here, but alcohol shouldn't be your buffer.

>>3681796
I used to cyber bully my classmates before it was cool. :3

>Be awkward kid
>Get bullied/harassed for years
>Don't care, keep doing my thing
>Get told to defend myself
>Learn self-defense
>Still do my thing
>Junior high
>Two douches corner me
>Try to beat my shit
>Break some teeth and bruise a nutsack
>Get off with self-defense
>Never get harassed again

Pacifist now. Did what I had to.

In eighth grade a bunch of sixth graders cautiously approached my lunch table and I told them to scram because I thought they were mistaking me for a teacher since I was taller than most of them at that point.

I later found out that the rest of my class had told the new sixth graders that I was a test, and if I liked them then they basically had divine protection until they hit eighth themselves.

I'm still not sure if that was a cruel prank or if the rest of my class actually believed it, but the one sixth grader that stayed at my table turned out to be a pretty cool bro for a kid his age and he never got bullied the entire year. So was I the bully, or was I the bully deterrent? I never did much of anything to scare people and never really paid attention to what others said about me, so I have no idea where the reputation came from.

tl;dr shit was crazy, I was some 6th grader's divine protection from bullies and I never lifted a finger.

>>3681816
it was like this is my High School too. Everyone was friends with each other and everyone was chill. Goths, preps, band geeks, theater geeks, jocks.. whatever. They all got along.

The only people who bullied others were the kids who got in trouble with police a lot and got plastered off their ass every weekend. But they all hung with each other and no one really liked them.

I don't believe any of this shit. Actual bullying is something made up by media to create conflict in tv shows and movies. I've talked to all my friends about it too, and they similarly call bullshit.

There might be a level of ostracism going on, but that's not bullying.

I think people might have bullied me, but I'm too socially awkward to notice these things.

Some people tried to hit me once, but I fell over and, boohoo, knocked them into the wall. That was in sixth grade, some weird rumors flew around about how I "beat up some guys" but... Well, that's another story, which doesn't have anything to do with me, actually, but relates to me being clumsy.

>>3681843
I won't lie. If I was in your situation I would have gotten a sick kick out of it..laughing the whole way.

I was never directly bullied. Moreso I just never stood up for myself, made bad choices in regards to friends and allowed myself to be treated like a carpet. I mean the people my "friends" considered to be losers turned out to be some of the greatest people I've ever met.

If anything it made me a better person. I don't take crap from people and I've learned to make better decisions.

In middle school I had a good (if small) group of friends who were dorks just like me. We all read dragon books and were obsessed with animu and had an "RP" book we'd pass between eachother.

BUT
There was one girl who took every opportunity she could to harass, embarrass and upset me. She'd grab my lunch and hold it over my head. Steal my books and throw them to her friends. Make fun of my hair, my clothes, my (rolling) backpack. Granted I was a dork, but she made middle school (especially 7th grade) hell. I began pulling out my hair in stress, scared my parents and gave her another thing to make fun of since my hair looked wierd. No teacher ever helped me, and much of the bullying was done IN class.
FUCK middle school was awful. She went to high school with me, but I barely saw her. High School was amazing. I got "better" and had great friends. Now that I'm in grad school I hope she's broke and preggo somewhere. >:[

Yeah, highschool. Women are evil.

How did I handle it? Not great. I was sensitive. I'd hide from them, spent some sad times eating lunch in toilets and shit like that. I did have some friends, mostly guys. However they just sucked out my confidence.

Well, it's made me a stronger person since. It's why shit from /cgl bounces off me so easily. It's not like I have to even mentally tell myself not to let it bother me.. it just doesn't. I won't tolerate anything of the sort now, if I see behaviour like that I will call someone out on it.

>>3681821
>Every once in a while, I get a friend request from one of those people and laugh

Haha, same.

I wasn't bullied.
Once in a while, some prick said some stupid remark, but I wasn't sheepish and I didn't back down.
Some fucker wanted to start shit, I ended it.
I had more friends than enemies though because I defended a lot of people too. Big Jersey Shore meatheads always tried to start something at my school, but whenever I saw people getting made fun of, I told that asshole to fuck off.

Not gunna lie though, I thank 4chan for making my comebacks a lot faster an easier D:

I had this tough girl attitude though because I was a hockey player until through middle school, so I acted like I was a badass because I would get into fights. I was also 5'6" by 4th grade and I'm 5'8" now, which isn't crazier tall, but for an 9-10 year old, that's pretty intimidating.

I also had help from family. One time some asshole tried saying something stupid to me while I was washing my dad's car and my 6'4" 250 lb. brother heard it and walked out with a baseball bat.

I wouldn't call myself a bully though, I never started fights, but I hated watching people walk all over others. I was the whiteknight up til middle of my senior year when I just stopped giving a fuck.

Then art college, began to just stick to a select group of people. Whenever I get called "hipster" or "gay" for going to art school, I really just reply back with "troll harder faggot". Kinda lame, but confuses people and gets them to shut up.

I was bullied in elementary school by a classmate who also went to the same babysitter as me and lived a few houses away. I could never get away from her. Because of the proximity, she had no problem finding out my secrets. I remember that I got my period at the baysitter's, that girl found out, and then used the fact that I was the only girl in the grade with a period to ostracize me.

That was the only school I went to that really had a 'popular' clique. Every other one was like >>3681816's, where everyone got along pretty well.

>>3681854
Well maybe not in your clique. But I've seen A LOT of bullying at my school. One of my best friends has Tourette's syndrome. While she wasn't full on bullied to her face, kids would laugh at her and talk just loud enough to where she could hear them. They'd mimic her sounds and laugh. Teachers would even give her a hard time about it thinking that she was purposely being a distraction.

Just because you don't see it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Yes, I agree that Hollywood has put a cliche' spin on "Bullying" but it does happen and is serious.

A lot of boys in my highschool made this utterly cliche' after school special bet that they could get the ugliest girls to go with them to prom. A few girls fell for it and they were genuinely happy and excited. It was heartbreaking to see their hopes get so high only to be crushed...

Girls can be just as mean, but they do it in a sneaky fowl way. Believe me, I've been on the side where the girls would target a girl and manipulate her. It's horrible.

I always bully my friends only if I am comfortable with them but it is out of friendship not out of hate. I have a cute face and only bully guys and they know I do it not to be mean (but I admit I often got out of line, my cute face helped me out a lot) LOL.
I have a horrible personality though, from egoist to apathetic, you can name it all :(

Didn't have very many friends in HS.
Minor issue w/ leg which effects the way I walk, get made fun of and picked on alot.
I seem sad for some reason
Parents make me see psychologist
Lonely as fuck, everyone seems so much happier. Does everyone really hang out and like each other?

Think I've made a pretty tight group of 6 or so friends my senior year! : )
We hang out everyday and exchange phone numbers and all that stuff.

Summer rolls around.
I texted each of them... Maybe once a month so I wouldn't seem annoying, asking if they wanted to hang out sometime. Most of the time I got no reply or a quick 'ok'.
I guess these people aren't really my friends huh?
Jokes on me...

I was suicidal when I was 7 years old, if that gives you any indication. There was this group of kids who made it their purpose in life to follow me around everywhere i went, every single day, every spare moment they had. Lunch, recess, before and after school. they had nothing better to do so they followed me around shouting names and insults, setting up things for me trip over, and so on and so forth. never hitting me, because that was the only thing that would cause a teacher to interfere. i begged the teachers and principal constantly to make them stop, and they decided it was my responsibility to make them stop. they said if i ignored them, they'd go away. if i got upset and yelled at them, i was only making it worse. well i told them i'd been ignoring them and it wasn't working. they still couldn't be bothered to so much as TALK to the boys. my parents complained over and over, and the principal, being the asshole he is, said they could come to school and supervise kids at recess. as if they didn't have jobs.

it was a long time before i finally retaliated. i let them follow me to a desolate corner of the yard where no teachers could see. i went fucking APESHIT on them, poked their eyes as hard as i could, bit them hard enough to break skin, pulled their hair, one boy i tried to rip his ear off. they were gigantic pussies so their response was to run away, and the ones that didn't get away in time took the full force of my bottled-up fury. i have a clearly burned image in my mind of the boy whose ear i tried to rip off, sobbing like a huge baby while a teacher tried to console him and shot me a dirty look. i was taken to the principal's office and barked at for what felt like hours about how it's never okay to hit someone.

the boys that teased me were never punished. i had a reputation from the incident that followed me until about high school. everyone said i was the girl with the anger problems.

>>3681905
The only character that I can be proud of is: I always help my friends.

I was never bullied, but I've stopped people from bullying people from calling them out on their shit. Didn't like it then, don't like it now.

My whole life I have been overweight well, not my whole life but starting when I was about five and began to live with my grandparents. I have also had depression since I was about that age as well, though I was not officially diagnosed with it until last year. My parents were divorced when I was four and my sister and I lived with my father until I was five and we began to live with my grandparents. Around that time he had gotten into an extremely bad car accident and was unable to walk and care for two little girls on his own, so we moved in with my grandparents since my mom was a dead beat at the time. Living with my grandparents my sister and I began to over eat and I began to act out because I was angry with my parents for no longer being together, which then lead me to feeling rather sad and made me eat more. My grandparents being older and black saw nothing wrong with allowing me to stuff myself with delicious soul food. My father (who had always been athletic, and fit until the accident) had not thought about the consequences at the time.

All of that has to do with my bullying which came from the fact that I was very fat in school and kids are mean and would make fun of me. And as many people who are overweight know being made fun of makes you turn to food for comfort, yet eating is part of the problem. I also had had surgery as an infant and was not supposed to run around a lot because activity could lead to a head ache which could possibility lead to me having to have another surgery. So I got bigger and bigger and was made fun of even more.

>>3681917
that all being said, i hate bullies. they're the worst children that can possibly exist. if i have kids someday and find out one of them is a bully, i will flog their pathetic hide and drag them to the person they bullied and make them apologize. our school system is so fucked up beyond all reason they refuse to deal with this shit, because it's only bullying to them if it's physical harm. these sick little fucks need to have the sense knocked into them before they grow up to be the scum of society.

Was bullied up until my sophomore year in high school. For any retarded reason: my glasses, braces, hair style, clothing, who I was friends with, who I had classes with. They really looked for anything to pick on me with. Did all sorts of bullshit from pranks, rumours, throwing basketballs at me during gym to even elaborate pranks, theft, and beating the shit out of me.

I dealt with it for a while because they were turning all their attention on me instead of my friends. So I endured it to protect them all. Come High School, I just plain got tired of that shit and had my cousin teach me how to defend myself. A bunch of the guys who loved bullying me the most got me when I was walking home after school and started shit. I tried to talk them out of it and a fight broke out. Broke two of the guys' noses and nearly broke one guy's arm.

They called the cops and I explained it was entirely self-defense from their attempted attack after years of bullying. After a bit of investigation, I was found innocent and they were sentenced to a month in juvie for assaulting myself and three other girls from the school.

Felt good man.

Well, I was that fat, ugly, weird girl from about 4th grade up until 9th grade. I was always ridiculed, ostracized by everyone I came in contact with, and had a few rumors spread around about me, etc. I was a very hateful person for a long time, and looking back I'm not surprised I didn't get even more ridicule through middle/high school. I also did a little bullying myself.

I stopped holding grudges a LONG time ago against people who regularly picked on me (once I went to a psychiatrist and found out how severe my depression was and got some meds!). They aren't evil or bad people, they're just human. I found out recently one of my prominent bullies in elementary school was beaten by his parents daily. A lot of other people who ridiculed me have had a lot of bad things happen to them over the years. Feels bad, man. I used to hate these people, but I don't get mad anymore. I just feel sorry for them.

I made friends with everyone that bullied me because I acted like a bro.

And then we talked about video games.

I'm a girl, just for reference.
It was mostly jocks that picked on me back in the day, because I dressed well enough that most of the girls respected me, which was weird...

I wasn't always chill about it though, I used to retaliate back in middle school. Once you gain enough confidence to joke around with them, handling them is really easy.

Used to be bullied, called ugly as well as things like "The Grudge" and shit (because I had long black hair??) within hearing proximity. Also, they would call my name and laugh when I turned around. Felt bad man.

Sophomore year I dyed my hair brown, cleared up complexion, discovered makeup, fashion, and eyelid tape.

Apparently people don't pick on you if you're pretty.

>>3681942
>Apparently people don't pick on you if you're pretty.
this is bullshit. I've known plenty of girls who were no where near "ugly" and got picked on/bullied.

Never was physically bullied because I was always a foot taller then all the kids in my class. But yeah I was called all sorts of names and it hit me hard because I had to go home every night to a broken family and the only peace I had in my life was the 5 hours I got with my dad after school every Monday and Wednesday. After that I went home to an alcoholic mother and an abusive step dad. I would then just wake up and repeat the same thing for the next 8 or 9 years. I then went to high school where I broke down and could no longer function in society because kids were that cruel. I started cutting myself to get my mind off the traumatic events that I had never dealt with. I was sent to Rehab on the 5th of October and that began what would be the next three years of my life in and out of rehab just because I couldn't accept myself and accept the fact that I couldn't control others. It was a nasty time in my life. I got a year behind in school and I had to burn a lot of bridges to get better. I'm now living with my mom and step dad who haven't changed but I now know how to cope with their behavior and to just eat the dirt so that I can graduate this year and move in with a friend.

I always wonder if maybe I wasn't bullied in school it could have been a safe place for me instead of an insecure place for me.

>>3681957
I want to give you a hug... :(

>>3681827
I know that feeling of "not being black enough" Seriously I'm mixed, and I have the weird look where people don't know I'm half black unless I tell them most people assume I'm Hispanic (I know there are black Hispanics), South Asian, or Middle Eastern. Anyways, I lived with my Black family (because my white family were for the most part racist ass holes) and so when I first started school I went to the black kids, but because I sounded "white" they wanted nothing to do with me. I shrugged that off and stopped caring because I went to a mostly white school. My younger sister though goes to an inner city school and is made fun of every single day for not being "black enough". She has no friends and it's so sad because she's a very sweet, pretty, little girl.

>>3681957
I'm gonna guess you will kill yourself within the next 2-3 years. cool story bro

Why does OP's picture reminds me of the curb stomping scene from American History X?

>I was bullied in middle school. the usual reasons - not being "black enough," not watching BET, liking anime instead, being awkward, tall, lanky, etc etc. felt bad, man

Heh, kinda like me expect I was (and still am :[ ) a fatfuck.

From middle school up to I wanna say the end of my junior year, I got bulled. Because I wasn't being the typical black person (I wanted to you know, NOT be a fuckin' stereotype. Not be a fuckin Nigger/Coon/Darkie)

The niggers at my middle and high school fucked with me because well, like I say earlier, IWasn't like them. I also didn't have the cool shit like and I didn't grew up in a ghetto or hood (because my fuckin' parents didn't waste their money on bullshit they don't need).

I also talk kinda unusual (my fault on this one because I could had actually slow down my speech if I wasn't too fuckin' lazy) so that was a good target for the bullies. If only I would just slow down on my speech and talk clearly, I could had avoided this but alas. I was stupid.

I honestly consider bringing a kitchen knife or buying a gun from a guy to kill the lot of them. Ah well.

>>3681971
Don't be such an ass. Suicide is not funny.

>>3681957
Minus the cutting I'd have sworn you were my boyfriend.

I was bullied obscenely heavily, especially for a female from about 7th - 9th grade, by which point it began to fizzle out. I had very bad buck teeth which required three years of braces to fix, I was hilariously skinny and stringy looking with big glasses and developed late in comparison to other girls. And I would dare say that it was BOYS that were way more vicious to me than the girls were. (But the girls still did their fair share.)

I was bullied to the point where I probably still have mental/emotional damage from it to this very day. Kids in my school began exploring their sexuality really early also, and I was considered "disgusting" by and large, but I didn't mind too much because I didn't like any boys in my school anyway. It would have at least been nice to be treated like I was a human being though, which I wasn't.

One of the more noteworthy things that happened to me was a group of "popular" boys convincing a nerdy boy to go tell the principal I had a gun in my backpack. A few distinct boys in my school really tortured the hell out of me honestly, and if I didn't have a positive relationship with my father and brother, I would probably despise men.

The girls were actually less vicious towards me, albeit still very condescending.

>>3681979
it's very funny to me

>>3681979
don't feed the trolls.

one thing I've noticed is that kids who bully..their parents are also usually pieces of shit. Kids who bully grow up to be miserable too. Just something I've noticed. Kids who were bullied grow up to be successful and happy.

>>3681963
Thanks

>>3681971
Nice try troll but I'd never do that again. I love life, I love myself.

>>3681981
Aw sorry sis but I'm gay. Glad you're boyfriend is through all that now though.

I was a fat surly goth chick who didn't like to shower.
And I never got bullied.
Maybe it was my penchant for kicking dudes in the nuts..
I probably had shit talked behind my back all the damn time, but meh.
Oh wait, there was one short ugly little asshole who would try and say shit like "LOL UR ART SUCKS" and shit like that, but I ignored the retard because I wasn't a fucking pansy.

>>3681992

THIS. Well, it seems that way most of the time. This is why I get angry with people who want to "get back" at people who ridiculed them in elementary school. They try to make it seem like their life is horrible when they have great families, and a very comfortable life. It's pathetic. One of my 'friends', who is 20, still dwells on wanting to beat up kids who made fun of him in 3rd grade.

Anybody who tried to bully me got made fun of mercilessly, and moved on to easier targets.

Only need to be faster than the guy behind you.

If that guy happens to be a friend, you of course continue to make fun of the bully mercilessly. It's less ethically and emotionally compromising when they're picking on somebody you don't care about.

:| I was just bullied for retarded reasons in jr.high,
-got called margarita for who knows what reason other than my name is Marissa, or they'd roll the r :/ i'm italian and i'm really not sure what they were doing
-this one girl would make fun of every action I did no matter what it was, one example is shouting loudly in class about how she was going to mark one of my questions wrong because my handwritten g apparently looked like a y :/
-made fun of my clothes of course
-a few times I was made fun of for eating quickly because I was hungry
-I have a very screechy sneeze and sometimes it's really squeaky, but non-the-less it's loud
-I used to get hiccups in math, only math
-in my first year at that school people thought I was a boy because my mom cut it short
-was called carrot top because my mom screwed up and dyed my hair orange
-I used to get nose bleeds a lot in gr.6/7
-I was also made fun of because I have full pouty lips and so they'd make duck faces at me, and say I had DSL
much more than that.
but the main people who made fun of me, the girl's siblings(all 5 others) are all from different fathers, she had awful acne, she was fat, everyone talked behind her back because she always wore this pink thong and everyone could see it when she sat down

the main guy who bullied me is now a fat douche who can't keep a girlfriend :/

I'd be kind of amazed if there are any girls here who didn't feel bullied in highschool. I'm not poor, not a minority (except for being female), not ugly, not fat, didn't have skin problems, wasn't gay....and I still had the "popular" girls on my ass all the time.

They didn't ever go after me physically but there was always that feeling that they were talking about you behind your back. Because they always were.

I was bullied pretty terribly when I was in elementary school. I had stones thrown at me and spat at. They would threaten to call the pound, called me "mutt" and would go "shoo!" like they were shooing away a stray whenever I came near. Sometimes, they'd follow me around and bark at me.

I was teased for having a fatal allergy to peanuts. They used to offer me candy that had peanut butter and then be like "Oops lol I forgot!!" or they'd eat something with peanuts in it (while pretending to be me) and say"Oh no! I'm gonna have a seizure!" while twitching and shaking until they fell out of their chair and played "dead". My other classmates would applaud and cheer.

By the time seventh grade rolled around I got tired of being bullied and made fun of. I decided that if I was going to be hated I would rather it be because I was a cunt and not because I was a loser. I became bitter, angry and hostile towards almost everyone.

I was still teased, especially once I came out as being a lesbian, but I felt better because I was dishing out just as much as I was taking.

I don't regret anything terrible I've done or said because I learned valuable lessons from it. Most of my peers still think I'm "weird" but idgaf. I'm happy with myself and am finally beginning to build up some self confidence. It isn't what it could be yet, but I can look at photographs of myself or my face in the mirror without wanting to cry or feeling an overwhelming sense of self-loathing. Now I'm a nice, good person now and finally see myself as being average to pretty. Sometimes I think of myself as beautiful.

Yeah. Then I noticed a bunch of football, basketball, jocks, etc kept trying to sit near me to copy me.
Also there was this one mexican gang in the school who kept trying to become pals with me for the same reason.

It wasn't horrible bullying but enough to interfere with my school work. So I told my ahem "study partners" that some dudes kept giving me trouble and I was going to start falling behind.

That shit ended QUICK. I was the reason 3 star players had the grades to stay on the football team and 1 on the running team (guess what our school was good at?) and they weren't about to let some punks fuck up their chances at playing.

After they took care of business, everything went back to normal pretty much. They were pretty bro with me and tolerant of the fact that I was pretty much a recluse the entire time I was in high school.

After HS, I met my grandpa on my mother's side. Holy FUCK. I grew up a bitch because my father was an abusive alcoholic so I didn't have much of a fatherly figure but here comes scarred grandpa. He was a hard ass and didn't give me slack for being related to him.
Best lesson learned?
Men don't take shit nor do they give shit to those who haven't started shit nor do they stand when others are taking shit for no reason. I will make that old motherfucker proud one day.

I was bullied pretty heavily from 6-8th grade and only lightly so in HS.

I was new to town and had spent the whole summer playing n64 and watching cartoons so my social skills weren't exactly the best. I tried to be friendly and talk to people but they just used it as an excuse to make fun of me.

First of all I was a pariah in my middle school because all the other kids listened to rap and pop and I listened to Nu Metal. Secondly, I tried to dress punk/goth (but didn't know wtf I was doing) and I was fat so my dad didn't allow me to shop in the juniors department.

Basically I got picked on for being socially awkward, fat, and poor.

There were only two or three guys who actually bullied me, but a lot of the bullying came from the girls. First I got bullied for not wearing a bra in 6th grade (flat as a board, didn't see the point), then when I grew boobs over the summer they came in large and I got bullied for that. I have been accused of having fake tits since I was 14.

The girls did a lot of the picking on the fatness. They'd throw food at me and would try to physically overpower me (yeah because 90 vs 150 lbs is gonna go over well).

I don't remember a lot because I've blocked a lot of it out, but basically it boiled down to having no emotional support by the end of 8th grade and having suicidal thoughts and desires. My family was emotionally abusive, the counselors and teachers turned the other cheek on it, and I had no friends. There was no hope, but at the time I was getting into anime and as sad as it sounds it was what saved me because I was sincerely trying to find ways to kill myself.

Needless to say people who torment others can go die in a fire.

Ironically I like to troll fags on the internet, but I'm not one of those raiding assholes. I just like to play devils advocate/stupid when I troll people.

yeah, I got it in elementary school and part of high school. I have/had pretty terrible OCD which will become a factor in some of this

>elementary school
>fat kid
>perfect quiet student, never said anything to a teacher beyond the answer to a question
>volunteer to help younger kids with homework after school
>constantly picked on
>called names
>about 6 or 7 guys made it a person mission to flick my ears/face whenever I was in a line or in class
>never tell a soul or respond, OCD tells me God would punish me if I fought back
>still let those guys cheat off me just to be left alone
>graduate with buttload of awards from school, go to exclusive high school that none of them could get into, think things will be better

then

>high school
>still fat
>everyone is cool
>one crew kid makes it his personal mission to fuck with me
>same shit as other kids with flicking me or slapping me when I was at my locker
>twitchier now because OCD is worse
>made fun of because someone finds out I am afraid to curse
>eventful summer
>lose 40 pounds on top of growing about 6 inches in 10 months
>now taller then kid and just as in shape
>OCD snapped first trimester back, now I say whatever I want to whoever and do what I want within reason
>become popular kid in school relatively, teachers like me because I still respect boundaries but have some witty back and forths with them
>kid stops all his shit

cont (wow I must be mad)

Never got bullied, got into a couple of fights though.

I don't understand how anyone can let themselves be pushed around.

>>3682037

that fall

>mom asks me to go to church with her (lol that is a good place for a crazy kid who just got over his absolute fear of God)
>Mass is over
>elementary school bully is there
>mom walks over to say hello to his mom
>"wow anon, do you play football or something"
>just stare at him, avoiding pent up rage which would cause me to sucker punch a guy in a church

I am not 6'4" 210 pound /fit/izen and 80% of my bullies are chubby guidos now. I should be content to let it go but I think if one of them ever pushed the slightest button I would probably go apeshit on them.


oh, I left out that I think the guy didn't like me because I was from a poorer county going to his rich school, but that is just conjecture

>>3682023


>>3681982 here. My bullying really phased out in 9th grade, by 10th grade people left me alone, and by 11th, people except for a small handful who were famous for being douchebags were actually pretty nice to me.

Even girls who were previously cruel and dismissive of me were a lot more polite.

>>3682008
This.

I was angry and mean in highschool but that was mainly because I grew up in a small community and most of the people who were calling me "dog face" and shit like that stayed with me all through out gradeschool and still tried the same crap.

Was I unnecessarily mean to some people who didn't deserve it? Yes. But I'm not going to toil away over what was done to me and what I've done to others. The most I can do is learn from those times and move onward.


The funny thing is that last month I was in Starbucks and one of my old male classmates from elementary school recognized me, approached me and started hitting on me. He hugged me and said we should "hook up sometime" and all I could think was "You once tried to force me to wear a flea collar." It didn't hurt and I wasn't bitter. I just thought it was funny and remembered that kids could be cruel, myself included.

I've met other people who used to treat me like shit (and vice versa) and we've made peace with each other as well. As a matter of fact, one of my good friends used to tease me in highschool. I was just as bad back to her, but we get alone great now. We've let bygones be bygones.
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I was bullied in middle school. I'm a tiny little thing now, even tinier then. Always the shortest kid in my class for the longest time. (Well, tied with another since 3rd grade, who funnily enough turned out to be a second cousin but didn't find out until a couple years later--our grampas were brothers.)

6th grade had a guy (tallest in class) tell me I was too short to be in 6th grade. Didn't stop him and his friend from trying to copy off my school work.

Found out a few years ago that he got shot and killed. Sure, I hated him at the time, but I didn't hate him THAT much.

A hambeast girl liked to bear hug me. Thankfully my locker was right by the door of one of the coolest teachers in school, so she helped reduce those crush fests.

7th or 8th grade some other girl decided she absolutely despised me, don't know why since I tend to be quiet and keep to myself. At one point I was tripped in the hallway and all my stuff went flying in front of me. People saw the fall but no one saw who did it. ;_;

Thankfully in highschool I was just "the girl who draws/reads in class, with the loooooooooooong hair" and while I still got good grades, the almost "teacher's pet" attitude some gave me went away. (Because paying attention--well mostly--getting good grades, behaving, etc, totally means I suck up.)

I was the easy target type I guess.

>>3681942The Grudge
what was this like 2 years ago?

jesus i forget how young this board can be.

I hope everyone here who's been bullied and is female has read Onani Master Kurosawa

HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLIES

Bullies do what they do for one simple reason. They can get away with it. 9 out of 10 LGBT kids get bullied? Well whoop-de-doo! At my school, 10 out of 10 of ALL kids got bullied. Some of the bullied kids just grew up to be bullies themselves. But there's one simple way to deal with them. Make them know they can't get away with it. Are you being bullied? Here's what you do.

Walk up to your bully. Say nothing. Just keep walking up to them, ignoring anything they say. And when you're close enough, punch them in the face as hard as you can. Don't stop there. While they're still in shock of being punched, punch them again. Knock them over, flat on their ass. Then you kick them. Kick them while they are down. Tell them, with each kick, “do not ever fuck with me again.” Then walk away.

When the teachers, or principals, your parents, or even the police come by, admit everything. Don't be afraid, don't be shy, don't feel guilty. When they ask you why you did it, you look them straight in the eye and say this: “When you saw me being bullied, your eyes were blind. When I asked for help, your ears were deaf. Now you ask me why I had to do this? Because you let it happen to me. You let them do this to me. You basically told them it was okay. I told them bullying me is NOT okay.”

They will yell at you. They will punish you. They will try to make you feel guilty. They will try to convince you that you are a bully. Take it. Accept it. Smile on the inside. Because they are mad that you alone did what they would not. Know that when you step back in school or work or wherever you go, that bully will know one thing. They will know not to fuck with you ever again.

I went to an academic program at Yale University called Explo.

I was sexually harassed constantly by a male student who showed me his boner and kissed me (Me being a pussy didn't want to hit him because I wouldve been kicked out of a VERY expensive program my parents kindly sent me to).

After I took a shower, I went into my room. These french girls BURSTED into my room and pointed and laughed at my naked body. I hid in the showers for a while because they locked from the inside and nobody could get in through the top or bottom.

People accused me of trying to convert their friends to Buddhism (how the fuck can you do that?)

They laughed when I prayed, they called me names, etc.

I hope those people get raped repeatedly wherever the fuck they came from.

gary....

>>3682026

>>I was teased for having a fatal allergy to peanuts. They used to offer me candy that had peanut butter and then be like "Oops lol I forgot!!" or they'd eat something with peanuts in it (while pretending to be me) and say"Oh no! I'm gonna have a seizure!" while twitching and shaking until they fell out of their chair and played "dead". My other classmates would applaud and cheer.

That's pretty fucking low even for kids. That's shit that will make someone kill themselves.

>>3682048
Imagine you are a quiet timid person. High school for me was a scary enough prospect in itself. Having large groups of people make fun of you, or one at least and others laughing, on a constant basis, is enough for anyone to lose self confidence to such an extent that they feel they can't stick up for themselves.

It's a mindset really. You become so terrified that logic goes out the window. It's one of those things though, that unless you've suffered it it's hard to comprehend. A lot of people don't get depression for similar reasons.

I was more or less a bully in elementary school, but I like to think I never crossed the line from annoying into cruel. I do remember feeling bad for some kid that my friends were picking on, so it's not like I just fucked with everyone for no reason.

I became bullied in middle school and high school, but not to a terribly severe extent. It was mostly just drug addict/criminal types that fucked with me once in a while.

>>3682064
Anon, seems like you just took this out of a page from Ender's Game.

ILU for it.

I was bullied a lot in middle school. My eye turned inward, I had dark freckles, a baby front tooth still, wore hand-me-down clothes and so I had no fucking chance in hell.

I even tried to bully someone else hoping that people would leave me alone and that didn't work. Ended up kind of friends with the girl, but we just didn't have many things in common. We would help each other out though. (I still feel bad for even trying.)

High school was okay at first. I had surgery to correct my eye and my mouth and I was allowed to dress the way I want. Which...set me up a new problem.

Even with dating men, because of the way I dressed, strangers assumed I was a lesbian and at my high school, gay people were treated really badly. I was harassed every single day between classes and at lunch. Honestly, anytime I was alone. Nothing really physically though...just shoved into things.

I began hiding in the band practice rooms during lunch and just cry. When rumors started to go around saying that people saw me making out with my friends, that's when I lost it and changed my look. I changed my hair color and the way I dressed completely. (I didn't want my friends to suffer because of me.) Because these people didn't really know me...they didn't really recognize me and left me alone.

That was almost 20 years ago and today I still have trouble allowing myself to wear the clothes I feel comfortable wearing and that think I look sexy in.

Pic related. The kind of clothes I rather be wearing than all the stuff I own. And yeh, I see chicks wear similar things all the time. . .but where I grew up it wasn't normal and I am having trouble getting over it.

>>3682064
That's ridiculous advice.

The simple way to deal with bullies is to ensure they get no satisfaction. Grow a thicker skin.

Bullies are just real world trolls.

I Still look down on ugly people..
And fat people..
FUCK THEM!!

This kid in elementry school grabbed my ass, and I chased him around the schoolyard beating him with a stick.

I got in trouble, no police involved.

This kid called me and my friend lesbians, so I ran into the gym room screaming his name ready to beat the living hell out of him. My gym teacher had to hold me back.

I wasn't bullied, just ignored.
I'm sure I was talked about behind my back but I never heard it. The most I got was that I was told that I'd get a gun and gun down my school "like those Columbine freaks" since I wore a trenchcoat. Told the teacher on them and wasn't picked on again. I wore it 'cause i was "HOMG SO GAWFICK" and if I had to balls to, sure I'd gun everyone down then take myself out. But alas.
I look back and kinda wish I didn't take that route. My friends and I kinda went through the same gothic phase but different paths. 30% had liberal views but still upheld positions in our highschool activities board, 40% were "gawfick" but went to school functions like normalfags and the other 30% didn't go to shit, didn't participate in anything until Senior year. I went to prom and homecoming dances and wish I had done that all that time. I wish I was in track doing shotput in Freshman through Senior year but I didn't know about it. I enjoyed it so much. I wasted too much time.

>>3682089
>(I still feel bad for even trying.)

I still feel bad for even trying to bully her to begin with, I mean.

I was teased for having curly hair and then for being a GAWTH (deserved that part) but still it hurt.

No one phsyically got into any altercations with me. Being intimidating helped , I suppose.

but, when they finally started throwing food and shit at me, I flew off the handle and went to beat the kid up. >__> They sent me home and my Ma took me out all together. Got put into a home school program a different district offered.

Definately was.
I was the shy awkward girl who tried to hard to be friend with everyone in junior high.
Come high school my "best friend" suddenly decided she didn't like me and spread all kinds of things about me that weren't true. Among them were:
-I was a lesbian
-I went up to her and demanded a birthday gift. (which was funny since I could care less about birthdays)
Her hypocracy was disgusting since she'd go around pretending she was a good Christian girl when she'd have a new boyfriend every other week. Sadly she was popular and I was just "the friend" so when she turned against me every girl in my grade decided to make my life hell.
The worst thing girls do to each other as another poster mentioned is manipulate you.
Or worse..be fake nice and set you up for a fall. If you dare get defensive they can take the "I was trying to be NICE to you and DO YOU A FAVOR" bullshit.
One of the worst things they ever tried was they got a popular guy to pretend to flirt with me thinking I'd fall for it and then be crushed when they pulled whatever it was they were going to pull..unfortunately for them I wasn't an idiot.
People at my school were cruel..they'd vote a totally unpopular person to Homecoming court so they could make fun of them.

>>3682093

I am
>>3682037

I'm sorry, but I don't think that will work all of the time. I was a reactionless husk of a child, and for three years the same people would do the same shit to me and laugh every time. If you have a punching bag, why would you stop using it?

I know that I was bullied in middle school and I remember having a meltdown on the bus ride home in 7th grade, but I don't remember much of it. It wasn't as severe as what some of you guys went through, though. My brain has just squished all those memories flat so I can't think about them anymore.

One of my former bullies did die when I was a junior in high school. He'd stopped to help someone with a flat tire and was hit by a drunk driver. I wish it hadn't happened to him, though. It seems like he stopped being a jerk after middle school.

>>3682066
... okay... people accused you of trying to convert them to Buddhism! WOW is all I can say. Honestly, I've never met a Buddhist who has tried to convert me, but there are countless Christians of all denominations who have attempted to do this to me. Out of curiosity how many of those people tried to convert you. Also I would have sewed that guy's ass for sexual harassment and did my very best to ensure his life was ruined.

I never had people fuck with me at school.
Something about my appearance I think- through middle school I stopped being the good girl and flipped a switch. I was an evil motherfucker, so the way I carried myself I think, generally made people think twice about messing with me even if I was still a friendly person. Also I sharpened my nails, and I cut someone with them once I was pissed off. (<-- that was probably a bigger factor)
In high school I didn't really get any shit unless it was from some niggerfaggots, but they don't really count cause all they do is talk- and they're pretty easy to ignore. Everyone else was cool.
I was never bullied at school, but at home was a different story.
My mom met a guy when I was 4 or 5. This guy had anger issues, high blood pressure (he's a fatty mc fat fat) and a war vet (he's OLD) this bunch came with a fat step daughter. If there was anyone who I ever considered bullying me, it was her. She would tease me from everything being bad grades (because she was OH SO MUCH SMARTER than I being in 'smart' classes) to the way I looked, to my best friend. She's stupid white trash, i'll have you know. From the time my mother made the horrible mistake of them getting married to the day they packed up and left, I wanted to QUIT every day of my life and run away. My vow is to annihilate her on sight if I ever see her.

>>3682129

It was in CT (I live in VA) My dad wanted to get the police involved and everything but the Dean was a total fuckhead pussy. Both me and my dad made all of the Yale staff cry or freak out.

I wanted to kill myself. It would have been easy, there was a rod above the showerhead.

But I thought better of it, thank god.

And an answer to your question, many people told me I was going to hell.

My response? "Good thing I don't believe in hell, and if I did I'm sure I'd see you there"

Up until seventh grade, I had the shit bullied out of me. It was a small school, and I had no friends. I got teased, harrased, sometimes even beaten. It was terrible. And it was mostly because I was different. I liked anime, I drew a lot, I was kind of sensitive. I was an easy target. And yes, it hurt. But it toughened my hide. I moved away. Middle school and high school were much easier.

I'm not a fan of bullying. Yes, I make mean comments and can be somewhat of a bitch, but I try to not make a habit of it. I've been there, and it sucks. I do my best to not be a good example of "shit rolls down hill", you know. But maybe I'm worse then I think? I hope not...

>>3682017
also because of the bullying, by gr,8 I had gotten quite chubby from gaining about 30lbs(I had been around 110lbs at 5'5-5'6 to 140lbs and 5'6-5'7 size 8-10)after I moved on the second yr of highschool(dad was transfered) got my shit together, I dress well and I'm 5'7 118lbs dress size fo 2-4

>>3682109
My Sophomore year of high school they voted me into home coming court to make fun of me. And this guy who was super tiny. I remember it pissed this popular girl off because she was like "THEY AREN'T TAKING IT SERIOUSLY!" and she even cried. Needless to say I was pissed off because of this and knew what they were doing. I told my dad, his reaction was "Okay well lets get you a slamming dress, get your hair and make up did up good, and we'll make sure you have fun anyways." And we did that, I ended up having fun with my friends, and no one actually made fun of me as far as I know. That was the last time anyone ever did anything mean to me too.

>>3682093
It worked for me. "Violence is the problem, not the answer," right? Most bullies only keep doing it because nobody stops them. Once they get a taste of their own medicine, they're often too scare to do it again, at least to the same person.

When eight people ganged up on me, four holding me down, since that's how much it took, and the other four kicking and punching me, they had the biggest mouths. But then, when I saw one of them alone and was willing to have a fair one on one fight, the other guy folded immediately and started crying bitch tears. Suddenly when he didn't have the clear advantage, his big mouth shut right up.

I had never really been bullied until I hit university. I broke up with my ex at the beginning of the year. He's at the same university as me. Nearly all my friends that know him don't like hanging out with me because of all the shit he talks. He hit me a few times and says snide remarks whenever I see him. He yells at me sometimes and tells all my classmates shit about me.
Now it's coming up to exams, I've failed one paper and am likely to fail another. I'm changing my degree so I don't have to be in the same building as him.

I have depression now and I'm too scared to go to class because I might see him walking around. Seriously thinking about suicide, I don't want my life to be this way but I don't know how to change.

tl;dr I'm a pussy push over who's too scared of her ex to go outside.

>>3682162
do you go to Complete Idiot U?

>>3682162

I would tell the police, even if they don't do anything you still told them.

You get him in front of everybody and you embarass the fuck out of him.

They usually stop after that.

>>3682162
This is also ridiculous.

How the hell can you feel so low? Come on, pull yourself up.

>>3682162
you're in university :/ go to the dean if that asshole can't grow up, tell them he's harassing you and it's causing you distress to the point where you can't concentrate. At the least he'll be forced to shut his mouth

>>3682162
You, my dear need to get a restraining order if he's actually hit and/or threatened you and if it's affecting your school work
AND you need to alert your campus PD and tell them what he's been doing to you.
Leave a paper trail in case something does happen.
Don't let this shithead ruin your life.

>>3682154
This happened at my school, too. The freshmen football team nominated this bigger, chubbier girl. She was so upset by the joke. The school called the football players' parents, though, and word is they all started crying in the office. But, I hope she made the best of it. Hey, you're on homecoming court! Rub it in their faces, right?

>>3682066
Holy shit I went to explo too what years did you go? I'm so sad you had trouble there, I remember the french people there were douchey but they never talked/interactived with anyone except other frenchies.

>>3682162
Most universities have free counseling services and professionals who can help you.

Also that is harassment. If you speak to the counselors, they can help you with him. Worst case scenario you'll switch schools. It's really not hard, and it's not like you're leaving anything good behind right?

I was bullied throughout my life until high school. I lived in another country and was constantly bullied for being different. (American, lived in Canada for 6 years) After I moved back to the States, I was constantly bullied for my weight. (fat chick here). I notice now that I have no sympathy for kids crying about bullying now. I should probably have some sympathy because I've been through the same thing, but I don't. May be related, but I also suffered abuse in my home from my parents.

>>3682197

Oh my gosh, wow!

Um I went this summer o.o;

>>3682172

Nah, I'm outside of America.

>>3682173

I've tried. :( Police in my country don't really consider it harassment until he does something in public with witnesses that will testify. I've also notified campus security but they basically told me to stfu and get over it. I'm not normally shy at all but in the last three monthes I've become painfully so.

>>3682176
Thanks, really. I have no family who I can turn to and nearly all my friends have fucked off. But honestly anon, it does help saying that. I really need to just force myself to get over it.

>>3682162
Stand up in front of everyone and tell them he has a tiny penis and that's why he's so angry.

PLEASE DO IT. Hell if you're leaving anyway, you might as well. I'd do it for you if I lived anywhere near, lol. What a douchebag.

I wasn't bullied, but that's because my older sister was friends with every mexican in the school, so if they picked on me, my sister would send literally send in a personal army.

It was kinda odd having her run protection for me, considering the last guy who tried to pull some shit ended up with me in Hand cuffs on a assault charge.

>>3682206
Hon I think you are over it - he sounds like the one with issues letting go.

Hope things work out for you anon. All my exes died in horrible..fiery...slow burning...car accidents. All of them.

I was a bully and i was bullied.
The bullying that was done to me involved students telling the teachers that they were afraid i was going to try to kill them because of their gypsie heritage, because they were black or whatever other reasons. i was actually surprised the one had Gypie heritage. I spent countless days in the office having them look through my things, confirming that time after time, i was a very average teenage boy. I think the worst things i ever had on me during one of these searches was a condom, and then another time, some gum. (picture, THE FACE OF A KILLER! lol )

Looking back, i think they were mostly afraid i was going to do something gay to them. (we're all out of highschool now, but about a year ago, one of them saw me on college campus and asked if i was interested in them. hah, because they're totally my type after all that, right?)

From preschool to the middle of freshman year I was bullied horribly. The worst was probably in 3rd grade a set of brothers (one in 4th and one in my class) threw a rock at me and nailed me in the center of my forehead. Ended up with a mild concussion and they had their father called in to pull them out of school, pretty sure he beat the hell out of them because it was the last time they did anything physical to me.

It finally stopped in highschool after I punched a new kid in the face in the middle of science class. He sat directly behind me and would repeatedly stab me in the back of my neck with a pencil to the point where I was bleeding at times. Finally after he ignored the teacher and was sent to the office a number of times for it I finally spun around and nailed him as hard as possible then stormed out of the class. He was suspended for a week and I was just told to try to not have a repeat performance in the future.

I was in the gifted program and knew the administration through youth group related activities so when I did finally start defending myself I never had an issue as far as consequences go and once the bullies realized it they backed off almost completely.

>>3682162

NO ONE should be bullied at university level. That is unheard of.

to everyone in this thread, be honest if you take part in the harassment of this one

http://pixyteriyaki.deviantart.com/

do you think what goes on here is different? if yes, how so?

Can't say I was ever bullied. I went to a public school where you were basically with the same group of people constantly. There was bullying in lower grades but the teachers were pretty good about handling it. I had braces, glasses, awful teeth, i was chubby, the works. I got older and just stopped caring. Someone once discovered my folder full of art and I somehow became awesome? I thought more people drew in my school but I suppose not.

I ended up selling some of the shit I drew to classmates, just tried to be nice to everyone. There's always going to be those girls with too much money and parents that don't care about them so they take it out on others. It's really sad. They stayed in little cliques from 5th grade up to senior year. Pasting their cars with GO INSERT MASCOT AND SCHOOL NAME HERE and wearing shirts with _____ pride! etc. Honestly, I don't understand why you can have pride for a school that you don't really like going to- let alone it makes you look like a complete dumbass once you graduate wearing a senior shirt. Anyway.

I've seen people get bullied- the generic tiny nerd guys with star wars belt buckles, play WoW on the computers during class. I ended up being best friends with some of these guys and they ended up completely fucking up my school's network and computers and spread a schoolwide virus because they were bullied off campus and the staff said it's none of their concern. Many lulz were had. Some of these kids are now interns at high paying IT places. I'm so proud of them. If only I could be so lucky...I work at godamn Game Stop :(

pic unrelated it's just neat.

>>3682190
That's what my friends all told me to do, and I did my best to do it. Plus that girl who cried was a total bitch and I hated her ever since we were like three yeah I've known her that long). It's okay though because our senior year she screamed at a girl in the hallway because this girl was too poor (seeing how both of her parents had been laid off) to afford going with the rest of the soccer team to an over priced restaurant for prom. That's when everyone saw her as the bitch I knew she was and she ended up loosing a lot of friends because of it. My also called the cops on her during her graduation party seeing how there was underage drinking, and they were speeding through our neighborhood while drunk (she lived next door to me). She bitched at me on Monday about it too.

Is it bad that tall of that makes me feel good?

>>3682204
Oh man you're such a youngin, I went around 04-07. I can't believe the people would treat you so terrible, when I went there the worse I got was just rich white people ignorance/slight racism.
Ex. A guy had a huge crush on me for two years at explo and he found out I was black and he almost had to stop himself from saying ew.

>>3682307

How did he find out you were black? I mean..isn't it obvious?

I'm glad you didn't have a horrible time though.

I think it was because I was never "in" the dorm clique lead by a horrible bitchy jewish girl was the cause of my downfall

Posting as anon.

Eh... I was a little of both, I guess.
At home I would pick on my older sister and vice versa. It was just how we were and we actually have always been really close. I would also tease some of my friends when the mood was really good and they knew I was joking and didn't actually mean it at all.

The main points in my life though regarding bullying was Elementary and Middle school. Shit was fucking crazy. Elementary school made me so fucking depressed to the point that when I came home I would go straight to my bed and cry myself to sleep until I had to go back to school again. When middle school came and I was moving I didn't want to make friends at all. I ended up making some anyway but I also got bullied physically by a group of guys for no reason. I did nothing to the bastards. After that I switched schools and was trying to put everything behind me, forget about the bullying and be a new person. Make friends, etc.
Everything was going fine until a guy decided he was going to interrupt a conversation with my new found friends and ask me questions. I decided to be friendly and answered them all and asked him if he could then leave since I was talking to other people and that I would gladly talk to him later if there was anything else he had needed from me or wanted to know about me.

(Continued...)

>>3682251
And i bullied people a bit. or i do now anyways. After i graduated highschool i got my self esteem back. I don't bully everyone. I mostly bully people who seem to go out of their way for my approval.

EXAMPLE 1:
girl: ugh, i am so fat.
me: try getting off the computer and exercising. Or eat better.
girl: but i'm already 110 lbs and i'm 5'4"
>and this is where i become a bully
me: Damn you really let yourself go! Well healthy eating isnt going to work for you, you should just stop eating until you get your weight under control.

EXAMPLE 2
person: and then my dad hit me. and my dog wont sit with me. and my friends wont talk to me. then my dad came in and yelled at me some more and then he threw me out. and then my mom let me in just to yell at me. and all of my friends hate me. (paraphrasing the generic whiner )
me: huh, all directed at you, huh?
person: yeah. You're the only one who talks to me and makes me feel better.
me: Well i probably shouldnt talk to you. I mean, all those people couldn't be wrong. You're probably a negative asshole and you deserve it.
Person: 80
me: tell me about your day when something good happens. kthnxbye

>>3682206
Sympathy might feel good for a moment, but feeling good about yourself always...stay with me here...feels good. Always.

People might think they're doing the right thing by coddling you, but really, you're the only one in any position of power here. You need to choose to help yourself. You'll only have to continue to put up with your ex's shit for as long as you allow it, and this method of solution doesn't even involve going to the campus police or the dean -- which I feel compelled to add is just a DUMB idea, because even should he "get his," you're still a pussy who can't cope with some two bit bully. Actually hitting you is a little different, and he deserves what he might have gotten for that, but practically speaking it's probably a bit late. Whatever. It happened, but you're okay now. That part is good.

Anyway, as soon as you decide you're done with this asshole, that's it, you're done. You don't need to change your degree. That would be to allow him to determine the course of your life.

How stupid is that? You're a big girl.

>>3682272
I think the people who are being nice and genuinely trying to help her don't deserve the treatment she's giving them, but I do think some of the commenting has gotten a little excessive.

Unfortunately, one of the reasons that it's gotten so out of hand is because she has always taken even the gentlest of constructive criticism as a personal attack. She's quick to get defensive and even retaliatory. The way she reacts to the trolling comments is generally the same way she reacts to people who are genuinely trying to help. I think because she gets that way even when someone is trying to be nice it has just escalated to something extreme.

An example: She purchased a Lolita dress that was way, WAY too tight on her. Pixyteri posted the pictures on daily_lolita, a community which is generally for people to post what they've worn. While concrit is not mandatory or strictly encouraged, it's certainly allowed as long as it's polite.

Another lolita commented on Pixyteri's post saying that the bodice of the dress appeared too tight on her in the bust. She wasn't even implying that PT was overweight or anything of the sort. She was implying that her breasts were too big. (And they were. You could see the seams pulling.) The commenter was respectful, tactful and kind. She even gave PT a suggestion and told her that the same print in another cut boasted a larger size range.

Pixyteri got defensive in the post and wrote a journal entry about how her bust size was being attacked and made implicit accusations that the poster was bullying her.

I think it's because she acts this way is one of the reasons that this has gotten to such a high level of trolling. The fact that she has made comments that could be construed as insulting other girls with different body types (and some with eating disorders) when she's so quick to get her feelings hurt doesn't seem to help.

None of this justifies it, though.

>>3682328
you're a bitter jackass anon

I was teased pretty badly from elementary school to middle school. I was fat and plain looking and smart. I once got these bright multi-colored glasses that I thought were pretty and some douchebag that liked to mess with me called me "Skittles," even thought it was clear I didn't like that name. Kids said I ran funny, so I refused to run unless absolutely necessary.

However, there was really only one time it went beyond teasing and into physical harassment. Two boys started bullying me after school (this was still elementary school, btw) and tried to beat me up. The first time it happened I lunged at them and snarled to freak them out, then ran for the crossing guard (they never tried anything in front of an adult). I learned alternative routes out of the school and that worked for a while. Eventually they caught up with me and ripped my bookbag. Mom was pissed that I hadn't told her about this before then, and she raised hell at school. Whatever she did was effective because they stopped.

High school was much better and I made a few more friends. There were still douchebags, though. One day at lunch some boy sitting at the next table over leaned over and called me ugly or some shit, didn't even know him and I'm sure he had no clue who I was, and the other people I was sitting with just got really quiet and didn't say anything or look me in the eye for the rest of lunch. It really sucks to realize that the people you hang out with won't say anything or offer any support at all. I'd like to think that now I could stand up for someone (or myself, dur) when they're being harassed, but in university everyone seems pretty chill, thankfully, and no such opportunity has presented itself. I also grew a thicker skin, partly thanks to 4chan.

God, this is tl;dr.

>>3682272
I'll admit, i looked at those threads and sorta thought "well thats not pleasant to look at at all. And thats really weird that some people are so into her. Ah, she's having fun doing what she's doing. Have fun lady.

I closed the thread and got back to looking up other stuff.

I was never bullied in school. If anything I WAS the mean girl until sixth grade, when the school I went to was filled with people I'd never met before and I became a lot quieter and secluded. Vidyagames and band also caused the change, too.

In high school was when everyone in my age group learned to grow up. I stopped hanging out with my best friend after realizing how awful of a person she actually was, and this wound up repeating itself between her and a number of other bros.
By senior year there was no forms of bullying or harassment to fellow students in our class even with our different cliques, although we were infamous for fighting the teachers and the vice-principal of the school called us the worst she'd ever met (there's quite a few stories I could tell but I'll pass). I also became really close to the majority of my childhood friends and even one guy said he loved us all like family, and that really touched me to hear something like that from him.

Only harassment I had in school was when some freshman in senior year made some comments because I played the clarinet. I just laughed it off and said something like "Hurr yeah I love blowing big black rods" and he thought it was funny. All the younger kids were douches though, none of the seniors liked them.

>>3682282
>once you graduate wearing a senior shirt
Our senior shirts were canceled because nobody ordered them.

>>3682332

Even if she did do that, it shouldve been treated as "what a dumbass".

It shouldn't be continued over and over, it's a dead horse. People need to stop

>>3682325

(Finishing up...)

He didn't leave. He just kept asking the same questions over and over and going back and forth to his friends talking to them. Eventually it escalated to me pushing him away telling him to please leave me alone. Turned out lightly pushing someone away was the equivalent to punching someone in the face lolol. After the rumors had started and the majority, if not all of the school had heard them he brought a big group of guys to talk to me with. It had about twenty or thirty guys I had no idea were. They just kept asking me questions and shouting at me for doing nothing. During that the same amount of girls came telling me to not get on my high horse and that I'm a bitch, etc. This was all on my first day of that school. I was... Shocked. Middle school was so full of drama.

After that, every bully failed in comparison. I still got bullied throughout my schooling (It all seemed ridiculous after past experiences. I had girls seeing my face and screaming while running away despite never meeting them, etc.) but yeah... I... I'm actually over it now, lol. I just can't believe some people would escalate to those heights. I was a defenseless school girl, for crying out loud!

Anyway, I don't stand for bullying at all and have stood up for people even if I didn't really know them.

>>3682251
>>3682328
wow. what a waste of human life.

Wasn't really bullied until middle school. Middle school was just hell. IDK. I guess since my friends and i were 'different,' we were easy targets. There was a particular kid who would actually get his friends together and come up to our lunch table and go in line, pointing out 'flaws' about each of us. We told on him, but it didn't do anything. Last time he said anything to me was 9th grade in front of a whole class and nobody did anything. they just laughed and said 'oh, brad, you're so mean! lololol'

idk, nowadays I try to be nice to everybody. I have good friends and a lot of people that were dicks are nice to me now because I do things for the class like DESIGN THE WHOLE. FUCKING. PROM. and other shit. They're still ungrateful bitches. I didn't even get to go because I didn't have money for a ticket. |:

tl;dr I was bullied like no tomorrow but now things are cool.

>>3682322
I am extremely light skinned, most people think I look tan all the time. Do you think you would go again? Damn if I was there I would have punched those frenchies out and chopped that guy in the dick. God kids these days going to the extreme.

>>3682377
Ohhh I see,

Probably not. I don't want to ever experience anything like that (or worse) again

>>3682335
lol, you know it. *wink*

but when insecure people look to me to be reassured, they're sorta asking for it. People who are already confident i give the thumbs up and all the encouragement i can.

>>3682322
Honestly there are a lot more black people then you think that look white. I am only half black and people have trouble figuring that out (it was usually after they met my dad that they knew). But there are people who have parents that are both black and still end up not looking black. In fact in one of my all time favorite movies there is a character who ends up pretending to be white and when her boyfriend finds out she's actually black he beats her pretty badly.

>>3682354
Yeah, I agree. It doesn't justify it at all, but I don't think she's handling it the right way.

If I were her I would just maintain a low profile and shit the hell up for a few months until Anonymous found a new flavor of the week to torment. I would have done that the moment those n00dz hit the Internets.

I think if she just closed everything so it was friends-only and made herself less "visible" to the public eye things would relax after a bit because she wouldn't give them any new ammunition. In the mean time, she should really work on maturing and listening to the people trying to offer constructive criticism. Also, learning to accept it gracefully would help immensely.

Don't get me wrong. I don't like her at all. I think she's modest at all when someone compliments her, she's rude to the people who try to help her or ignores their advice completely, she's immature and constantly making excuses and (most importantly to me) some of the comments she's made that reference eating disorders have kind of upset me.

That being said, I don't think she deserves all the hate she's gotten. Honestly, I think that I'd find her likable if she'd just do some growing up. If she accepted herself for who she is and stopped trying so hard to be something she isn't then she'd be a better cosplayer, Lolita and person.

>>3682342
Will say that once in middle school one kid was taking it too far. He was hitting me on the head with a broom, not hard enough to hurt but hard enough to be really annoying. I stood up, twisted it out of his hands and hit him back harder. The teacher finally decided the broom was being misused but neither of us got in trouble so it was all good.

yea i was a bully in high school actually i was dam good at it my victim is mentioned in this story

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/ny_crime/2008/06/26/2008-06-26_six_long_island_teens_busted_in_grand
_th-1.html

during the last semester of senior year i handed out T-shirts for about 10 bucks with his face and the world criminal under it. on the back it read sorry grand theft auto made me make/wear this shirt.
he cried and i made about 150$ after expenses.

>>3682387
Darn I can understand not wanting to waste time and money to worry about you might get bullied. :c what ever you do next, I hope things go better for you.

>>3682372
Not really, i treat people well when they need it and i encourage people who need the boost.

But when a friggen twig thin girl whines to me about being fat, i refuse to stand there and be like "oh no, no. you're so pretty. you're so skinny." or whatever.

>>3682411

Thank you very much :)

University anon here.

Thanks all for your kind words. I am a big girl and sitting around moping about how crap I feel is not going to help my situation.

I just got off the phone to my head of department, we talked about what has been happening and my depression and he's going to discuss with my lecturers about allowing me to resubmit my work and look over my attendance.

Thanks seagulls, I fucking love you guys.
<3<3<3

I was never bullied in high school. I really should have been because I was a huge weird kid. I wore spikey punk bracelets up to my elbows and arm warmers and I had bad acne. I was really shy and often drew/coloured pics of my fave anime chars in class.

The one time a kid from my elementary school made fun of my friend (we were in high school atm) I told him his voice sounded funny and laughed at him. He walked away mumbling. If anyone did say anything to me I ignored them.

>>3682400
woah way to milk people of their misery.
o__o
because the guy's tears toatlly werent enough. the 150$ is what topped it all off huh?

>>3682421
man you either had excellent friends who watched your back or you went to an amazing school where people were too morally sound to bully.

>>3682429
that fabric wasn't going to pay for its self

>>3682328
bahahaha, how the fuck is that bullying? you're a fucking scrub and if thats you in your pic LOL OMFG gtfo. fucking beta chump.

>>3682419

Congratulations! You go girl! :D

>>3682400

Chaminade here, you little savages stay away from our parts.

>>3682450
for what it's worth he had it coming.

>>3682439
well if you're taking that into consideration- hopefully you only printed a few shirts since you only sold 10 or so, right? unless 150$ is the profit after the cost of manufacturing...

but regardless it was the tears that made it worth it, right? lol jk jk

>>3682436

My school was full of soccer loving ginos and ginas who had no idea what anime was. Also, we are polite in Canada, lol

>>3682442
I consider it bullying because it's verbally abusing a person or taking them down pretty much because they're in front of you, being annoying, and they seem like they'd be more fun to pick on than support. which is usually the case with the insecure selves.

>>3682328
>>3682251
...Totally irrelevant, but never before have I been so attracted to someone self-postan' on /cgl/.

I don't even care about your occasional asshole tendencies, because it honestly sounds like you're just trying to knock some sense into them with some tough love, as the typical "caring advice" goes over their heads. It's a roundabout way of helping someone, but it could help them nonetheless.

...aldkjgfh so. attracted. right now.


ANYWAY. My bullying story. I was never outright harassed like some of the people in this thread, and after hearing your stories, I'm... unbelievably thankful for that. I'm so sorry that so many of you have had to go through such awful things. If I could give you all a hug, I would! ;o;

However, I did hit puberty pretty early, and during middle school I turned into quite the chubster. (I wasn't unbearably overweight, but I got up to a size 11 in pants at one point.) I also had no idea how to use makeup, my skin was really bad, etc. All my friends were guys, and they were all skaters, so I tried to fit in with them by dressing like a punk girl. Meaning I shopped exclusively at Hawt Tawpic. Throw in that I liked anime and video games, and you have a good recipe for a Bully Target.

>>3682023
I never felt bullied before, though my friends in middle school were. For the most part, I was pretty quite, and people thought I was really smart since I was Asian and got good grades, so they'd usually come to me if they had problems with school work or something and were smart enough not to mess with me.

Back in middle school though one of my friends was constantly being bugged after an assembly. Guy kept poking him and calling his name and shit even after we told him to stop. Got fed up with it and when he went to poke him I grabbed his wrist and dug my nails into them. Made him bleed and left a HUGE scar for a month or so. Left my friend alone after that.

Another time in high school a guy kept calling my friend Marcus when his name is Mark on purpose and wouldn't shut up. Teacher walked out for a bit and a casually walked up behind him with giant World History book in hand and thumped him in the head. Guy tried to start a fight but the guys surrounding us held him back. Also left my friend alone after that.

Awesome part was, I never got in trouble for any of those since I'm such a good student. Also got huge respect from others afterwards. Feltgoodman.jpg

>>3682475 con.


Fortunately, the worst that it ever came to was really cruel rumors. I felt like a lot of girls in my school hated me, and they would only invite me to parties to secretly make fun of me - which I'd walked in on happening once. One of my clearest memories is when I was at this girl's birthday sleepover party; before going to bed we played Truth or Dare, and somehow that transitioned into "sharing rumors about that we'd heard about people at the party". When the subject shifted to me, everyone started listing all these awful rumors about me, the most tame of which was that I didn't wear a bra. (Which was just stupid, because my ultra-thin Hawt Tawpic shirts CLEARLY showed my bra.)

I spent the rest of the night feeling very hurt and confused, because I honestly hadn't expected people were saying such awful things about me behind my back.

Another time - one of my guy friends found out that I had a huge crush on him. After band one day, he confessed that he really liked me, too. I went home feeling absolutely giddy, I told the one or two girl friends I had about it, and then devoted the night to picking out an outfit to wear for when I saw him tomorrow and we "became boyfriend and girlfriend". That night was filled with me dreaming about what my first kiss with him would be like.

I got to school the next day and tried to find him. But whenever I saw him, he'd duck away or pretend he didn't see me. He avoided me the entire day, and finally I got fed up with it and asked his best friend what was up. His response? "Oh, some of us dared him to pretend to like you. We wanted to see if you'd fall for it."

Heart was crushed. To this day, I've never fixed things with either of them. We'll get along if necessary, but for the most part I avoid interacting with them if possible.

>>3682463
i sold upwards of 50 gave out more on top of that
including one to him
that 150 is all profit after expenses
also are you guys reading the link i don't think you want to be defending this guy

>>3682450
Woah Chaminade. My sister went there. I'm from crespi.

>>3682480 con.


Fortunately the summer before high school started was very kind to me. I lost a ton of weight, changed my entire look, and got to the point where I was actually attractive. And I made a ton of friends through marching band, so that certainly helped give me confidence.

Throughout high school, the popular kids still didn't want anything to do with me and I'd hear the occasional rumor or get a nasty look in the hall, but having the support of my band and theater friends did wonders. It's just funny how even though I looked COMPLETELY different, the popular kids still thought of me as the weird, unattractive punk girl.

But in the end, I win. I'm now thin and pretty, I have lots of good friends, I'm at an amazing college with a beautiful future ahead of me. Meanwhile, those popular girls are all at community colleges or mainstream universities, partying it up and failing out of school. Or having to drop out because they got pregnant and had a kid.

Oh, karma. How I love thee.

I was never bullied. People were scared of me in high school because i was the GAWTH KID. Middle school I went to a nerd school so there wasn't much bullying, and elementary school everyone pretty much liked everyone else.

>>3682490
>People were scared of me in high school because i was the GAWTH KID

No, we weren't. Seriously.

>>3682332
Not that I'm saying I'm right...
>girl moves in with me at dorms, super quiet, is kawaii desu y0
>its revealed she just sits and cries about how her life is sooo terrible
>anytime constructive crisitism is given, she gets defensive
>I troll her on her various accounts because she's an attention whore
>she's yet to lock anything up, and I stopped trolling, because the damage was done, she's a flippin' idiot

Reminds me of PT. No, I don't feel bad for PT, because she's posting on the INTERNET and getting mad at EVERYONE. She is deillusional, like stupid girl above. Stupid girl has been posted on various sites, for being a) an attention whore b)weak and submissive with NO self-autonomy c) been described as an imaginary person, but she's very real and weak. I guess I have no sympathy for people who are fucked up, and don't try and fix it.

PS: I have been bullied. The above is me bullying someone. I got known as "the crazy smart white chick" (yay hood life), because in middle school, this chick was bullying me CONSTANTLY on the bus ride home and to school. (She was half my size, wtf), one ride home on the late bus, she kept bothering me. I looked her as I was getting off the bus and told her "if you weren't such a bitch, maybe I wouldn't have to say anything mean to you." all the kids gasped, and the bus went WILD. Of course, its my fault for bothering her, even though my grandmother just died, and I'm stressed all the time. Thanks guidance, you still suck.

>>3682206
Then you need to notify the school's county police and tell them that your university is doing nothing.

>>3681952
This is true
>>3681942
This is not true.

During middle school, I got bullied a lot, I guess. In 6th grade, I was a weeaboo but kind of ignored the teasing for the most part. In 7th grade, people started throwing food at me during lunch, so I spent the rest of all the lunch periods in the Guidance Office, hiding. Midway through the year, I worked up all my courage and told a boy that I had a crush on that I liked him. The whole "heart-racing love confession" scene, right out of an anime and right in the middle of the hallway, haha. The rest of the year, the "popular" girls mocked me and everyone else whispered and giggled whenever I'd pass by. Nothing really bothered me though, except that the boy rejected me after his friends told him I was a loser. I never really got over that.
8th grade was better. A "popular" guy asked me out as a joke and the "popular" girls forced me into accepting. We ended up really liking each other, but he moved away and told everyone he broke up with me because I wasn't good enough instead of telling them it was because he was moving. Other then that, people started to treat me like I was human, so life was pretty good~

The bullying lowered my self-esteem a lot, I guess, but I'm kind of ambivalent to the whole subject now. I don't think I could ever be a bully after what I dealt with in middle school.

Highschool is okay. I started going to a new school, so no one knows about my middle school years. It's pretty great~

>>3682475
I self post because sometimes when i read these stories i wonder "wtf how old is this person!?!" or " Is this a really bitter fat person who'se just come to hate the world?"
To me, throwing a picture of myself up there sort of puts a face to the scene. Seeing who a story is coming from sorta changes the tone and texture of it, no?


Bravo on avoiding the intense bullying! i liked anime and all that sorta side stuff that didnt really fit in and i totally ALMOST made it through highschool without getting bullied.
Till i confessed my feelings for my bestfriend, at an all male catholic school. So i was probably asking for it.

Yes, mainly due to my poor and awkward social skills. People took advantage of that and used me as their verbal punching bag, and I would just take it because I was a clingy loser.

>>3682485

does your sister have a penis? otherwise I think we are talking about different schools

>>3682251
I think you're adorable!

So, I was reading through out this entire thread. 90% of the " I was the bully" is complete bullshit lol

>>3682482
i didnt read, i was expecting someone to just summarize it a bit for me.

I was bullied in the same way every kid was. It got violent once in the 4th grade, but I was much taller than the other kids so I took the guy down in seconds. I also bullied other children. Not in the sense of beating them up, but more just calling them names for no good reason other than to make myself feel better or because they annoyed me.

The one time I actually got accused of bullying by the school, though, I was defending my friend from actual bullies. He was mentally handicapped, but my bff and I always played tag with him during recess because he was really fast and nice to us. Then one day he was perched on the slide next to these two boys talking about god knows what. He kept asking them to play with us and eventually one of the guys said "I don't play with retards" then pushed him down the slide. He kind of just stayed down there and cried for awhile. My friend jumped in right away throwing around stupid threats and stuff. She wasn't very athletic, but in her eyes she was a god damned lion so I knew if it came down to violence I would have to back her up or she would get her ass kicked. The guy tried to hit me first by punching me in the chest ( I had developed early) I felt nothing. Literally. I don't know if it was because I was so hopped up on self righteous anger or what....


and because I can't seem to write a short story...

continued

>>3682520
Mmhm! I definitely agree with you there. If I was braver, I'd go ahead and post too, but unfortunately I'm not. Derp.

Ahahaha, oh gosh, I know how that goes. I let it slip to one of my close friends that I /thought/ I might be bisexual, and by the end of the school day, the entire school thought I had come out. When I got home I actually got a phone call from one of my old 6th grade friends who was on the cheer team, asking if I "WAS ACTUALLY BISEXUAL OMG."

Weirdest experience ever. And to think, everyone I went to HS with still thinks I'm bi, even though I only questioned it for a week or so when I had a small girl-crush on my friend.

>>3682533
Which is why i think it's so hilarious! I look at this image and wonder how anyone thought i was capable of the things i was being accused of plotting.

I was bullying in the most retarded way possible in middle school....because I liked unicorns

People would call me "Unicorn girl" and say stupid shit like "HEY HEY I SAW A UNICORN YESTERDAY. I KILLED IT. DOES THAT OFFEND YOU? LAWLZ LAWLZ"

Well guess what, now everyone likes unicorns, cause they're fucking awesome.

>>3682540

MOAR, because you sooo care

I ended up pushing him down, then grabbing his shirt and spinning him aroun by it until it ripped and he crashed in to the playground. When the teacher saw him, she only asked 'who did this to you'. I got dragged to the principals office and never actually got to explain myself until both his and my parents were there. By then I was crying because I was pissed off and scared.
The boys mom was a royal douchebaby. She started crying right away and accusing me and shit, because I was the only kid in the office at the time. She went on about how she wanted his shirt replaced and what not. When I told her what he did and that he hit me first, she said I was lying and called me a bitch. This is about the time my mom managed to get there. She was a school teacher herself so she had to have her friend watch her class while she rushed over. She was already pissed off at me for that, but when she saw the woman yelling at me and then cussing me out, she went in to protective mode. The principle had to come break up their yelling match and force us 4( the kid I beat up was there) into a conference room. Both sides got to talk and whatever..the kid was verrry carfeul not to lie about why I hit him...he just left out the lead up to the fight. After I got to tell my story, the principle called the mentally challenged boys teacher and got her to confirm that is what happened. She was extra pissed off because the little boy wouldn't stop asking what 'retarded' meant.The principle told him that and went into a stern speech about everything he did wrong. As far as I know, that is as much as he got punished by the school. Socially, however....

The Rootless One Day Full Song:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpsjfcMBL98

Enjoy

I was teased and bullied to the point where I hated myself so much, I tried to kill myself multiple times in freshman year of high school. i was also placed in mental hospitals for 4 months out of that year, so i failed most of my finals, and i was known to the entire school as the girl who ODed on campus.

6 years later, I still hate it and would rather not go into details, but at the time my family life was rough, i gained 60 lbs, had things thrown at me, boys would kick me trip me and prank call me breathing in the middle of the night.
Girls were worse. that's all i feel like sharing, but really, it fucking sucks.

>>3682535
Later in high school, I ended up (at 5'2'' and 190) standing up to this black chick who was going to ruin my cross stitch that I had spent literally 75 hours on. It was complex. That bitch was not going to ruin it. Later (like two years?) I was reading Les Mis, and she was in my gym class, telling everyone how she rolled my ass. I laughed at her, and went back reading my book. She was bigger than me, still is, she's physically taller than me, but fucking stupid. I almost want to write her a FB message- that's how I got back at a lot of people "You made me feel like shit. I hope you have a shitty life right now and forever."

I looked her up on FB for hahas- she's got three kids, no degree, and no father- three different fathers for the kids. ROFLMAO. I feel better about myself. Educaaationn!

or the time in high school, where this boy would not fucking leave me alone- so during science, with these HUGE lab tables- I threw my 500 page science book so hard, it nails him in the chest and he falls over. Yay!

>>3682544
ah, i'd totally be waving my pride flag for you if you went from bi to full out lesbian.

Yeah it was really frustrating, not so much because everyone gossiped, its not like talking hurts, usually. Moreso because the guys are all really friendly and stuff. Casual shoulder rubs, butt pats, pretend flirting and joking around in general. but for some reason, its only okay to act gay if you're straight. if you're gay then WOAAAHAH! GTFO! XP

>>3682549
The other kids turned against him when I called for a pity party with my friends and told them what happened. That, and my friend had been blabbing about it to my teacher in front of the whole class, painting us out to be dramatic heroines who only fought when prompted. She fabricated it allot, apparently, because after that people thought one of the guys tried to bite her when really the other kid ran away and she never even got touched.
So all and all, I wasn't perfect but I thought I was because I stood up for what I believed in when it was convenient and always made myself feel like the victim or Saviour.
I never picked on people because of how they looked, though. It was always something stupid, like they farted in class or they liked digimon instead of pokemon.
Hell, I myself was this awkward gangly thing with self cut bangs and nerd glasses which yes occasionally were pieced together by tape. I actually tended to favor the nerdier/dorkier people. I learned to use sarcasm surprisingly early too.
yaay I can finally shut up now

>>3682531
omg how did you know? did you see it?

no no, i was talking about the co-ed chaminade in CA.

>>3682535
show us how it's done, bro. since i apparently sucked at bullying too.

>>3682272
For the record..I've ignored this whole fiasco since the very beginning. I don't give a shit about lolita drama.

I got bullied, and I bullied someone else too. Bullying is never a one-on-one thing (that's called a fight), it's a whole class vs one thing. If you're not the one being bullied, you sure as heck were bullying someone.

I actually got bullied because there was a school survey going around with convenient leading questions like "do you bully the nerdy kid in class" "do you take her change out of her wallet or stick notes on her back" - all sorts of trite things, that got IDEAS into the little drones since as far as they could tell the only nerd was the dux in school.

They forgot about the bit where said only nerd and dux in school was... smart. It took a week of their bags catching fire in the rain before they caught on.

As for the person I bullied, well, she welched on a group assignment on me so I had an emotional breakdown in class, and that was the only thing needed to make the rest of her school life hell. I didn't intend to let things get that far, but within a week even people I never heard of was apparently on my side as well as having personal vendettas against the girl. I tried to stop it at one stage, then she went batshit insane and tried to rip off the skin of her hand in class after reading a passage about rape and nobody listened to me anymore, it was all about bullying her for being an insane hellcat from then on. Whoops.

>>3682564
Trust me, the way my track record's been with guys, I might as well. But unfortunately I'm still far too attracted to men for my own good. :(

Yeah, being a girl with thin skin, the gossiping really got to me. Fortunately I've gotten a lot tougher since then! And to be frank, /cgl/'s helped a lot with that. Which is frightening to admit, but it's true.

Oh, boys, I will never understand how you work. I have so many straight guy friends who constantly borderline-flirt with each other, smack each other's asses, pretend to start making out, etc. But IT'S OKAY, NO-HOMO, MAN. And then the second they actually see a gay couple or something so much as holding hands, they get uncomfortable.

Quoting for justice:
>"Dude, that's so gross, they shouldn't be doing that in public!"
>"...But you were JUST pretending to grab Ryan's junk after you spanked him."
>"Oh, no, that's okay because we aren't actually gay."

Just... what. Does not compute.

>>3682577
Haha you're funny since you do suck.
Anyways a bully is someone that torments his peers for the simple reason of the lulz. I'm not a bully nor have I ever claimed to be. So yea just a simple definition.
l2 bully faggot.

>>3682598
Take some kid psyche classes, Hobbes =/

>>3682612
stop feeding the troll, anon.

>>3682598
No Hobbes, bullies and the bullied usually have a reason. The reason may not be significant in our adult minds, but they have a reason nonetheless. It's true that only certain types of people are susceptible to bullying when others can shrug the initial gesture off, but it's never 'just for the lulz'. Things get bad precisely because the parties think they are fighting for a cause.

when will people finally learn Hobbes is a troll?

>>3682591
Ahahah. it's sorta like... ah. i dont know how to describe it. um... Sometimes it feels good to mess around, but if the other person is getting excited by it, then you feel a bit violated.

heres a comparison. You go to the shoe store and a clerk helps you size your feet and put on shoes and what not. he's holding your feet, putting them in the measuring thing, pinching you toes through the shoe, etc. And you don't mind, you can have a conversation and laugh a little when it tickles. But lets say you're hanging out with friends and one of your friends picks up your foot and gets a boner just touching it. even though they did less, it wayyyy more offensive right?


I have my own moments of gay-no-straight-gay?
I attend rennaissance fairs and i'm in a guild. I am the official cabin boy of the captain of the guild. We both love women and dry hump them whenever they leave their guard down. but then we're inexplicably "gay" for eachother, ass grabbing, lap sitting, helping eachother put on guy liner. it's totally okay because we're totally not rlly gay though. derp.

>>3682548
'unicorn girl' is a nickname i would have killed for when i was 6, LOL.

>>3682598
oh god do i suck... oh shit how did i get to /cgl/? weren't we talking dirty to eachother in /y/ just a moment ago?

>>3682630
when it stops being fun to feed our pet troll. dont worry we still have a while till midnight at which time feeding our troll will turn it into a gremlin troll.

I was bullied in middle school because I have thick, fizzy hair that never looks like I brushed it unless I do some serious work on it. However, at 12, I didn't know how to do this, so I was constantly accused of not brushing my hair. Also I had big plastic framed glasses and dressed like trailer trash.

High school, even though I was still awkward and weird, I never got bullied. Not once. I don't think it was the kids being better than kids anywhere else, I think I was just invisible to the bullies. Also, I had a lot of friends in my own group that I didn't really go outside of. In fact, I'm still friends with most of them even though I'm 24 now. I'm even marrying the guy who had a crush on me in high school.

The only time I was really bullied in HS (being called fat, smelly, a lesbian) was by my mother. She pretty much hated my guts because she was a useless pill addict who did nothing but sleep on the couch all day. I took care of my brothers and sisters, and worked, and went to school and cleaned up her shit. Literally, her shit.

lol she's dead now

Now I wear dresses and do my hair and wear makeup and my self-esteem is raised by a thousand points. I'm pretty happy even if I am still overweight and have bad eyesight. I got friends and family who loves me. Happy anon is happy.

>>3682652
damn, way happy for you. you outlived your bully and you're marrying the guy who had a crush on you in highschool. you realize this is sort of a disney plot right?

hope the best for you.

>>3682632
I guess that makes more sense! Thanks for the examples - I'm not sure I'll ever understand it 100%, but then again, I'm pretty sure guys will never understand 100% how the female brain works either.

I suppose it's just one of those things that you do if you know there won't be any consequences? Like... It's okay when you KNOW they're not interested in you in a sexual way, but the second you find out there could be a possibility of it, that takes all the fun out. Right?

Idk, man, I just took a midterm and my brain is not really up to this right now. Sorry for the stupidity!

>>3682660

Totally Disney. This has been pointed out to us, even.

Thanks for the well wishes anon.

>>3682625
I mean yea I guess like a bad household can play a role in it but
I dont find the kids that pick on other kids as bullys I find them more like the other kids are too much of a pussy to fight back. So its not really the bully's fault if hes a natural predator and the kid hes picking on him is being submissive.

It's like me in elementary school I grew up in Tulsa, OK and went to a pre-dominant white school, some kids picked on me soley cause I was chinese, it got to the point where I cracked one in the face. I liked the feeling of power from that, I soon became the predator I picked on them, then I moved out to California and went to middle school there ( with the same mentality) I had a alright household got what I wanted had all the newest toys ect. I had the sense I was better then everyone else. I was the typical athlete went out did my thing made fun of the kids that where too slow, thats not bullying its just being better then someone else and letting them know it. Went to Highschool same thing athlete yadda yadda yadda, Lost my first fight to a guy cause I was up to my same old stuff, His fear is what motivated him to win that fight, I figured that was the end of my little deal and I toned down after 17. You see, its just our predatory instinct sometimes its stronger in others sometimes its not. No such thing as real bullying. lol you guys are just whiny faggots.

>>3682648
hey, you know you like my shenanigan

>>3682663
Well my captain is a very handsome man. as seen in the picture. (and i could actually tie in a bullying story here, but it wasn't that bad of bullying and i'm not the pussy type to whine. so i'll just skip to the end.) He gave the word and everyone got themselves in line and started respecting me despite my looking like i'd be gay, and, y'know, agreeing to be the captain's bitch boy. lawl.

you've pretty much got it though. playing gay is funny. Being gay is a pain in the ass.... hah.

>>3682693
still reading it, still loving it.
insult us some more betch.

I was bullied when I started public school (before I had been in DoD schools). Literally every word that came out of my mouth was made fun of, so I quit talking and just read all the time or drew. People would tear apart my sketchbooks and my books and break my glasses. I got molested on the bus for a good part of the year in 7th grade, and when I finally told on them and got them kicked off the bus, everyone hated me more because they were the "popular guys."

Everyone that made fun of me is now a loser, so in the end it didn't really work out all that well for them.

I was bullied from elementary school to high school. I even was bullied in college, though this was a one-time thing. I'm a shy, quiet girl. I used to be thin but now I'm overweight. I'm fairly intelligent but I don't brag. I'm also passive aggressive and afraid of physical pain.

In elementary school, my bullying came from 'friends' who spread rumors about me and told any secrets I told them. It was hard to deal with, but they would always apologize and me being naive, would forgive. I wish I stood up for myself because these rumors followed me to Jr. High.

In Jr. High my bullying came from a girl and her posse. She would taunt me and call me names. Since I always managed to have classes with either her or her friends, I never got a break. I missed school or cut class, a lot. My only crime was having a crush on her boyfriend. I had classes with both her and her boyfriend and not once got the impression they even knew each other much less were dating. A 'friend' told her about my crush. This was also were they started of the teasing me about my voice or how I pronounce certain words.

Edit: deleted original post to fix formatting/spelling errors

>>3682700
talk dirty to me let me take a crap on your chest and shape it into a heart and let you eat it.

>>3682673
So be careful and stuff. your daughter might be a total tom boy that only becomes what society expects her to be once she finds true love. and your first born son might get kidnapped by a witch.

I never had a ton of friends, usually just 2-3 close friends, but I was never really bullied. In retrospect I'm actually surprised, since in Jr High I was the nerdiest looking kid and in high school I was trying to be SUGOI VK and that pretty much meant being goth, then scene, then a sexpot kid. My girlfriend and I were also the only out gays in the entire school. I really have to give my hometown credit, as much as I hate those shitty suburbs, the people there were nice. There really wasn't a lot of bullying in my school at all, as far as I know at least.

>>3682685
... so you let your ass get kicked by someone who was afraid? and then you just backed down, put your tail between your legs and let your balls shrink to the point you can only nut up on the internet?

Come on man! show us the predator that once existed! the point we're at now, my dog's got bigger balls than you.

>>3682706
woah man... no homo.

>>3682708

Thanks for scaring me, anon. Like I didn't have enough to worry about with all these vines growing outside my house. And I'm starting to feel really sleepy . . .

oh god, the popular girl bully. Their one weakness was a direct confrontation followed by humiliation.

for example. I'm in Government. My teacher has us talking about current events or whatever. Sodomy laws get brought up somehow. My friend who is pretty obviously gay ( though technically not out yet) is sitting next to me. Someone mentions how Texas is trying to find a way to get sodomy laws instated once again despite them being overturned in 2003. Bitch sitting in front of me says quietly so the teacher won't hear" Yessss. Take that, stupid liberal gay rights activists. I mean, our country was founded on the BIBLE." and she and her friend share OMG IKNO RITE exchanges while glancing back at my friend. He's keeping his chin up, because he's been bullied since intermediate school when we met. I, however, am not very ok with that.

I'm no pundit, but I had a rather easy time pointing out just how stupid and offensive what she said was. I took extra pleasure in dissecting her entire mentality into mush, and comparing her to the Westboro Baptists and what not. I guilt tripped her with cases like Mathew Sheppard until finally my teacher had to ask me to stop because she thought it was getting 'too touchy'. My gay friend bought me Starbucks the next morning. Feels good man.

Does that girl hate me now? Yes.
Did she and her friends make fun of me behind my back? Probably.
Did they ever do it to my face, though? Hell no, they figured out I would call them out if they did.
Damn it feels good to be a gangster.

>>3682705

In high school, the stamina surrounding me was from the rumors started in elementary school and jr. high. I did make friends and even gave the 'friends' from elementary school second chance. They hooked me up with a guy, my first boyfriend. All was well, until I found out I was set up with him because he liked _____ and _____ did not like him back. Sucks to hear 'How is _____ doing?' or 'Did ______ say anything about me today?' after you say 'Hello' on the phone to your boyfriend.

I had dated another guy, while I was in 12th grade, who was a complete loser. I was, once again, set up with him through a (different) friend. He died in a fire with the girl he was cheating on me with. I had found out about the cheating before hand and being an immature child screamed, 'I hope he dies!' and well he did. The friend who set me up with him, bullied me.

I once tried to stop some bullying by telling the higher ups in my school about it. Well they turned on me instead. It was the last straw. I tried to kill myself in class. I regret my actions everyday.

>>3682725
Nah, He deserved to win that fight, I didnt get my ass kicked, but he was putting up enough of a fight I just gave up, you know how a Lion jumps onto a buffalo but that shit aint gonna go down? yea...
But nah after I lost I just was like w.e didnt feel like messing with people hardcore, I still fought alot but it was because they where different or anything, I fought people over more personal reasons. As for me being here on the internet, I find it funny as fuck to watch you kids baaaw.

>>3682758

Years, passed and now I attend college. I was bullied but only once and by some obvious freshmen whose high school days have yet to wear off. It stung because it was random and brought back memories. I cried in the bathroom.

Did it hurt? Yeah, it did and it still does. I can not trust people, so I don't make friends. I am so ashamed and embarrassed by how I sound or pronounce words, I can not give presentations in class, or even have a regular conversation with people. Giving a food order or calling a doctor for an appointment is hell for me because I fear I'll get laughed at. It has done irreparable damage.

I do not condone bullying and wish schools would take it more seriously. They think it's a one time thing but it rarely is, at least with girls. If the school had taken it seriously I may not have turned out how I did. That is partially my fault. I should have stood up for myself. I wish I had. I was so afraid of confrontation and physical pain I wouldn't. So blame myself mostly.

>>3682725
fyi nice nails.

I was only really bullied in elementary school. A girl would constantly call me names, but this was only for a year. I never really was bullied. I did have conflicts with people though. Well at least once. I bitched this girl I didn't like out and proceeded to not talk to her ever again. Sure I said occasional snide remarks behind her back to my friends, but so do she, and I never started any rumors. I mean everyone does that when they don't like someone though lol.

Wow. Most of this thread is just people that don't know what bullying is.

HINT: Jovial joshing is NOT bullying.

>>3682763
no homo, man. no homo. and i think you mean fabulous. they match my fag-tastic dog.

And i have never seen a Lion jump a Buffallo. probably the Africa / North America thing. I've seen lions take down elephants... but you're got to be a team player for that sorta thing.
>Make more chinese friends.
>surprise the hell out of that guy when you fly in with jackie chan style kung fu.

I don't think about this shit much anymore.

In elementary and middle school, I was very, very Catholic (by my own doing. My family was secular, I just happened to take the Bible very seriously) so when kids picked on me I threatened to rain God's wrath on them. Yes, I got picked on a lot, but I was fucking asking for it.

The worst was in middle and high school, when there was a kid across the street from me who made my life hell. The little fuck was 3 years younger than me and half my size. In 7th grade, I'd had enough and threatened him with a baseball bat. My parents freaked out and told me that I should never threaten or hurt anyone, no matter what they said to me. This basically gave the little bastard free license to harass me mercilessly for the next five years. Had I been anyone else, I would've shrugged it off, but having OCD led me to obsess endlessly over how hurt my feelings were. Clear through till my junior year of high school, I would start crying when the kid insulted me. Not really his fault, but man, was I a target.

Feels bad man. :(

>>3682793
Lol... I dont do kung fu...
And I'm racist to other asians... since I'm half white and like a foot taller then most asian males.

>>3682741
ah dont worry there's always happy endings.

>>3682758
> I had found out about the cheating before hand and being an immature child screamed, 'I hope he dies!' and well he did. The friend who set me up with him, bullied me.

That is absolutely hilarious, but I'm not understanding how the friend is going to bully you out of an outcome like that. Could you elaborate on that?

I was bullied pretty harshly from grades seven up until nine. In third grade I had made best friends with a girl with vivid orange hair, blue eyes and ironically, a temper that burnt hotter and quicker than hell itself. As the only redhead in our year level at high school, she was immediately ostracized for being different, and I stuck with her. I was also shorter than average, dreadfully skinny, silent as the grave and loved reading and learning. Yes, I actually told people that I enjoyed learning things. Big mistake.

A rather overweight girl with a face like a bulldog took it upon herself to make me completely miserable. She constantly called me fat and ugly, I liked wearing baggy clothes so she convinced everybody else I was hiding fat rolls under them, when I was sitting quietly in a corner of the yard they would pelt me with food, kick dirt in my face, grab my books and throw them on the ground or just form a semicircle and hurl verbal abuse. One day in gym I dared to make a comment back, she hit me over the head with a tennis racket as hard as she could. I nearly passed out, and the racket was completely bent inwards on one side. Another time in gym one of her gang decided that I was sitting on "her" mat, and when I refused to move, she kicked me repeatedly in the side until I rolled over in pain, then she ripped the mat out from under me. A hematoma formed in that spot, and because the ribs were cartilage at that point, they all got bent inwards and I have a permanent divot in my right side. In ninth grade her entire group dropped out to go and study hairdressing and makeup at TAFE. I managed to form friendships with the sane people that remained and my last three years in high school were actually pretty good.

Should have punched him anyway. You can't punch whoever wrongs you when you get older so you might as well take advantage of it when you are young.

>>3682803
no way me too! But i'm actually not asian so i'd expect to be taller than them. I'm not actually mean to asians, nor do i bully them. But it seems every asian i meet quickly grows to hate me. i blame it on their tiny dicks... and my insensitivity.

Dont worry homo hobbes. Kung fu isn't really necessary unless you're in a kung fu tournament. otherwise you can just use a gun. or your car... or both. That really levels the playing field.

Never really got bullied.
Whenever someone tried to make me stammer and say something dumb I just responded in a naive manner.
If he asked "Hey anon, im going to your house tonight" id respond with "Sure, 5 pm sounds great!"
They didnt get what they wanted from it so they stopped.

Truth be told, I went to rich kids schools, and I was pretty much an outside, not because I am poor(My family isnt), but because I first was a metalhead and then an anime fan, sharing my interests with 1 other person over 4 years.
Never got bullied much, though, even though I was the one with fringe interests.

>>3682837
lololololololololol
so seriously wtf is up with your nails?

>>3682808

It was her I said that to. I felt awful after he died but I really didn't deserve to spit on or pushed. Hell, I mean when I told her/ranted to her after I found out it should have been obvious it was said in pure anger.

He ended up dying in a fire he caused when he feel asleep with a cigarette and caught something on fire. It mostly smoldered but he never once tried to help the girl. In fact, he ran into a closet.

i 'grew up' in an all-italian neighborhood as the one jewish boy in the entire neighborhood so i was regularly beaten...i took great pains to never exhibit any signs of ANGER but only fear and submission...three tragic fires occurred in my neighborhood as i grew up resulting in two deaths and the loss of lots of ill-gotten (mafia) property...to this day i LOVE to let people show me just how willing they are to take advantage of me when they think i am weak, then i bring the MONSTER out to deal with 'em....

I was a bully. HARDCORE.

>>3682856

Ok, I'm really sorry for your loss and all...

But I hope you realize that is every jaded victim-of-a-cheater's dream.

>>3682856
So she went postal on you. You know what I think, I think you should've just gone postal on her and wished her a fiery death too except she probably wasn't a smoker.

I'm also going to say this - she was a shitty person and I understand your emotional pain, but what she did wasn't bullying. That was just her going postal on you. Now if she incited everyone else she knew to kick and spit at you as well for cursing her cheating bastard of a boyfriend into a pile of ashes, that'd be bullying.

>>3682848
i dont know, i chew them a lot but i didnt think it was that obvious. you have me actually looking at my nails now... they're just nails man. show us yours if you've got better.

I was basically bullied from the time I was in the 3rd grade, all the way up until, hmm... I want to say my junior year in High School?

I still do get shit occasionally, but it isn't nearly as bad as what it was back then.

As for how I handled it, well... Not in any positive manner, I can tell you that. Let's just say I spent some time in psychiatric hospitals due to these issues.

Feels bad, man.

>Elementary school, get bullied all the time because I'm fat. Cry constantly, hate school.
>Middle school, sixth grade, I'm the awkward kid that think being 'random' is SO funny.
>A boy asks me out in the seventh grade.
>Find this new weird self confidence.
>Start dressing nicer, lose weight, get boobs, wear makeup.
>I'm suddenly the popular girl.

And then the bullying stopped.

>>3682879
ummm I'm pretty sure he is just aroused by them. But yeah, you want some nasty nails I got em right here. My fingers are all sliced and diced from this back ass retarded wood carving design project, and my nails are died black from india ink and charcoal. There is also some blood stuck under my nail from when I pressed too hard and jammed wood shavings under my finger nail. That would is also now infected and pussy.

I feel so pretty right now

>>3682873
Don't be sorry he was a loser. Better off without him honestly.

>>3682878
Oh, well, I guess I understand then. I won't count it as bullying then. She did get another girl to join her but then that other girl was a friend of his as well. The other girl seemed genuinely upset (crying, disheveled look) so I couldn't blame her.

>>3682879
a feeling a little sensitive about something? :3
I dont need another excuse to cam whore.

I went to high school with God(of course he doesn't know this)

he was the biggest pussy of all time lol. It's no wonder he gives off this "alpha" image on /cgl/

>>3682889
Somewhat similar to my situation. Well, I think my only reason for being bullied so much was that I've always been socially awkward as fuck all of my life, and also, well, people used to think I was a dude. That wasn't much fun.

I remember when I first started high school, though, I went to a school in a new district, so nobody new me. That was pretty nice, I guess I took advantage of it and tried to change myself in order to avoid the bullying; I grew out my hair super long, started dressing in more feminine clothing, etc. etc.

I still got shit occaionally, and I also had gotten a boyfriend but he was a complete douche, and afterwards I thought "fuck it", and decided to just completely give up on pleasing others. I pretty much act completely like myself now. Still socially awkward but, meh.

>>3682903
They are douchemaggots, and you should totally celebrate the event with a cake. Maybe skimp on the candles though. Also, if only people really died because you wished them dead - you'd be a gazillionaire from hit money by now.

>>3682890
>infected and pussy
>pussy

Me: lol
Aroused by nails? And i thought i was the guy with the fetishes.
that sounds like a fucking pain in the ass art project! I had a project about a year ago that i destroyed my fingers on. so much exacto knife cutting. so much sticky spray fixative.... SHOW US YOUR FINGERS BETCH!
its the only way for us to know that you're really working hard on your project!

if your fingers aren't too bloody to type, you're not a real artist yet. ( says the art senior derping around on 4chan)

>>3682919
It's just an act, true, but does that surprise you so much? I find his meek attitude and politeness really cute, actually. It always makes me smile.

>>3682917
i've never had someone ask about my nails before... and i once had a hand-model as a room mate!
And you do need an excuse to camwhore. its not like you're whored yourself to the camera more than i have... i'm pretty sure i've selfposted 200% more than anyone else in here.

>>3682919
lolwhat. I kept to myself and had a close-knit group of friends, never had any problems. lollll

>>3682949
i dont have to self post... anon/trips do it for me

facebook raids are fun...

>>3682933
I tried taking a pic with my web cam, but it was too dark and blurry to even see the scarring. It just looks like black nail polish.

Also lol oopsie Freudian slip

>>3682966
For shame. i shall bring the self posting with vigor then!
and crap, i'm still staring at my nails thinking "whut?"

>>3682966
just a side note...would you happen to know a good method for cutting a hole through balsa wood?

My exacto knives are worn to the bit, and my table saw is too big too fit. I need replacement blades, but the fucking store is closed and my teacher went full retard on monday and decided it needs to be fully carved by tomorrow. Oh that is cool crazy lady. It isn't like I have other classes then, but a 4 day weekend in which I could dedicate time and care to this project instead of rushing through it to meet your ridiculous deadline.

>>3682930

Haha! I should! If only he were important enough for me to remember his death date.

>>3682954
Verilly i shall bring the self posting.

>>3682986
Sorry man, i work with paper mostly. cardboard, poster, paper, canvas, paint, ink pen, etc.

But usually, when something is pissing me off and not cutting the way i want it to. i start using fire. i suggest "fire".
heat your tools with the vengance of the stove and go to town on that wood.

>>3682997
lol, fag

>>3683011
no homo.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oCPY96Frtyw

>>3683007
see I do too and that is mainly the problem. My school is all lol you have to take 3D design anyway which whatever its kind of cool to experiment, but then the crazy bitch throws a wood carving project at us without any explanation of how to work it and expects us to get all this outside of class work done when most everyone is broke ass 2D artist and doesn't have/can't afford the ridiculously expensive supplies needed.
And I know I know holy runon sentence batman....but I so mad I can't even punctuate. I'm hoping if I sit down and have an honest to god chat with her, she will see some reason in it cause there is no fucking way I'll have this done in time even if I stay up all night ( which I fucking won't. I stayed up all night last night working on it already. This shit is so not worth it.)

It doesn't help that the size balsa wood she required doesn't actually exsist in stores, so you have to glue pieces together with wood glue.
This class is my only B and it is pissing me the fuck off because I spend waaaay more time on it than any of my others.

>>3683077
MOTHER FUCK I JUST GOT A WOOD CHIP JAMMED INTO THE SAME FUCKING INFECTED FINGER NAIL FUCK FUCK FUCK

relative to a bully thread because I'm about ready to beat the shit out of someone

>>3683102
AND NOW I'M OUT OF FUCKIN NEOSPORIN BECAUSE I'VE CUT MYSELF THAT FUCKING MUCH.

When I talk to her, I am going to make her stare at every single wound on me for at least 3 minutes, to make her contemplate what she has brought on us. FUCK

>>3683102
Yeah you bully that balsa wood! give it hell. dont forget to insult its mother a lot too

>>3683114
and then you bully her too! I sorta bullied a teacher... "hobbes" wouldnt consider it bullying. but it was unnecessary foul treatment towards a teacher.

she was just so stupid i wanted to punch her.

>>3682954
yeah thats right. iiii brought the self posting. i guess it wsnt really a challenge, but had it been, i still would have won.

Nope, took an art and animation-centered course for Gymnasium, everyone were bros with similar interests.

Before that, the only "bullies" in my grade school class was just a small group of retards who thought they were the shit and looked down on everyone else. Everyone just laughed and smiled at them.

I didn't read the whole thread, but why is nearly every person posting a girl?

In elementary school, everybody picked on this one fat kid, even teachers. I joined in on that because I was a stupid douche.

In middle school, I was halfway between accepted and outcast. Some of the really popular kids liked me but most of the others were indifferent or hated me.

In high school, it was pretty mellow. Some kids on football would pick on me, but never really anything violent. Nobody ever attacked me, but touching me was bad enough. One kid gave me a wet-willie while we were on the bus back from a game so I turned around and punched him twice in the chest. You know those dreams where you're punching but it feels like the softest hit in the world? That's what those two punches felt like. I was embarrassed about how weak the punches were and was working myself up to swing harder, but he got this scared look on his face and backed off. /shrug. In my senior year, I apparently had this reputation for being psycho or tough or something.. A psuedo-friend quietly warned someone not to mess with me and I had no clue what I had done to earn that... OOOH WELL. There aren't too many bullies at college, from what I've seen, but I'm ready to fight and get my ass kicked if I find one.

>>3683117
I have literally separated part of my nail from my finger now. It bled allot on the project itself which I will be showing her. I'm also going to utilize my theater background to make myself cry when I talk to her. Shit yeah tears on command.

>>3683134
because girls talk about it more probably?
guys nut up and dont cry.

>>3683145
my pride would not allow the tears... and, y'know, boys dont cry

>>3683126
nigger... i can upload more pics of my self then you. yes I am a whore like that.

I've been bullied. I dressed unfortuanately in High School. I was only ever made fun of, but yeah it definitely sucks. I responded in turn with snide remarks and sarcasm. I definitely don't care these days as most of the people who made fun of me back in middle school are ugly and are now dating losers. My life is so much better now. I feel much happier these days then I did back then.

I never even saw people getting bullied at my school
But then again I was at the top of the social pyramid and [spoiler]I never looked down[/spoiler]

>>3683167
bring it betch

>>3683179
No spoilers on /cgl/?

>>3683173
highschool seems to be the awkward suck period for pretty much everyone. lgad you've gotten above i by now.

>>3683183
lol nvm gtg outside :3

>>3683179
Thats good being at the top and all, but didnt that mean everyone at the bottom figured you were only popular for being skinny or having nice clothes and hate you thusly?

>>3683193
>being skinny or having nice clothes
These aren't the only things that make you popular you know.
It's all in the personality. And decent looks

>>3683191
this might sound weird... but are you timvo?

>>3683205
i know personality plays a huge role. but i remember the unpopular folks blaming it on the populars just being skinny and liking to drink alcohol.

>>3683215
thats because unpopular people blame their unpopularity problems on the popular people
if that makes sense

>>3683223
it does make sense. i'm aware of that. so it makes sense that the unpopular feel bad for being bullied and then bully the popular ones for being popular for "no reason"

>>3683232
The unpops usually confuse bullies with popular people then get mad at them because thats who they think the bully associa
oh fuck it
too much writing

I only remember 7th grade, where I was quiet/weird/antisocial and wore the same oversized gray sweater every day.. Later I found out people were calling me autistic or retarded :/ And it's also one of the most annoying things ever when someone asks you WHY you're so quiet.

>>3683253
I hate it when people ask why i'm so quiet. i can only think "because i was really distracted with not talking to you". lol

but retarded, that's unfortunate. kids in my middle school used to think i had a handicap of some sort

I was never bullied. I had a nice close knit group of friends. People I didn't know very well were nice to me too. I dunno why. My friends got bullied pretty mercilessly. I find that not being fat and not dressing weird helped a lot. Also proper hygiene and grooming.

>>3683253
oh boy that one is my fav

>>3682758
>stamina surrounding me

you mean stigma bro

High school was surprisingly good for me. Being over a year younger than everyone else, totally sheltered, terrible at sport and ugly really worked for me because I developed a self-deprecating sense of humour and just stopped caring what anyone thought of me. I was non-threatening, said witty things and would do anything I was dared to like walk around school with a fake moustache or swallow plaster of paris. I had frequent indigestion and zero attention from the opposite sex but at least my wrists are free of self harm scars and no bad poetry lurks in my internet history.

>>3682919
Duck tales. I went to high school with him too. Take a picture of yourself and time stamp or you are full of crap.

I was bullied, but it was well deserved, because I'm so stupid and ugly and such a loser.

(1/2)

I was a huge nerd in middle school, wore thick rimmed glasses and had a face full of acne. During the 7th grade the class bully decides to single me out for a good half year and I just endured it. Really I thought he would go away but instead the taunts got worse and he got his friends in on it. I did my best just to hang out with my other nerd friends and talk about Magic cards and Digimon and while I found comfort in that I hated going to class cause I knew he would be there.

One day I just had enough of his shit. The morning before class I saw him walking alone and while his back was turned I ran past him and intentionally shoved him. I didn't knock him down but he get royally pissed at him. Right in the front of school he just went "Someday you're going to be lying in a pool of your own blood" at that moment something inside of me snapped.

Throughout English class I just kept staring holes in the back of the guy's head as I was sick and tired of him and his crew giving me hell every day so I created a plan to humiliate him in front of all the students. If I can get everyone laughing at him then he'd leave me alone. My plan was to ambush him again as he left class by clapping both of his ears then when he was disorientated I'd put him in a headlock, give him a noogie and run away. With that in mind I eagerly waited for the bell to ring

>>3683535

(2/2)
The bell rang and I watched the guy head toward the door. Slowly I got up and eyed my target and began matching his walking speed. Right when he entered the main hallway I sprung my attack. First was the double clap, but unfortunately I botched it. I only managed to clap one hear the other one slapped him in his temple. I didn't get the stun effect I wanted but he was surprised. Already students were taking notice and began surrounding him and I saw this as the perfect chance to go for the noogie as people were watching. Sadly for me I was too slow on the attack and now the bully put me in a headlock as was looking to kick my ass.

One thing I should mention was that at the same time of me being bullied I was also REALLY into pro wrestling and all the kids on my block did small wrestling matches and practiced slams and holds on each other. We never hurt each other as we all held our punches but I did get a lot of practice in. While I was still in the headlock I had a flashback to when my friend put me in a similar hold in which I countered and just out of instinct my body moved on its own.

First I lowered my posture, grabbed the bully by the ankles lifted his legs up as high as I could and then threw him down on the tiles with every ounce of strength I had.

When my senses returned I saw the guy sprawled out on the floor. At first I was preparing myself to get my ass kicked as he was going to get up any moment.

He didn't.

He stayed motionless on the floor. As the faculty came to escort me to the office the guy was still lying motionless.

Britfag here, so sorry if I confuse people with not-junior/middle/high school terminology.

I used to get bullied all day erry day when I was in primary school - it wasn't so bad when I was in the first couple of years but once I hit year 3 that was it, I barely had any friends and the few people I talked to were always guys who sometimes let me play football with them. Otherwise, I'd spend my time at school in a corner of the playground crying everyday. The few times when I was bothered at lunch was usually to pick on me again and I'm not sure why they did even now. The thing that sticks out most clearly in my mind from this time period was when I was pushed into a block of nails (I think this was an accident as the guy didn't know there were nails in the wall, but it still hurt like fuck). It must be noted that for a really long time I've had to put up with a bunch of shit from my mother, who I lived with until recently, so if I wasn't getting bullied at school I was probably arguing with mum constantly.

Then I got into secondary school and I thought everything would be okay, but it took me four months to make proper friends after growing up as a bit of a recluse who didn't know how to interact with people properly. I think I was bullied majorly once in year 7, which resulted with rocks being thrown at me for no reason, but the brother of someone who eventually became a really strong friend to me came and chased the bullies away, so it wasn't all bad.
I don't get bullied so much now though. As I said before, I put up with a lot of shit from my mother which has fucked me up in ways I'm still figuring out about, but I've moved in with my dad for the time being. It's all good.

>>3683572

(3/3) Didn't think I'd type so much

Of course I was suspended, 3 days to be exact but I didn't feel bad about the ordeal. My teachers were surprised to hear about it as they couldn't believe the initial reports that were coming their way about my fight that day. I had a long talk with my dad about it and while he was not proud of me getting in trouble he was very understanding about the circumstances I was in. As I was lead away a lot of students when interviewed about the fight were quick to mention the long history of bulling that existed between us. While they kept silent about the whole thing beforehand I was just relieved to see they did everything they could to prevent me from getting expelled.

I later found out that they had to roll him out on a wheelchair and that the back of his head had a gigantic bump from when he landed. Luckily for him and me there was no serious injuries. Needless to say the entire 7th grade student body was absolutely shocked at how the class's nerdiest kid destroyed the school bully in such a one sided fight. No one messed with me ever again and I was allowed to talk about cartoons and play card games in peace.

>>3683588
holy shit, that was one intense story o-o

>captcha: intense, mankhank
RIGHT YOU ARE CAPTCHA.

>>3683588
And then you moved in with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air

I LOVE SEEING OTHERS BULLIED. 8D

Don't get me wrong though, I know it sucks a lot. I used to be depressed when I was younger and used to get in trouble a lot for questioning everything. Lots if therapists.

Now am I a bully? You could say so, but I'm really just a bad kid who's doing stuff for a good cause. After I manned up and punched the shit out of a kid who had been picking on me for a while, it felt so good I needed to do it again.

So whenever I found a kid getting battered or beaten I used to take the offender and pretty much tear his reputation up in shreds. Getting beat up by a girl does seem to do that.

I got bullied to hell and back through middle school. Eased off during high school.
It sucks. But people need to man the fuck up and deal with it.

I was bullied daily in jr. high and then one day I snapped and went apeshit on the kid that regularly picked on me.
I got a short suspension for it (the investigation ended up in my favor, that my actions were due to years of bullying from that kid but I still needed some kind of punishment for fighting on campus), but it was well worth how it felt when I got back and had no one gave me any trouble.

Weirdly enough, despite being the biggest loser in the world, I was never bullied.
It made me wonder why. I saw other kids in my class being bullied, but never me.

In the end I became a bully myself cause it pissed me off so much that people loved me.

I dont bully people -for serious- anymore. I can still pick on people, but only if I know they dont take my rude comments seriously.

tl;dr I was messed up then. And I am messed up now.

I was bullied from 2nd grade until the end of 8th grade. I went to a high school none of my classmates went to.

It was over anything and everything about me. Everything from a small mole near my ear on the side of my face, to the brand of shampoo I used (my shampoo was not cool enough), to my teeth being crooked (in 5th grade, wtf).

This went pretty far, from daily comments that became more and more disturbing and disgusting. Around 7th grade some classmates found my AIM name and sent me disgusting things. The same year, the boy I had a crush on was throwing a birthday party and invited everyone in the class except for me. 34/35 students. Eventually, a girl in the class figured out I liked him and told him. Everyone in the class proceeded to give him their condolences in front of me, telling him how sorry they were for him that I had a crush on him.

As soon as I was away from my class, I've been very socially successful and likable. I never told my parents I was bullied until years after, I didn't want them to think I was unhappy because they were so proud of me going to that particular school.

I was bullies and regularly beaten by my classmates all throughout elementary and into middle school. It stopped when I got into high school because by then, I had friends and I was attending an art school, so I rose to an acceptable tier on the nerd hierarchy and was left alone.

Though bullying sucks and I hated it, I have to say... I'm a much stronger person today because of it, and I think that if I HADN'T been bullies and learned how to deal with it, I'd be a total pussy nowadays. While people start these anti-bullying campaigns with the best of intentions, having been there? I think that if your childhood isn't allowed to be at least a little rough, you'll grow up a spoilt brat and a whimpering pussy. Bullying exists in the professional world as much as it does in schools, and for Christ's sake- let your kids learn how to grow a backbone.

>>3683924
*bullied. Damn typos at nearly 6 a.m.

THAT BULLY MOE BULLIES ME AT SCHOOL AND TAKES MY QUARTERS AND CALLS ME TWINKY AND SOMETIMES I HAVE TO BRING HOBBES TO TEACH HIM A LESSON

Bullied a bit in elementary. Defended myself and got a detention slip that my mother blew up at the principal for giving me, so in the end I didn't have to go.
>>3681827
Dude I can relate. No I don't want to wear high waters below my ass, no I don't want to speak Spanish and have mostly mexican friends, no I don't want a mexican girlfriend, and I ESPECIALLY don't give a fuck about lowriders. I will however watch Dragon Ball while high with you.

I was bullied throughout almost all of middle school. The girls that teased me had the most ridiculous reasons for acting the way they did. I kept to myself, even though I was nerdy and shy. But I became their victim because . . . I didn't like them. That is seriously why.

I stuck to my group of friends and didn't really socialize with anyone else in our school. Which was fine, because everyone was vapid and shallow. One day, a classmate was talking with me over a group project and she kept asking if I knew this girl and that girl. When I told her I didn't really care for them, shit hit the fan.
They came after me and my friends every day because we didn't love them like the rest of the school did. Those girls did everything they could to get us into trouble or harmed, even resorting to telling the big nasty Tongan girls that we were saying bad things about them in the hopes that they'd beat us up.

Finally got a few of them suspended when they followed us home and tried to jump us. We all graduated high school with honors, while they dropped out in 11th grade for getting pregnant. Feels good, man.

>bullied every day by a single fucking douch bag up until high school.
>keept my cool..didn't got back at him..
>I graduate from college. got a nice job..
>walking down the street.. I bump into a stranger
>I look closer at his face I realize it was that ass hole.
>his clothes were all torn up rags,he smelled bad..his health didn't seem good either.
>I look at him straight in the fucking eyes.
>burning with rage about to fuck his shit up.
>He looks at me, his eyes started to tearup
>He leans down on his knees.. crying..
>look at him.... no longer did I felt any anger towards him.. but I felt really sorry for him...
>gave him a few dollars.
>I walk away...with out saying a single word..

Did I do good?

Cool story bros.

>>3684075
go back to africa you nymph.

>>3684080

Brb.

>>3684089
lol seriously?

Primary School
- Start at new school in grade one
- Girls in my class get up and move away when teacher allocates mt seat
- Kid punches me in face and knocks out my tooth, got a dollar from the tooth fairy though, shit was so cash
- The other kids would knock down my building blocks, I made the raddest structures, other kids were jelly
- Make friends with a couple of girls in the year below me because I was the youngest person in my grade because I was a year younger than everyone else
- Fourth grade, my teacher is awesome and I start drawing anime style pictures and pokemon, I was pretty awesome
- Fifth grade, teacher takes a disliking to me because he can
- Get sick and take 3 weeks off school
- Get back to school and everyone pretends I don't exist
- Change schools in Grade Six
- Other kids won't sit next to me because I wore reading glasses
- Get put into transition class with the youngest kids in the grade
- Some kid starts obsessing over me and draws pictures of us getting married, no one liked me after that

>>3684147 continued

High School (7 - 10)

- Beaten up by tallest guy in the grade, lol
- My year advisor hates me, puts me in the lowest classes for everything except maths
- Art teacher is really into Manga and we draw that all the time (fuck yeah)
- Everyone in my grade bullies me, had one kid try and push me down the stairs, had the girls rugby union team gang up on me and tell me they were going to kill me, had the biggest group of losers in the year reject me, have things thrown at me, stones thrown at my head, people spitting at me, being hit in the back of the head with rulers, had someone try and cut my hair, people ruined my artwork in class
- Quote the holy grail and one kid tells me how awesome I am
- Friends for ages, everyone picked on us though, lol
- Get sick of the bullying
- don't go to school for 6 months
- come back with styled red hair, learnt how to put on make-up, started wearing a shorter skirt and listened to my mp3 player ALL THE TIME.
- Ace my year 10 exams and come 20th in the grade overall

>>3684148 cont


High School (year 11 - 12)

- Change schools, move 200 km away
- Come to school wearing my combat boots and my weaboo bag
- Get taken in by the "weird" group
- Start talking to everyone
- Start going out with the hottest mother fucker I've ever seen
- Finish school with high Academic achievements

Uni next year.

tl;dr? Moral of the story, it gets better. All the people who bullied me either failed year 12 or a pregnant and living off welfare. SUCKED IN CUNTS.

I'll just sum up my story.
>Have friends in primary school.
>Parents think its a good idea to move, so we did.
>New school, 2 friends. Bullied quite nasty(e.g Last year(year.6) I was "fully dacked(underpants and all)" in-front of the entire year, so much for maturing.
> Some went to a shit highschool, i went to a OK one, still got somewhat bullied
>Awesome marks up to year 10.
>Marks start to go downhill, get beaten in tests by people who was originally bullied by.
>currently in HSC studying, hoping i go well if i don't, i don't see what life's so cracked up to be.

I was bullied since I was 9-16 years old.
They just singled me out on the first day of school because I was 'weird' or 'different'. So everyday when I was a kid they boys used to hit and kick me. Both the boys and the girls would say I had a disease and so they couldn't touch me or sit next to me. They would be pretend to be physically repelled my me because of this disease I had. They would make stuff up about me so I would get in trouble with the teachers, call me a swot and a freak. I thought it was normal so I put up with that shit for years..
I developed early and got big boobs before the others and they would grab my chest and jiggle it about ;o; Spray deodorant in my mouth and spray stuff all over me.
I got my period and they would creep into the toilets to watch me change my pads which was pretty humiliating.
They stole my homework, would get up when I sat down at a lunch table, say I was ugly and stupid.
I'm vegetarian and they would put big dripping bits of meat on their forks and hang it over my food when I was eating. They stole my diary, make shit up about me, tried to choke me and laughed when I couldn't breathe.
When I started getting suicidal and cut myself they made up of me being depressed. They said I was bullying another girl and would go to the teacher saying I was doing horrible things to her and shit.
I cried everyday, eat lunch in the toilets etc...
I hated school.

>>3684312
they grabbed your boobs and spied on you in the bathroom? sounds like some self-hating future lesbians in the making, man.

>go to small private school from kindergarten to jr. high
>Jr. high- get made fun of for various reasons, like liking animu and doodling all the time
>mom gets remarried so we move and I switch schools
>big public school
>no one knows how lame I am and that I picked my nose in 1st grade
>PROFIT

High school was pretty alright. No bullying, I was just that one sort-of quiet chick who sat there and doodled and did well on tests. There's maybe one girl that I know of that definitely disliked me, but that's because I didn't put up with her bullshit.

Damnit, raging so hard over some of these bully stories. Not just because the said bullies were assholes, but because some of you sound like door mats :/

>>3684327
When you have been systematically bullied for years and your self worth ground down to the ground, lets see how likely it would be that you would stand up for yourself.

Got tired of getting picked on in middle school. By high school no one messed with me or ANY of the nerdy kids, because I would and did fight until both of us were broken, bloody messes. Even though I grew up in America, meaning that shit should've gotten me expelled, I must have grown up in a goddamn time vortex to the 1950s because every time they'd just go "boys will be boys" and give me a days punishment. FOR THROWING A GUY THROUGH A WINDOW.

Didn't matter though. I was king and protector of the nerds.

There are many types of bullying and bullies, and as such there is not a single way of dealing with bullying that will work with all bullies. Some prefer to verbally harass and if you physically stand up to them they stop. Others just want a physical confrontation so ignoring them is the best. Sometimes making fun of the bullies works, And sometimes nothing you do will ever stop the bullying because some kids are just pure assholes. Top with that the fact that most schools like to pretend that there is no bullying in their precinct so the school won't get a bad name, or the teachers who'd rather not get involved or think it's up to you to stop it or not them. Or take the side of the student they like the most.

I was heavily verbally bullied from age 10 to 17, that is until I left high school. Didn't helped that I attended the same private school the whole time and that the school was full of pretentious kids from new rich parents. I was shy, kinda nerdy looking, had good grades, was a bit chubby, hit puberty earlier than most people, had huge boobs that no one else had, dressed a bit funny because I was such an obedient child that my mum was the one who bought my clothes (or the few times I got to chose I'd never chose what she didn't like out of fear of pissing her off). I was always told by my mum to ignore bullies, and ignore is what I almost always did. Never worked. Also didn't helped that when I got really angry I would cry. Teachers never stopped them. Until the end of middle school I at least had friends so things were more bearable. They all left the school afterwards, so I was alone during high school.

Hated every single day of high school, but always tried to held my head high. Looking back at it if I had just followed my instincts and thrown a couple of punches around the situation would have been fixed, as they were all big talk until confronted. A girl punched one of them at a point and he stopped bullying her.

At age 15 became anorexic, started getting compliments from some of the guys -.- After a year decided I was feeling too shitty like that, Christmas rolled in and the delicious food made me start eating like a normal person again. I was always bullied by guys, almost never by the girls. That made me hate men for a very long time.

Then university came, I made awesome friends who liked me for who I was, got a foreign boyfriend and started telling my mom to can it and picked my own clothes. Graduated, am now living together with my then boyfriend now fiancé on his country. Life is good.

Lesson to be taken? Don't try to always be a good child, your parents may love you but most of the time have no fucking clue about what bullying is. Ignoring is not always the solution. Sometimes violence *is* the solution. So changing schools can be. Anorexia is not the solution, you become an irritable bitch that no one can stand.

I have no idea what my old bullies are up to now. I hated them, so I have no desire to look up on them.

>>was bullied in 7th grade
>>school didn't give a shit
>>bullies started their usual routine one day, but included my friend in their attentions
>>stood up to my full height of five feet (they were all at least three inches taller)
>>told them to, "back the fuck off, bitch"
>>never bullied again
>>???
>>PROFIT

>>3684331
i know i'm lucky to have never been bullied, but part of the reason is because i've been able to prevent it before it became systematic bullying, whether it's tattling on the person, or telling them to fuck off. It's just that in most of the stories here, most did not metntion ever reporting the abuse to someone who can help stop it. Not saying anyone deserved what they got, but it sure sounds like most didn't seek help :/

eh, i generally got off pretty easy
though i kept getting messed with by the usual suspects
throwing shit at me, making cheap comments etc. etc.
about halfway through year 11 the MMA craze went through the school, soon enough i found the same pack of mad cunts in my muay thai class which i had been attending for 3 years at the time
got paired with one of them for a couple of rounds of pads, went easy, tried to help him out with his techniqe as he was throwing everything as hard as he could. day after at school i got called weak, shrugged it of and walked away.
week after that i got paired another one of them, he kept being slack on the pad, kept lowering it, didn't brace himself despite me telling him to, kept making coments that he didn't need to brace himself against me.
so i kicked him with all my might and put him on his hole.
they didn't bother me much after that

Compared to some of the stories here I got off really fuckin' lightly. One girl just used to tease me about how I looked, 'cause god forbid someone doesn't see the need to dress up like a tart for school. She got on at me about dandruff (I've always had dry skin, though it's so much better nowadays) and how big my eyebrows were (not very). Everytime she cornered me about it I gave her a look that said "don't give a shit" and she eventually got the hint.

Another girl, a bitch from Canada, decided it'd be awesome to put gum in my hair two times in as many minutes. I blew up at her and said I'd slap her shitless if she did it again which really didn't work. Then her friends dumped her and she started hanging off me and my friends. Me, being much too nice for my own good, just tolerated it until her friends too her back. Cue verbal insults and put downs in PE class.

Three girls made maths class a nightmare and I could barely learn anything due to them always interupting the teacher. Shame too, he was amazingly smart and knew his shit, but he couldn't control a class to save his life. Had to retake my GCSE maths exam because of it.

I'm in my final year at Uni now, and... no bullying. None. Feels so fuckin' good man

I moved when I was 14 y/o and the cool gang tried to harass me. The first week I tried to ignore it. But next week I was so pissed I literally smashed the boss' head on the desk. I was a weak tiny wig. But well, when you are enraged and pumped ... you know it.
So then everyone let me be and finally found some really good friends.

I got picked on pretty bad.
When i was in elementary i LOVED sailor moon, and everyone thought i was weird/creepy and wouldn't talk to me. One time my teacher moved me next to a boy i had a crush on in third grade and he cried because he didn't want to have to site next too "the sailor moon girl."
Some of the kids would steal my stuff and break it if it was sailor moon. umbrella, pen, key chains, all mysteriously disappeared and showed up broken in my cubby later.
Then they'd taunt me by asking me questions like why don't you ever straighten you're hair (lol third grade) or some dumb shit then wait for my answer and tell me something like "well the way you do it is way out of style so you should change it because it looks dumb."

When i got too middle school it wasn't as bad but i'd still get people doing the whole fake nice too make fun of me routine.
For high school though i went to a different school where no one knew me and didn't mention anime there too anyone, i also fixed up my hair and started wearing make-up and sort of grew into myself looking a lot hotter with way better self esteem.
Then my new high school (it was a charter) shut down and i had to go to the one with all the kids from middle school and elementary, lucky those first two years did me some good and no one there really recognized me or made any snide comments, i even had one of the kids who picked on me (and didn't recognized me) ask me out (in a not fuckingwithme manner). of course i said no,
felt good man.

Now I'm sort of a bully though, but not to the kids who normally get bullied, i pick on the kind off kids who picked on me, when they'd talk i'd make them realize how dumb the shit they talked about was. i.e. OMG my boyfriend doesn't love me and i'm too fat for my prom dress and OMG I just love twilight and jersey shore is so cool. Any one who talked like that and was "the popular type" got the brunt of my meanness. also I made one of the kids who used to taunted me in elementary tear up once. and i don't regret it.

it's interesting that /cgl/ is bully central and yet we all got bullied. go figure huh?
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