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    115 KB How to Make Friends at Cons? Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)18:50 No.2496333  
    I'm shy person but I would like to make more friends with similar hobbies/interests at cons. I go to gatherings and such but people always seem like they're in their own clique. I've never been much of a social butterfly and don't want to go to my next con being socially awkward again.

    tl;dr- How to make friends and stop being such an awkward fuck.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)18:53 No.2496336
    Feign interest in everything their saying.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)18:53 No.2496337
    Easy. Stop being such an awkward fuck. Walk up to people. Say HOLY SHIT THATS AN AWESOME COSTUME. HOW DID YOU MAKE THAT SHIT. MAN THAT IS FUCKING AWESOME. CAN I GET A PICTURE? SO HAVE YOU BEEN DOING THIS LONG? I'M NEW TO CONVENTIONS, AND I'M A LITTLE NERVOUS, BUT I JUST HAD TO COME UP AND SAY WOW TO THIS COSTUME.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)18:54 No.2496345
    >>2496337
    SHOUT IT AT THEM
    LIKE THIS
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)18:56 No.2496354
    >>2496345
    Enthusiam and energy are proven to make people interested.
    >> Jeñ !93dAD1zPW2 01/17/10(Sun)18:57 No.2496358
    Start talking to people. It's not that hard, everyone at a con basically has the same interests. A person sitting next to you during a panel, at a gathering, or just people hanging out; there is always a way to start to talk to someone. Just be confident and not an asshole!
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)18:59 No.2496361
    >>2496337
    do this but let them respond, you dont want to have one sided conversations. one guy came up to me and everything he said was like he had fabricated how the conversation would go in his head, didnt listen to me at all so i gave up
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)18:59 No.2496362
    Wait in line. I've made some friends and also met some really strange/annoying people while in some of the hour or longer lines I've waited in at conventions. But if you're stuck there for that long you might as well talk to people around you because there's nothing else to do. Hell, I'll wait in line at panels I'm not even going to just to hang out with my con friends.

    If you cosplay, go to photoshoots, and afterwords people usually stick around and hang out, and sometimes go to dinner.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)19:05 No.2496377
    >>2496345
    EXACTLY LIKE THAT? OK.

    OP here. Thanks, I'll keep everything in mind.
    >> Morgen Le Fag !Ga/e.JvMvQ 01/17/10(Sun)19:08 No.2496382
    I've made a few friends by having my MSN address as my DSi message in the picto chat. Otherwise I just kinda talk to people, mostly about their costume, and it just goes from there.
    >> Nemo 01/17/10(Sun)19:10 No.2496387
    This thread makes me happy :)
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)19:11 No.2496390
    I mean, y'know. You're at an anime convention. There's a pretty good chance you'll have at least one thing in common with most people you meet. Especially those cosplaying as characters you like. That makes it pretty easy to pick a mutual subject of interest.

    Just, don't be a douchebag, and you'll be fine. There's nothing I hate more than someone who wants to talk about a show we both like, who then proceeds to impress upon me the absolute rightness of their every interpretation/criticism of the series. FFFFFFFFF THAT.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)19:21 No.2496413
    protip: Don't tell them you post here
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)19:22 No.2496417
    Be really mean to people and burn the fuck out of them.

    Seriously, every time I do this to somebody at a con, they suddenly decide to be my new best friend. I wish it DIDN'T work like that for me, cause it's usually annoying fuckfaces I'm being an ass too.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)20:35 No.2496619
    Get drunk and be social! Woot!
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)20:40 No.2496641
    Some of my best friends are people I've met through conventions and cosplay. Cosplaying is actually a terrific icebreaker.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)20:42 No.2496650
    If you're going alone/in a small group, you could go onto the forums before hand and see if another group wants to pair up with you guys. I've made friends like this a few times.
    >> Anonymous 01/17/10(Sun)23:27 No.2497190
    >>2496650
    This seems like a good idea in theory, but I feel like a lot of people on forums are really intense hardcore mouthbreathing basement weeaboo stereotypes, which is sometimes hard to tell until you meet them in person.
    >> Murrie !/rMxiN97Dw 01/18/10(Mon)00:07 No.2497339
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    Ask them "So do you watch anime?"
    Gets the bitches every time.
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)00:13 No.2497356
    from personal experience "would you like to make fuck" seems to work pretty well
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)00:21 No.2497378
    >>2497339
    After thinking about it, that would actually work... wish I tried it on the people I wanted to hang with.
    Most of my con "friends" are shallow people that wanna fuck me.
    >> Anonymous of College Park,MD 01/18/10(Mon)00:24 No.2497382
    Three ways
    1. Photoshoots and Meetups
    2. Panels
    3. Video Game rooms.

    I'll explain later if this thread is still alive, but I feel tired.
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)00:25 No.2497389
    >>2497378
    Oh, who am I kidding? No one wants to fuck me. Disregard that, I wish I could suck cocks
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)00:28 No.2497396
    >>2497389
    don't believe me? doesn't matter.
    There's a reason I'm posting as anon.
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)00:42 No.2497443
    Bring a pack of playing cards.Everyone likes to play cards.
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)00:43 No.2497445
    Kiss tons of ass. Also, contribute more than you wish to get in return.
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)00:43 No.2497448
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    >>2497443
    Even better
    >> Kaguya is a !BEaRD8DGAI 01/18/10(Mon)01:50 No.2497624
    >>2497448
    Nothing is more delicious than Anne Frank!
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)02:36 No.2497778
    i'm a pretty shy person around strangers, and in my experience, trying to force a conversation just doesn't end well....instead, when you sense a conversation potentially starting, do your best to keep it going. i.e., compliment someone's costume, ask a question about a specific part of it, like how they made a prop or if they had trouble sewing this or that, talk about which part of your costume was really hard to make....or talk about their character or the series it's from, if it's one you like and know enough about to discuss. then let things progress naturally. ideally you would be in a neutral location and neither of you is walking or on your way somewhere. waiting in line, just hanging around, you get the picture.

    ...but then again, the only time i've made actual friends at a con, it was through someone else )= so i don't know if my advice means anything.
    >> Anonymous 01/18/10(Mon)05:36 No.2497866
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    >>2497448
    Apples to Apples is small time compared to this game. Super rowdy game tables almost as if we were at a real bar. Everytime I bust this bad boy out and the expansion we draw huge crowds and have fun times.



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