/adv/ is that way----->
so figure out what you have in common. if you both like anime, watch it together. dicuss mangas you've read. biggest thing about 'socially awkward' people is being overly critical. he's going to like things you don't or you may think are even weird. dont fuss about it. and if he gets fussy over the things you like, tell him it's ok if he doesn't like what you do

You will never have an otaku girlfriend ask for advice on how to court you on /a/ ;_;

yume nikki thread?

yume nikki thread.

>>40019823
>implying women court

>>40019844
OP here.

Since I'm regretting posting this already, okay.

/adv/ kicked my ass, and I'm pretty sure /a/ will too. I'm not even going to try /jp/.

Silly OP, women can't be lonely.

Talk to them. Seriously that's it. If you both have similar interests then you'll be drawn together. Sage for OT.

>otaku
>female
>relationship

Get out. Now.

Don't build up some huge attachment to this friendship before you are actually friends.

>>40019878
>/adv/ kicked my ass,
link?

Recaptcha: how roanyino

you need to talk about something you're interested in

if you're lucky, they will be interested in that subject also

if you're unlucky, they'll be bored and you will need to try again

this is the most basic beginnings of any social exchange

what exactly is difficult here

go do things together
kiss each other on the mouth if you want

there you now have a relationship

trying chatting via internets or text first
it's much easier to do that than talk face to face, and that way you can get to know each other better, so when you do meet face to face it won't be akward

There is no "normal relationship." You like him, he likes you. You hang out cause you want to. At some point there is sex if you feel like it. Fuck the rules, there aren't any.

asking us for relationship advice

HA

>>40019943
404'd. It was a few days ago.

This pic made me imagine how Konata eventually becomes Madotsuki as she grows older. Sad man.

>You will never get to live that long to see this ;_;

>>40019993
>At some point there is sex if you feel like it
This is /a/ that we are talking about

This might sound stupid, but relationships just work themself out. Just try to meet him as much as you can, invite him to watch some animes with you or go see a movie.
You both may feel awkward in the beggining, but eventually you will feel comfortable in the presence of each other, meaning, you will enjoy beeing with each other, wich is the hole point

I don't think it's a good idea to try to get social advice from /a/, even if you've been kicked out of /adv/, but I'll give you a pass for Yume Nikki.

Find common interests, activities and topics of conversation.
Try to show interest things the other party might be interested in, even if you usually wouldn't yourself.
Getting used to it is the worst part. If you can persevere until it's become natural and familiar, the basis is pretty much done.

Just let it develop naturally. The best way to do that is just to spend a lot of time hanging out with each other, and if it feels right to (insert physical sign of affection here) at some point, do it. But for the love of god, don't rush things unnecessarily.

Seriously, just both of you be yourselves. Don't hide anything from him, he must do the same. That's all you ned to do to have a healthy relationship! Hiki or not.

>>40019993
>>40020039

These things. Throw out any preconceptions before going into this.

>>40020020
Nah, she's in Azumanga instead.

I mayb be a NEET and a hikikomori but atleast i''m not a stupid weeaboo like you o.p

Just jump on his dick. If he's as lonely virgin as the rest of us, I doubt he's going to push you off.

>>40019992
Yeah, thats a good idea. He doesn't seem to have MSN, but he says he uses email alot. So I'll start there.
>>40019942
Since I'm prone to doing this in my ronery "OH MAN SHE/HE MIGHT BE A POTENTIAL FRIEND" thanks for reminding me. I'll try not too.

Just keep talking to him. It's gonna be awkward for sure, but if you like him you're gonna need to work at it. I mean he's probably wondering a lot of the same things. Or you could just ask him "Would you like some making fuck?" and see how that pans out.

Follow the natural course of things. Don't force a friendship, just go with what you have. Try new methods to approach him, it's not like you have much to lose with no friends.

Or follow this simple guideline: talk about your interests, don't worry about personal stuff yet, then once you feel comfortable talking about your interests like normal, you can bring up personal stuff, then you can go on from there.

Don't rush yourself trying to build a new relationship, just let time and patience handle that.

Okay, first watch, Shin Mazinger Z, Getter Robo and GaoGaiGar, then put some Jam project on your mp3, now when you see him put GONG AT MAX VOLUME AND LET YOUR HOT BLOODED LOVE EXPRESS ITSELF !

>>40019992
This is actually extremely helpful if you have difficulty with face-to-face interaction. Building up some familiarity beforehand will make conversation way the fuck easier when you do hang out in person.

>>40020038
Yeah, bunch of horny little maniacs. You get 2 of us together, the only question will be who gets to be Yuki. It's inevitable.

>>40020122
I LIKE THIS IDEA

yo woman, tits or get the fuck outta my /a/

Don't turn into a slut, OP. No, seriously. I've seen it happen to too many sweet, shy girls. A good woman is discerning about her sexual partners, is choosy; she doesn't just roll over and accept affection from anyone who comes along.

Don't use sex to get a relationship going, don't use it to feel valued, powerful, or even closer to him. Flirt and cuddle to get these feelings. Reserve sex for when you know in your heart he's the one you have chosen, okay?

I recognize you feel really awkward and alone right now, but the realization that you are desired (and the power this gives you over the men within your grasp) is a very powerful thing, and it changes shy girls, not usually for the better.

>>40020244

This, don't go break that guy's heart because you feel empowered, shit hurts ;_;

>>40020244
agreed.
Also tits or GTFO, our advices don't come freely

>>40020244

this shit right here nigga
this shit is informative

>>40020191

Imagine. A yuki and male yuki archetypes in bed.

>>Him: ............
>>Her: .............
>>Him: ............

Ask his email.
It's the easiest way to communicate.

You coming here to ask for relationship advice is like asking a retard to explain the special theory of relativity. If we knew how to sustain relationships we wouldn't be here.

>>40020244

of course she's going to become a slut

girls are cumguzzling cockslurping bitchslut rapewhores after all

>>40020340

Great sex or greatest sex?

sage goes in every field

>>40020373

this nigga right here nigga
this nigga got some pent up emotions

>>40020244

AwshitNiggaFiveStarPost.jpg

>>40020340
Holy crap, we could both be Yuki. Now neither of us will be virgins!

Obligatory "just be yourself."

No, really. It works.

>>40020244
;_; Manly tears for you, anon

>asking /a/ about tips for getting along with the other gender

there´s your problem, op.

I like how people talk and discuss their views and relationships on women every night for endless amount of threads, but here comes some girl and you tell her to get out, It really shows what teenager mentality you have. You are nothing more than kids, who should really get the hell out of /a/, because the real reason anyone(wrongly) comes to an anime and manga imageboard to discuss their relationships and off-topic shenanigans is YOUR incessant plaguing of /a/.

>>40020093
>uses words exclusive to japanese like NEET and hikikomori
>claims to not be a weeaboo
wwwwwwwwww

>>40020441
I have a strange feel, if a /a/non and fem/a/non have been together for years, to the point they have already lived together for a long time. They still haven't fucked yet

>>40020244
/a/ being informative and helpful? Oh god what world had I stumbled into.

>>40020544
Except nobody's been telling anyone to gtfo /a/ for being a woman, they're telling us to gtfo because this is a thread that has nothing to do with anime.

>>40020441
>>40020381

Sex is implemented by both Yukis. Both partners do not speak, there is only silence. The sound of bed sheets ruffling and a sweet but short moan by the end of it.

Go watch DENSHA OTOKO op.

also go easy on the dude. and try not to scare him away lol

>>40020626
I agree very much, watch that fucking show.
Shows how fucking hard it is, its just fucking hard.

>>40020584
>uses words exclusive to japanese like NEET

the term "NEET" is not exclusive to Japan, nor the Japanese language. The UK, China, and South Korea use this term as well.

>>40019689
Your doing fine, just enjoy the ride. Love is great!

Oh and many people here, especially on 4chan, are sexist faggots. Please ignore what anonymous has to say about women we are just gay.

The best advice ever:
Search for "The Well Cultured Anonymous" It's the best thing 4chan ever produced and it's bascially "The comprehensive guide to life plus".
It was written specially for people like you and the guy, OP:

>>40020764

hey slut, go slurp a cock or guzzle some cum, whore

>>40020584
>uses words exclusive to japanese like NEET and hikikomori
>words exclusive to japanese like NEET

what

>>>/adv/3194893
This is why I never leave /a/. Remember adoptive aniki? Do he go ask for help from these faggots? No, he came to us. Remember /a/nons, we are all family here. For some of us, /a/ is all we have

>>40020584
>>40020584
I don't know man....
http://www.japantoday.com/category/national/view/hikikomori-finds-way-into-oxford-dictionary-of-engl
ish

>>40020244
Yeah, I'm nervous about answering your post in detail just because of the potential shitflinging that seems to happen with that entire topic, but I agree with you, and even if he starts hitting on me in that way first, I'll be careful about that.

But this entire thread is being really helpful; I'm copypastaing everything you guys are saying into Word for future reference right now.

>>40020695
shows how hard it is IF the one yu are trying to get is a super popular hottie and you are a bottom feeder.

if both are at same powerlvl then it should be easier. all they need is

CONFIDENCE

>>40020793

>female
>relationship problems

ON MY /a/??!?!
0/10

you won't have a relationship, friendship, or anything with anybody because you are worthless

>>40020863
Hey, it's still better than that Inuyasha sticky yesterday.

Spend time together and let things run their course. That's how normal people build relationships, and it works.

suck his dick
then work from here
redo it at least once a day

He OP I found Your guy
>>40020473
>>40020473
>>40020473
>>40020473
>>40020473

>>40020922
OP here. I lol'd.

I think what you should do is add me to msn (email field related), and join the /a/ msn group. Lets level up those social skills of yours.

>>40020893
>That's how normal people build relationships
But none of us are normal

>>40020835
>>40020793
brofists are inorder

>>40020814
>Other new entries include ‘‘bromance,’’ a close but non-sexual relationship between two or more men
Sometimes I love being a britfag

>>40021067
>/a/ msn group
What?

>>40021067
>and join the /a/ msn group.

WTF?!!! is that group full of tripfags?

I've been in a similar situation

truth be told there's no miracle "how to" guide or flawless advice.

I think previous posts have gone over well how you should approach the situation, so I'd like to talk to you about how things will be if a relationship actually develops.

It doesnt matter is you were both neets or met IN DA CLUB or some other shit, the key is acceptance and understanding through communication. as a previous anon said, he might not like the fact that you rub off to ff7 yaoi fanfiction, and you might not like his 7gig shota folder, but you have to accept a person's flaws as well as what attracts you to them.

later in the relationship things might become more complicated than simple differences of opinions, there might be some serious rifts between you two (or not!) again, what kills relationships and friendships is the lack of communication. you should accept his ideals without crippling your own. a steady middleground based on a strong foundation of shared goals and affection is what makes unions last.

Sex is always nice, but do not rely on it to hold you together.

>>40021162
>>40020244

/a/ giving good advice? WHAT THE HELL GUYS.

>>40021160
I think there's like, 3 or so /a/ groupsim msn groups. 1 of which is dead, 1 is full of tripfags and frequent topics of discussion are penises, anime, and video games, the other one has less tripfags and talks about drugs all the time.

>>40020102
>He doesn't seem to have MSN
And you do? How can you have MSN if you don't even have friends? You talk to chatbots? Keep it online to seem cool?
You are stupid. You two are not the same.

>>40021216
I don't have a MSN, how do I look into this shit?

Hey OP. Male anon here. I've been talking to a girl at a store for a while and finally got her number. Don't think she's into anime but she does play the vidya, and "doesn't date." Nice girl, I like her, but since I also don't really date, meeting her for coffee was a fuck-awkward experience. I think what you're asking about is "normalfags hook up with each other by going to social events with lots of friends and then things happen, but we don't do anything..."

What's working much better is meeting her for a casual dinner, hanging out and talking for an hour or so, or going to walk at a nearby park. She doesn't go to parties or do casual flings or anything so it's not going to go anywhere quickly, but at least she isn't a slut. For now, at least we can do some things together without being terribly awkward about it.

Find out what else you have in common besides anime. Maybe you both could use some exercise, go for walks or some shit. Play tennis, or soccer, whatever. Part of the fun of having someone around you can depend on, is doing other stuff you wouldn't do by yourself.

>>40021280
get msn then? it cant be that hard

>>40021216
No, they are all full of tripfags. Even the dead one.

>>40021280
Just download MSN
messenger.live.com

and get a hotmail account.
hotmail.com

Then all you do is sign in and add my emaill address, and I'll send you the group invite thing.

>>40021308
>>40019689
I think the more obvious question as been left unasked here. Where do I meet a sweet shy girl to being with?

>>40021472
You don't, OP is a troll.

>Hey /a/, I'm a otaku female
>89 posts and 24 image replies omitted.
Never change, /a/.

I may have missed something here

Are you looking to become simply friends with him or are you looking to date him?

>>40021522
Why do you so easily assume that fem/a/nons can't have the same problems you do?

>>40021472

We're all over the place man, but usually we're too busy hiding from the real world for you to actually notice us. I know that (at least in my case) most of my shyness stems from too many awful past experiences. I got screwed over so many times, I grew afraid of real experiences.

I blame high school.

>>40021547
I actually assume those who can are smart enough not to ask /a/ advice on this.

>>40021472
In 2D.

If OP exists, she is a one in a million or is omitting details that would otherwise make her revolting.

All of the sweet, shy girls are having sex with the alphabros or are getting married.

Nobody is old fashioned anymore. People don't go on dates, they go to parties and fuck. They get high and fuck. They get drunk and fuck.

Excuse me for wanting to go on a real date with a guy who cares, and won't laugh at me when I bake him cookies. ;_;

1. Show him your tits
2. ...
3. Profit

If he doesn't respond, he's a homogay. Goddamn, this isn't fucking hard.

>>40021270
Afew years ago, I used to use MSN and AIM to keep in contact with players for online DnDing.We had virtual dice, sheets and everything; it was surprisingly fun.

>>40021162
That's very helpful advice. I know I'm definitely interested in some things he won't be, and considering that alot of his favorite anime were harems, (which I don't like) there's some things I won't like either. I'll do my best to be aware of this and not be judgemental over it. Though I will hide the fact that I have a massive /y/ and /cm/ stash and avoid bringing up that kind of topic just because he won't find it interesting, he'll probably eventually find out, so hopefully he will be the same towards it.
>>40020814
This is glorious.
>>40020768
Will check this out!
>>40021067
I'm abit nervous just because this thread has been amazingly nice enough already, so I'm not sure how long I can run on my luck without things going sour, but thanks! I'll try checking it out.

>>40021697
yeah, that's true

although i don't have the dedication/time to cultivate a relationship like that

alcohol is easier

>>40021697
I know exactly what you mean.
Feels bad, man.

>>40021558
That's not helping any of us

>>40021697
>and won't laugh at me when I bake him cookies
Damn you woman. It's raining outside and I'm already depressed as fuck. Are you trying to make me cry because I will never tastes your delicious cookies?

>>40021472
Shy girls are low tier. Give her a few friends and she'll act like every whore out there.
A better question would be where are all the mildly asocial girls. I know one, but the only time I gathered the courage to go and talk to her, she refused talking to me.
If I hadn't see her doing the same to 3 alpha jocks before, I would have already given up.

>>40021788

I'd send you some if I could.

>>40021697
Unfortunately, this is very true. It's not going to get better anytime soon, either.

>>40021804
>A better question would be where are all the mildly asocial girls.
We're busy being asocial. Having conversations with others is somewhat nervewracking.

>>40021788
you will never taste her delicious cookies

>>40021736
Everyone there is really nice. Also, like half of the (good) /a/ msn group are actually girls, so you're not really going to be sticking out like a sore thumb. If you want an invite or anything just add me, aniki-tan@hotmail.com

Shy girls are alright, but hand-holding them through everything gets old fast. RL tsunderes are where it's at.

>>40021897

Can anyone join? (Not OP)

>>40021954
Technically, just don't be a dick, because I'll get in shit if you act like an ass and I'm the one that was like "oh hey guys, let this person into the chat".

It's threads like these that give me the small glimmer of hope that there are still some girls that are worth it out there, too bad none of them are near here. Why the hell did I have to live in the city that glorifies sex and drugs more than any other city in the country, god damn it

>>40021897
I will check it out tomorrow, too damn lazy to get an MSN right now

>>40021954
Enjoy the company of Taiga, Smoked Cheese, Suigin, Saya, Lanced Jack and other retarded kids.

>>40022108
>calling smochi retarded
fuck you

>>40022108

All of which I'm willing to give a chance if it means having a conversation with someone.

My advice is this.
If you really want to spend time with a person then spend time with that person. If for some reason the relationship results bothersome to you and you're not having fun when you're with that person then drop it. Don't feel obligated to make a friend just because you're alone. A lot of times it's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person.
If you do have fun with that guy then do whatever. Just hang out and do what you would usually do. If you guys are similar and get along then that should come natural. If you REALLY need advice on how to spend time with someone you like then I'd question how well is your relationship going.

>>40022108
>saya
>lanced jack
Not to my knowledge.

>>40022108
>lanced jack

lol no. We don't allow trolling retards in our chat.

>>40022266
Fix your msn ;__;

>>40022266
So you've changed the rules after that airport event?
Oh wait, forget it, you are just being ironic. Silly me.

Invite him over to watch anime, maybe play some vidya games if you guys have that in common too. Start talking about your favorite shows and such, or things you like about anime, or certain scenes. Recommend him some shows (which you may have, a key and convenient excuse to con him back into your house) and actually try some of his recommendation, even if you dont think you will like it. For example, I hate Magical Girl shows in general. A lady freind of mine recomended Card Captor Sakura. I gave the show a chance and absolutely loved it, despite it coming from a genre i am normally closed off too. It made me more open to magical girl shows in general.

Eventually, or just sometime, try to talk to him about you, or even just yourself. Maybe you can learn what you have in common besides being basement dwellers. Or what you have different.

There are no rules to a relationship. You like him, he likes you. Thats all there is to it. Everything else is your own rules, as long as both of you agree on them. Naturally you guys will want to spend time together, and at the end of the day, that is all a relationship is.

So really, all there is now is just to spend time together, hang out, and like eachother. And dont worry, it will most likely be awkward at first, it always is.

And never gives even 2 shits about 'normal' peoples relationships. I dont know how it is around where you live, but where i am at, 'normal' people relationships is just having sex and treating eachother possessively, and are mostly and sadly devoid of any real love. (like they are seriously closer to their 'normal' friends than their 'significant' other, it kind of makes me sick how backwards society can be.)

Just be with him. Its really as simple as it sounds.

>Taiga !!NmmO3dBe2w7
not > !us something...

you are not even the real taiga.

>>40022108

LJ has his own chat that he circlejerks in, and Saya is apparently gone, according to Suigin.

I take e-friends seriously, since behind the computer monitor lies a human being with emotions. I personally left the other /a/chat for this reason, because it didn't seem like they held any regards to each other as human beings. Apparently milking laughs out of people was more important than taking their feelings into consideration.

If being a friendly person online is enough of a compensation for being a "retard," then feel free to join the chat or add me. If not, then it's simple as not doing it, I suppose.

>>40022266
Then I can assume it has very slow traffic.

>>40022362
What?

the /a/ chat is the one with lanced jack in it, and hes a fag. also taiga is gay as well.

>>40019689 We are now both attempting to become closer friends and hang out more, since both of us have zero friends. The thing is, I have no clue how to have any kind of a relationship, and I'm not sure if he does either.

Since you're asking here I guess you don't know shit about socializing.
So I'd advice you to start with - talking about stuff *.
Also you might like to try to - talk about other stuff *.

* bonus points if the stuff is actually somewhat interesting. But let's not get ahead of ourselves, anime discussions are alright too.

Once you've talked about stuff, try getting drunk and defenseless in front of him. If he rapes you he's not really an otaku and he's hanging with you for the lulz.
And you might to lose your virginity too.
Win - win scenario. Fo sho.

>>40022368
>>40022220
So next posting should be Suigin. This is how the circlejerking works. They call each other over the MSN to shitty up /a/ whenever they feel like they are "losing" a debate (and there isn't even one here).
Join their chat OP. I hope the guy you want is someone who visits /a/ and hate them, and I hope he find out about your "friends".

>>40022481

LJ's chat is /v/chat.

>>40022374

Not exactly, there are other things to talk about than trying to troll each other.

>>40022505
>Once you've talked about stuff, try getting drunk and defenseless in front of him. If he rapes you he's not really an otaku and he's hanging with you for the lulz.

OP, I have some better advice for you.

Never take advice from /a/

SAGE
REPORTED
WHORE

>>40022505
>And you might to lose your virginity too.
>Win - win scenario. Fo sho.

>losing your virginity to a faggot
>win
>fo sho
GET OUT

>>40022266 lol no. We don't allow trolling retards in our chat.

What the matter taiga, still angry that you waited for him at the airport and he didn't show ?
Sometimes you do the stupidest shit. You might as well be a woman.

>>40022529
Don't you guys few awkward having friends you've never met? I mean I'm not the most social person in the world but I'd feel kind of unconfortable becoming close to people I'll never see.

If either of you are anything like me you will need to get over how you take being viewed in public. I cannot stand doing anything in public because I feel like people are judging me and I cannot stand it. I start to sweat and panic just being around other people for that reason. You might not be the same but if anything you will just need to get used to going out in public and being seen.

Also don't use the term otaku. We aren't japanese.

>>40022598
No. Because I'm not a faggot.
People had penfriends like 300 years ago, and they didn't whine about it.

>>40022585
I'm curious, haven't been here for quite a while, weren't taiga and lanced jack the same person around this time last year?

>>40022598

>I mean I'm not the most social person in the world but I'd feel kind of unconfortable becoming close to people I'll never see.

It's actually the opposite for me. I'm okay with them and I trust them as friends, but it would be very awkward if I were to actually meet them in real life. It doesn't make much sense and all, seeing as how the only thing you can look at is the collection of words that some stranger on the internet put together, but over time you form emotional attachment to people that you talk to.

Even if I don't know what they look like, they're my friends and they're not any more fake than my real ones.

>>40022598
They are actually a team of kidnappers trying to lure a victim. Notice how they mainly offer their invitation on girl threads? First they get the victim's confidence, then they mark a "meeting", and then...

>>40022598
guy who posted >>40020793 here
Like I said, I feel like we are all family here (even more than with my own family), so it should take some of the edge off compared to meeting a normal person

>>40022598

Not really. I dont have a problem with it at all. I like to take extra precautions to stay safe if I were to ever meet them in real life, because you know, shit can be dangerous, but other than that i enjoy them for who they are, or who they make themselves out to be.

You are mistaken, woman.

It's the man's duty to to initiate a relationship. As a woman, it is your duty to properly seduce him with your feminine allures.

Dress nicely, talk to him, look your best when you're around him, walk with him after class. Ask him if he's hungry, and if he wants to get something to eat.

>>40022657 I feel like people are judging me

Guess what ? They are.
The same way you judge them, it's an instinctual thing, all animals do it.
If you don't want them to see a loser weeaboo when they look at you, go to a gym and groom yourself.

>>40022708
This is totally not how we operate. Also you're not welcome to our clique.

KODA if you are here i just want to say i love you

>>40022692
Agreed.

For some reason it actually comes easier to talk to people about certain things online. There are just some things I don't feel like discussing with people face to face. Even if you don't meet them, it doesn't change the fact that they are people just like we are. It's good to have a few people to talk to when you can't really go elsewhere.

>>40022692
>>40022715
>>40022739
>trust them as friends
>would be very awkward if I were to actually meet them in real life
You guys are not making much sense, you know.

>>40022665
So because people did it 300 years ago it is a perfectly normal, confortable thing to do? Damn you kids and your movies. Go back to your miserable life with your online buddies now would you. God knows you wouldn't make any friends any other way.

>>40022792
Poor Rocheal... oh wait.

>>40022756
yea no. I have no money and live on my own and have become more and more reclusive. I mean I try to keep myself looking decent but its to the point that I just cannot deal with social situations at all unless I know a few people and can distract myself with conversation. Actually being out by myself is so nerve wracking that its just hard to do.

But even if I looked great, worked out and had a fantastic body, it wouldn't change the problems at all. Its not about being seen as a weeaboo or anything like that. I honestly don't care. Its not a horrible hobby as far as it goes. Its just being seen and judged fucks me up something fierce.

you aren't even having a relationship with a normal person, so why do you want a normal relationship? just do whatever is most comfortable for the both of you

[spoilers]recaptcha: buctie perspective[/spoilers]

>>40022814
Lol what the matter faggot, butthurt cause you can't make friends even online ?
What a chump.

>>40020244
THHHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIS A THOUSAND TIMES THIIIIIS

DON'T FEEL LIKE YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO HAVE SEX. It is so easy for it to ruin everything, including your emotional stability.

Don't worry so much, just try to chat about your mutual interests and have fun. Try to hang out and watch animu together or play vidya or something.

Basically >>40022741

i used to talk to people a lot more online when i had angsty teen problems

as time moved on, however, people moved on,
stopped using the same s/n's, real life, etc

anyway, looking back i'm glad i was able to talk to those people, and i hope they are doing well in their lives

>woman being coy

Hah hah! I don't know what you're playing at, but we all know you're absolutely starving for the cock. Like all wenches and harlots, you desire the phallus of a hearty, strong man who will pin you against the wall and take your maidenhead by force.

The fact that this has not happened yet is evidence that you simply are not worthy of a desirable man. I'm not sure what kind of horrific disfigurement you must have undergone, but it must have been bad to turn away all potential suitors, quite unworthy of a man.

>>40022812

It's hard to describe.

I mean, I'm sure I'll get over the awkwardness eventually. I think people in holic's vent get together for cons and whatnot, and they tell me it was only awkward for a little but until they felt like they were with bros. I don't really know how to explain it... I think someone mentioned the pen-pal example, and I guess that's relatively close to what I'm trying to say?

>>40022814
I have both real friends and internet friends

>>40022756

I do the opposite, I find alot of people who are judgmental in that way to hypocritical bastards, so I go out of my way to be even more of an "otaku loser" than I am normally. Just to piss them off. If you really cant enjoy the prescence of someone because they are happy and enjoy their lives, then they deserve to suffer. And what a more ironic punishment than forcing them to listen to the happiness that they hate? I do care about what they think. But instead of hiding or changing myself, I exaggerate myself to deal out my own perverse form of justice. I fight them head on, instead of receding into the shadows or pretending to be someone i am not.

>>40022692
Doesn't sound too bad, haven't really made friends with anyone online since I was 13 or something, I mean other than anonymous. Might add you people sometime this week.

>>40019689
>>40019689
whats with the sudden surge in yume nikki loves /a/?

>>40022838
No trust me on this one, as long as you look good and have the muscles needed to slap a whore, being judged won't be a problem, on the contrary you'd feel great from other people appraising you - because you'd know, you're better than them (or equal in the worst case scenario).

>>40022867
Not him, but I can make friends offline but not online.
I've learned that reading body language is much better than actually trusting online conversations when you can't see the face of whom you are talking to. You can't take off that person's mask before they hurt you.
Now if you never intent on meeting someone you got to know online, it's much more safe, but is it really true friendship?

>>40022869
I agree. To be honest, I have no idea why everyone focuses so much on sex. It shouldn't be the absolute first thing on peoples' minds.

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned and don't want to lose my virginity to some random asshole. I just want a companion to cuddle with. ;_;

>>40023011 take off that person's mask before they hurt you
What kind of asshole friends do you faggots have anyway ?

>>40022958
I just can't do that personally. Total doormat here. Mixed with major depressive disorder and almost no feelings of self worth its extremely hard for me to accept kindness and deal with harsh criticism.

Seriously i've been hospitalized for some of this shit before. Mainly the depression. That was hell in its own way. Imagine not being able to deal with people, then being thrust into a group of people that you do not know, and add on top of that the fact that they are all at least some what crazy.

>>40023011
>I've learned that reading body language is much better than actually trusting online conversations when you can't see the face of whom you are talking to

I prefer body language taken out of the equation myself. It's too easy to mis-read and it's better to just take what people say without tone or body language altering the way you perceive it

>>40023069
Normal friends, the posters are probably women, though.

OP the only thing i , as a social reject have to say is:

tell him what you think, there´s nothing wrong in taking the initiative, and most likely he wont take it since we otakumen are very shy and very rarely start a relationship

but the rewards are pretty good, as we are very loyal
and indeed you could gain a partner for life

>>40023069
When you befriend people, you don't get to truly know them immediately. Also, some people you once knew when younger grow up with bad company and change.
These bad "friends" usually take the online way to insult you, to say things they wouldn't dare say face-to-face (and I'm not talking about construtive criticism) and backstab you.
Making friends is a lottery, and I've learned that offline I have a much better chance of winning the prize.

>>40023230
Wow. No wonder you're on /a/, bitch. You're totally fucked in the head.
So one of your girlfriends outed you to the boy you like that you have fat legs or some other bullshit no one actually gives a shit about, big deal.

Fucking teenage whores and their pseudo drama.

>>40023153
I'm a guy, just so you know.
And yeah, most of my shitty friends were all of the "normal" kind. A few were weaboos that go to cons.
From the very few ones who are bro-tier... one actually visits /a/. Didn't meet him here though.

>>40023029

I know how you feel. I am a dude (read: male) and I am the opposite of 'old fashioned' but i am still confuddled on the focus on sex in todays society. I just want someone I can hold, protect, cuddle with, spend time with, and talk to about shared and relevant interests, ect. Sex is just a bonus, not an imperative nor the original reason for initiating the relationship.

Yes, i appreciate a hot body as much as the next guy, but to me, just being in shape and having a cute face is all I desire from a physical perspective. To me its really all about the other person, the feelings and emotions, and , oh, i dont know, the actual relationship. In otherwords, I want a companion. Everyone i know in real life just wants a lover, and perverts the concepts of marriage and relationships by simply using them to make a lover exclusive, rather than as a celebration of your union of companionship. To me, marriage was supposed to be about making your lives exclusive to eachother, these days people i know talk about as if its just a way to keep sex exclusive to eachother. It irritates me to no end.

So dont worry, your not alone. Just hearing people having similar perspectives and problems here gives me hope for finding someone who shares my perception in real life.

>>40023365
Reading what you're saying makes me have faith that not everyone in the world is a sex-driven maniac. I'm a girl, and it just disgusts me that it seems so many people think that way. I'm not looking for any relationships that are just superficial and for sex only, because I truly want more than that in someone. I'd never just fuck around with someone unless I sincerely wanted to be with them.

I'm glad I'm not alone, bro.

/a/ - bros everywhere -

>>40023514
Honestly, not that sex is all important, but relationships I think need to start superficial. I mean if it starts out all deep romance shit its just going to die out faster and then you will both be miserable. If it starts out rather casual and superficial it gives you time to get to know them and generate a lasting interest in them.

Or thats my take

>>40023602
Only when the sun goes down. Daytime is filled with so much normalfaggotry it sickens me

>>40023365
Protip: Sex has, is, and will always be a large focus in EVERY society.

It's like getting mad that people eat food or drink water.